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Okay so my one friend keeps telling me that my other friends ( who doesn'treally get along with me anyway ) is calling me a whore behind my back. My one friend is standing up for me but she says that my other friend is saying that im a whore because my boyfriend of 7 months and i make out during movies - i understand yeah maybe she doesn't want to see it but the thing is his dad hates me and we can NEVER see each other and thats pretty much the only time i can do that with him its getting really hard ! i just want to know if i really am a whore for this or is she just being lsfijsdlf ?

you are definatly NOT a whore. He's your boyfriend, you're definalty allowed to make out with him whenever you want to. a movie is teh perfect place for that, its dark, your not disturbing anyone. basically, the majority of people, make out during movies. its totally normal. especially that hes of 7 months, i know people who date alot shorter than that, and do alor more than make out. to some people you could be considered taking it slow.

dont worry about it, shes probably just jealous she cant get any action for herself xD

Q: whats pelvis?

your hips and butt area is your pelvis.
they always called elvis presly elvis the pelvis cause he shaked his bottay alot.
if that reference helps at all

Q: there is this song stuck in my head it sounds jamacan (sp?) it might be by Bob Marley or Ziggy Marley...it goes like this
Don't Worry..
Not a thing
Every little thing is gonna be alright
PLEASE!! help i wanna download it to my ipod wats it called??

thats three little birds by bob marley

Q: What are some bands that have like a really really hard rock sound and scream when they sing?

alexisonfire

its all one word
crazy screamo

Q: everytime i hit the ball it's always a grounder where i can get out. is their anyways to practice getting it up higher like a line drive NOT a popup? (besdies batting cages) thankss!

in order to get a good hit,
you must have balance. squre your feet to teh plate and be about shoulder width apart and make sure if someone taps you on teh shoulder, you wont fall over. otherwise you need to reconsider your positioning.
also make sure you dont keep your elbow up.
your coach will tell yout to. dont listen it doesnt work most coached just spit back what they see in videos.
and when you swing, swing down and through on the ball. it sounds pretty dumb, but its true. if you swing up. youll it a popup, and if you hit it on a wrong angle, youll hit a grounder.
a line drive is best acheived if you swimg down and have good balance.
hope i helped

Q: fun things to do while kissing.
but not anything past kissing & feeling up.
thanks

poprocks
its definatly amazing
like both of you put pop rocks in your mouth and makeout. theyre like little bursts of orgasmicalness.
lol

pop rocks are candy btw you can get them anywhere

Q: [1]Anyone who has it or knows about,(Casio Exilim Camera) Does it only run on batteries or can you charge it?
[2]If it only runs on batteries, do you know other camera brands that are sleek&slim like the exilim that you could charge?
[3] Any good websites that sell the those camera's for cheaper. I want it brand new, not used.
[4] What's a good, fast, and easy to get some bucks? Can't get a job yet, nothing illegal lol.
Thank you so much for anyone tries to help. I really want a camera... as you can tell, So thanks :D

1]that particular camera, is the same one i ahve, so it does charge in a wall, and it comes with teh charger.
3]bestbuy is good place so is brandsmart.
4]you could try babysitting or doing chored for your parents.

Q: Hey, im nicole, 15 years old. I really need help with this project, well not really help but some more opinions. If some of ya`ll could read this and tell me what you think this poem is about, that would be great! Like just tel me what you think the poem is trying to say, etc. Thanks soo much!

Love's Philosophy
by Percy Bysshe Shelley

The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle;--
Why not I with thine?
See! the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven,
If it disdained it's brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea;--
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss not me?

hes asking a girl why she doesnt love him.
he gives examples of nature of how all these things love eachother and touch all the time, and "kiss" eachother. and how nothing in the world is single and alone.
he then asks her why is the world so full of love that it touches and kisses, but she wont kiss and love him and why hes all alone without the world.

thast what i think anyways

Q: The Worlds Hardest Riddle

I turn polar bears white
and I will make you cry.
I make guys have to pee
and girls comb their hair.
I make celebrities look stupid
and normal people look like celebrities.
I turn pancakes brown
and make your champane bubble.
If you sqeeze me, I'll pop.
If you look at me, you'll pop.

Can anyone figure it out and tell me! thanks!

your missing the last line
the last line of the riddle is:
"can you guess the riddle?"

the answer to the riddle is no.

the only question actually presented in the riddle is can you guess the riddle, and you cant. so the answer is no.

Q: I am 15. My boyfriend, 'Danny' is 17. We have been going out for 6 months. I really like him, and he is really sweet. But lately, he has been acting strange. He rarely talks to me outside of class or hugs me. He doesn't call anymore, talk to any of my friends, and has just been aloof. At first, I was worried, until my friend said she saw him hugging some girl (who dislikes me) and making out with her and hanging with her friends (who dislike me also since their ringleader does). I'm pretty sure he wants to break up with me, but I don't know why, since I don't know if what my friend said is true. should I confront him about it, and how? Or should I just let it go and move on?

umm you hear of him making out with another girl by one fo your friends and your seriously debating whether or not to confront him?
you definatly should. but dont warn him before hand, make it random so he doesnt have time to think about an answer. if he seems to be lieing than just watch him more carefully. make sure he knows you dont fully trust him anymore, and that he has to earn it back.

more evidence to your friends theory is, hes been aloof, if he DID make out with that girl he could feel guilty and no want to talk to you, or hes afraid hell blurt it out or let it slip on accident.

i say dont just forget about it, cause that'll give him the idea that he can do it again and not get caught.

