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[I'm honest as it is going to get. If you inbox me a question, I don't take sympathy to stupid questions. If it's a question I seen on the site that I did not answer, I will not answer it in an inbox.]Words of wisdom: Life isn't easy, there will always be road blocks to get in your way.
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I was just wondering if you are supposed to shave your pubic hair?
Like do you only shave it before sex, or do you just shave it all the time!
I need help, haha.
Public hair? as in legs? Shave them when you get stubs, and its noticable.
As in binki down below..everyone is different..some like having the hair there, others not so much. It's all in what you perfer. It's your hair, your body. No one can tell you how and what to shave below in that certain area.
Hoped I helped!
I was babysitting my cousin all last week becouse my cousin died so that my other cousin could go to her brothers funeral and she paid me $20.00 and i tried not to take it but she insisted that i did so i took the money and now i feel guilty what should i do?
Buy her something with the 20 bucks. Tell her if she does that again, you'll keep buying her something till she stops. =]
If she gets mad..then tell her you care and don't want to accept money for something you did, just because you were helping out when you had a death in the family.
i recently got the rockband for wii
i also have guitar hero III for wii and i was wondering if it is possible to use the les paul guitar for guitar hero III for my rock band
can it be used?
Try it and find out?
my sister likes masturbating to girls kissing but shes not a lesbian.
what does this mean?
Bisexual?
ok so im a 15 year old girl and my last period was may 12 and my period b4 that was on April 11 and this month was on the 14 so ive had my period sense i was 11 years old so its about time it gets regular rite? or am i just messed up like should i be put on birth control i heard that helps or something. and does birth control make u gain weight becuase if thats the case then forget it!!! im not having sex or anything so there is deffinately no reason why im all weirded with my period schedule it pisses me off bcause i dont know when its coming its like a stupid surprise!
Hun...periods are irregular. And your schedule doesn't seem messed..it actually seems normal. If you stress about it, it will only come later. So calm down.
What age do you have to be in Massachusetts to get your permit? Then what age is it that you get your actual license?
I've heard that they're changing the driving age, and I'm just confused as to what it is now.
I've already tried Google by the way and I got a couple different ages so I was wondering if anybody knew for sure...
Call your local DMV...like any other person would.
-Hows that being rude...its common sense...instead of asking..and looking it up..call your DMV for answers.
should kindergarten be mandatory? why?
Honestly..this isn't advice..thats more of an opinionated question.
If you have your period is it possible to still be pregnant afterwards. I know i got my period because it came when predicted as usual and was a period lol. I am on the pill but i was just wondering if theres anyway possible. Ive never missed a pill and take it accurately so dont go there. So my specific question is .....you have ur period is there anyway to be preganant even after having your period? Thanks in advance for the advice
Um..no there is no way you can be..if you had sex then had your period.
If you miss your period after sex..then yes.
But if you had sex then had your period..then no..most girls know that already.
a few random ?'s
-is it possible for rin and kagome to be realated?
cause in some episodes it talks about how alike they are and i realized they even look a great deal alike
-why is it seashoumorou takes rin with him?he claims he hates all humans
What on earth? Go to some TV forum, because chances are here, no one will know what on earth your talking about. :-)
When I logged onto AIM yesterday, I realized that all of my options to send files and pictures and junk weren't there. All that's there is a TXT Msg button.
So my friend said it said I was signed on via my phone, but I'm on my computer. So I took out my phone and logged into AIM with it, then signed out. But it still says I'm signed on using a mobile device.
This sucks; what's wrong? Thank you!
go to settings on your buddy list, go to mobile and sign off AIM?
i started puberty when i was 9 and am 17/f now. when would it be okay to have corrective surgery/plastic surgery done on the face to fix my jaw? when do my bones stop growing?
i have the same thing, the doctors will refuse to do anything till you turn 18. that's when you will offically stop growing. i wish you the best of luck!
ok so im 13/f
and i look alot older.
and iv only kissed one guy and it was
only a peck.(like 15 times tho) and im scared to kiss anyother guys
cause im only use to how he kisses and now im scared cause i dont want a guy to think im a freak cause i dont know how to kiss lol.
so my questions are
-how do you make out?
