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I have a ten-year old sister and she has a bf. One day i caught them making out. I didn't make much of it. When I came back she was sucking his penis. I don't want my sister to be a sex addict but how do i confront her about this? (link)
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OMG!! YOU TELL HER! shes only 10 for GODS sake!! Where in the world did she know how to do that??? I think some1 needs to be in control here, and its not her! What is a 10 year old doing having a bf? Thats unheard of. If your parents arent goin to be parents in her life, then you need to step in!!! She needs to know that is totally unacceptable behavior, and steer her in the right direction!! She should be playing w/barbie dolls not w/penis'!!!!
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I realize that this is a question asked millions of times per day and that I normally skip over questions like these. Please don't do that here. There's this guy in one of my classes, and I like him. Since the beginning of the year, he's been emphasising the traits that we have in common. For example, I am an unuually loud and outgoing person. He has become loud and seems really confident. Plus he has style and is so cute. He's funny and makes me smile. Lately, he's been walking 1/2way to my next class with me and today his arm was around me for like a long time. I haven't really had any experience with guys, but I am in high school, and so is he. Do you think that he's being friendly, or that he likes me? Thanks for not disregarding this question, and I will rate well for genuine advice! (link)
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It seems like he likes you. I would just let things go on as they are and see if anything more develops.
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ok i am 14/f and i really like this guy!! but he likes one of my best friends!!and she is always braging about it and she knows i like him and she says she dosent like him like that!! but i dont know what to do!! please help ill rate 5's for good answers!!! (link)
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Stop letting your "best friend" know you like him! Shes just trying to get to you by rubbing it in. "ha, YOU like him, but HE likes me! not a very nice friend you have there. The best thing you can do is to just play it cool. You cant make some1 like you! If it happens, it happens!
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AHHHH..okay im really confused right now and i just need a little help..so i have known this guy for a while, and we both like eachother, we told this to eachother on the phone one night..but anyway, we started hanging out together all the time, and he would say that he liked me a lot, and he would hold my hand, and then school started, and we still hung out on the weekends, and at school he would hug me and crap.. but now, i feel like we are becoming distant, we arnt hanging out as much anymore, and he dosnt make an aqauiantence that much any more...AHHH..im so confused..lol..is he just being a typical guy or what?
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Hes being a typical guy. He obviously doesnt feel that way anymore, and thats just his way of letting you know. If things dont change, youll know the answer to your question.
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I really like this guy.. but see he has a girlfriend. I know he doesnt like me, but I want him too! lol, well duh. But how can I get him to like me?! See, my name is Acasia and he calls me Asia. Well today it rained, and I was writing my name with my finger on the window, and he said "acasia" and I was like yeah? and He goes "your name is so pretty" I was like really? and he goes "yeah it is" See, hes SOO sweet! What can I do to for him to notice me? I mean he cuddles with all these other girls.. so I dont see how it wouldnt be a problem for me to flirt with him a little.
Sorry its so long!!
IF you give me good answers I will give you a 5!
1 for no good answers. (link)
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Well this isnt what you wanna hear: The truth of the matter is, he already has a gf! He sounds like he likes girls' attention. You cant fall for every guy that says your name is pretty. It doesnt mean anything. Why would you want a guy that cuddles w/"all these other girls"? There are alot of sweet guys out there!!
You dont want a player. Find some1 who will give you all HIS attention, not every other girl out there. So youre thinking that if you flirt with him, youll get him? or notice you? Just be yourself!! Stop trying so hard. If you have to change or try to impress him to even get him to notice you or pay any kind of attention to you, then he wouldnt be worth the time!!
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I just got my hair cut only an inch and now my dad is like " I dont think you have the right to get it cut!" Its really cute too but what do you think I should do? (link)
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ok its all did and done now, so what can you do?
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how is it possible to have your period while pregnant? is it even possible at all? (link)
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its really not your period. sometimes women can spot during their pregnancy. If it really is a concern, dont hesitate to call your doctor, to put your mind at ease.
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ok so last night i went to my boyfriends house and he fingered me and yeah...when i got home i noticed that there was blood down there, and i know it wasnt my period because that was last week...and the blood seemed to be coming from around the opening, not from in me...my question...what might've happened? like did he just stretch me out alot and something tore? or was it my hymen (he went in really far a few times, to a point where it kinda hurt a little and i had to tell him to be gentle) and also it kinda burns down there now when i go to the bathroom...any ideas on what happened?
