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Q: heyy. well, im really really in love with this one kid. and we flirt like crazy alot...but...the thing is...were good friends. should i just not like him or something? im not sure how to just get it out to him? maybe a friend or something? please help!
signed,
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Just because your good friends doesn't mean you can't be in love with him! You can try talking to him about it. Guys can't read minds..they won't know whether or not you like them unless you make a move, or bring it up. Same thing goes for him too, though. But it's possible he's shy. You can use a friend for this if that makes it easier for you..nothing wrong with that. But, if you'd rather ask him yourself, you can just tell him you want to talk one day..and tell him how you feel about him. Maybe he feels the same way? It's worth a try! You never know until you ask.
Good luck :)
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Q: i really want a cartilage piercing but im really scared of a couple things ...
1. does it hurt when they put the needle through??
and does it hurt ALOT after wards
2. does it get caught in your hair or clothes?
3. how long does it take to heal and how long b4 i can change it ..some ppl say it take 1 year to fully heal is that true?
thankss in advance :)
julia
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For some it does hurt..it depends on your pain tolerance. Mine didn't hurt that much. But, keep in mind, the needle is a lot more safer than the gun. I don't recommend this piercing because it's the piercing that gets infected easily..but if you take care of it properly and go to a very good piercing place..I'm sure you'll be okay :). Just like any other piercing, it's going to be sore afterwards..make sure you use aftercare on your piercing daily. No one has ever complained of it getting caught in their hair or clothes. Unless your putting your clothes or hair on that piercing..nothing should happen. With my piercings however, I sometimes tend to get clothes stuck on it..it doesn't hurt though so don't worry. It doesn't neccesarily take a full year to heal..piercings take a few months to heal enough so that the hole wont close when you take the piercing out. I had my nose pierced last year (also done with a needle) and I was able to start changing nose rings in a matter of 3 months. But it does take a year to have the hole be perminent (if that's what you want). They'll tell you any info you want to know wherever you get it done. Just be careful and choose the right place!
Hope this helped :)!
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Q: I've read a few news articles about President Obama trying to make a new health care plan since it's very expensive here for decent health care but I haven't quite grasped the whole plan of action as it sits so far. I feel stupid for not quite understanding what is suppose to be happening with the health care plan or what Obama has really said about it. Can somebody kind of fill me in on the details in words I can actually understand? I know the health care bill is really important and I really should know what is going on...
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Yes it is very confusing..but from what I understand about Obama's healthcare plan..is that he wants Universal Healthcare. He want's businesses to be able to give it to their employees. And, Obama want's everyone in America to have Healthcare, yet not be in debt because of having to pay for it. That means, he wants it similar to countries such as England and Canada. In both those places, the healthcare is "free". Basically, they go to a clinic, sit and wait a really long time, and get treated without having to pay (for instance, someone in England or Canada has to wait double the time the U.S. does for an organ transplant because the government owns healthcare). Anyway..what everyone in America is not happy about is the fact that this Healthcare plan will be funded by taxes-meaning, tax paying American's will be paying for it. Taxes would have to be raised..once again. People are angered because he already has us in more debt since his presidency. Republican's are also very against it. They ask why he is rushing this. Originally, he wanted the congress to approve this by August..but he now has pushed it to the end of the year, saying that he want's it done and if it is not done right he will veto it. Not sure why he want's it done so fast. I'm not really sure if this plan will be beneficial to the American's..but then again, who knows??
