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Well saturday is my b-day I am very exited. Coz we are visiting a friend of mine (he is a boy) he is really cute so I want to know how to get his attention and plz don't say FLIRT I am not very good at that. Thax
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I know what you mean about not being good at flirting. One thing that's worked for me is just talking to the guy and hanging out with him. Get to know each other. He'll see the real you and start to feel more comfortable with you. If you feel comfortable enough, don't be as serious and try teasing him a little. I hope this helped and happy early birthday! :)
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what does a cavity look like , and can a brown spot on your tooth not be a cavity? (link)
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It might or might not. You should go see your dentist for a real opinion.
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Hey there I'm the girl who needed the ideas for thr books like the one with the famous boy and normal girl, and the 4 teenager one. I was wondering becuase you put that yopu had read other books like with a famous boy and normal girl. I'd like to know the names of those because i'd like to read them! Thanks again:D (link)
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Errrm... Well I read a lot and I've read so much that I can barely remember the names of the books. I can just remember the basic ideas. I'm really sorry that I wasn't able to help more.
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First off call me ice. Anyway, i just LUV katy perry's songs! But i dont know how to convince my mom to let me buy a cd. Sometimes the cover art is a little strange,im fine with it but my mom would take one look at it and be like "Thats very innapropriate. You will not get that cd anytime soon!" How do i convince her to let me buy it?!
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Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but Katy Perry isn't exactly the best role model around. Some of her music isn't appropriate for children or even preteens either. When she has cover art like Teenage Dream, parents that actually care about what their kids listen to aren't going to be very happy when they ask to buy cd's like that. Your parents are just trying to watch out for you. If they say no, then they're probably not going to say yes any time soon. There's no point in trying to convince her.
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So I'm 17/F
I used to always straighten my hair, because my hair is naturally curly. But i stopped about a year and a half ago. My hair still has split ends, And pulling the split ends off when i get bored is a habit taht i have, that i hate and i wish i could get rid of. I want my hair to be healthy again because i wear it natural everyday now so it would look much better i just don't know what to do do get it back the way it used to be. Parts of my hair are all different lengths because of how dead it is ): so if i cut it, it will have to be way too short if im starting over that way, and it would look horrible. I do NOT look good with short hair and its only medium length right now (about 2in. past my shoulders) So what should i do to get it healthy, and quit my bad habit? (link)
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First off, I would try to trim your hair (just a little) to get rid of split ends every 6-8 weeks or more often if you use heated products. To make your hair healthier, there are tons of things to do. It basically consists of a healthy diet that includes a lot of vitamin a and vitamin b. Also, you could try eating more protein. Try to find good shampoos and conditioners and make sure you use them properly (like not conditioning everyday, massaging shampoo into your scalp, trying to avoid getting conditioner in your roots especially if your hair is oily). Some natural things that I've tried as well are deep conditioning with mayonnaise and/or olive oil every week or 2 weeks. I've heard many different times to keep in for. Some people say 10 minutes, others have said that they leave it in for a whole day. It just depends on your personal preference. The point of it is to make your hair stronger and shiner. I've also heard something about biotin or something like that. You would have to look it up on google. Anyways, there's tons of things you can do. If you want to know more, just google it and I promise you'll find many different things and products and stuff. I hope this helped :)
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First off call me ice. Ok so today i broke up with my bf,nathen, and he actually seemed HAPPY about it! And plus i think he was flirting with my ARCH ENEMY, a lying mean girl! Ok so maybe he doesnt know that im arch enemies with the girl he was flirting with. But ive warned him about my enemy a lot... WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!
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From what it sounds like, he wasn't even a good guy. If he seemed happy when y'all broke up, then just stop wasting time dwelling on things like this. If he wants to flirt with a mean, lying girl, then he has every right to. Just forget about him and go find a better guy
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My gf loves me, I know that for a fact. Whenever we are together she cant get enough of me, but its like whenever Im gone she doesnt do a very good job of staying in contact with me. I dont want her to be super clingy, but some days she just doesnt talk to me at all. Or I will text her in the morning, and she wont get back to me until 9 PM, and will go to bed half way through our conversation.
