ok so im 13/f
and i look alot older.
and iv only kissed one guy and it was
only a peck.(like 15 times tho) and im scared to kiss anyother guys
cause im only use to how he kisses and now im scared cause i dont want a guy to think im a freak cause i dont know how to kiss lol.
so my questions are
-how do you make out?
-how do you make out w/o toung.(miss spelled i think)
-how do you get use to the way other guys kiss.
just learn how they kiss by practicing kissing him. they wont think your a freak if you really love them.
making out is with the tounge. normally (with me and my bf) the guy starts, but putting his tounge in your mouth, then you just kinda move your tounge around in his mouth. its easier than it sounds, and dont worry about it. (seriously, the 1st time i evr french kissed was with my current and 1st boyfriend [of 1 and a half years] and he told me it felt like i was trying to suck his tounge out of his mouth!!! but we just laughed it off) if you mess up, and he says something, just laugh about it. he shouldnt care.
and remember the way to get used to the way other guys kiss, is to kiss them, and see.
chickensoup1622 answered Sunday April 13 2008, 5:06 pm: hey, don't worry about a thing (:
i'm 16 in june and my first kiss was last year when i was still 15
my first was with someone i didn't want to kiss at all, even though i was techinically going out with him i didn't feel ready, but he didn't ask me and just went ahead and basically slobbered all over my face :P
guy's worth being with won't think you're a freak because you don't know how to kiss! if they love you for who you are they'll be fine ^^
but for some tips (i'm with my boyfriend now of 4 months, and he basically got me into it)-
if you don't know where to put you're hands, hold him rouond the waist or neck, or if you feel close enough, put your hands round the back of his head and in his hair, i know my bf loves it (:
tilt your head and close your eyes, enjoy it and don't think too much about it, you'll guide eachother without realising
making out is easy peasy, and fun when you get into it, but make sure you tell him if you feel awkward at all. hug him lots, stroke his back and pull gently on his hair, when you kiss, he might try to put his tongue in your mouth, but you don't have to even part your lips if you don't feel ready.
you get used to how your guy likes it subconsciously, you just learn what gets him going (: if you feel ready, kiss and bite his neck, though at first this can be difficult finding enough to grab onto!! lots of guys love this and he'll think you're really experienced !
at the end of the day, don't be in a rush to grow up, kissing guys in great but enjoy your friends too ^^ have fun with everything you do, and don't be afraid to tell your guy if you don't like what he's doing.
i hope i helped you, and good luck ! xxx [ chickensoup1622's advice column | Ask chickensoup1622 A Question ]
LostAngel answered Sunday April 13 2008, 3:40 pm: -Just tilt your head slightly (making sure your going opposite directions.) and open your mouth slightly as you get closer to the persons lips, and gently slip your tongue in when you touch their lips with yours.
-Making out is kissing with tongue.
-You just have to feel comfortable, we can't tell you how to get use to it. It comes naturally, over time you will notice that.
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