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How do I make beautiful anime pictures like the ones in the links below and where can I learn to do it? (I realize some of these may actual be different styles, too.) Thanks!
http://www.lepouvoirdeneptune.chez-alice.fr/nepty11.jpg
http://www.animevisions.net/Pictures/girls/girls157.jpg
http://sailor-moon-forever-more.freeservers.com/images/best_sailor_mars_pic.jpg
http://www.mediaminer.org/fanart/view.php/155733
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I'd suggest starting out in pencil or something similar. Once you can pin that down, you can move towards the computer art programs.
http://elfwood.lysator.liu.se/about.html?9729 is a decent site with a huge numbher of artists, and art, in it. Some people put up sketches and the like, not simply finished art.
One artist I am familiar with, Yukito Kishiro( GUNNM/Battle Angel Alita), has a decent site with a lot of his artwork in it, from sketches to cover art. Though much of his art is toward the cyberpunk end of the spectrum, I refer to him in this due to the fact that he goes into some detail on many of his pieces. He also has a number of rough sketches posted as well.
http://www.yukito.com/
His gallery: http://jajatom.moo.jp/E-top/E-frame.html
Much of his newer, and more processed art is at the top, while many of the pencil - only art is at the bottom. I think many of the pencil sketches/rough computer art are good to see how he puts everything together. May not be your cup of tea, but I thought the technique to be fairly good. Plus he lists if he uses software, and what he uses.
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Is it possible to track down someone's IP address online, even if you don't give out personal information? I heard somewhere that it's possible, and I'm worried that some pedophile will track me down on this site. Even though I give out no personal information. (link)
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Ones IP can be tracked to a city or general area, but beyond that normally one cannot get any more specific. Also with some ISP's, the IP you connect with can rotate, be shared, and possibly the IP might stop at the ISP. Often there isn't even a specific IP number for every computer or connection, you can any number of connections through a gateway and people normally wont be able to go any further than that. If you are really concerned about this, remember that most good ISP's wont release addresses or user information withough legal or law enforcement pressure.
Still worried? You could always try a site like http://www.anonymizer.com/ .
Now if someone could hack or gain access to your ISP or a local network, theoretically I would think it possible for them to gain acceess to your computer, unless you are using a router or have a firewall. I could be wrong, but I wouldn'y worry about someone tracking you down by your IP alone.
While you probably do not want your IP readily accessible, it alone wont give someone your address. But your IP, together with a little more info might make your location possible. For example, if one has your IP and can track that down to a specific location (say Anaconda, Montana...yes thats an actual place lol), if they have your last name, or if you mentioned what kind of a car you drive, someone could get close to you fairly easily. If you were a Gov't agency however, all they would have to do is make a few phone calls.
Most likely someone would have to have other information, not simply an IP. Also remember, some e-mails have your IP linked to them, so if you were to send an individual an e-mail they could get it that way.
Most admins/sysops and the like are only interested in IP's as it pertains to their site. Some will try to block problem users by blocking specific IP's, and I think some commercial sites keep track of where users are connecting from by tracking user IP's, mostly I would imagine for marketing and research.
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I use Windows Live Messenger, but for the last 10 or so hours I have not been able to sign on. I have been getting error message 81000314 and it says I should wait 5 minutes and try to sign on again. I have tried this for hours and hours but have not had success. I was able to sign onto my friend's account, but not mine. And my friend to sign onto mine from his computer but got the same error.
How can I fix it?
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Well, I assume it working again, as you posted Sunday night and its already Tuesday morning. From what I've seen you are far from the only person to have this happen to them. Not only that, but this seems to come every so often for many users.
There probably really isn't a 'true' way to fix this, and you will have to wait for the service to correct it themselves. There are, however, various ways to work around it, though I would advise you to be somewhat careful with all the solutions floating around.
http://www.dotcomunderground.com/blogs/2006/09/11/windows-live-messenger-sign-in-error-81000314-solution/
This is prob the most common fix, it seems to have been passed from one forum to another. It also hit a lot of people a week or two ago, so I would expect to have this hit every so often.
