Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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I've been having a lot of problems at home and everything in the last forever long. Last night something got to me really bad and I ended up taking off. I was swimming and after that my mom literally almost dragged me to my school, told me to clean out my locker and that I wouldn't be going back to school there anymore. after swim practice, mom walked into the aquarena and started to scream at me right in front of my friends. he litterally dragged me over to pwc, where she made me clean my locker out, telling me i was never coming back to school here again. once we got outside i just dropped my books and started walking back towards the pool. mom followed me and we actually started to fight. now mom's smaller then me, and i didn't want to hurt her so i just shoved her off and ran for it. lachlan lives like a 5 min walk from the pool.. but it ended up taking me like 20 mins to get there because i had to hide. mom was driving around looking for me. went to lachlans, snuck around back and walked into their kitchen. neil (his dad) just smiled at me and said 'your mom dropped by here about 10 mins ago looking for you. i thought you'd turn up eventually.' and he offered me food. i just decided to sit out on their back deck for like 30 mins thinkning... mom came by while i was there, neil covered for me and said they hadn't heard from me. they promised not to give me away. anyways, fio (his mom) came home and we talked outside for awhile, then lachlan came home and we talked.. i called kids help phone and then went inside his house. my hair was wet from the pool and i was outside for over 2 hours so i was freezing! didn't eat like a thing. figured out that i'd be spending the night at their place. then we went and picked up jamie, went to the village mall where i left a msg at home saying i was okay and i was staying at a friends house...when i came home today she flipped out at me so bad. I'm at the point where I can't stay at my house anymore but I feel really bad for not staying there. Has anyone ever done this, or anything similar? And how can I get help or be able to stay there? =\ (link)
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why did she flip out?/what is really going on..what happened for your mom to drag you out of school??Something is going on...can you give me more info??For her to be that drastic...it must have been huge.
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ok my best friend is named naomy and we were friends since she was 3 and i was 5.. recently she's in 6th grade and im in 8th and she just discovered AIM... now she doesnt call herself naomy she calls herself NICOLE... and she's being really slutty and i dont like it... she looks at my profile and takes the names of the people who looked at it and i get mad so we are fighting a lot. she talks 2 my crushes and tells them that shes 14 and she goes to high school and that shes tall and skinny when shes only 11 is in 6th grade and is short and chubby (definitly overweight nothing against the people who are)... she tells my crushes that i like them and they end up iming me and i get stunned... so what should i do? should i end my friendship with her? or what? (link)
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she is trying to make a life through the intervet..lot os people do this..make believe anything on here.
But if she is contacting your freinds...well that is realy weird...she has a fixation on you.
I would have to say that yes you need to break it off from her. If she is doing stuff that makes you feel funny about..then she is not a freind.
Ps does her parents know what she is doing? i mean hello 11 is jailbate...
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my friend is doin some stupid stuff, and i want him to stop. he's always takin crazy chances, like jumpin off roofs into pools and stuff. and then the other day he was burnin himself with a lighter. and on more than one occasion he talks about he wishes he had a knife with him so he could slice his wrists. when i ask him why he does this stuff he answers "no one cares about me, so why should i stop?" how do i tell him that everytime he does something, it kills a part of me. i dont wanna seem mushy or anything, but i cant stand to see him doin this crap. please help me im freakin out, im so afraid for him.
ps-and dont tell me to get an adult to talk to him, cuz if i tell on him, he'd neva speak to me again.
thanks
xXxashliexXx (link)
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he has a death wish...something happened to him..that makes him want to die...besiedes well talking to a counselor..which he will not do..all you can do is be his friend..and maybe try to get thim to find a new hobby that he could become excited about that does not involve death stunts.
He really needs to get on some meds..he is super bi-polar...
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well the other day my mate said that i speared a rumer that she had had sex with my boyfriend
i told her i didnt and she got hold of my neck and said if i ever speard another rumer she would kill me so then another rumer came out about her saying she was pregnant and that my boyfriend gave her crabs
wat the time she was at my house she pushed me on the bed and took a knife to my chest but i was so freeked out id never seen her like this
but nothing happened my mum came in the room
and she said i will kill you at the weekend i need help!
elly mason
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woah...back the psycho truck up..i would run..as fast as i could from this loony tune! Yeah you need help..polic help..girl..cut the contact wiht her...she has flipped and you are in her line of fire...wow..she is sacring me.and i do not even know her...
GET AWAY FROM HER NOW!!!!!
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ok, I was 12 whenever I first had sex...( I know Kinda young but...I was turning 13 soon) Well...it hurt SUPERSUPER bad but they say that after it hurts it's supposed to feel godd...but it didn't...it never once felt good...then the second time (i've only done it 2 times) it still didn't feel good..it kind hurt..adn once again NEVER once felt good?!?! whats wrong with me?!?! (link)
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well maybe you should ask what is wrong wiht him..he not giving you enough time to well..get aroused..but...and here is where i am a super nerd..is this what you want..to be having unfulling sex...at your age...Seems to me your b/f is the only one having a good time
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Me and my boyfriend are trying to get me pregnant but it seems to be not working. I just got out of collage and im living in an apartment with him and we have sex every other day .. it isnt working.. is there something I shouldnt be doing?
