So, I've been in love with this guy since the first day I saw him. He's never really pretended like he liked me, he did things to annoy me and called me sexy. So in the spring we were talking, but then after spring break he got a girlfriend. We just started recently texting again (he broke up with the girl) and we were gonna have sex. MY PARENTS SAW THE TEXTES. and put a stop to it. But last night, he texted me and said he didn't care about me at all. I know i should get over him, but I can't. I like him so so much. AND this other guy that treated me right and liked me never even talks to me anymore? And i liked him a lot. I don't know, I'm just so confused! Help please! Oh I'm a girl, and i'm 16.
jm93 answered Friday July 24 2009, 11:14 am: Well, it seems all he wants is sex from you. You're in love with him, so believe it or not, it's a good thing your parents stopped it..otherwise you would've been very hurt because he'd probably just move on from you after he got what he wanted. And plus, he's never asked you to be his girlfriend, also, from what I can tell, he didn't say he liked you. Avoid guys like that! They'll call you sexy, annoy you, do whatever they can do to get what they want. Kinda sad. They need to mature, A LOT. Of course, it's very hard to get over someone that easily..but honestly, if he said he didn't care about you..then it's time to move on to a better guy who actually does! And the other guy: there are so many reasons why he could've stopped talking to you. For instance, maybe he doesnt know you like him so he gave up, maybe he knows about the other guy you like..so many different things. Maybe what you should try and do is go talk to him. Ask him why he stopped talking to you. Just go up to him and say something like, "Hey, we haven't talked much lately..why'd you stop?" and make him give you an explanation so you know. And then from there..if you want to go out with this guy; eventually you should bring up the fact that you like him.
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