My name Is Kittzen, i have a fresh personalty and i never get old on you. i enjoy to have fun and i will love to help you with your life. got any questions for me just ask and i will answer. i have no problem being myself and i love to do anything crazzy and wild but always have time to be serious. don't worry I'll do my best to help you and i will never try to let anyone down. think what you want about me but that doesn't always make you right.don't let these pretty pink words fool yaa, i am no girly girl!
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my boyfriend's 21st birthday and our 1 year anniversary are coming up and i need some good ideas for a present. i know that im going to cook him dinner one night and just have like a good romantic night in.
we're going to school a few hours apart so my other idea was to make like a box full of things for a road trip like...a gas car, a cd, a map with the route on it highlighted and then like his favorite candy...any other ideas for this or any other ideas? (link)
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Kittzen here,
Try cooking him a romanic dinner enjoying him maybe get him a present with his intrest something that you know he would love and won't drown your pocket book dead. than when you two are off school and no one has classes plain a weekend for the two of to go for that drive, go to the beach, or maybe a drive in the contry something nice and romantice.
Also bake some cookies and dessert for him and take that along on the drive, pop in his favirte cd and just enjoy and watch the magic.
Have a good bf birthday and anniversary,
Kittzen
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so ive asked questions on here before about my stepmom and family sit or whatever but here I am again. so..
Im supposed to be going to my dads in Nevada in like 2 weeks. im way excited because i love my Dad and miss him like crazy. I also love my stepmum but havent been real close with her and want to be. any ideas of some fun stuff her and I can do together? My mom is still being nasty about mhy dad as usual but after tlking with a skool councelor and stuff i know she acts this way because she is kind of jealous that my dad has remarried and is happy and she hasnt done that yet so i just ignore her. any ideas for stuff to do in that area? thnks! (link)
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Hey kittzen there,
Listen are you a girl or a boy, whatever dosn't matter. think of fun ways to get both of your intrest in like you can go shopping or talk girl talk. Or if your Step moms a tom boy take her to the race track do some fun little things that make you both happy also it's a good idea to go alone with her leave your dad out of the picture when you spend one on one time with each.
It is also a good idea to you know get your dad and her to gether and spent time with both of them don't be afrid on the subject just talka bout them, talk about yourself and enjoy the time you have.
Spend time with each,
Kittzen
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Im 13 i dont have a dad he left 4 years ago. Im not close with my family no matter how hard I try to be. Things are getting bad with my mom. Shes compulsive. Shes obsessed with her house. For example if i need something (clothes, things for school which i dont ask for these things alot) she always says she doesnt have the money yet she bought a $3500 floor & now shes getting our entire outside of the house done. And she just got a new floor 3 months ago and the outside of the house redone last summer. Shes just blowing money she claims she doesnt have. I cant live at home cuz she yells at me for everything. If i walk on the carpet after she vacums i get yelled at & its the same thing if i get finger prints on the mirror. its stupid. And im sick of being yelled at all night and day. Sometimes she starts with me at like 2:00 in the morning. I cant live with her & sometimes she comes into the room yelling at me & doesnt tell me wat i did wrong. My friends agree that shes compulsive. & i dont know who to turn to cuz my entire family always takes her side. I dont know wat to do. She hits me sometimes but not all the time. I cry in a closet frequently because things are getting worse by the day. i try to stay at a friends house but she yells more. i dont no wat 2 do now. (link)
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Kittzen's speaking,
Listen sweetheart, i don't have a dad either never met him and don't you say i am luck cause i am not. i don't have a mother either i disowned her after all the terrible things she did. but it seems to me you got to find that father or yours and see if you can live with, but if he's on her side to thatn that won't work or amybe it will i don't know i never met you family.
What you need to do is get a summer job tell her you're doing this to take moore responsible and all that. that will keep you away from her and it will give you extrat cash but, the real and very important thing you need to do is try to understand why she is doing this.
See it from her point of view, very hard to do but try. that you got to sit her down and talk to her one on one don't let her get up and leave, don't let her push you down and make you cry this time tell her it all and make sure she listens. Or write her a letter and tell her everthing. remember showing some tears can wake your mom up.