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This is a very unusual situation--An extremely shy guy from graduate school has a crush on me, but he has been too shy to talk to me for about a year. I have overheard many times from various people that X has a crush on me. The problem is that i'm not interested in him, and I don't know how to stop this distraction. (He has been following me to public places--at some distance--for the past couple of months and just watching me). I'm getting tired of this, and I would like his talking about me and following me to places to end. The problem is that he is extremely shy and hasn't done anything to "cross the line", but his following me--at a distance--and staring at me has become distracting. He is obsessed with me, and I would like it to stop. But I don't know how to approach him without either a)seeming like a bitch by telling him to stop following me OR b)giving him the wrong idea that I'm interested--Which I am not because he is straight out of undergrad and way too young for me, since I am 26. Please give me advice on how to tactfully handle this guy's obsession. Thanks. (link)
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If there are people telling you about the crush, I'm assuming some of these people know him as well. Grab one of them and have them say to him "Look, dude, your creeping her out, and now, she probably isn't going to be interested now that you've more or less stalked her". Especially if you have a male friend who isn't a push-over and would do this for you without caving his face in on principle, I;ve done similar things for friends myself in the past.
Following you IS crossing the line IMO, I mean wow I've had crushes but I've never followed anyone...and the staring thing is just creepy.
Another option is to go to school officials, maybe a counselor, and try to find someone who is willing to take a walk with him and explain things to him. My bet is that someone might be willing to help.
If you cannot find a friend to talk to him for you, you may have to do it yourself and be blunt/honest. But he needs to be told, by you or someone else. Then, if this guy is unbalanced enough to still follow you, go see the police (or campus security, would be applicable I guess).
Don't let this go, it may seem melodramatic but if this guy is following you (and possibly obsessing over you), letting it go and hoping it will resolve itself will become less and less likely.
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Hi, this morning while driving, my parents' car suddenly made a loud noise. After inspection, we noticed there was pink fluid leaking under the hood. It turns out that the transmission is leaking.
Anyawys, what does this mean? Can it still be safely driven? How much would it cost for it to be repaired? And, are any auto repair shops open on a Sunday (because I have school tommorow)?
Thanks so much. (link)
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I would imagine that if this is your parents car, they will be wanting to take the car in to have it looked at as soon as possible. Unless, of course, you are trying to keep this from them. Just tell your folks, they'll have it checked out.
If you were driving like you shouldn't have been (hilltopping, racing, etc), then remember this the next time you get the urge lol. If not, just tell your folks what happened /shrug.
From what info you gave this could be just about anything, but if you got a 'loud noise' while just tooling along on level ground w/o changing gears or accelerating, then there is a possibility something serious has happened. I myself wouldn't drive it, unless you relish being stuck on the side of the road. And as its Tuesday morning now, its probably too late for a 'rush fix' lol, besides, most places not only wouldn't have been opened, but also probably wouldn't have been able to get to you in time.
Pray its somthing simple (Like the plug or a seal, maybe even the pan) and the noise was just a rock hitting the undercarriage. Transmissions can get very expensive, depending on the make and model of the car.
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Ever since this summer I've been more concious of what I eat. I am a very active 14/f. I have lacrosse practice for 1 and 1/2 hours three days a week, I have marching band everyday for 2 hours and I run between 3 and 5 miles almost every day. I eat about 2,500 calories every day(honest). I try to balance the amount of carbs, fat, and protien I get based on the recomended servings. My parents bug me a lot about me not eating enough. I have lost my period for a few months now, but the doctor says its not a big deal, it will come back. I have a BMI of 20, so I'm not underweight. But my parents make me feel like I'm anorexic or something, I overhear them talking about me a lot. Do I have a problem? (link)
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When I was in the Military, I would eat all thre meals they provide each day, as well as 1-2 additional meals. I was hella active, and burned off everything I ate. When I left the military, I kept eating the same amount for several months until I gained 40lbs, and had to cut down how much I ate drastically.
Of course, parents worry, thats their job. Plus, many parents push food on their children, in a kind of "If you are eating, you are happy" mind set.
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how do you ask a guy that could have any girl he wants to homecomming. we are good aquaintances and i really like him. i doubt he likes me but once we had an intense sexy eye contact moment and he smiled at me. i might be over exagerating the moment but it was pretty cool. so how do i make myself stand out amongst his fan club of girls?? (link)
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Just ask him "Hey, do you have a date for Homecoming yet? I'm looking for someone to go with and wanted to ask you." Do this as soon as possible, the longer you wait the more likely the answer will be that he has a date already.
If he isn't interested, he might just say that he already has a date regardless of the truth of the matter. But at least you have explored the option and he knows you were/are interested.
Dont sell yourself short.