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i dont think he broke your hymen. Maybe you werent wet enough for him to be doin that. He didnt sound like he was too gentle on you though.
He probably over did it a bit. Itll go away in a day or so. Let him know to be more careful next time.
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I like this guy *dylan* and he used to (at least it seemed like it,) flirted with me last year and im at a different school this yr, and he keeps giving me the wrong email address, and my friend keeps telling him he better give me the right one and blah blah blah!! i don't know wut to do!!!!!!!!! please help!!!! :(
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Dont waste your time on him!
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my boobs are just so big.. they just dont fit in my a cup anymore.. my bras too big.. what do i do.. (link)
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ok your contradicting yourself. 1st you say your boobs are so big, then you say they dont fit your A cup anymore..then go on to say your bras too big!! I dont understand what you are trying to say. If youve outgrown an A cup, then you need to go up to a B cup. B cups are not that big. Thats average. Now D cups are big!!!
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I love my boyfriend so much but he is always grounded And the only time I get to see him is at school and we live in the same naiborhood too. so its so gay He gets grounded for stupid resoms to (because his step dad is a dick) We the thing is, i want to break up with him because I never get to see him we dont have any classes together or anything. but the problem is I dont know how and I would like to be friends with him after words. how can I break up with him and stay friends
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Tell him that you know its not his fault that hes getting grounded all the time, but it just makes you feel bad and really uncomfortable. Tell him you think its best if you just go on as "friends". That being bf/gf just isnt working out anymore. Say youre really sorry and you really want to stay friends w/him, and that youre here if ever he needs you.
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i know this is the dumbest question ever. but my and my boyfreind are going on being together a month. do we celebrate by the date (it was september 16th btw, which will be four weeks on tuesday) or do we celebrate it by the day of hte week? i have no idea wether i should do somehting for him on tuesday, or wait until the 16th? (link)
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Every 16th, of every month!!
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14/f ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few weeks now. But i am starting not to like him as much as i did before we started going out. OK i still like him but i think we should see different people. i wanna go out with someone else. Im not sure exactly how to tell him that i just wanna see different people. I mean were really close and all. But after i dump him i still want us to be friends and still have that open communication u kno. Like i wanna still be there for him and stuff.. (hes in a foster home) and he says that im the only one he can say i love you to because he doesn't have a family really. So i would feel bad dumping him. I just dont kno how to dump him without breaking his heart and i still wanna have the open communication thing. Please someone help me out i rate 5s for good answers! (link)
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Theres no easy way of dumping some1. Just be open and honest w/him, hes gonna be hurt. Guys have this ego thing, they dont like rejection. Most guys after being dumped, dont want anything do to w/the girl anymore. If he does stay friends w/u, then hes 1 friend you will have for a long time. Let him know that youll always be there if he needs you!
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I was having dinner at a friend's house, and some other peole were thare, and we started talking about the dinner before the homecoming dance.
My friend invited a guy to dinner with her, her date, and her friends and family.
Then she suggested that I go as his date, but I said I didn't want to go even though I did. When me and her were talking about this, that guy pretended that he wasn't listening.
Then later on when someone asked him why he wasn't going to dinner with me, he said, "She didn't want to go."
Does that mean that he would have wanted to go with me? And that he likes me? Or was he just saying that?
(by the way, I'm a freshman and he's a junior.)
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Why would you tell her you didnt want to go? He probably would have gone with you. As far as liking you, guess you wont find out now will you??
Maybe if its not too late, you could have a change of heart!
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I truely like this kid so much. I've known him for 4 years, and he knows I like him and such. Actually, last year in 7th grade, he asked me out. He was smiling although he said he was serious, but I said no because I figured that he was joking (he's that type of person). Than after he asked me out, he started doing weird stuff to me, and requesting I do things to him. For instance I would usually help him with his French homework, and he would ask that I sit on his lap. He would always hold my hand, try to kiss me, etc. Then he started to get worse, like ask me to have sex with him, flash him, go over to his house and in his room...
This year, he acts as none if it happened. He won't mention the slightest thing to me. That doesn't exactly bother me but it's weird. I still like him and it's not that he acknowlages me (because we're still best friends), but he doesn't like me this year like that.