Also just try to make her see it from your point of view, your mom might also be lonely so do as much for her as possible, but what ever happens just try to be yourself and tell her the truth.
Best wishes on this and if you need more help come to my colum,
Kittzen
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am hurt my bf just broke up with me becaused i put my h girl to talk to him he said this was no game i cry to him begg him but i dk what else to do he keeps textin me how does it feels i really love him but what should i do (link)
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kIttzen says,
he's right this is no game love isn't a thing you can play with. So i divise to help you that you explain to him what has been going on and why you sent that girl to talk to him. ask him how he feel and share your feelings with him. do not just give up untill you actuly know there is nothing more you can do.
Need more, Contact my cloum,
Kittzen
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I'm 18. Should I go out with a 26 year old guy? (link)
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Kittzen talking,
That's a bit of a streach don't you think eight years but if you want to and really like that guy by all means, just make sure you know the guy pretty well before going out with him, all thoses saftey issues and all. but just really get a hold on thigs before you run off with him on a date and such, feel comfortable around.
also it may work in the long shot so if you like him go for it if you don't dump him fast.
Be safe,
Kittzen
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i don't really like my friends and i want to meet more people and get out more, i hate staying inside.
any suggestions/tips/ideas?
thanks! (link)
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Kittzen telling,
I know the feeling and i can say i don't like my friends either, so days i just go around hateing on them cause i can't get along with them but here what i did to get completle happ with my life and my friends.
well i tried to go to camps near my house alone and make more friends like going up to them saying hi. And deffently scouting out in the hallways for people that looked okay and i could be comfortable with, you know things like that. also i got into more activies and such, try when you go out introced yourself to the people who you think you can get along with and relly put yourself out there.
and keep the friends you don't like also. they can be your best friends in the end or so i figured out.
Best wishes,
Kittzen
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ever since i got my braces off (three years ago) my jaw kinda pops sometimes.
that mostly stopped for a while, but recently i've been expieriencing a LOT of soreness on the left side; it feels like a bruise and i can't open my mouth all the way.
it's not my teeth, i suspected it might be a cavity but i got checked and it turns out i don't have any.
any way i can make the pain stop?
what might have caused this?
thanks! (link)
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Kittzen talking,
i say you should see a doctor and a dentist and maybe a specilist. tell your parents and all that see if they had this problem before it maybe an allgic reaction or something.
but intill you find out you should most deffently gargle with salt water and suck on ice, see if this gets any better. other than that all i can tell you is see a doctor.
Kittzen
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i have been prescribed to take 30 mgs Adderall XR (slow release) once a day.
after a while of taking it i discovered that i was becoming lightheaded every time i stood up, seeing stars, blacking out a little bit, having to hold on to something for a few seconds until i felt okay again.
it really worried me so i told my psychiatrist. she said it was probably the medication and that i should just be more careful when i stood up, not to worry about it. even a while after that it was still happening and really freaking me out.
on my own i decided to take 20 mg of regular Adderall (not the slow release) once a day, and the lightheadedness stopped almost immediately.
i haven't noticed any other weird side effects like that.
...did i do the right thing? will my psychiatrist be upset? is there something else i should do?thank you very much.. (link)
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Hey kittzeb here,
I think you made the right disision on your self, but it could of been very dagerous. there might be some side effects that you don't relize yet, but i would tell you psychiatrist at once and don't be afrid if she's upset or not, cause her attuide and her awnster seemed to be very rude if you went to another doctor i dougt he or she would say that to you they would take you off of it of give you a lower dose.
Whatever happens be strong and tell her why you did also this should be done sooner rather than later. if you start getting ill than tell you doctor that as well.