Thank you.
Victoria (link)
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are you ready to be a mom??
do you have the money? diapers and formula plus rent and clothes? are you really ready??
To give up all your time alone together??
if so..then realize that you are fertile only 2 days a month..you can get one of those new ovualtion kits thar pwdict whne you are fertile.
but i would get married first...see bweing married gives you rights that just being a g/f will not. If you guys ar committed enought to have a baby..a LFELONG thing..why not get married be newlyweds for a year or so..then try...
being a new parent is so freaking hard..no sleep..no money..please think about that first.
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Guys, I am in late twenties and old enough to analyze whats bad and whats right. I had enough sex in my life. But I still feel so much attracted towards girls as well as women. Each female is different than other and all seems to be very attractive. I mean sometimes I feel, I should get some strange woman to have love, which never happened. Sometimes I myself feel bad about my feelings. Is it because I have extra sex feelings? I am not sure whether other people of my age group feels the same. Please share your experience. (link)
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um...if you are int your late 20's there should be NO girls in your life..only women
I am not sure what you mean by strange feelsing..
Some people have larger sex drives than others..so it is not bad per se. just each person has different urges.
If your feelings tend to hurt women..than yes you should feel bad..but just because you have more urges thatn normal does not amke you a freak
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i need some advice please!! on thursday there isnt any school, so me and my boyfriend are planning to go out for a movie, and then over 2 his place. its just going to be us to, and of course we will be doing something! we both are ready to loose it, its just that:
1. im scared i COULD get pregnant
2. im just a lil nervous cause i dont know what to do
3. im sorta of on my period, im bleeding just a tiny, and what if i smell bad?! (link)
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ok..i would say first..birth control....ok..and do not be surprised if he does not want to do anything..some men are freaked out by that stuff.
If you are too freaked out..wait...the first time..only comes around once..make it special..you will remember it all your life..ok...
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Don't take this the wrong way. I'm 13/f and I'm ok with the regualr sex (WHEN I'M MARRIED) But even though I'm too your to think about it, 69 and oral sex I'm scared of. I just really dont feel comfortable with the idea. I wouldn't wanna lick the boy's thing, and I wouldn't want his tounge "up there" please help me becuase I really am scared. (link)
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if you are not comfortable with that sutf..right now..don't do it. it is your body..and you are the one that makes the calls. Do not let anybody pressure you inot something that is not ok wiht you. A guy will understand if he is the right one.
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i just lost my virginity nd now im freakin out cuz we were dumbasses nd didnt use ne thin i forget wen i last had my period nd i don remember wen im supposed to get it next nd im like freakin out bout maybe bein pregnant or sumthin wut r my chances of bein pregnant?? i kno that there is a chance cuz theres always a chance but like is it a big chance or a small chance lol idk im freakin out so sumone lemme kno! thnx!!! (link)
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get a test..take it..if still negative and your period does not come..take another..then go see a clinic like planned parenthood for privacy...the sooner you find out..the sooner you can eihter be relieved or make your decision.
ps if you are not pregant..please get on some bc....ok...
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is it alright to date a guy that is 3 to 4 year younger than you? (link)
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it all depends on how old you are...in the teens 3 or 4 years means a big difference in maturity...so as long as he is not jaolbate..why not...
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I want to move school. but i asked my mom & she said that i can`t move. i really want to because i hate it so much & i just want to leave that school straight away like now.. how can i convince her to let me move? (link)
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why do you hate it?/do you really think a new school will be better? Ask your mom why she wants you there. Is it becasue you have more opportunitites?/ if this school is casuing you so much distress that you cannot learn..then you have to presetn a case for your mom. If you are calm and presetn your points in a logical way..she may re-consider..but...the new shcool could have a whole new set of problems for you...
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my son age 9 has had knee pain,where he can not straighten leg for 4 to 5 days.first it was down the front of his leg and muscle at back as well as his knee.now it is under his knee cap. he cant walk properly and it is constantly there.can anyone help me with what might be the cause.he says he hasnt banged it or hurt it.he does suffer from growing pains.should his knee still be hurting after 4 days where he cannot walk prop. (link)
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go to a soctor..so manyt athletes have problems later on with thier knees u due to un treated injuiries...please take him to a doctor!!
Take him back...hi knee may or may not be due to a brain trauma...but it needs to be x-rayed
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I worry for my fiance because she has reumatoid arthritis, which is very rare for someone her age. Well anyways the medicine they put her on always makes her feel horrible so she doesn't take it and deals with the pain. I'm just worried about the long term effects. I've talked to her about not taking it but she avoids the question. She's sick of seeing doctors so she won't get a second opinion on medicine. How can I help her? (link)
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I would check out thier website..and see if some other things can help her. She has to get a second opinion from another doctor....each meds is different...so find the website..and start on some alternative options for her. Good Luck
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hi ive had this horrible sore throat for like 6 days. ive tried everything and nothing seems to work. ive stayed home 4 days from school and am really far behind. what is there to do ive watched like every movie and slept but i get so tired, how do i cure this and what can i do while im sick (link)
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ok..get to a doctor..you need some penicillium or amoxicillium..could be that it may be your tonsils too..ok..get ot a docotr or a clininc...now...will not get better on it's own.