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Hi iv been in a relationship for about six years now it has been quiet rocky. we broke up for about five month and got back together about two months ago things have been ok. when we got back together he told me that he had made arrangements to go on holiday with his friend and proceded to book his ticket at the time i tried to justify the fact that it was pre arranged and said nothing. i got good news of a transfer to a bigger home a few weeks ago and felt this would be a nice fresh start for us as a family as we also have a son. i am presently packing up to move and looking after our son while he is enjoying the sun!!! Are my being selfish to beleave he should have cancelled his holiday and stayed with me and our son to help prepare for our big move together!!! i do know he loves our son. im so confused i feel he does not care for me. ThankS for reading xx (link)
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My impression is that you two are not married, yet have a child together (correct me if I am wrong). That being said, what father leaves his child and his mother at home while he goes off to party? True, he could have made this arrangement before the two of you got back together, but you need to ask yourself what is in the relationship for him. Why did HE get back together with YOU? If he is with you because he wants to be with you, I dont know if he still would have gone on the trip without at least talking to you. If he's just there because you both had a child together, or if this is either convenient or just a hook-up in his eyes, then I would say you owe yourself to move on. Its very possible that you and he are looking for two very different things in life, at this point at least.
I'm guessing he isn't ready for marriage, and is more of a child at this point than perhaps you are. This doesn't mean he doesn't love his son, but it doesn't sound like he is too awfully mature to me. And from what you have said, you have reason to doubt the love between the two of you.
While I am not saying he should have cancelled the trip wholesale (money already spent and all), it would concern me that he at least didn't talk to you about it.
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if you copy a cd that skips onto another cd will it still skip? (link)
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Its quite possible, yes.
It really doesn't matter what is causing your skipping, something is interfering with reading the disc correctly. That being the case, data is being interrupted and copying it will reproduce this in some way.
To be honest, I've copied many CD's and the like, and once in a blue moon I've had miracles happen. But I wouldn't hold my breath though. This is one of the reasons whenever I get a CD I put it on my computer, because I am bad about scratching my CD's.
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lately i have been trying to figure out my sexuality. there are times when i want to be with a boy, but about 99.9% of the time i want a girl. anyways, figuring this out is hard enough, and on top of that, my friends dont really accept gays. so thats harder. today, we were talkin about it, and they were like 'how can a girl be gay theres nothing wrong with boys. its so nasty' and they went on and on and on. i just sit there and ignore them. i dont want to handle with being rejected from my friends and family for being gay, but i cant help it. i can see myself with a girl more than i can with a boy. but can someone please help me?? give me advice or something!! how can i figure out my sexuality and be 100% sure thats what i am??? (link)
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This may be tough advice to take, but you may need to find new friends. Let me ask you this: "Would they be hateful towards you if they were to discover how you feel?" If the answer is yes, you might want to be careful and move on. Of course if your friends are young, its quite possible that they simply haven't had to deal with homosexuality at all...and its very easy to say exactly what they are saying when the topic comes up. But if your friends are true friends, they wont discriminate against you for going through this. I feel sorry for you, but in the sense of that this can be a rough thing to go through.
In any event you need to be honest with yourself. If you spend the rest of your life suppressing how you feel, you'll end up with massive therapy bills. I doubt you are imagining how you feel.
Some people spend years and years exploring their sexuality, going from straight to gay to bisexual, and back again. Many people may disagree with me, but I don't think this is abnormal. How you feel, is how you feel. Remember, its YOUR sexuality and no one elses, so don't let others bully you into a category or a label you do not feel comfortable with.
It is also your call about whether or not this is the time to let people know how you feel. Its quite possible that the best thing to do would be to keep this from becoming public knowledge, as children your age can be VERY cruel and have little sympathy for those who are different. Hell, adults can be this way; minors can be worse.
GL
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Ok first off this is to deal with my friend and me. my best friend plays soccer and everyonce in a while we play against her team. but I sorta like her in a more kind of way. so I kinda go easy on her. because I could beat her tail in a skinny sec. but I don't know if she likes me. she is one of my best friends. so advicenators, do you magic. HELP. if they help, I will rate nicely. and fairly, sup4321 (link)
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If she is a good friend and you value that friendship, dont push the issue unless you are sure how she feels. This isn't an uncommon problem by far, even for myself its probably the first question I ask and one of the major thoughts I deliberate over.
It might just be me, but I wouldn't avoid beating her during the game. Now, I'm not telling you to trip her or pull a Zidane-like headbutt, but do your best and leave it on the field.