-how do you make out w/o toung.(miss spelled i think)
-how do you get use to the way other guys kiss.
~thank you sooooooooooooo much
-Just tilt your head slightly (making sure your going opposite directions.) and open your mouth slightly as you get closer to the persons lips, and gently slip your tongue in when you touch their lips with yours.
-Making out is kissing with tongue.
-You just have to feel comfortable, we can't tell you how to get use to it. It comes naturally, over time you will notice that.
Don't become so paranoid over it. =]
Hope I helped!
hello im 15 and i was wondernig if you have to call the doctors to make an std opointment or you can turn up, i dont want to tell my parents about this and im lost n do not know what to do
Most doctors you have to call and show your insurance card. The best idea I can give you, is you can go to your local health clinic if you can. Because your 15, I'm sure your parents would most likely find out from your doctor.
Okay, so according to my mother, most girls get about 28 days (four weeks) between periods, and it lasts for about five days.
I get about 20 days (about three weeks) between periods. Is this unusual? Anything to consult my doctor about?
Also, I've been having some serious stomach issues. Sometimes I'm in the bathroom all day, sometimes I'm absolutely positive I'm going to puke (but I never do) and sometimes I'm in great pain.
Any ideas on what's causing this?
Thanks in advance for all the help.
There is no constant pattern. My friend once got it for a month straight. I have gotten it within 20 days once. I was completely shocked. It was out of my general timing. They sometimes come early and sometimes they coem late.
I get the same thing with the stoamch issues. I feel like I'm going to puke, sometimes I do. Sometimes I'm in such pain I can't get out of bed or even more. Where I go home early or I'm home from school.
The pain is pretty much cramps. Just much worse cramps. The best thing is excerise cramps are blood that doesn't move, if you walk around and move your legs you could feel a bit better.
Also, my mom told me that banana's help your period. My mother is an expert at this kinda stuff, but I haven't been able to try it. She only told me 3 months ago.. We always have banana's right before my period comes, they go bad and she throws them out. Then I complain that I have it and we don't have any, then she buys them the day after it ends.. I don't how she is with her timing but anyways, I never tried the banana thing, but chances are it probably works.
If that doesn't work, ask you mom and your doctor if you can go on birth control pills, they are suppose to help reduce cramps and pain when you have your period.
I hope you feel better.
16/f
This kid and I went out for 3 months.
It ended badly.
We go to the same school.
He gave me his favorite hat and a teeshirt.
I was cleaning my room today and I came across both of them.
Should I give them back to him? Or throw them away?
I would give it back, because if you throw it out. He may think you still have it.
Hi,
My best friends moved away last year and when they came to visit for the first time ever I kinda cried whenever they had to leave! I miss them so much! What should I do to get them to come over more and to stop missing them so much?? Thanks!
I had the same reaction.
My best friend moved.
It's kinda weird we were friends for about a month.
Then she had to move back home.
She was only here for 6 months with her dad on business.
She came back that summer.
For 4-5 days it was great.
When she left.
It was like bleh.
But it wasn't an overrall reactional cry.
For some odd reason.
She couldn't come back last summer.
So it's been 2 years since she has been back home to her second home.
She came back this summer.
For again 4-5 days.
The second her dad picked her up and they left for back home.
I cried for about an hour-2 hours.
Crying just shows how much you love that person.
The best thing to do is keep in touch as much as possiable.
With me and my best friend we talk online all the time. We noticed we both go on around the same time every night. So we try to go on around there just for that purpose. Write funny e-mails too. Write letters here and there. Phone calls come outta the blue here and there. We watch the calling because it's outta state and all. We don't want the rents down our throat from the cost in phone bill (lol). Sometimes we'd send random "I miss you" or "I love you. Wish you were here with us" cards to brighten the other one up.
