First off, please call me ice. Anyway,all my friends are constantly fighting for no reason whatsoever. Like here is an example: one of my friends said i got my homework done so free afternoon for me. The other said now you sound like you're bragging. This went on for i don't even know how long. I started to get really sad and i would have cried right there on the spot,but i made it to my mom's car in time. How do i make them realize their fights are worthless? I already tried walking away-that just made them run after me and they were like where are you going?! HELP!!!
You said your friends are constantly fighting for no reason. Is there is a possibility that it could be about something more and they're just letting out anger through smaller irrelevant problems? I think the best way to solve problems like this is through communication. What I mean is all of your friends and you should sit down and talk about the problems. Make a rule that there is no trash talking allowed in the discussion (of course, to prevent further problems). You'd be surprised what can be done with talking to each other. I hope this was helpful and good luck :) [ mannequin24's advice column | Ask mannequin24 A Question ]
Geenie answered Sunday January 8 2012, 12:30 pm: Hi Ice!
I think fighting among friends are very normal but when it's getting too much to take, you could always have an open forum or a closed door conversation. You share what you feel about them and they share what they feel for you. I really reccomend you this cause it works for me and my friends. :)
Try to be more open and don't just walk out. Goodluck~
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