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Q: OK, my guy friend for many years has a friend. I hung out with them the other day and I think I'm falling for his friend. He is totally hott, nice, funny, and i feel like i could talk to him forever!! I barely know him so I'm probly getting ahead of myself but I'm crazy about him. I dont know what to do!! He goes to another school also. I have his sn but I've never talked to him before. We werent really flirting that night we hung out so I have no idea how he feels. I also know that he used to go out with this other girl at MY school so I know he dates outside of his own school... but then again he broke up with her so maybe the distance between schools is too hard for him?? I dont know I need advise desperately!!!!!
x0x0 --- Head*over*heals
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Well im not really sure on what to say about that but to give it a shot. Make the first move or throw some hints out that you like him. Maybe hell pick them up and finally ask you out. He could just have a crush on you but be to shy to ask. The worst he will say to you is he doesnt like you. But good luck on your decisions that you make and always follow your heart. Hope iv helped dont be afraid to write back.
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Q: hey i know this is kinda low but i like this boy but i really dont like his looks i know i shouldnt even care about that but when i see him in person i run or dont look at him i mean he is so sweet and would probly be a great boyfriend to me but i just couldnt really see me going out places with him plus my boyfriend now hates him i mean they almost got into a fight but i mean i talk to him online and everything but in person its a whole different story and i mean i dont know how to deal with this and i mean my friends dont like him they all think hes just a hard ass that is all talk i really need some advice what do you think i should do? .. katie :(
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Ok first off if you really like him then go with your instinct and go with him. Dont bother what your friends or any one thinks. Once you get dating him and get to know his real inner beauty it wont matter anymore. If you were a true friend to him you wouldnt let your friends talk bad about him in the first place. And if they were your true friends and you went out with them they shouldnt care and just be happy for you. He may not have outter beauty but he may have inner beauty. Give it a shot and good luck! hope iv helped and dont be afraid to write back. Good luck on any choice you make and follow your heart.
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Q: i want to know if any of you have made your furnature or walls look nice but by doing it youself and within a budget .. also if you had maybe a theme for your room or what you did to it & maybe what it looks like.. please help!!!
- desperate
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I dont have a theme yet but my room is all baby blue and i was gona have gras coming out of the walls. And horses running on the walls and on the ceiling a huge unicorn with pixies and shit around it. Thats what it used to be but it didnt turn into that now my room is the theme of my religion. Wicca i have candles pentagrams and shit on my walls. But good luck! dont be afraid to write bk. Hope iv helped out a little bit.
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Q: hi there well i selpt with this couple and it was good but i feel for the hubby big time and then one day he came over things happend and he didnt tell his wife but when we all frist got together the deal was me and her mean him and all 3 of us well after the time me and her hubby did it things have been strange we dont talk much and that and either does me and his wife i need so advice on what to do let go or not
thanks
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Just let go of him it isnt right to sleep with other peopels husbands anyways. Right there is a fight waiting to happen. If your married spend some time with your husband in stead of other peoples. Good luck hope iv helped and dont be afraid to wrtie back.
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Q: Okay..me and my two friends crack and smack have a band crack played the drums but then he decided he wanted to play the guitar so he got into it. so we found a new guy, sven, that was into the drums so we got him..he didnt even know how to play..he bought a really expensive drumset and that was a while ago and he's still not good. Well anyways we just originally wanted the band to be me, crack and smack. so crack went back to drums..we've had band practice with just us three and sven just doesnt ever bother getting better with the drums. so we hadnt heard from him in forever so we pretty much figured he was out of the band...but just recently he keeps calling up and telling us his thoughts on how OUR band should be doing..and he think hes still in it..what should we tell him????we dont want him in the band!!!
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Tell him straight out that he isnt very good at drums. And were sorry to let you go! but just tell him out straight it will be hard but ull survive. Good luck! hope i helped at least a little dont be afraid to write back.
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Q: Ok me and my girlfriend have been going out for around 8 1/2 months and ya we have a great relationship but never any time to hang out I have soccer and work all the time and she has hockey softball and soccer all the time so when we get to hang out we usually just do the same thing we always used to do we hang out like once a week maybe two if we are lucky but still im running out of places or even things to do so any ideas about what I can do to make things just make her know I love her still even tho im not hanging out with her all the time and places I can bring her .........by they way im 17 and shes 15 and we live in Duluth Minnesota so if that helps any but just any ideas will really help thanks a lot peoples you are all great and my saviors....later
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Well you could go to the movies or take her to dinner. Or if you are despirate cut down some of your thingsto sacrifice to get time with her. Or sometimes ask her what she wants to do thats always a plus. JUst keep telling her that you love her no matter what and im sorry im not much help right now because im fighting with my boy friend as well. But good luck im sorry wasnt much help right now. But dont be afraid to write back and if i wasnt having problems my self i would help more im sorry!