Hope it goes well also be careful on making those disesions on your own,
Kittzen
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my ears are pierced 4 times on each side, the most recent ones have been there for almost exactly a year.
on my left ear, the most recent one is swollen and leaking some kind of thin, sticky, colorless pus... it's not bleeding or anything. and it's only that one, none of the others are doing it.
i'm afraid of it closing up, i really don't want that... i've tried using an antiseptic on it twice a day but nothing really seems to be helping that much. it hurts when i roll over on my left side when i try to sleep.
what is it/what should i do? (link)
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Kittzen talking,
Ok listen i have my ears pirced once and i haven't wore earing in almost a year and i still can put earing in so a week or two are not going to close up your ears. i recomend that you use proxicide and achol to rub on your ears this will burn but you will be able to clean anything out that is disturbing your ears.
i also recommend that is this does not get better even after you tried this and keep your earing out! at least in that spot. that you see a docter, you have a very minor infection that he can perscribe medicine for.
best luck, hope you get better,
Kittzen
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my legs and my butt and my arms all look fine, but my middle is still flabby! i don't want to overwork my legs and get too muscle-y there... and suggestions?
how many crunches per day will yield the best results? (link)
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Kittzen talking,
okay here's what you do to flatten your belly. you must get a ball like from one of your little slibling. the kind you find in a supermarket or something. make sure it's small. place this ball behind your lower abck and do your crushes. this ball allows you to go fpward and backwards giving you better results.
you should do this three times a day for a couple weeks till you start seeing results. tham you can keep it up till you keep that you like where you are and how you look.
this will also keep your other parts from gaining musles and losing their look that you say you like.
so enjoy and i wish you the best results,
Kittzen
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what is the least amount of weeks I would have to do lunges (every day)to get toned thighs??
or just so they don't jiggle.
btw,
do lunges make thighs lean? or muscley?
Thanks:) (link)
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Kittzen here,
lunges tighten your musles but i am not so sure they make you lean. they do tone out musles and are good for any kind of althics program. they can also make you look and feel great. i think you should do them three times a day for about three weels and see if see a difference. and try to keep it up, so you will keep getting results.
Kittzen
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So the premere of that was on this past Tuesday night on abc family. But I missed it :( So does anyone know a good website that I can rewatch the episodes?
thanks (link)
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Kittzen's says,
WWW.abcfamily.go.com that's where you can watch if if it is posted.
have fun,
Kittzen
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what do you do when you're with a guy you love & who it would hurt to lose, but see yourself with the one you're IN love with, forever. the one you're in love with is in love with you too and wants to be with you again, but is also in a pickle because he LIKES someone else. when do you know what's right?
the one im with? he's great, and i do love him alot, and want to be with him.
the other one? i honestly think we're made to be together, i can honestly see myself with him my whole life, and i dont want to lose him. however, he has stuck around for almost 8 months after the breakup because of his feelings for me.
i dont even know where to start. (link)
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kittzen to the resuce,
ok let me see two guys love you and you love them back. ti's a charmed problem isn't. this guy that likes the other girl do you think he might be happier with her? you see yourself with this dude that hangs around and your heart wants you two to bw together forever so go to him. you say this guy wants you back and you want him back, so follow your heart but be aware of the ones you'll hurt in the process. but the guy that likes the other girl might be happier and glade in the long shot that you did this.
think about the awnster will come to you.
Kittzen.
Need more help just post the question on my column.
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Male, 16 years old.
Sometimes I think I dress badly in school.
Could anyone give me tips on a new look that's nice looking but not considered prepish? Places to get clothes, anything basically. I don't know if it makes any difference but I'm white also. :)
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Kittzen talking,
See here's a fun way to look the boom in the class room, do you want your own personal get up or to fit in?
if you want to fit in you just have to see what everone around you is wearing find out where they get there clothes and go shopping but be prepare to pay in your wallet and in you fit in staste. it no a bad idea to fit in but it awsome to stand out.
if you want to stand out what you got to do is keep in mind what your friends and peers wear and than go to the store. find the look you want in that store buy there clothes and be like a girl, be creative. see what looks good with what don't just match, stand out make a statement. when you find you look you be happy with yourself and you will also get notcied.