There was one week where she didnt call or text me at all. And then when she does call me our conversations last 3 hours and we are just laughing and talking all night. Shes not in college and she doesnt have a job. She has tons of free time, but she chooses to just stay at home with her family rather than spend time with me.
Im not a super clingy guy, but I do appreciate when a girl wants to talk to me, and likes texting me when she has free time. Its very frustrating because some times I really want to talk to her, but she just doesnt stay by her phone or give me any way of contacting her. And when I tell her its a little annoying she just says "sorry I do that" but doesnt even try to fix it. She came back from a 3 week vacation and has been home for a week and hasnt come to see me, even though she said she wants to. She says shes just feeling lazy.
Are these signs that she doesnt really care about me? Because when we are together she doesnt want to let go, and then when we arent together she practically ignores me. I dont know what to do... (link)
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Maybe she's trying not to be so clingy? Or she's afraid that y'all might spend too much together and start fighting more often. I think she does care about you, but she feels like she needs some space. I was sit her down and tell her how you feel and that you would appreciate if y'all talked more. Try not to make it seem like its too much of her fault to keep her from getting mad. Just tell her that you don't think she's putting enough effort on the part of the relationship that exists behind the hanging out and dates and stuff. She should understand if you stress that it's that important to you. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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I am an 8th grader that is in the "advanced classes" and I take 9th grade Algebra as well. I recently missed quite a lot of school due to a loss in my family and then we went on break so I didn't get a chance to really catch up. Now that school is back on reprtcards come out in a couple days and teachers must have grades in soon and I have a whole bunch of homework and stuff to catch up on. I am feeling majorly stressed out. These experiences are really ruining my 8th grade experience. The only way I can really de-stress is my daily after school suff. I have drumline, honor band, gymnastics, and colorguard. This is a lot of stuff but it helps take my mind off of things. Since i missed so much my grades have dropped froms all A's to C's and D's. That is not O.K. with my rents @ all. So how can I remove some of the stress and talk to my teachers about my situation? Please help ASAP!!!!!!!! (link)
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I know what mean about being stressed. I'm in high school right now, and ever since I started, I've worried about every little thing because I missed days for band stuff and being sick. I ended up with tons of 0s for stuff and I was FREAKING out. I went and talked to all my teachers about it, and they said that they understood, and fixed my grades after giving me adequate time to complete everything. I ended up with a 96 as my lowest grade for the last marking period (and I'm all advanced classes as well). So just go and talk to them about your situation. There's no reason that they should refuse to help you raise you grades. If you have a problem with them, just get your parents to send a quick email or note to them about it. Most of the time when parents email, the teacher will get it done with no problems what so ever. If you need any help with getting caught up in your classes, just send me a message and tell me what it's about, I'd be happy to help and do the best I can :) I hope this was helpful and good luck with everything :)
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How can I overcome audition nerves? I am fine before I start but lose control mid song (link)
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To be completely honest, audition nerves are probably never going to go away. Instead, you can learn to control your nerves by trying to remain as calm as possible and just remember to keep going if you make a mistake. Recovery is one of the things that is most important in situations like this. The people listening to you know your human and that you make mistakes. It's really important to pretend like it didn't happen and just keep going. In all of the years that I've had to do solo performances or auditions for piano or the clarinet, I still get nervous, but I remember these things and they help me through it. I hope this was helpful and good luck :)
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I'm the perso who has a very round face and I can't find a nice haircut that would look nice on me, if you give some suggestions or leaves a link to a picture of a hairstyle it would be appricated! Thanks! (link)
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I don't know too much about it but here are some good websites to visit:
http://www.sheknows.com/beauty-and-style/articles/2280/hairstyles-for-round-face-shapes-the-best-cuts-and-styles-for-women
http://beauty.about.com/od/hairstylephotogalleries/ss/roundfa.htm
http://www.allure.com/hair-ideas/2011/find-the-best-haircut-for-your-face-shape
http://hairstylesforroundfaces.org/
And you can google it and get a bunch of other websites as well. I hope this was helpful :)
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I am 13 and I'm going to be 14 in a few days. I am 5' 1 1/2" and about 90lbs. I have a 34B bra size and I was wondering if this was normal or small or big. My mom and my aunts say that I got the "big boob" gene and my boyfriend and my friends all say that I have big boobs for being so peteit and skinny. Is this true? Thanks!!!!!! (link)
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Everybody is different and develops at a different pace. I'm about one inch shorter than you and I weigh a little more (I'm pretty muscular) and I have the same bra size, so I wouldn't think too much of it.
