Hey, I am Cj from Belize. Some may also call me Christopher. Others call me crazy.
You probably never heard of my country before but that is alright. Check for it on a map, it is right under mexico. And please don't direspect my country. Many of my ancestors have fought to make the country independent. ANd so did my grandparents and my father. And when I am old enough, I shall give back to my country its rightful due.
I will answer your questions according to what I think, not what you want to hear or what others are saying. I think for myself. And If you don't or can't think for yourself....
stop wasting your time in life.
And if you hate my advice, please explain why so that I can improve on it. Don't tell me that I am stupid and that you hate me, because I don't care what you think of me.
E-mail: power_cjwaight@yahoo.com
Gender: Male
Location: Belize
Occupation: student
Age: 16
AIM: my aim is to be # 1
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hey...i want a new screen name but i cant think of a good one. can anyone help me?im a girl and im 13 years old. my name is rachel. i like softball, the beatles, simple plan, fall out boy, and i also like random quotes and statements and i also just like random things. please! i rate high (link)
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try these:
butter toast
rub a dub dub 3 men in a tub
my computer is protected by viruses
do illeterate people get the full effect of alphabet soup?
you smell like a cheap cheese!
coconuts don't hurt, but they can kill you
sit up right again
DUNG!
99 ways to die, I don't like hippos
or, beatles are dead,
boy i fell for out
stupid plan
Just make something up!
Cj
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where is the country you are from? belize ?? (link)
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yes, I come from Belize.
A beautiful country located in central america.
To our North, we border with mexico. To the west and south, we border with guatemala. Check it out on the net to see how cool this place is.
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okay i like bands like linkin park, thousand foot krutch, aerosmith ect. so what are some other bands like that that i might like ? (link)
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pillar
taproot
audioslave
foo fighters
Fall out boy
alien ant farm
coheed and cambria
evanescence
good charlotte
hoobastank
hawthorne heights
limp bizkit
offspring
story of the year
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okay, 13/f
im on light mode. and some standard.
You who have DDR Extreme... you know the mission modes?
well i cant get past 12-16....
is there any cheats to get past it? i really want to get past it and my sister whom is on heavy cannot get past it.
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Can't you plug in the controller and try with that?
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Okay Please help me on this..
How many inches are in 3/4 yard??
How many cups are in one gallon??
and
How many centimeters in a kilometer??
I rate high!! Thanx (link)
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27 inches
16 cups in one gallon
100,000 centimetres
you really ought to learn the conversions yourself though.
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does anyone have any ideas for the type of cell phone i can get? website would be appreciated.
-takes pictures/videos
-texting
-any price is fine
-doesnt break easily
-sort of "new" and wont go out of date quickly.
-has good service.
thanks i will rate =] (link)
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THe new razr from Motorolla
the official price at motorola.digitalriver.com is 270$
but you could get it between 100$ to 700$ depending on your plan.
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alright, first off i should tell you about my self. i am a 14 year old female, and i have never believed in god, or any of that stuff. ever. my whole family is majorly relgious, and im not. in most cases i am completely different from my family, so it didnt supprise me when i really didnt believe in god.
i dont believe in him, at all, what so ever. and my parents FORCE me too. like i HAVE to go to classes and church every week. i have tried to calmyly tell them, i dont believe in it.. i have tried uncalmly. nothing works.
i believe that religion is a thing that you should choose, it shouldnt be force.
so i need ya'lls help.
how can i really get them to see that i do not believe in this stuff?
i want to come across mature.
thanks for all that is going to help. (link)
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Ok , so you really don't believe in the guy, or do you?
fine you don't , but do you have reason for not believing or are you being prejudice, (judging without reason.)
The best thing to do is not mention it. They believe in christ and force you to church, might as well go, doesn't sound like you have much choice.
As to tell your parents, try this,
"I am not of your religion but seeing as it is your belief systems, I respect it. I also wish that you respect my belief systems allthough they differ from yours"
they key thing is to handle it in a calm matter, and don't the same as them. They are imposing thier religion on you , don't force your beliefs on them. Make as little reference to the matter as possible. If you are fighting against it but still being like them, you are no better than them.
oh yeah, try to live up to the quote that i mentioned above, don't say it but live it. this might solve your problems.
If you think i got the gist of it but not exactly what you wanted ask me again.thanks,
OH, i get you, maybe you don't believe in thier religion, not necceseraly the god of which they speak. some religions simpl belief god created the world and has been inactive ever since. So try a different religion befroe casting God out completely.
Cj
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ok im 13/f 8th grade. im one of the only girls who dosen't/has never had a boyfriend. in 7th grade and down i used to be sortof a tomboy. i still am kindof, but i dont dress like i used to. im starting to dress...like regular girls. i was just wondering what it is about me that guys dont like? i like video games and fighting stuff, and stuff that guys like. a few girls think if i dressed a little different i would be really pretty and stuff. is there anything i should change/traits i should have? i wont completly change my personality, but any tips? and guys, what do yo ulike in a girl?
thanks (link)
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Different guys like different types of girls. yeah you heard that before,
I like girls who are fun to be around, ones that you can hold an intersting conversation with. NOt those snotty ones. Nor ones that think they are popular.If you want to know what i look for physically, i answered that question somewhere in my advice column. look for it.
