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What does it mean when your girlfriend isnt all over you?
My gf loves me, I know that for a fact. Whenever we are together she cant get enough of me, but its like whenever Im gone she doesnt do a very good job of staying in contact with me. I dont want her to be super clingy, but some days she just doesnt talk to me at all. Or I will text her in the morning, and she wont get back to me until 9 PM, and will go to bed half way through our conversation.
There was one week where she didnt call or text me at all. And then when she does call me our conversations last 3 hours and we are just laughing and talking all night. Shes not in college and she doesnt have a job. She has tons of free time, but she chooses to just stay at home with her family rather than spend time with me.
Im not a super clingy guy, but I do appreciate when a girl wants to talk to me, and likes texting me when she has free time. Its very frustrating because some times I really want to talk to her, but she just doesnt stay by her phone or give me any way of contacting her. And when I tell her its a little annoying she just says "sorry I do that" but doesnt even try to fix it. She came back from a 3 week vacation and has been home for a week and hasnt come to see me, even though she said she wants to. She says shes just feeling lazy.
Are these signs that she doesnt really care about me? Because when we are together she doesnt want to let go, and then when we arent together she practically ignores me. I dont know what to do...
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Maybe she's trying not to be so clingy? Or she's afraid that y'all might spend too much together and start fighting more often. I think she does care about you, but she feels like she needs some space. I was sit her down and tell her how you feel and that you would appreciate if y'all talked more. Try not to make it seem like its too much of her fault to keep her from getting mad. Just tell her that you don't think she's putting enough effort on the part of the relationship that exists behind the hanging out and dates and stuff. She should understand if you stress that it's that important to you. I hope this helped and good luck with everything :)
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some people just cant keep contact with distance. she loves you, but wants to be with you and not send 5 lines of text
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