I also found this on The White House Site-
"The Administration believes that comprehensive health reform should:
•Reduce long-term growth of health care costs for businesses and government
•Protect families from bankruptcy or debt because of health care costs
•Guarantee choice of doctors and health plans
•Invest in prevention and wellness
•Improve patient safety and quality of care
•Assure affordable, quality health coverage for all Americans
•Maintain coverage when you change or lose your job
•End barriers to coverage for people with pre-existing medical conditions"
Hope this helped you understand a little better! :)
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Q: i like this boy and he likes me and he said we would go out if i sent him a pic txt of my boobs or me naked wat should ido please help
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Please don't do this! This is his way of taking advantage of you because he knows you'll do it if you like him. Tell him no, if he really does like you..he'd understand you don't want to expose yourself to him like that. And, as the other's said, you'll risk the picture getting around to everyone in school. Boys can be very immature and find it funny by sending the picture to everyone he knows. I've seen it happen to one of my friends..it ruined her rep and everything. So definitely not a good idea!!
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Q: 13/f
okkay so ive had a boyfriend for about 2 years now and im starting to think hes the one. Except for the fact that he will randomly ignore all my phone calls and everything for like a week and then blame me for not calling or asking to hang out. and everything good that happens and i try to tell him and all he sayd is yeah whatever. I feel like we arnt as close as we once where. I try and ask him if he is okay but everytime i do he hangs up or walk's away.should i end this so i dont get hurt more than i already am? help me please i have no idea what to do anymore
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Guy's are weird. He obviously has some issues going on. He shouldn't be ignoring your calls, especially since your his girlfriend! I don't understand why'd he blame you for not calling or asking to hang out, even after you called him. Maybe he didn't get your calls? Who knows. Some cell phone services suck. But, Honestly, you're right. It seems he's being distant from you. He shouldn't say "yeah whatever" when you tell him something, he should listen to you. And the hanging up thing and/or walking away..is just very rude and shows a lack of respect for you. My advice would be to talk to him..but seeing that he would either hang up or walk away..maybe you should reconsider this relationship and where it stands. I know you think he's "the one" but you're 13. I'm sure there are plenty of guys out their who will treat you better than him! Don't take any of it. It's very ridiculous.
Good luck :)
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Q: why shouldn't a 14 year old get her nose pierced
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There's no reason why you shouldn't get one, unless your parents disagree. I got my nose piercing when I was 14 years old. Now I'm 15 1/2 and I still love it. Don't worry about regretting it because you can easily just take it out and the hole will close. But I will warn you, it does tend to hurt (for some) when you get it done. When I got it done..it hurt a little bit..but it wasn't anything too bad. My friends also got it done, they never cried at all. But everyone's pain tolerance is different. For the first few days, it will be sore. But it's a good piercing to get :D and very cute.
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Q: hey does anyone know any nice beaches/beach areas in florida..like nice clean beaches. thanks
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Cocoa Beach in Florida is gorgeous! You should definitely go their.
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Q: So here goes...
I asked a guy out and he said no because he had a girlfriend, and he said he would hit me up when he was single, so he did thatt and we hung outt....long story short...we hung outt for a lil bit and he suggested sex, and I said no for an hour and a half, and then we had sexx. now I don't know what to doo...should I leave it alone until he talkes to me...and do guys lose respect for a girl after he sleeps with him....or whatt? Whats your take on itttt!?!?
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With guys, they usually do lose respect for girls once they sleep with them, which doesnt make sense since they're the one's that ask..but they do. Honestly, that's probably all he wanted. And if he hasn't talked to you..he might have moved on because you gave him what he wanted. You can try and talk to him, but I don't think it will go anywhere with a guy like that.
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Q: So, I've been in love with this guy since the first day I saw him. He's never really pretended like he liked me, he did things to annoy me and called me sexy. So in the spring we were talking, but then after spring break he got a girlfriend. We just started recently texting again (he broke up with the girl) and we were gonna have sex. MY PARENTS SAW THE TEXTES. and put a stop to it. But last night, he texted me and said he didn't care about me at all. I know i should get over him, but I can't. I like him so so much. AND this other guy that treated me right and liked me never even talks to me anymore? And i liked him a lot. I don't know, I'm just so confused! Help please! Oh I'm a girl, and i'm 16.
