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Q: Hi thanks for your answer and i would like to know
more about the male system it would help
he is a bit shy and he's a bit shy about his penis size i've told him it doesn't matter
but any help would be appreciated thanks.
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Q: I play the double bass (it's like the cello, but bigger and better.) We have a strings concert coming up on the 24th, but I'm having trouble on some of the really fast songs. It's not that difficult, but I have to move around alot between 1st and 3rd positions, and sometimes my fingers tense up if I play for too long. What can I do to make myself concentrate while playing my music, but also not make my fingers tense up?
I was attracted to your question because of the fact that you play the bass (which by the way, I will not deny as being an exceptional superior to the cello...but that is not what I am answering). What I do when I play, is I forget the music. There is a certain part of the brain known as the cerecellum which stores and reuses memory of muscle patterns. Basically what this means is that your brain can do the remembering as long as you do not distract it. Meanwhile, become the wooden fixings of your bass. Erase your being, and elongate your self into the instrument, hollow your insides and let them reverberate from inside. Most importantly, let your fingers relax and the energy seep through from your head and heart. I hope I have helped you. *best*

Q: My boyfriend is 16 and he gets erections quite a bit the other day he stood up and we noticed he had one and he got embarrased about it what
happens when guys get an erection? and do they
always think about sex when it happens?
An erection, which a boy at his age should know, is a perfectly normal part of puberty. It is when the boy's reproductory system is readying itself by stiffening to ejaculate some semen. This usually happens after he has been sexually stimulated but it can happen as just a part of growing up. He should not be at all embarassed, but also consoled to know that his embarassment causes a neuronic reaction which will cause the normality to be restored. If you wish to help him, coach him and tell him it is perfectly normal, and that some boys are even proud of their erections. For more on what an erection is or the male reproductive organ assemblance, just contact me;)

Q: My boyfriend is 16 and his penis is about 6 inches long is that average he's a little worried about it.
Well, studies have shown that a man's penis is quite commonly the length from the wrist to the tip of the middle finger. Of course, a hand's size is determined by the man's stage in his developemental process. However, if the man has indeed come to his final size, it is not to be pondered as to his slight abnormality- not everybody is perfect. And it shouldn't bother you too much either- a man's worth is not measured by his..."length". Anyhow, 6 inches is enough to impregnate you if that is your concern. WIth any further questions, do not hesitate in contacting me.

Q: what is a wet dream?
Child, a wet dream is a very special time in a boy's life when he has begun his cycle of sexual determination: i. e. feelings, decisions, dreams, etc. A wet dream is a dream that can involve sexual experiences, memories, feelings, or even something undescribable such as a yearning. Scientifically, it is when a male ejaculates in his sleep out of sexual stimulation.

Q: i am addicted to cutting my wrists and i know its bad but i just cant stop what should i do? im not going to go to a doctors because they just dont understand and i didnt tell my parents because they would think i was crazy
Cutter:
I CHALLENGE you: I happened to stumble across an exotically refreshing novel entitled Cut. Please take some time and see what you might learn in the light of your situation. I was deeply moved. Furthermore, it would perhaps occupy some of your time in other ways than self-mutilation. You don't need to tell anyone, you really don't. You need to tell yourself: figure out what makes you need to cut, and if you can't that is when you need help. Find something else you can do that will not cause harm. Maybe even anti-depressants? Perscription (of course).

Q: umm..... i'm not really askin for advice. but who's playing Cho Chang in the third Harry Potter movie? Michelle Ang or BoA? (i personally think BoA's better \m/>.
Kid, this is not the time. Not the place. Good night.

Q: i have this friend and we used t be really close but she acts so dumb and shes really annoying so i told her that shes annoying sometimes but she was like ya so what do i do to get her to stop? we are close but it gets on my nerves and stresses me
Look,
You need a way for her to listen to you. FIrst off, I suggest a kiss. THen lay it on her, confrontation is key. Be like if you can't clean up your act, then take it somewhere else. Yup. That's right. DO IT!

Q: I really like this guy, and he likes me , but I might be moving to another school next year, and I want our realationship to go to the next level.If you can give me some advice, I would be greatful!


Dear Hopeful,
Don't be. What kind of moronic idiot would want to go out of his way trashing his life just to keep up with you? It's not fair to you or him. Just get over it. As the saying goes, there are MANY other fish in the sea. Screw him!

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I'm Mecca and i live in the UK, whereabouts you'll never know for certain. My hobbies are polo, singing, reading, and playing with my little brothers. I hope I can help you to any extent with your problems! So many of you have sure helped me with some of mine.

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