But as to whether or not she likes you, yikes, thats a classicly hard question to answer. Your age would help answer this as well...some people are not 100% sure of their orientation until well after their teen years (I can think of several close friends of mine), and if you both are still young I would advise extra caution in this. Really you are simply going to have to hang out with her, and spend some time together, in order to try to discover how she feels.
I wish I could tell you to simply walk up to her and say "Yo, what is the deal?", but I cannot advise that. GL, and remember not to put her on the spot if you want to keep the friendship you have.
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My parents have had three cats since I was born. [[15 years ago]] Recently two of them died because of old age. My parents got them at the same time and a couple years later they got the third one.
The third one got real close to the other two over the past years and their death has been real hard for her. She's not the same cat she was before. She won't eat right, you have to hold her food in your hand for her to take it. The same with water, she'll go without it unless you hold the bowl. All she does is sleep on the back of the couch and she looks so pitiful. Sometimes she even acts like she's not all there, like she's been drugged or something.
We have a puppy that used to bother her but the puppy kinda grew out of it, so that's not an issue with her being upset.
Does anyone have ANY advice on what to do? How can I make her feel better? I wanna help her so bad but I don't know how.
And yes, she's been to the vet, she says there is nothing wrong with her, health wise.
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The cynic in me feels there isn't anything you can do. The cat is old and probably set in its ways.
Of course that isn't true, but there is no guarantee that anything you try will garner the results you are looking for.
You can try to get another cat/kitten for company, but again there is no guarantee that your cat will take to it and get along, much less that this will fix the problem. But, I've done this with both cats and dogs and sometimes it works.
You cannot truly replace the cats, anymore than you can replace people. But getting another cat might be another option to try; be prepared for the two of them not getting along and be prepared to keep the new cat in any event.
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i jammed my toe. its kind of crewkid now just a little and it hurts and its swollen. i am scared to pop it cuz it hurts so bad. so if i dont will it eventually go back to normal? (link)
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Its hard to tell just how bad your toe really is by your saying you jammed it.
If it hurts so bad that you are afraid to manipulate it at all, or if the pain lasts for multiple days, go see a doctor. Normally the worst thing you can do is dislocate a toe, and when the swelling goes down you should be fine (other than maybe some permanent change of shape and the like). But if the pain is still pretty bad after say 1 day, it probably isn't just a jammed toe, you might have broken it.
Even then it might or might not be a big deal. My "Index" toe on my left foot was dislocated bad enough so that it lay backwards along the top of my foot about 5-6 years ago. I was told it was simply swollen and after several months, there was enough calcification along the joints that now my toe is solid and will not bend. Doesnt hurt, and its simply odd...but if this possibilty bothers you, you might want to go see a doctor. And if the pain persists, also, go see a doctor.
I really cannot tell you if it will go back to normal on its own. If after several days it hasnt improved...well, I would say no, it wont improve on its own.
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My bf has a real mean streak in him when it comes to gay people. Well he told me one day that every time Queer Eye For The Straight Guy came on tv he felt like throwing his boot threw the screen. He also said he wanted to hurt Boy George every time one of his songs came on the radio; and when I told him I liked Will and Grace he gave me the dirtiest look. He doesnt just put down gays either he also makes derogatory remarks about women; that we are inferior to men and that they are smarter. It's also the WAY he says these things too; with so much hate in his voice. This one time I jokingly said women were smarter then men and he yelled "prove it"! And then he pulled out a chain linked puzzle. He said if I was so smart I could figure it out under a minute. I couldnt and he yelled "SEE"! Should I break up with him? (link)
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Its obvious it bothers you, and that is enough IMO for you to move on. He has some opinions (some will say issues) that you do not share, and if it is bothering you, you shouldn't subject yourself to this.
I'm a man, and its hard for me to understand this. My guess is that he has learned this view of the world over decades, and you probably won't be able to change him. I dont know if your BF was raised ultra-conservative or just has an axe to grind, but I would opt out of this before he throws a boot at you.
But men are better at women at lots of things!
...like emberassing their spouses, leaving dirty clothes in every corner of the house, and moving furniture around (though its the women who have to direct or men will just put stuff ANYWHERE, hell...I'm that way myself). Smarter? Hell, thats not even based on sex, unless we are talking pre-19th amendment here when men had an obvious advantage with education and the like...and thats not intelligence even then, simply the appearance of intelligence measured by education.