Q: Hey i'm 17f, and work at a small restrant. The bosses son is about 19/20 y.o. He always looks at me when im at work and comes and talks to me, gets stuff like drinks... (he dosn't do this for any one els).... I like him verry much, he's realy nice and realy good looking.

The problem is next week he's goig away to europ and i wont see him for a month and a half... tomorows the last day i will see him until he comes back, and i would realy like to keep in contact with him.

should i ask him for his e-mail? If so how could i bring it up?... thanks

when he comes over and asks for a drink, you say ill give you the drink if you give me your number.
then wink.
lol its flirty and it gets you the information you need.

Q: A dumb thing happened. I was getting up from dinner last night and I smacked my knee on the kitchen table leg [its hardwood]. It stung for a few seconds and went away. An hour or so later, it was really painful to bare too much weight on it or bend it. I went to bed with it hurting. When I got up for school, whenever I bent it or went up/down stairs, it really hurt. It still hurts now. Through school it's been a bit of a pest. Basically the pain is coming from bending/moving around weird. If I sit or stand for a long amount of time, its barely there. I thought it was just a bruise, but it feels like a rubber band snapping or something of that sort. Any ideas on what this might be? Is it necessary to go to the doctor?

Thanks!!

you might have either pulled/ torn and ligament or a tendon, probably not because you just hit it on a table but you should see a doctor just incase.

Q: i'm asian, so naturally i have black hair. but i'm about to do a play for a friend and the role requires a different hair color. i plan on using temporary hair dye (the kind that washes out in a matter of days) but my question is since i have black hair, will any of the colors really have any effect on my hair?

yes it will. its dying the pigment of your hair. kind of like paint. the fact that your hair is black doesnt mean that it will block it out if thats what your thinking.

Q: okay i have a few questions about tanning booths. lik e right now im white white pale, and its spring break. when i come back from spring break i wanna look like a whole new person you know? or just look alot better. i know a tan will help me. and i would tan outside, but its too cold for that. so im thinking about going to a tanning booth or get a spray on tan (those lotion things dont work for me)
so here are some questions i have:
-which do you think is better.. going to a tanning booth or getting a spray on tan?
-how much are they usaully
-if i were to get a spray on tan do you have to like wear a junky bathing suit or like.. can ou wear one that is good & you plan to wear for the summer?
-which has better results

and if you know anything else about them let me know.

p.s. how do i convince my parents to let me go to one of these?

you dont have to answer all of these questions.. just as much as you can =]
thankss

well getting a spray tan might make you orangy.
but the tanning bed is using radiation that is harmful for your skin.
so if you just want something temporary id say a spray tan but if you want long term then it would be a tanning bed.
just you need to know that neither are good for you, but hte bed is more natural.

and if you got a spray tan youd want to wear a junky bathing suit cause the spray may stain whatever your wearing

Q: This is for a school project. Suggest me songs that represent happy optmisim...a positive "your life is beautiful, keep living!!" attitude. but not anything cheesy or corny please. i'll appreciate it even more if it incorporates going to heaven or something religious!
thanks!

dont worry, be happy - bob marley.
sun is shinning - bob marley
god is a DJ - Faithless
Walking On Sunshine - Me First and the Gimme-Gimmes
Beautiful Day- U2
dont worry be happy - bobby mcferrin
i feel good - james brown

=]

Q: when you ive a guy a blowjob, when are they "done"? before during or after they skeet?

how long is the normal bj?

thankyouu

well ive never given one, but i ahve given a handjob, and he finished after he skeeted. so id assume it would be the same.
i dont know if im the most reliable source though, you might have to ask someone whos given one.
sorry.

Q: I was wondering if anyone could suggest a really good steamy/romance novel or any teen books about life and relationships in general. Don't suggest anything corny like Gossip Girls or the A List Series. I'm 19, not 15. Thank you very much.

read looking for alaska by john green.
its amazing.
its about a boy who goes to boardings school and meets a girl.
its actually really deep, not corny.

Q: what are some good girllyy books. cant be the clique or gossip girl series(have to read them for school. is there a book called something ALaska or idk?? thankss

thers a book called looking for alaska, by john green.
that may be what your thinking of.
its not really girly though.
but its an amazing book.

Q: So my boyfriend is moving to Virginia and I don't know what to do. I like him so much and he means the world to me, but I don't want to get hurt when he leaves. My friends keep telling me to break up with him now so I don't get more attached which would make it harder when he actually does leave. I see their point, but I would like to have another three months with him before he leaves. I don't know what to do. I'm so confused.

you still have three months, you never know what could happen in htat amount of time.

i say you should savor every minute you have left with him, because hes moving and all.
dont break up him unless you cant see eachother anymore or you dont love him anymore. those are the only logical reasons too.

Q: So He Is Single and well. he kinda likes a few girls . and he flurts with me a lot and i told him i liked him about a week ago and he ddint say anything back to me( like he likes me) . at first it was awkward when we talked but no it isnt and i wanted him to kinda tell me if he likes me. What should i do . still like the boy that likes a lot of girls , or move on to some1 else and sttay bestfriends?

the thing with guys is, while there single, they like alot of girls at the same time, and just hope one of them works out.
ive gotten this information from a close guy friend, dont worry im no bullshittin you.

id say you can still like him, but open your options too. you dont have to be dead set on one guy.