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sry if its long but i really need help..
Ok..heres my problem..my mom or dad dont trust me..they wont let me go out..they think im always lien where i am when i do go out..they have no trust twords me wut so ever..like yesterday i wnt to chill with my friends and i told my mom i was going to the day b4 that..but then she calles me up and seys u better get home now..im like well ill b home soon..so i came home and she was like ur grounded 4 goin out with out telling me..then i was like yeah well i told u so i wnt in the kitchen and sed that i was hungry my dad came screaming in the kitchen saying that i better eat and he through me on the table and slapped me..then i ran up stairs..i mean wut is rong with my parents..and they always treat me like shit..and my mom always treats my nephew better and when ever he does some thing rong i get blamed..i just dont know what to do ne more..
plz help me..
ps..me and my parents fite all the time.. (link)
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first of all if your parents are hitting you..you need to get help.
If you are going against their rules..yes you will fight all the time.
curfew is just that..the LATEST time you can be in.
Tow the line..do what they ask..the fights are just not worth the rebellion.
I feel for you..sounds like your paresnt have major anger issues and they need some therapy...until the do..if ever...you just have to lay low.
I am so sorry for you.
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This is a pretty long question, but you can look at the last paragraph which basically is the question. The rest is background information.
When I was 15, I was diagnosed with Anorexia Nervosa and had to go to a rehabilitation centre to recover. When I entered rehab, I was 30 kg (Around 67 pounds). When I left, I was 45 kg (Around 99 pounds), which I maintained as my weight for 2 years.
Now, I try to take care of my body more. I've always been pretty fit since I've been taking dance lessons since I was 4 and yoga since I was 11. I recently took up pilates and joined my school track team. And lost 3 kg (Around 7 pounds).
My mum is now convinced I am still anorexic and is going to send me back to rehab after I turn 17. I don't want to go back, but my mother won't believe it when I said I wasn't anorexic. She refuses to reason or even listen.
I have tried to eat more to prove her wrong, but she just believes I am binging (eating large amounts of food now and starving myself later), which is completely false.
I also have a therapist who notes what I eat daily, which I think is pretty extreme. And, basically, all she does it force me to eat more and more.
I'm scared I actually will gain weight to the point where I resort back to anorexia, which I do not want to happen. Please help to make my mum see I am not anorexic without giving up the physical programs I love or stuffing myself silly! (link)
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you lost 7 pounds..and you cannot understand why your mother freaked...you were in a rehab..for losing weight..ok...if you are doing more exercise..you should be putting on weihgt as you are putting on muscle.
Several members of my family have had this disease as well as friends...
as long as you lose weight..you are not getting better.
See you are replacing food with exercise..which is also addictive.
People die from this..do you want to die??Keep losing weight and it will be a certainty.
Limit your execise..gain back that 7 poounds and your parents will back off...
You dont need to stuff yourself silly but exercisng 2 - 3 times a week is plenty..
But to me..i would find out why i must either starve myself or exercise myself to death....that is the real issue..and until you solve that problem...well..you will never have a normal life.
I am sorry to be so mean..but after watching PEOPLE die from this...well...you can only hope that no more..will
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usual story, im a freshman in high school, girl i like, she is a friend, i really like her, we went out before, but she broke it up, i like her and she likes me, just as pathetic as this is, ive never made out with a girl, hell the only time ive ever gone out with one was with her, i really do like her, just i admit, i dont know how to kiss, and i dont want to go out with her again, being afraid to kiss, so far, i can probably go out with like 5 other girls, one is hotter than her and everything, just i dont know, i like her alot. any ideas on what to do? because ive been in this situation for a LONG time, ever since about 3 weeks before school started, please anone answer because this sitiation really SUCKS (link)
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ok..if you asked her out again..what would she say..no..if so..date the hot girl..make out wiht her..get some experience..and then i am betting that girl..will want to date you.
Sometimes a little jealousy will ehlp a girl..find her real feelings..if not..hey you got to have fun with a hot girl..to me..it is a win win situation.
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like a couple weeks ago i thought a lot of girls were hot and i liked 2 poeple but now i dont and i dont relly think those people r hot either and i look for somebody u no like my friends that i thought was got but i dont now i mean i like girl of coures but i just cant find anybody speacil (link)
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of course you are finding different girls hot at different times..you are getting to be an adult..you will find somebody special..just give it some time..see your tastes are going to cahnge throughout your lifetime..the right girl will come along..do not worry on that.
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for some reason people think im bisexual even though im not how can i make them stop because i do tell them if i was it wouldnt matter and then they make fun of me so how do i make this madness stop? (link)
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did something happen to make the gossip start?? Dont react..see when you get upset about it..it makes people want to tease you even more. you know you are not Bi..who the heck cares about what others think..eventually the gosspip will go away.
I wonder who started it though..i would have a serious talk wiht that person..and wonder what they are getting from spreading this stuff.
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