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Q: ok, i have a boyfriend and we've been going out for like 4 in a half months. Towards the end of the year we would like go off and just walk and talk whenever we could. Then i realized i was like ditching my friends and so was he. And next year we're going to be in high school. I know that we could just easily like hang out with each others friends but the only problem is that my friends aren't into the things he and his friends are. i get along with his friends and he does too but its kind of akward when he hangs out with them. WHAT DO I DO??
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Dont spend every waking moment with him make more time for your friends as well. And if you all do hang out do something all of you can do like go to the mall or go to a movie. Sometimes people have to make sacrifices. Hope iv helped good luck! and dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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Q: Well been married to my husband for 2 year's been together for 3 year's and he is getting worse, he work's night shift from 9 p.m.-6a.m. mon-thur and he sleep's all day until it's time for him to go to work and than when it's time for him to be off from work he sleep's all day and stay's up all night he spend's no time with me,i feel like he is my room mate and than he just started stop telling me he love's me and kissing me good bye,but we do still make love he never hold's me, please help i cry all the time,don't know what to do.
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Tell him exactly how you feel instead of having sex. Go out to dinner or to a movie or something get out of the house. Where you can be together more. And tell him on his days off that you feel like your marriage is going down hill and you feel as if hes your room mate instead of your husband. And like when you both are just sitting around the house doing nothing ask him if he wants to do something like go to a movie or something. Just tell him how you feel good luck on what ever! and i hope iv helped a little. Dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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Q: HoW Do U mAkE UrR OwN AdVicE SitE????
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Make a screen name then answer more than 10 questions. Dont be afraid to wrtie bk hope iv helped.
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Short N Punky
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Q: If you cut yourself once...then realize what you've done is stupid..should you seak help?
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No because if you realized it was stupid then your doing just fine. But if you do it again then maybe you should get help. Just remember dont try to kill your self you only live life once and once its over you cant come back!hope iv helped dont be afraid to wrtie back.
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Q: Does anyone out there have any good recepies for someone trying to eat right? I hate the way I look, Ive been told that everyone does, but I cant wear any of my old clothes, and my stomach is an eyesore. My dad buys junk, and it is hard to stay away from, when I need something quick to eat. We are going to buy better stuff, but I need a way to cook it first. Im 13, 5"11, and 180 pounds. Only 5 pounds away from a healthy weight, but it sure doesnt look that way. Jenny Craig didnt help me, but maybe you can!
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Well all you really have to do is watch your carbs. And not so much junk food a little snack here or that isnt bad but all the time is bad. And dont sit and eat a hole bag of chips go out side and excercise run, walk, ride bikes or what ever. But its really all you have to do watch your carbs and not so much junk food and excercise. If you need to know how to cook the stuff look at the labels on the package it will tell you. Hope iv helped a little good luck! dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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Q: We live in a duplex for 2 years now, are landlord is a good friend of ours. Recently he let his daughter move who is 20 years old. Her boyfriend lives there too. Everyday there is someone new moving in there with them. It has turned into a flop house. Up all night banging on the walls, loud music, up all night. Doing drugs on the porch and in the driveway. We told the landlord about this, and he is in denile. He told us if we didn't like the situation, we gotta do what's best, why should we move, I like it here, any suggestions help. Too much riff raff. Can the police do anything? Or is it a lost cause.
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The police can do alot about this case. Tell the police that you have seen this that they are drugs being dealed. And they can watch the house and give them a ticket a fine or even get arrested. You shouldnt have to move if you guys arnt the ones doing anything. Or you could take your neighbors to court for it. And maybe win the case but that costs moocho money. Well im sorry i cant help much but what ever choice good luck! hope iv helped a little. Dont be afraid to write back.
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Q: Hey Yall i have a friend whos name is canidce she is 16 bout to be 17..and..she asked me if i could help her on a guy situation but I dont know what to say. So this is the story..well she likes a guy named Jeff but he has a girlfriend..and she is confused because all these guys like her but she likes Jeff..and just so happenes her ex boyfriend that broke her heart 2 called her yesterday and told her that she was the only one thats made him smile and he asked her how she felt and she said she didnt know..any ideas??
-Hal
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I would tell her to leave Jeff alone. Because scince he has a girl friend that is only going to get her introuble. I would go back w ith the ex boy friend because he likes her and she may liek him. Or try someone new you never know you may start likeing someone else. Well tell her i said Good luck to what ever!