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My aunt just died on December 11. She had a year long battle with stage 4 lung cancer. She was like a motherly figure to me and I was very close to her and my uncle. A few months after she was diagnosed the chemo was starting affect her and she had terrible headaches. She had a shunt placed in herhead to drain the spinal fluid that was causing the headaches. After that she started looking very different and frail. I had no idea what to say to her or how to talk to her. I stillloved her but I was very aquard arround her. My parents would always tell me to go sit with her in bed and talk, but like I said, I had no idea what to say. I could talk to her when other people werevin the room but not by myself. Well one day my mom told me that my aunt noticed how I was becoming distant and it made her feel bad. At the time I brusshed it away thinking "When she gets better I will talk to her and be more caring" Now that she passed away I feel so guilty and like I should burn in hell for what I did. I have also considered suicide a couple times. I have lots of friends and a wonderful boyfriend but I feel like I must put on a brave face for them so I act happy and carefree. So my questions are,
※How can I greive propperly?
※What should I say to my friends?
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First of all, I'm really sorry for your loss. There's really no straight up way to grieve properly because everybody is affected in a different way. I remember about 1 and half years ago when one of my friends died. She was the nicest and happy and cheerful and positive person I've ever met. I went home and cried for hours. I felt guilty for little things that happened a few weeks before she died until recently I realized that there's nothing we can do to change what's happened in the past. And for your friends, they know that you're going through a hard time. They probably want to be there for you and won't mind if you let it all out and talk to them. I think it would help you feel better if you could talk to them or somebody else who's been in a similar situation. I really hope this was helpful :)
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I've been writing songs recently, i really wanna sing my own songs, but i suck at singing. Me and my friends are making a band and whoever writes the song gets to choose who's gonna sing it. I really wanna sing but i don't know how to get better, practice doesn't seem to be enough. (link)
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Omg I totally know how you feel. I love singing, but quite frankly, I sucked at it up until recently. I'm also going to mention some things that really helped me. I'm in band, and most people would think, how does this relate to the question. Well, about everyday in band, we sing. It surprises tons of people, but it improves both our playing and our singing. The most basic thing we do is get out a tuner and sing a pitch over and over again with as full and resident sound as we possibly can while trying to stay in tune (it also helps to get a tuner that will play the tune as well so you can try and match it). We also sing basic exercises such as scales, foundations, etc. Singing is actually very challenging despite what I thought before, and practice is basically the only thing you can do. I would also recommend talking to your parents about voice lessons.
There's really too much to give you advice about in one answer, so just send me a message if you have any more questions or want any more tips. I hope this was helpful :)
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hey there(: I am a teen/f and I would like to start writng another book. I want this one to be a novel. I have already wrote one book and have it published but I would like to start a serious YA book. I have some Ideas but I don't know which one sounds more appealing. So I was hoping I could get yall's opinions.
My first idea which is something I day dream about a lot. It is about a teen girl maybe 16, and she really is set on having a normal life knowing she will most likely ever be anything more, maybe a teacher or nurse. Though she has dreams of meeting someone famous, and falling in love with like a teen idol. When one day her father gets a promotion and her and her family have to move to California, (like L.A or Malibu)and she is upset about leaving her friends. One day they go to wherever in california (havn't decided) just to look at their new house and see where things will go. Then they go out to eat one night and the girl sees a really cute boy at a table with like about 5 or 6 grownups. She thinks he is really cute and things,and accidently bumps into him while going to the restroom, they talk for a few minutes and he seems to stare at her a lot too while eating that night. Then later the girl and her family go back to her hometown to pack up and move, when the girl and her friends go see some movie her friends want to see, kind of as a going away party. Turns out when they watch the movie the boy from the restaurant is one of the main stars of the movie. (anyway to speed this up the girl moves and her and famous boy get together)go through hardships then get back together at the end.
