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Age: 15
Member Since: May 31, 2005
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Last Update: January 23, 2008
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I've had terrible luck in love lately. I haven't found any guy who meets my standards (which aren't extreme, just funny, sweet, smart, etc.) I've been thinking a lot about my former crushes and boyfriends, and I thought of this guy, "Josh". Josh and I were friends & hung out a lot last summer. We sort-of dated for probably a month, but then after school started, we drifted apart because we were at 2 different schools (he's a year younger than me). Thing is, I really miss him and I think I'm in love with him. He's been on my mind so much lately, and it's driving me crazy because I never see him anymore! What am I supposed to do? (link)
Call him and talk to him a few times a week. Maybe he has feelings for you again.


Posted Saturday July 02 2005, 12:46 am
I have a small but confusing problem, to do with my friend.(I'll call him John)John's dad is a CEO and he has been out of the country for the past 10 months. He got back almost a week ago and saturday he sat down his family and confessed that he had been unfaithful to John's mother durring the 10 months. This really shook up John, he's scared, confused and really unsure of alot of things right now. And he came to me. And I don't know how to respond to this. I want to be supportive and I don't know what I would do if I were him. And he's alot more than a friend, and about 3 years older. What would you do if you were in our situation?
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Just be nice to him and let him know that you do care and that you'll always be there for him. Ask him if wants to talk about anything and just go from there. Hope I helped. please rate!


i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal (link)
It's normal! Don't worry!


i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do? (link)
If you wear a tampon and swim you'll be fine. It could even possibly be over by then. If you don't feel comfertable swimming then don't. it's up to you


do you kno the song concrete angel? ya well that is me! i am sick of getting thrown around please help me!! i need all the help i can possibly get. am i going to die? i hope not! please this is all that i ask you just give me advice i need it so badly!!i mean i have gotting stiches 7 times cause of my mom and dad! please help! (link)
Call the number for child abuse or go to someone you trust and tell them about it and it can been taken care of! Don't worry! Best of luck!


my friend is anorexic and i need to persuade her to tell and adult, before i do. what should i say?

thx (link)
Remind her of how like not good that is. And not being mean say you really need to tell someone! If you don't I will. Or sumthing! Hope I helped! Please rate!


how do you do those hearts in myspacE??? its like &heart;? (link)
& hearts ; ---put together!!


Well im supposed to get my period tomorrow..but sometimes its late. and i need to go swimming all weekend and next week. but i dont use tampons..so is it ok to swim with Pads? thanks (link)
Don't swim with pads. It won't work. I've accually swam without tampons before. I guess since its in a lake to wear a pad til right before you go swimming. Then go swimming (without it). And when you're done swimming Get another pad. Maybe? lol hope i helped! plz rate


well this girl used to be one of my best friends but then she got all pissy to my boyfriend so i got mad at her then i became her friend after a couple of months but i was talkin to this kid and he all of the sudden said dont talk to me n i looked at his profile and my page said that this girl made up a little thing call the Hayley Haters thing and all they do is talk about me! and there are people in it! what should i do because its pissing me off! PLEASE HELP! i rate high!!! (link)
Ok, if these people don't want to be your friend then don't worry about it. Everyone has people who don't like them no matter who they are. If I were you I'd be like at least I have friends and stuff. Or to find out what they really think join there club thing. But of course make a different name. See what they think. Or you can go in and stand up for yourself or whatever. You could even get a good and trustworthy friend to do this for you!! Good luck!


first of all, sorry this is so long, but its a big problem...im only thirteen, which, to my mom, is too young to have a boyfriend. the problem is i HAVE a boyfriend and he's my first and he lives in another city far from where i live. and in a few weeks, hes coming to my city and i really want to go out with him somewhere, but first, my mom would have to find out that i'm dating him. she always tells me that i can tell her, but i just kno that she wont let me. i met him on the internet which is even worse. anyways, how can i talk to her and explain this to her in a way that hopefully, she will let me stay with him? also, would it be better if he introduced himself instead of me introducing him? (link)
Ok.
1) Tell your mom your going out with some friends.
2) Just tell her and possibly not go out on the date
3) A double date. Tell your mom your going out with a friend (girl) and 'meet up' with the guys!

