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well ok, i got some advice and people say that if ur curious or horny, u should hump something. well like what?

alot of people say dogs. but big stuffed animals are better.

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what is the best eyeliner to buy from sephoras?
links would be great!
thanks in advance
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you cant go wrong with basic black eyeliner.

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im 14/f
okay well ive fallen hard for this guy. The problem is that hes the most popular kid in school, and people say he already likes another girl. He does know me though, so we are more of friends. He thinks i am nice, and funny, and smart. But i want him to know I like him. Whats a non-obvious way to tell him my feelings? How can I get his attention?

where lipgloss always. show o your great figures with tight clothes w/o looking too slutty or easy. laugh loudly to show sense of humor. smile alot to show your friendly. and nothings wrong with putting a twist in the way you walk. giggle when he says something funny. stay close by without stalking him. and have eye contact to show him you've noticed him. (just dont stare at him)

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ok well ive been getting calls lately telling me that someone locally is recomending that i try acting and modeling...ive turned them down many of many of times. But im starting too think maybe i should have said yes the last time they call....im not really into models i think they are anorexic freaks that try too be perfect but i think it could maybe turn out to be a good thing that i do this. ok well ive got the number of the people and was just wandering if maybe i should call them back? do you think maybe it might not be such a bad idea?

thats pretty much where im at. ive been to modeling agencies. they all said i was good. i think you should. its fun and their not all anorexic. plus think of the money. and all the hotties wishing the new you and they were your boo. its totally worth it trust me. its not easy it is going to take work. look up research and watch americas next top model for a second opinion.

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well see my boyfriend is coming over tonight, and weve been going out for like a year. what should we "do" to make it a fun night.

watch movies (thats pretty original)talk alot. get pretty oral w/o going to far. remember you dont want to do anything your not ready for. make sure your both comfortable. and present the atmosphere.

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how do i show this guy that i like from school that i like him but i wont ask him out..at least not just yet. how can i at least lead him on that i like him...but the thing is that i think he likes me back well thats what lots of people think..but i need ways to flirt with him and show that i really do like him....thanks alot [ :

where lipgloss. giggle when he saws something funny. laugh loudly to show your interesting and have a sense of humor. hold your head up high to show confidence. and theres nothing wrong with putting a little twist in the way you walk. if you have good legs then wear skirts. tight clothes is one of the best ways to go. just try not to look slutty or too easy. and remember to always smile to show that your friendly.

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ok so my boyfriend an i have been going out for about a yr and a half but on and off... we are going out for the 4th time now for like 3 months and well his friend told me that he said that he sometimes doesnt like me at all and then at other times he likes me alot... i know im going to like ask him about it and all but im just really confused on what i should do.. any advice is appreciated thanks..oh im 15/f by the way

well it seems the relationship isnt going the right way at all. maybe you should quit before he quits it. or if you realy want the relationship to work out then make it. do more stuff and be more active.

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well, the guy I like is exactly one year younger than me. I'm going to be a sophmore next year. Should I be ashamed? I'm afraid everyone at church will think I cant get a guy my own age. But, I really like him...I think he might too...advice?

o yah thats ok. some girls can be up to 3 years older. you shouldnt care what others think.(even tho it realy is hard sometimes)i dont think anyone will actually think that. if you realy like him then it really shouldnt matter. i actually have alot of freiends (that are girls) that are older than their bf.

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13/f well, im having quite a difficult time with this, but i have been going out with this guy for 6 months. well he is really nice and all. Am i making a big deal about a little thing? or am i not? tell me the truth, but his really really good friend messages me over myspace saying that my boyfriend wants a hug, and why didnt you give him a hug? and that stuff. im just too shy! i know how you guys say just do it. but im too shy for that. im scared he wont see me trying to hug him and accidently walk away. :\ am i just coming up with the worst case senerios? or what i am lost.

your making too big of a deal. so give your boyfriend a hug. noone is going to make fun of you. and your boyfriend will engoy you. theres really nothing to be shy about. 6 months with your boyfriend you should be best friends by now.

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15/f

whats an easy way to loose some weight in a week?
i weight about 135
but i still have a little chub and i want to loose it so can some one please give me ideas how to loose it in about a week?

well run and go to a gym. if your really worried about it then get a proffesional trainer.
get your friends as well to make it fun. cut your dailey intake in half and get rid of fat and sugar from your diet. no bedtime snacks because when you sleep without eating you lose weight. (in the morning you'll be hungry but dont give in)

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ugh, i just got my hair cut, and i absolutely hate it. its just above my shoulder, and it's much too short. any suggestions to make it grow faster??

well sweetie they do make special gel and such for that.bandannas are cute to hide for hair. also short hair in pigtails done right is adorable. im sure it doesnt look too bad. just do some research or go to your local salon for some hair care products.

