I'm a fourteen year old girl looking to help you people out. Leave me questions and i can try my best to answer them.
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Ok, i'm not into that whole bf/gf thing, so unless you really like me or something weird like that, don't ask me those stupid does he like me questions. i can almost garentee you're not going to like your answer.
i'm a little crazy, but for the most part, i'm not going to screw with you guys like with jokes when it comes to advice.
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i dunno how to put this but has anybody seen the season finale of newlyweds? well if you have do you know the song title & artist of the song they play at the very last part of the show when they are looking back at all the moments with nick & jess? i think it goes something like "out of my heart, into your hands" but i'm not sure! thanks! (link)
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bbmac's "out of my heart, into your hands" i do believe
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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her? (link)
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i have friends JUST like that
tell her your an atheist or that you don't believe in the bible or something that fits your belief and tell her you don't want to talk about god with her because your afraid of offending her.
she has no right to be trying to get you to convert or "see the light" because thats all crap. you need to do what you think is right for you.
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okay.. I really like this one guy.. and hes not only jus a guy but hes like my best friend too.. and he has a girlfriend right now and no1 knows that i like him.. i kept it inside myself for a while and im afraid to let him know how i feel becauz i dont kno how he's gunna react.. its not only that but he lost his virginity to me too so its kinda weird.. what do i do??????? (link)
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if you had sex with him, you should tell him you like him. if you had sex with him, he should not be dating another girl. so tell him you like him.
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ok...i went to my friends house and i went out with her cousin and then we broke up in like april right ... but on saturday he started holdin my hand (just me and him in a room...door closed) and rubbin my boob and then we were watchin a movie and we were cuddling and he kissed the side of my lip and part of my cheek and then like a minute later we were makin out and the problem is im goin out wit his cousin and they're rly good friends... so i dont wanna tell my boyfriend that i kissed his cousin b4 me and him hav even kissed...and do you think he'll kno that he was my first kiss?...and i cant tell my friend cuz then i wont be able to spend the night again if every1 knows we made out!!
sry sooo long but PLEASE HELP!!
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break up with your boyfriend or tell him the truth. basically, those are the choices that are fair to you and your bf.
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Hey everyone! I have a problem. There's this guy I like, and i like him alot. Last year we were in all the same classes, but this year we're not in any together. How do I get him to not forget about me? Thanks for your help! (link)
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get his sn, try and get your locker near his, flirt, sit with him at lunch, because "none of the other tables are open" and stuff like that.
good luck.
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Okay, please Mods PLEASE do not delete this as I'm REALLY concerned!
Well, this girl at my school, she's not my friend or anything I don't know her that good, but she's pregnant. And, she's only 12. We're in 7th grade and all that, and she's expecting TWINS, she should get an abortion and all that but she wants to go through with it. At least that's what I heard, (I hear a lot of gossip. -__-;) Well, anyway, she also smokes and drinks, and she has purple hair and a ton of piercings, and I'm afraid if she goes through with it, her body won't be ready with all those drugs, and she's so young, and she might die...
She's got a pretty bad life, and nobody really likes her, but I still worry about these kind of things...and well, I'm not quite sure what to say to her to try to convince her not to do it. Can anyone give me ideas?
Sorry this was so long. =\
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ok, she might not want to go through it because of her faith, but by the way you talk about her, i don't think thats the case.
see its really her choice. tell her you care, and that you think she needs help. tell her you think she might be in danger and stuff. tell her it wouldn't be fair to her children if they were born and that the state would probably take her kids away anyway.
hope i helped.
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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!! (link)
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5 lb tops. i do the same thing (ish but not well) and i haven't lost that much weight. it takes more than 2 weeks to be effective.
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I was wondering if when you get your period you will actually start getting bigger breasts REALLY fast. I mean, some of my friends have had their period but they don't really have any breasts, yet others grew some really fast. And one of my other friends has really big breasts but she hasn't got her period. It's all so confusing. And it's terrible for me because I'm 5'7" , 13 years old, and I basically have no boobs. Also, when do you know when you're getting your period soon? I have already been getting discharge and like 3-5 months ago I started getting underarm hair. About how long do you think it will be before I get my period? THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR HELPING! I know it's a lot, but please try to answer! Thanks! !!I RATE!! (link)
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no, i got mine before i got my period. its weight and stuff that gives you boobs. if you don't have boobs, its because your skinny.
not to mention, all girls think they have small boobs and stuff.
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Ok there's this one teacher at my school that i absoultly hate. She's my Spanish teacher and she's always talking about sex or naked people.. and sometimes it makes me really mad that she can't keep the conversation on Spanish so I get in huge arguments with her.. which is actually kind of funny =c). Anyway, I wanted to get back at her for all the times she's talked about non Spanish related stuff, and my friend and I were thinking about emailing her porn or other such stuff just for the heck of it. Does anybody have any good ideas to do to her or any comments? I'd appreciate all the help! **I rate specially for friendly people =c)**
Love, RacheL
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that might not be a great idea, but i love it.
ok, so first make a new email address with all fake registration on like a library computer so you don't get caught. then mail her the porn and stuff.
talk about sex all the time in her class, and spread a rumor (annoyminessly) that she highers male hookers or something. good luck!