Kittzen
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ok, well. ever since this morning at volleyball i have had a pain in my side... lower than my left rib and kind of at the same height as my hip but closer to my belly button. and it's a very very sharp pain, it hurts when i laugh and when i bend my torso, like sitting up or laying down. it hurts unbelieveably bad and it's not going away.
i need some help on what it is and how to get rid of it. and if i should get it checked out.
ps. i need this question answered FASSST! (link)
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Hey Kittzen here,
i think the best thing to do is go to your docter on monday to get it checked out. but for now what you can do is lay do in one possision and cover it with a hot towel. also drink a lot of water it mat be a dehydration problem. also take an advil and see if that works other wise just go to your doctors and have him or her look at it soon. the problem may be biger than you think.
hope you get better,
Kittzen
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are there any websites were you can watch full episodes of avatar or any tv show online? (link)
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Kittzen talking,
Well Avatar i am not sure, but i would try nickalonadian and youtube for starters. also go and ask.com and type in full lenght epsides of Avater. you maybe suprised what you find.
Kittzen
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15/f
i have a pretty much flat stomach, but i still have a little pudge like when i sit and a little when i stand so what is a good effective excercise to flatten your stomach? i eat healthy and everything also.
if you could please tell me something that worked for you or someone you know =]
thanks a lot! (link)
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Kitzen helping,
well for flatting a tummy it's a good idea to you know do some curl ups. but here's the trick, you go by a small ball, like one your little sliblings will play with out side. place that under your lower back, that makes it possible to go back wards as well as fowards and increases the excirse your doing and if you keep it up do it everyday or almost everyday, you'll get there and so you'll have you flaat tummy.
Also remember eat righ excise and all that crap they tell you to do you won't get health problems and ect.
Trt it!
Kittzen
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16/female.
last summer i had this i guess you can say "fling" with this guy who WAS my best friend.. then well we started to like eachother..
well apperently the fling thing didnt work out and he ended it. So ive been tring to heal and move on. Its been super hard and ever guy i start to like doesnt even compare to him.
Well this summer i started to actually be friends with him again and well i still like him and he still likes me so i guess we started to "talk" again and we even talked about what happen last time and said this time we didnt wanna fling and both want to start at the beginning to get to no each other over again and well it seems pretty okay but im not sure i can open up and let him in again cuz i havent let anyone in after the first time.
everyone ive gotten close to for the past 3 years has left...
any advise on if i should try and trust him again??? (link)
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Kittzen's talking,
Hey you know you sound like my Bff she had a big problem like this. i want you to close your and ask yourself why everyone left in those three years, look for the least common demanotor. when you have the awnster. Think could this guy leave for the same reason?
Never say that common demanotor was you cause i bet it wasn't. you sound so depressed and scared. you think that everyone's going to leave you. well here's a serect that has been a well keept face, there are at least five people in this world that love you, is he one of them?
Take it out slow open part of you and see where it gose just let things come don't run after them. see if you can open to him and find the reason you so shut. in your "letter" you seemed so scared and timmed afrid that everyone will leave you. don't let this guy hurt you. see where it can go before opening your whole heart to him than make the discion on your own.
best luck,
Kittzen
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Coincidently, there's going to be a lot of relatives coming over this summer but most of them are coming like 3 days before my birthday and staying during it. I'm REALLY not a birthday kind of person and I'll just eat a slice of cake, that it. No parties, gifts, etc.
But as much as I tell people this frequently, I know that they'll try to pull off something. I just hate birthdays. Why would I celebrate getting older?
Is there ANYTHING I can do? (link)
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Kittzen talking,
Maybe you can try on your birthday sitting down with all your family and nicely telling them all at once. be polite and ask them why they enjoy to gather on your birthday. maybe you'll find the awnster is you don't have a family renioun and people chose to take it out on your birthday, or they just love you that much. you never know.
Try and if they don't listen try gatheing on their birthdays and see how they like it. Second though are you sure someone in your family isn't telling everone to gather?
Hope you can find relif from your bithday mayhem.
enjoy,
Kittzen
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Olive ALWAYS drools when shes falling asleep on me, how can i get olive to stop drooling? (link)
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Hey Kittzen here,
Listen there isn't a way and if their is tell me about i want to try it on my friends dog. i am a cat lover so here are some tips that may help. when Olive is ready to fall asleep or is going to sit down with you try not giveing her or him water. or you can try playing with it to tire him out.
Let me know if it works.
Kittzen
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