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my cousin
my cousin is obese...and wel tell her to lose weight but she never does...well make fun of her and say we lost weight but she won't ever listen..and everytime were like "r" your obese!!..s.he'll be like nu uh..or no i'm not...she's about 5 2 and 175 in the 6th going to 7th grade...her butt sticks out and her stomach sticks out..i don't know wat to do
her sis will bring it up and tell her then my cousin like shut up no i'm not and call their mom...then their mom will yelll at her sis b/c she brought it up...i don't know wat to do
do you knowo how we can make her lose weight or help her relize it's time to lose weight?
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EDIT: And yet, every time I respond you feel the need to delete the question. Interesting.... Oh, and I DID answer your question the first time. Must we be immature and start with name calling? Honestly.
Hm, and for some odd reason when you deleted your last question and reposted it, your cousin's weight magically changed. I wonder how she gained so much weight in a matter of hours. Very strange. Hmm...
(Eh, give me another 1, I don't care. Just because I didn't give you the answer you WANTED to get, you have to increase her weight to make her ACTUALLY obese. Hm, sad.)
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ok, i know you might not want your cousin to be fat but dont constantly tell her to lose weight. if shes comfortable with it then let it go. your probably just hurting her feelings and if shes your cousin you should respect her for the way she is.
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hay
i think you need to realise that you might be hurting your cousin by calling her fat and saying all that stuff to her about her weight but i know your only trying to help her. you need to see it from your cousins point of view. why dont you try to approach her in a different and nicer way...
maybe join a sport or lesuire activity with her, show her she isnt alone because eating healthy and losing weight is really hard and your cousin needs to know you want to help and give her the motivation she needs.
or you could do active things with her... things she likes doing like maybe bike riding, swimming,
tennis, soccer, netball or you could even go for a walk with her every day or every now and again.
just remember its not going to be easy for your cousin thats why she hasnt done anything about it yet... so show her your with her all the way and you want to help she will realise that and appriciate it....
hope that helps you xoxox
luv sally
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ok heres what you do. play with her. start being active (but dont tell her)play games out side and keep her out of the house. then for food look up healthy snaks that taste really good (like a fruit smoothie with no added sugar) do it together. make it fun. encourage her to make it all the time. (replace it with soda)
hope that helped! if u have any more question just ask me whenever on whatever. tell others too =)
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