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Well, it seems all he wants is sex from you. You're in love with him, so believe it or not, it's a good thing your parents stopped it..otherwise you would've been very hurt because he'd probably just move on from you after he got what he wanted. And plus, he's never asked you to be his girlfriend, also, from what I can tell, he didn't say he liked you. Avoid guys like that! They'll call you sexy, annoy you, do whatever they can do to get what they want. Kinda sad. They need to mature, A LOT. Of course, it's very hard to get over someone that easily..but honestly, if he said he didn't care about you..then it's time to move on to a better guy who actually does! And the other guy: there are so many reasons why he could've stopped talking to you. For instance, maybe he doesnt know you like him so he gave up, maybe he knows about the other guy you like..so many different things. Maybe what you should try and do is go talk to him. Ask him why he stopped talking to you. Just go up to him and say something like, "Hey, we haven't talked much lately..why'd you stop?" and make him give you an explanation so you know. And then from there..if you want to go out with this guy; eventually you should bring up the fact that you like him.
Good luck! :)
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Q: So, when Jon Gosselin (from Jon and Kate plus 8, obviously) announced that he was seeing someone else or whatever and wanted a divorce from Kate Gosselin I heard that he was dating Deanna Hummel. Then, just weeks later, I heard something about him being ENGAGED to someone named Hailey Glassman! Now, I'm hearing something about a magazine reporter (Kate Major) from Star quitting because she is seeing him! Is he REALLY dating someone or what? I'm curious to find out and was hoping someone had the scoop on Advicenators! :D
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Well! Deanna Hummel was, according to him, just a friend. Her brother, however, told the news that he came over often. Supposedly he's been dating Hailey Glassman now, and the Deanna stuff has so far gone away. They say he's engaged to Hailey and that he bought her an expensive ring, and that they were shopping around for apartments. But in my opinion, I don't think he'd be getting engaged that fast after he just got a divorce from his wife Kate. He does also hve 8 kids so I really doubt Glassman wants that since she's soo young. But anyway: Jon has said he and Glassman are just friends. So there's still pretty much no answer to whether or not he's dating. Some say he is, some say he isn't. But if he's not dating her...he sure does hang out with her a whole lot..
Hope this helped! :)
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Q: PLEASE HELP
i need to watch episode 7 and 8 of season 7 on degrassi, their called "we got the beat" and "jesse's girl"
online in usa free please
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Not sure but here try this:
www.surfthechannel.com
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Q: Um....what happens when you have sex? what does the guy like you to do? how does he like you to do it?
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When you have sex, just like the other person said, you need to be 100% comfortable. Ask him what he wants..tell him what you want. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If he loves you, he'll understand if their are some things you don't want to do.
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Q: I heard that the head of the Oscar Mayer company died of age 95. I just assume the company was named after him and his name is Oscar Mayer, right? Yeah, might be stupid :/
Anyway, did anybody else hear about this and can fill me in on what happened? I think it's crazy lots of famous people are dying!
& In Memory!:
My bologna has a first name, it's O-S-C-A-R
My bologna has a second name, it's M-A-Y-E-R
Oh, I love to eat it everyday,
And if you ask me why I'll say...
'Cuz Oscar Mayer has a way...
With B-O-L-O-G-N-A!
hahaha
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He died of old age..here's the link!
http://www.google.com/hostednews/ap/article/ALeqM5iG0PDwV8YuhkhSq4yGamnFQlrlAgD99A0ULO0
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Q: I know that stem cell research has to do with babies or something. I'm just confused what it is exactly because I know it was a big thing when Bill Clinton was in office and when George W. Bush was in office the first time. I don't remember what it was or anything though. Something about abortions? I don't know....
What is stem cell research?