Now for my second Idea. I thought it would be different to write about something with 4 teenagers. They all "almost" die the same night, like one from car wreck, one from over dose, one form suicide, and one got shot. (i know that sounds bad but keep reading)anyway they all end up in the same hospital never met each other but each one I guess you can say kind of dies but they get transported somewhere kind of like heaven but with like basically just them, and they meet each other in this other deminsion and wonder what has happened to them, then they see back to earth and see what has happened, they start to remember and the 4 teens (2 girls 2 boys) start talking and explaining what happened to them such as car wreck etc. Then they have to make it out together and they kind of talk and help each other like with the ones problem of wanting to commit suicide, and like the one that over dosed. They sit and talk get to know each other and what their life was like when they were alive. Then some of the charachters fall in love stuff like that. Then of course some more stuff happens, i just havn't thought yet, but then like at the end they all 4 realize the importance of life, including some with their new love life from their after life, Then sense they realize the importance they get another chance at life, and wind up waking up in their hospitla beds(comming back alive) and being thankful. it takes some time but then each one remembers what happened before they reawoke (like in the after life they where at). but they don't tell any of their family or the doctors about what happened. but as they recover and its time for them to come home, Each one comes out of their hospital rooms pretty much around the same time and see each other for the first time alive.It ends with them sitting in the waiting room together while their prents sign them out and they rekindle and the in love ones exchange numbers, and as they all leave the hospital they all look at each other, the two in love kiss, and then they all leave with their parents who look bewildered about their children knowing each other.
Well those are my two ideas about things to write about for my book. I was just wondering if you could give me your idea about which one if you like best if any or both. Also if you could give me your thoughts. Thank you for your help(:
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Wow...those are both really good ideas. Personally, I would read both of those, but here's what I think about them.
The first one seems like a classic girl fall in love with a famous guy book. Honestly, it seems like it would be harder to write because you don't want it to be too similar to other novels like this. I've read tons of books that have similarities to this, so you'd have to find something that would really pop out and make it unique instead of another girlie book that involves famous people. Don't get me wrong, it's a great idea, it might just be the harder option.
The second one seems to be full of drama. I would definitely read this. It also seems like it could reach a wider audience. The plot is unusual but at the same time it's compelling. In a way, it makes me think of Ellen Hopkins' books just because issues with the teenagers (which it also makes it more realistic and able to be related to).
Anyways, those are some of the things I thought about when I read the ideas. Both of them are great and I would definitely read both of them. Good luck and I hope this was helpful :)
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im 16 almost 17 and i have never been kissed or had a boyfriend or even held hands with a guy. i used to think i was pretty in middle school, but wen i got to grade 10 i saw all the girls dating and thought why couldn't i have that? because of this i have low self-esteem and dont think im pretty anymore. And i dont think i will even get married. advice?? its not because i dont want to date its just that guys never look at me or talk to me.
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Do you interact with alot of guys? Like actually full out conversations and friendships? Most guys won't ask out a girl unless they've talked and are comfortable with each other. Another thing guys look for is confidence. A low self-esteem does play a factor in it. When a guy looks at you, he's not want somebody who is uncomfortable with themselves. Guys know that nobody is perfect, and the right kind overlook your imperfections and see beauty behind it all. I have a super low self-esteem too, and one thing that helped was looking at myself and thinking about what I liked about me. If you really think about it, there are so many beautiful things about people that they end up overlooking because they care so much about how they look. I hope this was helpful :)
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First off, call me ice. Second off, I'm that same girl who.said she was ice and i already forgot what i asked last time! Anyway before i rudely interrupted myself, i play the french horn in band ( I'm the only one who plays this) and there is a solo concert thing coming up,and i think my teacher wants me to play at the concert she said i was doing really good on my song, but i don't really know if i should play at the concert. Should i? Should i not, not even risk humiliating myself in front of a professional JUDGE?! Bottom line: HELP!!!