Just keep doing that and you'll be able to see them again sooner then you can realize it.
Don't worry. It will be okay.
For us. We had to beg her dad. It was really up to him. Since he comes here every now and then for business for a few days. If he is willing to let her come and stay with me, while he's working.
It's up to how the cost is and what not. If it's like the other side of the county or the other the side of the state. Then it isn't oh so bad. But for us it's either they drive here and fly back. Or fly here and drive back. It's really on the cost and the distance and expense. It took 6 months to come back after she moved. 2 years after that summer visit. We are luck and she's going to the city with her marching band over thanksgiving weekend. So our parents are letting us go in and see her. With luck. Even if it's only a day. After that, we are hoping she can come back next summer. It's really just depends on the cost and expense.
Maybe you could go to an amusement park or something that's between both places. Where you could see each other.
Don't worry! It's gonna be okay.
Are cramps bad for you? Is it bad when you get really bad ones, like unbearable? Any solutions?!
cramps are caused by blood not being able to move. if you run around a few..as much as it sounds like it wont help.
it will help. and you will feell better..especially if its PMS cramps.
P.S. take some tylenol. perferably women's if its PMS cramps.
I'm a 16-year-old female and I was celebrating fourth of July with some of my friends last night without my boyfriend. Everyone was drinking and having a good time, and apparently I drank a little more than I should have and ended up calling his voicemail and breaking up with him. He didn't sleep all of last night, and I really love my boyfriend, I've told him that countless times, as well as that I'm sorry, so I don't know what else to say. Does anyone have any advice on what I could do to get him to forgive me?
create something from the heart. like a collage or something to show him it was a mistake and you didnt mean to break up. you were just a tad on the drunk side and didnt realize it.
So my friends and I are going to college this fall as freshman and even though I'm really exciting and I know I'll meet new people and such, I don't know how often I'm going to be able to see them. I live in Texas and 2 of my very good friends and I are going to UT, others are going to be scattered across Texas and others in different states. My best friend is going to a design school in New York, and my brother (he just graduated college and is going to law school now) is going with her to New York but he's going to be at Colombia. So I was just wondering, from your experiences, how often did you get to see your old friends after you went off to college?
well. as someone who is still in highschool. i know someone who is going to Boston for college in the fall and he plans to come home to NY monthly every few weeks. for a weekend and go back and up and come down in 4 weeks or so.
it really just depends on the distance and the expense your paying to travel.
hope all works well.
Sorry if this was the wrong category to choose...
Recently my boyfriend's aunt died from cancer. They knew she was sick for a while but they thought she was doing pretty good until a couple days ago. He was very close to his aunt and he is devastated. Every night i talk on the phone to him and he is just so depressed and he misses her so much. I have never lost someone really except all my grandparents but i was too young to really understand. When he talks to me i have no idea what to say. I know i can't make him feel better and its still going to hurt but i have no idea what to say. any advice appreciated
My friend's father pasted away from cancer a few days into the new year, last year. He was really close to him, and we were all in shock of when it happened. I made him scared when I was comfronting him when he told me his dad was going in for serious surgery and was saying how they don't know if he'll make it through. All I could say to him was "No matter what he'll always be there for you. You made him proud in the past and you will do in the future. He loves you no matter what happens." and etc. Just explain to him that..which has to be true. Explain that if he ever feels like he needs to talk to her, that he can. She'll always be there for him, just not like how she used to be. She can give him answers that she couldn't when she was alive. But she'll always be there watching over him 24/7 now keeping him safe, just like my friends father is watching over my friend right now. Also, remind him that she is in a better place now. She no longer has to suffer the pain any longer. It may hurt to say, but he should be happy for her. He probably is, just remind him. She will always be there and she'll always love him.