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Here you go :)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stem_cell
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Q: My mom just left me and I don't know what to do! We got into a big fight because she was talking to this guy on the phone a lot and I asked her if she was cheating on my dad. She got really mad and went into her bedroom for awhile. When she came out she had some things packed and told me she was going to go somewhere else where she is appreciated more. I don't know what to do! My dad is gone for another 2 weeks and I don't know what I'm suppose to do in this situation. Do I call the police and tell them I'm alone and stuff and I don't know WHEN or even IF my mom is going to come back? I'm scared.
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Try and contact your dad right away or any other relatives. If that doesn't work..call the police and tell them what happend. What your mom did was so wrong..don't stay home alone for 2 weeks.
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Q: I heard that ex-NFL star Steve McNair passed away on Wednesday, I think. I work a lot and haven't gotten to watch TV for weeks, haha. I remember watching Steve McNair though before and I was curious how he died. I know lots of famous people have been dying and I was thinking maybe all the death was coming from swine flu or a serial killer aiming at celebrities--just something we've yet to uncover (but that's just me being paranoid, I'm sure; hey, I still think Michael Jackson could have been murdered and many people are suggesting he committed suicide!) Anyway, how did Steve McNair die for sure again?
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His 20 year old girlfriend shot him.
Go to this link if you want to read more..
http://www.optimum.net/News/AP/Article?articleId=581270
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Q: Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a couple months ago and i cant seem to function. I was so in love with him. About a month ago when we were in school together he would say he missed me too and all this stuff but then when school ended i didnt want to be the pathetic person so i stayed away from him. No calling and no texting. Well about 2 weeks ago he requested to be this guy i dated right after him's friend on facebook. I thought this was weird and it made me stop and think about him again. Then last week he started texting me to see how i was..(and we made plans while we were still together that we would go see a movie on the 4th of july even if we broke up.) Anyways, he texted me and i was very aloof and tried not to get my hopes up. he said one comment that stuck which when asked how my summer was i told him i was enjoying it and he said "just dont have too much fun you know how i worry." Anyways, so he brought up the movie and i was like ok text me on friday. He didnt text so at 630 on friday i texted him about seeing the movie the next day.. He seemed completly different and said oh can we go to an early movie i have to go to a fourth of july party. I felt like crap because i felt so pushed aside...i mean hes the one who made plans with me. then he makes other plans. so i said i had plans and then he was like ok another time. and whatever. basically i got upset and now i cant stop thinking about him. It sucks that im always left feeling lonely and incomplete. what i want to know is should i just move on... i mean if he really wanted me he would make more of an effort. and any tips on how exactly to move on. Its tough :/ I was really in love with him...
17 F
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Well it does seem like he's still interested in you..but since he did make plans with you and then decided to never text you, that's very rude of him. It's hard to tell whether or not he's still interested because there could've been so many things. Like maybe he was busy so he didn't have a chance to text (doubtful), maybe he forgot..you just don't know. Maybe you should talk to him and ask him if he does still have any feelings for you? just so you can decide if you want to move on or not. It is tough moving on..I'm sure if you keep yourself busy this summer with sports, hanging out with friends, dating, etc.. it's possible you might get over him. But since you were in love with him, it's going to be hard. But you definitely should try talking to him first.
Hope I helped!
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Q: I've wanted to be a model for quite some time but I've just been really shy to tell people due to having low confidence. (Not to sound full of my self) A lot of people have said I'd make a good model. I have pale skin and high cheek bones. I'm 5'5" but I'm not the skinniest girl and I still have braces (getting them off in about a year). I can take the critisim and all that but I just don't know if I have what it takes..
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Being a model is of course going to be hard..and if you can take the criticism, then that's definitely a good thing! especially in that business. If your braces are coming off in about a year, that should be no worry then. It'll go by quick. If everyone say's you should be a model, why not tell your parents and ask them about looking in to it? They should support you on it. You can even look in to it yourself. I'm shy too sometimes, so I know how you feel. The only problem might be the low confidence, but you can easily change that. Being the skinniest girl doesn't really matter..you don't have to be ultra skinny or perfect to be pretty or to be a model. Be happy with how you are! Be confident in yourself and tell yourself you know you have what it takes.