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Hey Ice,
It's really great that you're in band. I play the clarinet and I absolutely love band :) But anyways, it's really cool that your teacher wants you to play at the concert. If you don't want to at all and you feel pressured to do it, than you shouldn't do it. But if you want to and you're just afraid of messing then you should go for it. It's not everyday that you get an opportunity like this. Everybody is human and we all makes mistakes. The real musicians understand how hard it is to go up in front of people and play by yourself. I've been playing piano at concerts for quite a few years, and I still haven't gotten over the fear of playing in front of people. The key to this is not thinking about playing in front people, just think of it as another practice you're doing at home, but make it your best one. This is really hard to do but everybody else will recognize that. Most of the people probably don't know the music, so when you mess up, just keep going on. If you dwell on your mistakes, then it's only going to make things worse. Let them think that was part of the music. In the end, do your best because that's all you can do. And that's how you'll remember it forever. I'm sorry this was so long but I hope this was helpful and good luck with whatever choice you decide to go with :)
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18/f I FRICKIN' HATE FRIZZ. I've had to deal with it all my life. It's what I'm known for, unfortunately. I have medium-length brown, thick, frizzy hair. But beneath all the ugggggllllllllyyyy frizz is some beautiful natural curl I have! So, I wanna know... Are there any natural tricks or solutions to tackling frizz without straightening or curling it, etc.? Like for example, I've heard of rinsing it in cold water, or whatever? I never have time or skill/knowledge to actually do my hair in the morning. But I'll tell you what I do, just so maybe you can tell me if I need to do something, or am doing anything wrong?
I shower at night. When I'm done, I towel dry a ton, then wrap it up in a towel while I brush my teeth, and all that other junk. Then after a while I take it out and brush it. Then I put in some mousse, but only a little. Then I go to bed. I wake up and it has this natural curl to it that I love. But it's over-shadowed by this layer of frizz floating on top of it. It's sooooo freaking annoying, I hate it so much!!!! Out of desperation, I'll try to put more mousse on it, even though my hair's dry. But then when I look in a mirror at school the frizz has popped up again, like I had never put any mousse in it in the first place. I don't know how to do my hair, or braid it, nor do I have the time in the morning. I love having my hair down, but sometimes the frizz is so bad I just have to put it up in a pony tail, which looks so plain and eeeyeuck.
I hate to be picky, but I cannot use hairspray. My friends for some reason love to play with my hair, and if it was all stiff, it would be weird and awkward, lolol. But anyway, yeah. Caan someone help me~??? (link)
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I totally understand about the whole frizz thing. One thing that I've noticed about my hair is that when I towel dry too much, that my hair is frizzier when it gets dry so try to let it air dry most of the time. The website below has some tips on how to control frizzy hair:
http://www.beautytipsonline.com/articles/frizzy_hair.htm
Also, I would recommend learning how to braid your hair. There are some good tutorial videos all over the web. And some tips to make ponytails look better are to have bangs to go with your face shape.(a lot less hair to deal with and it helps make a ponytail look tons better). Most of the styling info can be found online if you just search it. I hope this was helpful :)
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What does this mean: place special emphasis on old friend? (link)
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It could mean to pay attention to a friendship that has gone on longer than one that is newer because it has gone through the test of time.
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First off, please call me ice. Anyway,all my friends are constantly fighting for no reason whatsoever. Like here is an example: one of my friends said i got my homework done so free afternoon for me. The other said now you sound like you're bragging. This went on for i don't even know how long. I started to get really sad and i would have cried right there on the spot,but i made it to my mom's car in time. How do i make them realize their fights are worthless? I already tried walking away-that just made them run after me and they were like where are you going?! HELP!!!
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Hey Ice,
You said your friends are constantly fighting for no reason. Is there is a possibility that it could be about something more and they're just letting out anger through smaller irrelevant problems? I think the best way to solve problems like this is through communication. What I mean is all of your friends and you should sit down and talk about the problems. Make a rule that there is no trash talking allowed in the discussion (of course, to prevent further problems). You'd be surprised what can be done with talking to each other. I hope this was helpful and good luck :)
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ive been hooking up with this guy for awhile and at first it was just sex but i really like him and he acts like he really likes me then does something to show he doesnt but i let him use me just so i can see him and wait till he acts like he likes me again but everytime he calls me i cant tell him no even though he just wants sex i guess i still have hope that he really likes me should i keep having sex with him? (link)
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You deserve a guy way better than somebody who is using you. He's most likely not going to change at all, so go out and find a guy that's worth your time. Good luck with everything :)
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