I just wanted to know if anyone here thought that maybe he took advantage of me. Please help (easy 5's)
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Well ou never mentioned if you did all the things he asked you to do. If you did; yes he did take advantage of you. Move on hun, he doesnt sound like some1 id give my time to again!
Respectful guys dont use girls!!
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ok well tomorrow it is going to be 72 degress and i was wondering if i should bring a jackety with me to go to the mall.. i am walking to it and back. at night it is supposed to be 52 except i will be home by 6 pm. any advice. o and i am going to wear black pnats and a pinkish orangish t-shirt (link)
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this is a joke right? Hunny> you are never gonna make it through life if you have to ask advice on whether to wear a jacket or not, and telling us what youll be wearing will help in the decision process right?
Im sorry for the sarcasim, but seriously!!!
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I am going out with this boy and we really "love" each other, but he is really shy. He can barely hug me without laughing. He is really cute and sweet, but feel guilty because his friends make fun of him. I don't know what to do, i want to kiss him on the cheek on monday, i know that he would be cool with it, but then his friends would never let him down for it. What should I do? I feel soooo stupid. (link)
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Ok for 1 thing> how old are you? Sounds like youre both young if he has friends that make fun of him. He laughs when you hug? Thats not love!!
Thats immature. Sure why not kiss him on the cheek, embarass him even more. Why are you trying to push things so fast?
Just hang out and have fun!!
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Theres this guy and i really like him but i dont know if he likes me a couple of months ago we made out and hooked up like a month later it happend again.. he was a major player but for some reason i think he actually likes me now hes got a girlfriend and she is sorta my friend he purposely kisses her in front of me and touches her and all that stuff. I dont know if he likes her or not but hes been going out with her for like 4 weeks and he hasnt cheated on her yet and thats not usual with him.What should i do? (link)
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Guys dont have to like a girl in order to make out w/them. If he actually "likes" you, then why isnt he w/you? im sorry to say, but its girls like you that make guys like him "players"!!! Why would any1 want a cheater? Its not a tough decision. You just answered all of your questions urself!
Hes kissing and touching her in front of you so you can see that he likes her and wants to be w/her! Just dont give him anymore opportunities to "use" you, bcause you will get hurt! Stay away from guys like that. There are alot of guys out there, that wont take advantage of girls!!
You just have to be patient! Stay clear of guys who have gfs!!!
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ok well there's this guy...and i think i might like him! well... i used to really hate him, but i barely knew him...and now that i know him really well, we're really good friends- and hes so cute! he has a girlfriend who is in high school now (we are 8th graders) but he flirts with me a lot, he pretends to ask me out in a kidding way and he like tells me i'm hot, he actually flirts with a lot of girls though, especially one of my best friends, but i totally like him! another thing is that he used to go out with another one of my friends, who i am kind of making up. she really hates him now, though,and this is just so weird. I don't know what I should do! i like this guy sooo much! please help me! i rate ♥ (link)
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Think about why your friend hates him now. Youre seeing the whole picture, but youre choosing to ignore it. He cant stick to just 1 girl. He flirts w/alot of girls because they give him the attention back, which is feeding his big ego!
Dont fall for his lines, or he"ll be reeling you in, and youre gonna end up getting hurt. After awhile the guys gonna run out of options, because girls are gonna wise up to him. If he respected his "gfs" he wouldnt be flirting w/every other girl out there!!! Youre young yet, dont fall for the guy just because youre 1 of the many that he chose to play with, or because hes "cute." Dont always go for looks. Get to know the real person from the inside, because thats what really counts!!!
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Okay well my boyfriend and I have done it all... when it comes to him giving me oral sex sometimes he has to quit because it gets nasty for him. I've noticed its been smelling a lot. He usually doesnt care but it's been like the past month he'll quit and gag, and not even joke about it. He's totally serious with this whole thing. But every time he goes to finger me or eat me out i get discouraged because i feel like he thinks he has to. ANYWAYS...
is there an OTC or anything that'll make me quit smelling. BTW I do wash regualarly. (link)
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Theres the moist towelettes that are in the toilet paper isle. They have a nice scent, and it wouldnt hurt to carry a few w/you. Just an idea.
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