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shy?
I am going out with this boy and we really "love" each other, but he is really shy. He can barely hug me without laughing. He is really cute and sweet, but feel guilty because his friends make fun of him. I don't know what to do, i want to kiss him on the cheek on monday, i know that he would be cool with it, but then his friends would never let him down for it. What should I do? I feel soooo stupid.
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Lol, his friends are jealous. Don't worry about what they say, it's cute that you guys care about each other. Don't let stupid boys get in your way!!
♥ Melissa
Editttt; Awww I'm glad that things are starting to get more open with you guys! Hopefully you guys have a great relationship! (=
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dear mrs. shy,
wat you should do is talk to him say if your friends cant handle that your going out or love each other then i cant possibly go out with you or be in love with you untill you tell your friends to f*ck off his life is his life let him do wat he wants to do because i know i got to sparkman high school in alabama my gf is the same way andim the same way as your friend so dont feel like your the only one so hope i helped sincerly goodguy132
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Take it slow if his friends are immature and he's shy. If he's that shy and embaressed to even hug you, then in my opinion, he's not exactly ready for affection in a relationship, and that's okay. You can just hang out and still be in a relationship, because hugs and kisses come after you trust eachother and can be comfortable around everyone. If he's only being shy because of his friends, the next time they talk to you, tell them to shove it.
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Hi There,
It's a shame this guy found it so difficult to relax when he met you. He was probably wishing he could send you a text during the date. That way you could read what was on his mind and he wouldn't have felt so shy trying to tell you in person.
Clearly he finds it tough to establish the same kind of connection face-to-face that you've got. He obviously likes you, but be aware that it's also very easy to open up when your whole relationship is based on text alone.
This can make things feel a bit weird when you actually meet - as if you have an intimate knowledge of a complete stranger - and in some ways you have to get to know each other all over again.
So why not use your one channel of communication available to suggest a fresh start? Stress that when you meet you're both bound to feel a bit awkward, but that things will get easier as you learn to relax in each other's company. That way he'll know you're not expecting too much from him to begin with, which will free you both up to find the right words for real.
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Ok for 1 thing> how old are you? Sounds like youre both young if he has friends that make fun of him. He laughs when you hug? Thats not love!!
Thats immature. Sure why not kiss him on the cheek, embarass him even more. Why are you trying to push things so fast?
Just hang out and have fun!!
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