Seriously there are lots of men that would probably match your views more closely, and be a better fit in a relationship.
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help me if you know how to get glow stick off carpets, walls, sofas ,body, cloths ,etc.... playglow is the company is it toxic? ...thanxs (link)
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I've had mixed results on fabrics, but usually in my experience after the flourescence wears out and the article is washed several times, at most it will be an odd spot. Walls and such might be a different story (I've never gone that far)...but some paints I would imagine might give you a hard time when it comes to washing it off.
Toxicity? Usually, I would say no. This doesn't mean I would suggest chugging it though, I've known people to feel ill after swallowing the fluid. They felt ill, but that was all. Plus I looked around the net a bit, and all I saw was the vanilla "Non-Toxic" claim. Check the package though...there are many different cocktails out there, and different manufacturers...for example I had the joy to get to play with infrared sticks in the military that gave off no visible light in the dark...there is no telling what odd-ball mixtures are out there that might actually be toxic.
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So....i think me and my boyfriend have had sex probably over one hundred times. but i have never orgasimed...i need to orgasim...hes not bad! at all, but i dont know what it is...advice, how can i not put all the pressure on him, cuz i kno he feels bad. (link)
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First, quantity does not equal quality.
Second, try to communicate with him and guide him. Trust me when I say this, guys wont have to worry about having orgasms usually, but you will - heck many men have an orgasm before the woman is even fully aroused. And of course, men are NOT mind readers...men are not born with ANY type of knowledge of what is needed for a woman in this regard other than the most primal urge to mate. Instinct is only concerned with survival and the passing of genetic material...a womans needs come second (oh my, if you have ever read Dawkins...lol).
You might want to mention to him as well that this isn't abnormal, hopefully he isn't under the misconception that he needs to be some kind of Superman. Once a man gets it through his thick head that he may need to change his M.O. for his partner, things get much better (and I am a man saying this).
Its a good sign that he feels bad, it shows he cares for you. Its a bad sign IMO however if after 100 supposed encounters he is still somewhat clueless. But caring and clueless you can work with, it isn't a lost cause! If YOU know what is needed, tell him. If you dont know either...well, I cannot help much than to say you may need to broaden your horizens a bit. Thats all I am going to say though as I am trying very hard to keep this from being explicit.
But talking with your BF is a start, get to that step and give it a while. Communicate, seriously, PLEASE for the love of all that is Holy, dont expect men to just 'know' or you are going to be in for a lot of disappointment.
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I am very confused about religion. My family is Christian and believe in God, but aren't too religious. I was never told to believe in anything.
I believe in God. BUT I also believe in Karma. Is there any sort of name or religion for that? they are two different beliefs and religions, but I believe in both.
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What ever you believe, in your heart to be true, is considered by some to be a religion. We could go on and on for months, even years, and get absolutely no further than Mankind has already reached...which isn't very far (I'm talking as far as a consensus here).
When you ask if there is a religion for both Karma and God, some will say yes and some will say no. Really you are asking if there is a convenient Religion, or convenient label, for this. I'd advise side-stepping trying to possibly fit a square peg into a round hole, and simply...go with what you believe to be true.
Karma...even thats a tough one, depending on your definition of karma. If you are being strict with it, as it is treated in Hinduism/Jainism/HK/Buddhism and others, then its tied with re-incarnation and your eventual struggle to join with the Divine (rather than moving backwards and being reincarnated as a lower form). If, on the other hand, you are using Karma as more a form of Justice and less the 'burden' of sins that ones soul carries from life to life and the idea that you reap what you sow (rather than some Divine hand exacting retribution), then you might be thinking "God" as more in your Christian upbringing, with Karma representing more a belief, or desire to believe, in eventual justice (possibly Judgement day). Many people don't even use or believe in Karma in a Religious sense so to speak.
Read up on Karma, and try to decide HOW you are using the word and if it is the right term to use. Its possible you are quite Christian, and simply using Karma to represent your idea (religious or no) of Justice...or possibly not. In any event its a hard one to spell out w/o knowing you personally and being familiar with your core beliefs.
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Ok first off, I'm 13/f and I've already got my period. Well I play the Clarinet and 2 days ago I was practicing... then all of a sudden my stomach started hurting... It's not really my stomach.. its more of a side ache. Its about 3 inches to the left and right of my belly button. My period came about a week ago. Could this be the reason why? What is it? It like whenever I blow into my clarinet it starts huring more on the left. Sometimes when I take deep breaths in and out it hurts really badly. But if i'm sitting or standing still.. it wont hurt. My grandma says I pulled a muscle there??? Could that be it?? Somebody please help! I'm really worried! (link)
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First you have to try to decide how bad the pain really is, and is it constant. If the pain is bad, or the pain lingers beyond 3-4 days, then you should prob go see a doctor.