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ok well my friend says she has cravings to hump stuff but she hates humping stuffed animals and stuff. so she said she tryed humping her dog naked and she said it felted awesome. she went all in to detail saying how (her dog is a boy) how her dogs balls fell so good up against her pussy and all this stuff and i mean she says she loves lickin his balls and all this stuff and i mean HES A DOG!!! so i mean i dunno. she says she makes out with her dog (frenchin it and everything) and she says that she licks his balls and humpes him naked, and she says she likes it. is that normal???

no its not normal. dont make fun of her though. help her out take her to the mall and try to get her a boyfriend. or get her some blind dates.

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Alright, so let's say you are a maybe not depressed, but not happy person.. Maybe like, neutral ALL the time.. & Let's say you take pills for depression.. What happens? Would it help? What would it make you feel like?

NO DO NOT TAKE PILLS! unless they are reccomended by a professional. i know at some times life is hard and boring but it doesnt have to be. make it fun. get your friends. and NEVER be alone. always find something to do because if you not doing anything then your mind starts to think and you dont want that.

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ok my guy friend logan today told me that i am attractive to him. it really shocked me and i think it is going to get in the way of our relationship because it is going to be kinda okward around him. what do i do??


Thanks!!!


Shelby

well that does sound like a shocker. tell him that it was random. it was sweet. try to play it like it doesnt matter. be really nice. eventually the situation will go away. play it normal because remember he's just as embarrases as you probabally.

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ok i am a 13 year old girl, and i weigh 117 pounds. im 5'3 too. i wear a size 8 in womens. and my show size is 9 in womens. are my feet big? or is my weight over weight?

both. but dont worry with a healthy diet and a trainer and some hard work that weight will come off. make it fun. it wont be an easy process but be determined and dont give up. you'll see improvements and be skinny in just a short amount of time.

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I really want a puppy and my mom said the only puppy we can get is if its a really small puppy. Like a chihuahua. Anyways, She doesn't think I would take good care of it. I know I would I've always wanted a puppy. I do not have my license so I am home all summer ( I live in the country so its hard to go to town ) so i would always be here to take it out, walk it, train it, play with it, etc. I just need to write her a small email telling her that I KNOW i can do this. I just need help how to sound very reassuring

prove it to her. show her how responsible you can be. also add that you out in the country where theres nothing to do. a puppy would be good for you. you wont waste your time watching tv but instead you'll be training you dog. do research on the type of dog you want. and look up prices for pet supplies. that will show her that your really seriouse.

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my cousin is obese...and wel tell her to lose weight but she never does...well make fun of her and say we lost weight but she won't ever listen..and everytime were like "r" your obese!!..s.he'll be like nu uh..or no i'm not...she's about 5 2 and 175 in the 6th going to 7th grade...her butt sticks out and her stomach sticks out..i don't know wat to do
her sis will bring it up and tell her then my cousin like shut up no i'm not and call their mom...then their mom will yelll at her sis b/c she brought it up...i don't know wat to do
do you knowo how we can make her lose weight or help her relize it's time to lose weight?

ok heres what you do. play with her. start being active (but dont tell her)play games out side and keep her out of the house. then for food look up healthy snaks that taste really good (like a fruit smoothie with no added sugar) do it together. make it fun. encourage her to make it all the time. (replace it with soda)

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my boyfriend and i have been dating for over a year now. i'm 15 and he is 17. i really do like him but i'm not in love with him. so my first question is...should i be in love with him by now or should i quit wasting my time with him?? i don't wanna break up with him because i really do like him though. and my next one is he has lately been talking about sex a lot. He tried it about 6 months ago but i told him i wasn't ready. he then said okay thats fine we will wait till you are. so i'm still not ready and he is wanting it bad. i really don't wanna lose him to another girl for sex. i would rather lose him because there isn't a strong enough connection than to lose him to lies and sex. You know what i mean?? anyways hwat should i do about this??

theres no answer to the first question 'should i love him by now'. people love differently. you like him and you've been going out with him for over a year so keep going with it. and never give up on love.

tell him no means no and to hold his horses cause your not ready and all he's doing is putting preassure on you. if he loves you like you think then he wont leave you for that

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what do i need to bring when i go to
take my pirmet test in Ariziona? like ID or somthing
and can i make an appointment so i dont
have to wait a long time

you need an ID and proof of residence and an utility bill (like the water or light bill)
yeah sweetie you can make an appointment

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when i am bored i eat. and i'm bored a lot. i'm bored becuase i live in the country and there is nothing to do out here. and most days it's windy or rainy to go outside or its a raging inferno. i hate that i eat so much but it's a way to keep me preocupied. What can i do to stop this?? and i want to go on a diet but i can't stay on it becuase of this boredom thing. it really really sucks and believe it or not it's slowly control and hurting my life. I have no self confidence since this all started. I used to be a skinny minnie but then i got bored with these little things and now i really am over my head and need serious help. please anwer anything you can think of to keep me focused on my diet.

well alot of people have this problem (like my mom). so i know what your saying. i do this too. find a board game. get your friends over. rent a movie. find some interesting things on the computer (thats what i do)read. call your friends up. theres alot of things you could. its not like just because you live in the country and its bad wheather doesnt mean theres nothing to do lovey.

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