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SOCCER PROBLEM!!!!!
Ok first off this is to deal with my friend and me. my best friend plays soccer and everyonce in a while we play against her team. but I sorta like her in a more kind of way. so I kinda go easy on her. because I could beat her tail in a skinny sec. but I don't know if she likes me. she is one of my best friends. so advicenators, do you magic. HELP. if they help, I will rate nicely. and fairly, sup4321
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i'm j/k. don't go easy on her just because you like her. all good athletes are supposed to put their personal feelings aside while in the game. it's the same if you were like figghting with someone on your team or something. forget about it, play, then pick it up agian later. hey, if anything you should impress her. if she knows how the game works...she can't get mad just because you like scored the winning goal or something. she should be proud of you. and if you think she might like you go for it. but it still shouldn't affect your game. that help?
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wow...i can relate! I had a similar problem with a girl i was friends with for over a year.
it would help to know your age and how long you have been mates, but never-the-less, all i can say to you is, don't rush into teling her as you would be risking your friendship if you do not know how she will react. Telling her striaght, how you feel may cause problems, but i know from experience that if you keep it to yourself you will start finding it hard to be around her.
Leave the soccer game on the field...it's just a game, so it doesn't matter who plays better. Leave it for a while and just make suttle hints every now and then...if she likes you, she will make it known soon enough...GOOD LUCK! xxx
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If she is a good friend and you value that friendship, dont push the issue unless you are sure how she feels. This isn't an uncommon problem by far, even for myself its probably the first question I ask and one of the major thoughts I deliberate over.
It might just be me, but I wouldn't avoid beating her during the game. Now, I'm not telling you to trip her or pull a Zidane-like headbutt, but do your best and leave it on the field.
But as to whether or not she likes you, yikes, thats a classicly hard question to answer. Your age would help answer this as well...some people are not 100% sure of their orientation until well after their teen years (I can think of several close friends of mine), and if you both are still young I would advise extra caution in this. Really you are simply going to have to hang out with her, and spend some time together, in order to try to discover how she feels.
I wish I could tell you to simply walk up to her and say "Yo, what is the deal?", but I cannot advise that. GL, and remember not to put her on the spot if you want to keep the friendship you have.
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