my name is kelly i like sports the mall and the movies i listen to rap and some rock i also love to surf
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I dated a guy for a few months last year. Things moved way to fast and I found out that I really didn’t like who he was, he was lazy and sports obsessed and treated me like a child. The last straw was a very racist comment he made. I broke up with him almost 6 months ago.
The problem is he still calls me, sends me text messages and insists he wants to talk to me for ‘closure’ and to ‘explain himself’ or just to hear the sound of voice agian. I don’t even like the guy, he kinda creeps me out and have no desire to speak to him ever again. Do I owe him this? Or is okay to just keep saying that I don’t want to talk to him and want him to leave me alone?
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if you really think that you do never wnat to talk to him tell him he really needs to leave you alone and that somethings he said to you really hurt
well hope i helped
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14/f -- my friends in I call ourselfs "the crew". Mainly, it's me & my boyfriend, his best friend & his girlfriend [my best friend], and occasionally a few others. We all have open relationships were we tell each other everything. Except we don't tell our b/f&g/fs everything so we kinda share secrets and give advice and such. The other day my bf's best friend [he just happens to be my ex] told me that he still has feelings for me and thinks about me more than his girl. now, he keeps talking to me about this and trying to get me to cheat on my boyfriend with him.. i'm not gonna, but what should i say to him to make him back off?? (link)
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tell him that even though ull went out that you dont have the same feelings for him as he has for you tell him that you just wanna be friends and that the boyfriend that you have now you truley like or love well i hope i helped
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people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do? (link)
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all i can say is that you should never get a friend without being your self around them because they awalys be excpting a lie from you and one day you will get tired of it
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I'm not sure why, but latley I haven't been so happy lately. I mean I'm so sick of being me. I don't like my hair, im not as pretty as Miss popular. I dont dress as great as them and I've been alone alot latley cause none of my friends have been invitin me over anymore. I've been on a no sode low sugar diet and I lost my baby fat (im 13 and i weigh 105 lbs) so im noT like fat or anything but I somehow got off my diet and I just feel soo crappy I havent gotten back on. I hate me right now, what should I do? (link)
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have you been acting like what your saying around your friends that may be why they dont invite you anywhere because your acting so down on your self have a little more confidence in your self who cares if you not the most popular girl or the prettest girl but if you act more happier and not put your self down then people might hangout with you more and you might feel better with your self
well hope i helped
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there is this guy who went to one of the local schools in my town. he is black and really fine.. he moved to tx w/ his mom and now he is back for the summer... i really do like him and he seems like he likes me.. well im sortof in a lil thing w/ this other guy like we dated and then he got sent off and came back and wanted to get back together w/ me but hasnt yet. ok well i love him and am in love w/ him... but now that this other guy is back in town i find my self wondering if i should just break things off with him totally.... but the guy that is back in town for the summer is leaving when school starts again in august.. i tink its possible that i may want to pursue things w/ him though..what do u all think? the 2 guys know each other and may even be cousins--but didtant.... help.... (link)
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so you love two guys but you should ask your self whats the most you would sacerfice for one of them i mean like if you are only going to see one of them only ever summer then can you handel a long distance realstionship or just go with the guy that lives by you but if you have a car and you love the longdistance one more than date him
but i dont know how far he lives away from you or how old you are well i hope i helped
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im 14/f and i have never had a boifriend. i am really outgoing around my friends but whenever i'm around guys i get shy especially around guys i like. and it seems like all the guys at my school only like the sluts and nobody else.. what are some ways to get to be better friends with more guys and how to not be shy around them? thanks. (link)
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i used to shy around guys because i thought i was this ugly girl that no one liked but then my friend told me i was never going to get a boyfriend like that so she told me even if you dont know if the guy likes you or not what do you have to loose to drop some hints if you like him and also just be more realxed around guys they will like that better
well i hope i helped
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weird question i know. my best friend is moving soon, and i sent her a text telling her i was gonna miss her and a bunch of other friend stuff like that. everything i said i meant in a friend way but she took it the wrong way. someone read her fone and saw the texts and thought the same thing. now every one of my friends thinks i like her. and other people i dont even know! shes gonna be gone in 3 weeks.. and idk what to do. haha its funny cause i know its not true and that rediculous anyone would think that, but sucks cause no one believes what i say. help =/ (link)
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tell your friend that no matter how much she thinks that you like her more than a friend you dont its just that you consider as a best friend and will miss her and tell her if you were gay you would tell her up front
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i have a bf of 2 weeks..for the 1st week we talked all the time on the phone and stuff but then we just stopped..we talk ocasionaly on the computer and stuff but not alot like most couples..i still like him but going out with him isnt as great as i imagained..he always seemes irrated by me and i dunno if thats just his guy tone..i dunno if i should break up with him and see what else is out there..im just scared b.c i love the idea of having a bf and dunno if ill find some else
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ok look ask him (if he is getting annoyed by you because it seems that way) ask him (if he still likes you any more as a girlfried)
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thers this gy who lives next door ive seen him twice weve made eye contact once and i don't no him and i feel like im in love with him? how do i meet him without sounding like a complete idiot? what do i say? pleeze help me ill rate high.
he lives next door and im becomeing obssesed with watching for him to pull up in his car and hes skatebordes.
thanks so much 8 )
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ok look while hes skatebording go out side ant tell him that hes a great skateborder and that you could never do it that good then ask him if he could show you or teach you a trick or two
well i hoped i helped
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well im 13 and my sister is 15 but for some reason, evertime a guy likes her or she goes out with someone, i get really pissed off and scare the guy away. ( I even gave a guy a black eye) I know that shes gonna go out with guys, but i dont want anybody to hurt her or take advantage of her. last summer, we went to the same summer camp, and a guy liked her and thats where i punched a kid. we tell each other everything so she knows about the gfs ive had (only 2) and she didnt like my gfs either. should i give a guy a chance, and am i being too overprotective? (link)
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ok look you love your sister but sometimes you have to let her go out on a date i mean its ok if she gets her heart broken sometimes i mean that normal but if you have a bad feeling about one of her boyfriends than you should talk to her and tell that you do not like her current boyfriend
i hoped i helped
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my mom wont let me get a small dog that i can take care of. so i've decided to put in a guilt trip trap. so does anyone have any ideas? It's about me getting a small dog and my mom not letting me. Also, how could i prove to her that I'm responsible to take care of this dog? oh its a dog not a puppy. (link)
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ok look every time you pass your mom be like (im bored i wish i had a puppy to play with oh wait i forget you wont let me get one i guess i will be lonley for the rest of my life)
and show your mom that you can take care of a puppy by doing extra things around the house and some yard work get some puppy books and lay them out so your mom can see
well i hope i helped you
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Ok well i ive been in a relationship for about 2 months now with one guy and things are getting kinda boring and well his friend i really really like him he is just funny and pretty cute hes not bad at all and well.. I dont know what i should do i dont even know if I might be cheating on him I think I am like ive kinda been talking to his friend alot and flirtin with him so what should i do dump my boyfriedn go out with his friend
or w8 a while im so confused help!!!
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ok if you really think you like his friend better than you should tell your bf that you think you think that theres not that connection between you two anymore and that you like his friend and you would like to be just friends
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