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what should i do??
ok so my boyfriend an i have been going out for about a yr and a half but on and off... we are going out for the 4th time now for like 3 months and well his friend told me that he said that he sometimes doesnt like me at all and then at other times he likes me alot... i know im going to like ask him about it and all but im just really confused on what i should do.. any advice is appreciated thanks..oh im 15/f by the way
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well it seems the relationship isnt going the right way at all. maybe you should quit before he quits it. or if you realy want the relationship to work out then make it. do more stuff and be more active.
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I can kind of relate to your relationship with your boyfriend so I can say I am in the same position only the guy that I am talking about is a friend but he has a girlfriend.
It annoys me also that he likes me somedays and it shows then other days he ignores me completly. I don't know how to deal with it so I really don't know what to tell you.
But just confront your boyfriend about it.
Tell him that someone brought it up and you are concerned about it.
Hope all goes well!
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Ok, so you are 15. Is he the same age?
If so, as you are confused as to what to do, he may be confused about his feelings. You guys are young pups yet. If you have been going out off and on for a year and a half, that means you guys have been together off and on since you were what? 13?
You are pretty young to have been in such a, basically, lengthy relationship with one guy, and same goes for him. I'm not saying that is a bad thing at all. I'm just trying to make you understand my point on the possibility of feelings confusion.
Your best bet is like everyone has said, talk to him about it. Only he can tell you what is going on in his head. Besides, he is your boyfriend- he is someone you should be comfortable discussing your thoughts and feelings with.
Hope that made some sort of sense to you.
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yes defintely talk to him about it but dont get angry.. just ask him what it is he means by it.. i mean maybe he said it as like you might make him annoyed or something so he just doesnt like you at the time.. but you guys keep getting back together so i think he might like more than not liking you, ya know? hes your man you've been together for awhile so i know you can talk to him about these things.. just be sure to make it a conversation and not an argument (:
good luckkkk (:
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Well, first of all you have to confront him about this because he (the friend) might not be the most trustworthy person, if he isn't your friend as well he may just be trying to make you feel insecure. It's good that you've decided to do this, it shows that you're level headed about the situation.
If you hear from his mouth that he doesn't always like you, then you two need to end it. Why should you waste your time on someone who doesn't have the best intentions? You should find someone who always genuinely likes YOU, not someone who isn't sure. If he isn't sure about who he likes, then he shouldn't be going out with anyone.
Hope I helped! <3
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