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ok i dont want to seem like a player but i really love my boyfriend but im also in love with his best friend and to admit it i like his friend a little more then i like my bf.. but me and my boyfrind have been going for like 7 months.. and i dont no what to do! his friend likes me a lot too and i need some help badly! please help! thanks x3 (link)
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break up, take a break, then date his best friend.
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well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :( (link)
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your not mentle. you might have an over active nervous system or something like that. you might even have a perfection problem. or you could just be really shy.
take everything simply ONE step at a time. tell yourself (but be nice) that you're being unreasonable and that everything is going to be fine.
also, write stories about your fears. i know it sounds wicked bogas, but its a great way to start a book, and who knows, you might become America's next great writer. :-D hope i helped.
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Where are some cheap places to find a homecoming dress? I'm basically just looking for a black one, nothing too formal. (link)
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Macy's rocks!
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HELP!! A few summers ago I grew a few inches and gained a significant amount of weight, and now I have so many stretch marks, and they're making me SO Self concious!! My boyfriend of 6 months always wants to run his hands up my shirt to tickle me, and I always make him stop and blame it on tickeling.. but it's really I just don't want him to see my stretch marks!! They're on the front of my stomache, my sides, even on the sides of my breasts.. and I don't know what to do to get rid of them. I've read about them and they're caused from the lack of cologen or something like that, when your skin stretches, so it makes the marks. Does anyone have any home remedies or products that work efficiantly and aren't that expensive??? PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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well i don't know anything to get rid of them, but for yur bf, you can always dim the lights low and then let him tickle you, or wear a sweatshirt so he can't see.
you can always use like a base or cover up for a quick fix.
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Just wondering, what is the best brand of contacts and can you use them underwater? (like diving into 12 ft) (link)
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none, use a pair of googles. thats really all you can do. then you can use any contacts you want. or don't wear them when you dive. if you mean scubba diving, then a mask will work fine.
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okay well i have a friend i never see only like once and my new best friend is in my class and all the time online my friend who i never see always says your ditching me. im like no im not! but she still says it. and its really annoying how do i get her to stop (link)
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be more social with her, and spend more time with her. then if she still says your ditching her she's sicotic.
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I have a friend and me and her have been friends sense 4th grade we're in the 8th now , but lately she has been thinking that every single one of her exboyfriends likes me. I keep telling her that its not true, but she still thinks it. I dont want her mad at me over something like this. Its not like I like them back is what I tell her. What should I do? (link)
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tell her if they do, its not your fault, and you don't plan on dating any of them. tell her that you care about her way to much to date any of her exbfs.
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okay see my boyfriend lives in georgia and i live in new jersey he so far away... im 13 and he turning15 ... we like each other so much but no one really aproves since we met on the computer and he lives in georgia .. we wanna meet but its a lil hassle ... wat should i do... should i stay with him and meet him or wat? (link)
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hmm, well i dunno if thats the safest thing to do. like seriously, how many girls do you hear about that get raped by some losers they met online. and of course you've probably talked on the phone and stuff, blah blah blah, but that doesn't really mean anything, because that could be a phoney vocie, and he could be like 40 years old or something.
but if your ABSOLUTELY certain he's who he says he is, then maintain the relationship you have, and make him come to you. and go with someone.
hope i helped . . .
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Okay, this might sound stupid but here it goes: My friend is obsessed with the fact that I have a lot in common with her boyfriend. Whenever she brings up the subject, she'll call him and ask both of us what things we like, and if we say the same thing she'll scream and say that we're going to fall "madly in love." I've told her hundreds of times that he's going out with HER, and he obviously LIKES her! I've spoken to her b/f once, and I don't like him that way, but she's obsessing that he's going to break up with her for me.. whom he's never even met. She's mad that she has NOTHING in common with this guy, and that I do, and I don't want to lose her as a friend.. and she won't listen to anything I say!
Sorry for the long post, but any ideas on what I should do? (link)
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tell her you think she's being stupid. or tell her that you two have so much in common cuz she likes people that are like you two or something like that.
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I went to camp as a counselor.. for about 5 days and I liked a boy there last year.. but this year when I went I had a boyfriend which things weren't going to great for us.. so I ended up dumping him.. Over the 5 days at camp the guy I liked was like flirting with me grabbing my hips and just being incredibly sweet.. now that i'm home from camp we have been talking on the internet.. and he says he wants to see me and asks me if I want a new boyfriend and stuff like that.. I really want to see him and miss him like crazy.. but sometimes I get mixed feeling from him.. should I just come out and ask him if he likes me?? (link)
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yep. no harm in knowing eh? but it seems pretty obvious that he does. i'd be surprised if he didn't actually. and by the sound of it, i think you like him too . . .
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yes, i know this is wierd subject but belive me by the time i explain this, if your a girl at least, you can see why i'm pissed. My best friend just so happens to be one of the girls with, well, big breasts. Well i'm starting to "catch up" to her, and every tiem i tell her my size she laughs and says with sarcasm and disbelief in her voice, "thats not your size, that's almost MY size!" And for some reason alot of times we'll get in a conversation, and she'll bring up her boobs! it's so annoying how do i show her that what she's saying is really bitchy w/o her freaking out because belive me this girl is a huge drama queen (link)
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maybe she thinks you have bigger boobs then she does. if thats not true, stuff your bra hugely before you see her again. that'll show her.
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