If it just been hurting for less than a full day, it could be something as innocous as gas (sounds wierd I know).
It could be cramps, sure. Or, your grandmother could be partially or totally correct - you do say you were playing the clarinet at the time. If you clenched your stomach muscles you could have a sore or pulled muscle, or even (in an odd case) a potential hernia.
I'm assuming that indeed you have had this pain on and off for two days, and now possibly into the third...if it persists, you might want to go see a doctor. More than likely it is nothing, or minor, but seeing a GP wont hurt...well, maybe in the purse-strings, but thats about it. Though TBH a doctor may not be able to tell for sure either, it might be a case of "Come back in X days if it persists".
BTW, if the only member of your family that you have gone to about this is your Grandmother, try going to mom/dad (unless of course your grandmother is your legal guardian of course lol). They might want to take you in just to be sure.
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So I love my boyfriend very much but sometimes he's just always there. Latched on to me like a leech. Don't get me wrong.. I do love it that he pays attention to me soo much, but I do want to have some space sometime. But he seems to always be there all the time trying to pull me so close that our skin could be melted together. Please help me. I don't know how to tell him that I want space, without hurting his feelings.Btw we've been going out for almost 11 months. (link)
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This may not be the answer you are looking for, but bear with me.
Just tell him straight up that you need a little "Me" time.
Of course, be sure to tell him that this isn't a case of "I need my space, therefore we are breaking up". Be sure you get this point across (and I know we men can be thick-headed), that needing a little space does not always equate a break-up...as this may be the first conclusion he jumps to.
Remember also that the more you stress over this, the more he will too, when you tell him. Just be nonchalant, shrug and say "I love/like/cherish/whatever you but sometimes I just need to be alone". Then follow up with possibly some plan, like in a few days, to assure that he really doesnt think you are playing him. Give him a kiss, look him in the eyes, hold him, give him the physical reassurance that you are still into him and like him, but try to be firm that you need time, you need space. Use your feminine wiles. If you just go in and demand space, and he'll draw his own conclusions and possibly get mad and bolt. This has been done to me personally, and I have to say its better than having someone stop answering your phone calls or giving no explanation just because you were a bit too cloying. In fact clearing the air like this can be a good thing. Communication, and reassurance, is key.
I've been on both sides of this too - so yeah, I feel your pain.
Practice now because odds are he won't be the last guy you find yourself in this position with /shrug (thats possibly a cynical thought, I know, but hey many will back me on that I'm sure). Heck, married couples sometimes go through this. Its normal.
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my neighbors gave me an offer and they said they would pay me $5 a week if i walked their dog every day. i've been doing it for 3 weeks and they havent gave me any money. i keep bringing it up in a hinting way like "do you want me to walk your dog around noon or later on?" and they will just say"whenever you want ." my family and their family is really close since we live next door and im basically a second family to them and i dont want to be rude and be like okay wheres the money but hinting is not helping either. i want to bring up the money subject but i dont want to seem pushy or desperate or rude so what do i say?? they owe me $15 so far and i really would like the money. =/ (link)
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First talk to your parents and advise them of the situation, if they do not already know.
Either or both of your parents can go over (since you say the families are close after all), and simply slip it into a conversation. Something along the lines of "Hey, how is the dog walking going? I only ask because my son/daughter was wondering if you still wanted him/her to continue the walks, or if you are dissatisfied for some reason..." They'll ask why, whats up, parent(s) mention the lack of payment, bada bing bada boom. Your parents will feel like they are being parents, you avoid a confrontation, if the neighbors do get mad it wont be at you as you didnt bring it up, and perhaps a little guilt is generated with the neighbors and hey, they might be prodded into action. Maybe they'll pop you some extra when they hear they left you hanging.
I mean, I'd do this for a child without question. I'd take exception if a child of mine were getting 'yanked around' so to speak.
Of course, if nothing works, just stop walking the dog. If it comes to it, just say you've been doing this for 3 weeks and you dont want to keep doing it if payment isnt forthcoming. It might not be the most favorable way of handling it, but I doubt it will be the last time you are ever in a situation like this.
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