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Q: I have another friend that needs help her name is chrystal and she is 17..she had liked this guy named Ken..since he was in the 7th grade and he graduated in 2002..and he say he think of her as a lil sister..and she dont think of him like that.Her uncle herb told her to keep trying and go after what she wants..and never give up on him..any ideas?
-Hal
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If all he wants to do is be friends that is all she will acomplish on. But dont give up on her dreams. But i guess she could try flurting with him a little bit but dont make it that obvious as to havign him exactly pont out she lieks him still. Do it kind of sneaky like. But what ever choice she makes good luckl on it! hope iv helped dont be afraid to write back.
Short N Punky
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Q: Okay my name is barb(ara)and im despratley in need of help.Last night i kried myself 2 sleep.I ussaly sleep at 11:00.its been one week now im sleepin at 1 a.m.Im soo mad like my mom and dad work even through summer and my dad works on saturdays and sundays soo like im always bymeslef stuck in my house doin nothing but x-box,tv,and computer.And my grandma is very cuatious bcuase she used 2 live in a huge city the 3rd biggest.So she wont even let me in our frontyard.I kno she kares but 2 much!I kant even watch bug juice becuase i hate seeing people hav fun while im not.And my friend kalled from summer camp n shes tottaly having fun i jus hung up on her!Please HELP BEFORE I BECOME TOTTALY SUMMERLESS AND I KRY 2 DEATH!
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Well when your parents get home ask them if you can spend the night at your friends house or go over some time. So your summer isnt as boring now that you have friends to hang out with. Or have friends goto your house. But next sumemr maybe you should sign up for camp or something to. Make plaisn ahead of time. Hope iv helped a little dont be afraid to write back.
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Q: I want to earn money and I'm really smart so I figured I would tutor people since my mom wouldnt let me babysit. Can anyone help me with tips on what I need to get started?
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You could put a add in the paper and put fliers around your town. Or ask your mom to tell some parents she knows about it. But i would do the first choice. Hope iv helped a little dont be afraid to write back.
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Short N Punky
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Q: today i looked at a porn sight out of curiosity and because i had hormones like flying and now i feel guilty about what i did! what do i doi!!!!im not like a cyco pervert it was just this one timme
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Well if it was just that one time dont feel so bad about it. It will pass you feel guilty because it was your first time and most the time only perverts look at them sites. But dont feel bad i know a bunch of guys that look at them sites all the time and are not perverts. If you are a guy its just your hormones raging and wanting to explore new things. Dont be afraid to write back hope iv helped.
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Q: well after seeing my ex yesterday.....today when we were talking he keeps on talkin about other girls and everything and that they are cutter and prettier than me and it really hurts....he keeps on telling me how all the other girls are all over me and it really hurts b/c before i went to see him yesterday, he thought i waz da finnest gurl and sweetest and everything and now everything itz so weird...im so sad...wut do ya think????? am i not good enough for him :(?? he is not that fine but he is okay....
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He might be saying this because he might think you had a bunch of guys after him. And he still likes you but this is his way of telling you. I do it sometimes tell my guys that iv had bunch of guys after him and we did hole bunch of stuff just to get them jealous. He might be doing the same to you. Dont feel bad if he isnt trying to get you jealous then he really is a total jerk. But dont get mad gurl hes doing it because he probably see's it iratates you. Dont be afraid to write bk hope iv helped.
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Q: Hi everybody. I'm a big Weird Al Yankovic fan, but the concert tour for him is already past. Does anyone know the next time its coming to Oklahoma???
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Go to the website if he has one and see his tour schedule!
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Short N Punky
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Q: how far do ya'll think is the best to go in a relationship of 5 months.
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Just stay at kissing and makin out and stuff dont have sex. lmao
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Hey, my name is Kelley, a little bit about my life: Im 24 i have a 4 year old daughter, when i was younger i got into alot of trouble because i felt unwanted and picked on alot in school. As i grew up i got into several bad abusive relationships. Now that i have gotten out of my old life im crawling up from the ashes and making a new life. Im a great listener and i love giving advice, if youd like to give me a shot id try my hardest to give the best advice i can give. The reason some people dont like me is because i tell it how it is i dont sugar code anything and im very opinionated. Id love to listen to your problems and help out that best i can.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: NY Occupation: Full time mom Age: 24 AIM: Yahoo: Member Since: June 19, 2004 Answers: 237 Last Update: May 1, 2014 Visitors: 18073
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