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are my wasteing my time keeping this relationship going
Hi iv been in a relationship for about six years now it has been quiet rocky. we broke up for about five month and got back together about two months ago things have been ok. when we got back together he told me that he had made arrangements to go on holiday with his friend and proceded to book his ticket at the time i tried to justify the fact that it was pre arranged and said nothing. i got good news of a transfer to a bigger home a few weeks ago and felt this would be a nice fresh start for us as a family as we also have a son. i am presently packing up to move and looking after our son while he is enjoying the sun!!! Are my being selfish to beleave he should have cancelled his holiday and stayed with me and our son to help prepare for our big move together!!! i do know he loves our son. im so confused i feel he does not care for me. ThankS for reading xx
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My impression is that you two are not married, yet have a child together (correct me if I am wrong). That being said, what father leaves his child and his mother at home while he goes off to party? True, he could have made this arrangement before the two of you got back together, but you need to ask yourself what is in the relationship for him. Why did HE get back together with YOU? If he is with you because he wants to be with you, I dont know if he still would have gone on the trip without at least talking to you. If he's just there because you both had a child together, or if this is either convenient or just a hook-up in his eyes, then I would say you owe yourself to move on. Its very possible that you and he are looking for two very different things in life, at this point at least.
I'm guessing he isn't ready for marriage, and is more of a child at this point than perhaps you are. This doesn't mean he doesn't love his son, but it doesn't sound like he is too awfully mature to me. And from what you have said, you have reason to doubt the love between the two of you.
While I am not saying he should have cancelled the trip wholesale (money already spent and all), it would concern me that he at least didn't talk to you about it.
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