Hope I helped! Please rate@


what are some good foods to take with you to eat in the car when your traveling?

Thanks

I rate 5 for good answers (link)
Crackers, chips, cookies, pop in bottles, basically junk food! lol


I RATE 5s!!!

okk well i play volleyball at my summer camp and the thing is, i'm one of the worst players because it's a more "advanced" volleyball class. we're doing overhands and like everyone can get it..like i can do it but i'm not that good. i need some really good volleyball overhand advice on how to get it over the net. sometimes i hit it high enough but it's not far enough. sometimes i hit it far enough but it's not high enough, sooo yeah

and there's this one girl (a few others too every once in a while, but she's the worst!)..well she's pretty good at volleyball but she ALWAYS picks on me! not in the teasing way, in the bossing around way..like if i do one itsy-bitsy little thing wrong, she says "DO THIS, DO THAT!" and it becomes SO ANNOYING! i don't have the best temper so sometimes i stomp away after she's bossed me around like 20 times..how can i get her to stop? i'm sorry i'm not as good as the other people but she also has to realize i'm one of the youngest players there..i don't know what to do please help!!! (link)
Just try harder. I play volleyball too and I'm accually really good at it. But I'm not to great at overhand stuff. Just work harder and you'll get it!


I have this weird question ...
You know many of the singers out there are born into being famous. Well what about the other singers out there who weren't..how did they become famous?!?
*Jacquelyn (link)
You have to work...HARD!


i dont know who sings this, i think its R.H.C.P. but im not sure and i dont know the name of it either. i've tried going to google and everything but nothing comes up. the lyrics are

"i don't ever want to feel like i did that day, take me to the place i love, take me all the way"

anyone know who is or what its called? thanks. (link)
Not sure but you can find the lyrics on www.azlyrics.com


how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
16/f (link)
Whenever you feel right.


hey this guy i know said that he loved me, but i never saw him before and know nothing about him..and after he told me he loved me i asked him if he knew anything about me and he said my name and then he said isent that enough..he was acting really retarded..and now every time i talk to him hes like hey babe, what's up sexys...should i go out with him?! (link)
Not if you don't know him very well! A guy I don't know well alls I really know is that he's my friend's cousin asked me out! And I said NO! If you learn more about him and he learns more about you and you can trust him and everything then sure go ahead but until then don't!


i lost a big part of my life...the person i loved more than life itself...he told me i was annoying and a bad girlfriend...it tore me up...i want him back and now hes talkin to my friend...i just want to die...how do i get over him? someone help me please before i do somethin stupid (link)
Ok, This sorta thing happened with one of my guy best friends. Don't worry about it! There IS someone out there that is just right for you! If you really loved him then you have to except the fact that you weren't the perfect person for him and you should get over it! Just live life single for a while and see what happens! Good Luck! Please rate!


Does anybody know if Laney was adopted like you know in eminems songs. i know that halyey is his real kid but what about laney? i know its kind of a dumb question but i dont need to know that thank you! peace.xox (link)
Its his niece!


i've just gotten a modeling audition for a prestigious program. I'm average looking with brown hair,brown eyes,and skin. I'm 13 and i'm 5'1. Should I do the program or should I turn it down? (link)
Why not go for it? Who knows you might ending up being perfect for it! Good luck! Please Rate!


hey therr. ok heres my problem . in july im going to universal studios for 5 days and i invited my friend to go with me. i bought her a ticket n evrything and her ticket was like$120 . well i just called her and she tells me she cant go anymore because her little sister found out and got mad because she wanted her to go to keywest with her. so she completly bailed on me and its most likely i'll never see her again either because shes trying to move back in with her mom and shes not going to the same school i was at anymore. can anyone give me advice on what I should do now. Ive tried inviting other friends but my mom hates most of my friends andthe ones she does like are busy doing something else or im not that good of friends with them to take with me for 5 days. i need help...fast.
thanx
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Hmm...that sucks! Try talking to your mom and tell her what the problem is! Pick a friend that she already may have said she doesn't want them to go and explain to her why you want them to go! Tell her if she doesn't let one of your friends go its a waste of the money, so you really want someone to go! Or maybe you could invite a cousin or someone in your family! Or me! HaHa! just kiddin' Good Luck! Have fun! Hope this helps! Please Rate!




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