Good luck! :)
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Q: Being bored and curious one Saturday afternoon, I ventured into a random online forum, signed up, and started chatting. Weeks after that, I met a guy. Great. So we kept talking, liking each other more and more, and having a lot in common. Then we started "dating". But has become so much more than an internet relationship, for both of us. We share everything with each other. I'm in love with him.. in love with him for exactly who he is and by some miracle, he loves me the same way.
Now here's the problem. He thinks I'm 19 years old, like him, because that's what I claimed when we first met. I didn't think it would matter because no way could it turn into anything serious. I'm actually 15 years old. We've never done anything sexual, obviously, or even seen each other. I do plan to be with him for a very long time and meet him the day I turn 18. But how am I going to explain, when I do meet him, that I'm actually 4 years younger than I claimed to be? That I lied to him for years?
Or a more important question would be.. am I just caught up in false feelings? Can I really love him if I've never met or seen him, and could he really love me and accept my confession? I feel as though I do because I believe that you love someone for who they are and how well you get along, not because of a physical attraction.
As you can see.. this is a very messed up situation, but backing out is not an option for me right now, nor will it ever be. Help!
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I know someone who was in your exact situation. She was 15, he was 19. They texted, talked on AIM, and whatever else. She felt guilty after a while because she was lying, but she really loved him a lot. She ended up telling him 6 months in to their online relationship..and he was fine with it. However, some guys look at it differently. But, I've never met a guy who looked at it as a problem..as long as their's no sex until the age of 18, which is obviously not involved at this moment as you said. You really do need to tell him if you ever do plan on meeting him. Don't wait until you meet, that will make it way worse. If he loves you, he'll accept it. Just tell him you need to talk to him. Tell him you're actually 15, and that you're really sorry for lying to him and that you love him very much and just explain what was going through your mind when you lied. I'm sure if he's in love with you, he'll be okay. I think you can love someone you've never seen or met. It is possible he could really love you too. I know someone who met someone online and is still with them today after 2 years! Some people can fall in love online. If he accepts your confession, still loves you, and still wants to be with you..then that just shows he really does like you a lot.
Let me know what happens!
Good luck!
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Q: Im a female and only thirteen but has had sex for the first time with someone i thought i really liked and i thought he really liked me back. But like after we did he told everybody lies and stuff like saying I was gonna cry and stuff. I will admit it hurt really really badly but i wasn't gonna cry. Also he broke up with me and now it feels like i have the weight of the world on my shoulders because i know he is gonna tell everybody but i feel really guilty because of my mom and i wanna tell her but shes all i have and I dont wanna hurt her. So should I tell her? and if i do how can I?
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You can't trust young guys, especially in that aspect. You should tell your mom. Just tell her what happend, and tell her you THOUGHT you could trust him..but obviously that was a mistake. Your mom may be mad..but as the other person said, she'll be happy you can talk to her about these things. It's very important to talk to somebody. Just take this as a lesson. Don't trust young guys, he's obviously a jerk who has low self-esteem and has to tell everyone lies about you to make himself feel better. Many guys who are young tend to tell girls lies just to get in to their pants. I've seen it happen soo many times. Next time when you're in a relationship, get to know the person for a little while to make sure he's the right one, and when YOUR ready you can do whatever you want. Don't settle for less! Just make sure you choose the right type of guys and you'll be okay :)
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Hi :)
I haven't been on much lately, but I'll try as much as possible.
I've always been good with giving advice.
I just enjoy helping others!
NO question is stupid to me.
I'm very honest and I answer any category!
Don't be shy; feel free to inbox me with any questions you need answered. :)
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Gender: Female Age: 20 Member Since: June 24, 2009 Answers: 210 Last Update: September 7, 2010 Visitors: 13567
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