But basically i like girls (that I think) are cool to hang around with. Not the popular ones who tend to be a bore
No, you sound fun. I reccomend you don't change and just wait, the guy you want will come around. Even if it is next year at high school.
Cj
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can someoene tell me what to get my bf for 6 month anversery? thanks (link)
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I am sorry but you need to put more info into your question.
I could recomend a ring (silver is cheap right?)and a fine night out.
or if you are rich?(i don't know, lack of info.)
buy him a mp3 player.
you see, I can't really give you a good answer.
That is why other columnists avoid your question.
PLease, rewrite your question so we may kno more about the scenario..
Try to include a budget, your personal interests, his interests, if he plays sports, his age, his expecting range, and how much you really like him.
then, I will re-answer and you will recieve more answers from more columnists.
Please rate me high(this is good advice).
Cj
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Do you believe that "God" has already planned out our destiny, or do you believe we make our own destiny?
And do you believe everything happens for a reason, or do you feel that's just some clever line a thinker thought up to try to reduce the amount of stress and anger in our lives? (link)
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I believe we have our own dstiny.
I believe time does not exist, or it exeists but it is not real. Now there are only events. We can create events so activity remains in the ubiverse. It is up to how we wnat to do these events. we can do whatever we want. we are free of destiny.
But the events must be written in logical sequence. So we have a kind of destiny in that sense. (example if I jump off a building, i will be destined to hit the ground and destined to injury) SO yes, things must happen for a reason.
But other than consequences to our actions and the actions of others , we are totally free.
THe future is not written in stone.
And the other piece, I believe in God. He can helps us to good events to plan good consequences for ourselves.
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im looking for a song, or a quote. something like that.. about friendship, about how true friends can make it through anything.. about how best friends are the best thing that can happen. me and my friends have been through rough times and now that its over i know who my TRUE friends are. so, if you can think of something, or know something. can you answer this please? thank you. (link)
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http://www.quotelady.com/subjects/friendship.html
http://www.heartquotes.net/Friendship.html
has some quotes on friendship
and a song is movin on from brandy, (album:Brandy)
or
red hot chilli pepper- me and my freinds
" If you weren' there and i was there, i was so alone and i didn;t care, but you were there"
HOpe i helped.
Cj
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does anyone know how a cheap way to get word out about your website? I cant afford banner ads or for it to show up on google. (link)
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attach your site name and a commercial, to the next chain letter you recieve.
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I'm 13, and I weight 115 lbs. I want to drop a few pounds so that my thighs are slimmer and my stomach doesn't poke out of my shirt. Most of me is pretty skinny except for those 2 areas. I'm horrible with commitment so how do I take off the weight and keep it off? ( I'm very busy so exercising for a long time is a no, I'm not good at staying with the "no soda" act either) (link)
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diet and execrise
only that will work,
try running for 10 minutes a day at high speeds.
(only ten)
and drink only water.
NO snacks
plenty of sleep
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14/f boyfriend 15
me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost three mouths and we still havent kissed. we havent even done anything outside of school.im starting to think that he's prude. what should i do? should i kiss him? if so should i kiss him on the lips or on the cheek? also i dont think he's ever kissed a girl before so i will be his first kiss. please help me because i really dont like going out with people and not being able to kiss them or make out with them. it bugs me when i see other people kissing in the hallway. (link)
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do it'
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I'm in the eight grade and I'm a 14 year old female. Some boys think that i am pretty. But I haven't had my first kiss yet. I want my first kiss to be spectacular, something that I will remember forever.
I feel really left out because all of my friends have had their first kiss and more. I just want to know the ages of people when they got their first kiss and details (like where, how, etc.) it will make me feel better. Thank you in advance! (link)
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you will always remember it no matter what! done!
then, dont pressure about getting one now, we don't get them sometimes till were twenty. so just chill.
and don't do anything stupid.
Cj
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lately ive been having so much trouble with guys. i feel so retarded. im torn between way too many of them =/ [13/f grade 7, in CT]
guy 1: Moved away during the summer, to california. i really love him [i know it]. and i never said goodbye. now i can't get over that. We were obsessed over eachother, and we flirted in the most abvious ways, and then he found my friends xanga; where she had made a comment about me hating him (ii told her things like that to hide the fact i liked him). and he completely stopped talking to me. but time went on, and we still flirted in the most obvious ways.
guy 2: Had a huge crush on me at the end of 6th grade and during the summer. and i sort of liked him. he came bak to school and looked, well, a lot better. he asked out two girls since school started, but still seems to stare at me. Now i feel stupid, because a sure thing fell through.
guy 3: guy 3 is a 6th grader. and i feel so lame liking him. hes really cute and makes me want to dieeee. i see him constantly around the halls and talk to him. but im really ont sure if he likes someone in his grade.
guy 4: this guy, is the etreme of popular. ive always helsd back from liking guys like him. but its hard not to. hes mega cute, when im alone and talk to him hes really nice, but when i look at him with his crowd, i get jealous and angry and want to punch myself for liking him. He's been over to my house a few times because i have a twin brother hes friends with. we've played video games and basketball and things (im really good at basketball), and ive aways kind of wore really short shorts. But, he's dated the etreme popular girl. and i want to punch her for having him like her.
guy 5: ive known him since kindergarten, been over to my house thousands of time. ive seen him in his boxers [yeah, i know], and i've hated him throughout the years. but come this year, i find him cute, and i like him. but because we've been, like, enemies fore a while, im hesitant about the way he feels.
im kind of torn.
So here comes the question portion.
1 = how am i supposed to choose?
2 = who would you choose?
3 = if i really like any of them, wouldn't i be able to choose?
4 = how can i get guys i like to like me back?
i know that this was long, but im in seriouse need of help. love confuses me, and i need to be unconfused for once. (link)
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YOur 13 and going through 5 guys!
heck, just write out thier qualities on a list and eliminate them one by one.
(example: he is not too smart, move him)or(he is too much of a stud, eliminate him)
2 i am not gay so i wont chose one
3 ummmmmmmmm, no?
4 you don't! make a move and if it doesn't work, chose contestant # 2! you got 5 right, one must like you.
Cj
13f in 7th with 5 guys?!?
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Me and one of my friends wanted to play a prank on this annoying guy that had been stalking another friend of ours that works as a waitress. Well actually there were 3 people in on the prank. The owner and chef of the restaurant encouraged us to do this because his waitress (our friend) had been complaining about this guy that always came into the restaurant, asked her out repeatedly, bought her unwelcomed gifts and then followed her home after her shift. So this was the joke: we went into the porn shop, bought all these sex toys, wrapped them, and then signed it to him from a "secret admiror". This would give him a taste of his own medicine. Well when he went into the restaurant and picked up his gift, he blamed it on another customer, and now our friend that owns the restaurant is mad at me and my friend for having one of his regulars upset. But it was HIS idea. I also found out that he thinks that I have a crush on the creep who was stalking the waitress. When I asked why I was told because I was one the ringleaders in the prank. I was furious and told everyone that it was a joke that went too far, and that I wished I hadnt gotten involved. How can I make things right? And why should I have to apologize because I wasnt the only one in on this. (link)
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what is the problem?
people hate you?
don't let that bring you down!
You didn't do anything wrong.
Talk about f***** idiots that hate people for no reason.
now someone hates you so for no reason and you want to apologize to them?
and some cook things you have a cruch on a stalker because he hates you?(for no reason at all?)
Just forget this whole thing,
IN fact, it never even happened!
And now you feel good.
Cj
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Will taking a lot of multivitamins help me lose weight? Or will it make me gain weight? (link)
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to gain weight
EAT
TO lose weight...
DIet and exercise\
multivitamins make sure you don't et sick from a non-balanced diet.
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ok, im asking the guys on this one bc i want a guys point of view but the girls can answer this one if they want. well there's this guy and i liek him alot. he flirts with me all the time but he has a girlfriend. he'll like put his arm around me and stuff some days and then some days he completely ignores me and im so sick and tired of this and i just wanna know what hes doing and ugh im just really hurt!! please let me know thx guys (link)
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AS a guy, i suggest you don't hang out with him.
He likes you and flirts you, but that is cheating cause he already has one. when he is ignoring you, it is probably because he and his girl had a beef about him hanging out with other girls.
He is also checking out his options. you are his option in case......... ie. you are the rebound plan. If you are not # 1 then why should he be your number onein your life.
NOw lets say you ignore that advice and despite everything, you and he hook up. He will not be stright with you for he will always be with other girls besides you.
Comprende?
So just don't get mad, and chill without him like you are already doing, and try to advertise yourself to a type of guys you like.
ADvertise being the operaitive word,
(look pretty! not sexy and advertise to sell your soul)
Dig?
O necessito a decirlo en un otro idioma?
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15f christian....
I used to always masturbate. quite alot. but then about 2 weeks ago i read something that said that masturbating is a sin. well ever since i read that i havent masturbated, i actually gave in yesterday but then i felt reallllly guilty afterwards. is this bad because i mean will it mean i'll never be able to enjoy masturbating? is this normal and will i ever get over it? please help. i rate 5's! (link)
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15m christain.
It may be a sin, it may be not. when it comes to the realm of sin, well.... I do not consider it a sin. It is the habit of masturbation that is a sin. I have not read anywhere in the bible about masturbation being a sin. I have heard that it is wrong in a quote from the CCC. (cathecism of the catholic church).
THe guilt feeling only came that last time, right?
Before you actually felt satisfied right?
well, you could masturbate again if you want to, but you probably will have a sense of guilt about it from now on. SO it won't be fun as it used to.
You may cave in now and again, and you might get over it. Similiar story caught me about six months ago.
I always had a guilty feeling afterwards even though i was going long stretches without doing it. but i really stopped aboout six weeks ago, I almost feel no need to go back. I may feel an urge but i fight it.
After a while it gets easy to fight.
Another advice person mentioned praying after you do it, that just makes you feel more guilty. Instead pray when you get an urge that you may be able to fight it.
Good Luck,
God will hear.
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