let's not bore you with my life story. or completely bore you with who i am.. i'll just tell you that my name is destiny. and i give pretty damn good advice. =]
i think i give good advice,
im gonna be honest, im not gonna add u on myspace,
unless i talk to you,
and get to know you a little,
E-mail: randomconfusionx@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: in georgiaaa, =/
Occupation: single.
Age: 13
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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good? (link)
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i use tampons
they're more comfortable for me
and you can't really feel them
pads just feel like diapers.
if you get pads use always, they're really good.
(:
and if you use tampons
use playtex sport
if you're active
because it's cheaper than most
and it stays in place. (:
i only use playtex tampons in general, though.
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so i'm going to get my belly button pierced soon but i'm really not good with pain and needles... iv gotten my ear pierced and that wasn't too bad but how much more does it hurt to get your belly button pierced than your ear??
and is there anything i can take (painkillers) before i get it pierced so that it won't hurt as much? (link)
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if you get it done with a gun, then it won't hurt
well it will, but only for a second.
but if you do it with a needle.
you can put ice on it, and it numbs it
but it makes the skin tougher and the needle harder to go through.
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i wanted to give my bf a bj but i've never done it before and i wanted to know where you're suppose to spit...like if you're inside...and im afraid of gagging/puking too...i plan on telling him to let me know when he cums and finish with my hand so i don't get it all in my mouth but i'll probably get precum in my mouth, thankyouu. (link)
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lmao. (:
well, you'll wanna just inch it slowly in
and get as much in as you can
and it really doesnt matter how much you get in
lick around the head and focus on that if you can't deepthroat.
lmaoo, i feel sooo wierd for helping with this. XD
but yeah
it's all about the head,
and how you handle it.
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So it's kind of a complicated/long scenario. I was friends with girl #1 for a few months, and had one of the biggest crushes on her ever. We lived apart at the time, so I never told her. She ended up getting engaged which broke my heart. Anyway, the engagement didn't work out, and now she's single again. She's not exactly my type, and to be honest I'm not sure if I can see myself with her forever, but I still really enjoy hanging out with her, I'm the most comfortable around her, and I'm super attracted to her.
Girl #2, I met back in March, we talked off and on but she also went after another guy. That lasted like 3 weeks, and actually the entire time we still talked. The past two weeks, we've been talking nonstop though, like literally everyday for multiple hours. I'm really falling for her, but she lives a long ways away until she comes back to school after summer. She will live 45 minutes away from me, but it's worth it because we have all kinds of stuff in common. Plus I can already tell she likes me even though we haven't actually said it to each other.
Girl #3 is my best friend and first love. She just got out of a really bad relationship, and she keeps coming to me. Everytime we're together now it's really flirty, but she broke my heart the worst about 4 years back. Plus I wouldn't be able to get with her for at least 2 years due to her location.
I'm really starting to like #2, but me and #1 never had a chance to get anything going and I'm still curious about where that could've went. #3 is somewhat out of the picture for now in my mind, but I still think that she could be the one.
Basically my conundrum deals with hurting girls. Since I'm basically rebound guy for all 3, they've all been hurt recently. I'm nervous about hurting #2 the most. I know there's a lot more into each girl that I can't explain, but with what I've put here, who should I go after? I've never had a decision like this in my life. (link)
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just, wait it out.
it's never good to be a rebound
continue talking to eachone .
they all have their special qualities, obviously.
i mean, i don't think you should be with three, personally
because if she's hurt you once she knows the power she has over you
i think two would be the best choice
you've talked to eachother so much youre basically already going out with her,
and you've been hurt, so you know what it feels like to be hurt
which makes there less of a chance of you hurrting her.
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14/f
(I'm going into 9th grade this fall)
So basically I've never had good self esteem, but lately it's really plummeted. I feel like I'm weird or something...like I act really...weird. I don't know how to describe it. Like one of the weird kids in school. I've always wondered if I was...but I have lots of friends and everything...some are kind of weird and some aren't, but I didn't think they rubbed off on me. But I've been noticing lately...over the summer, I've been doing nothing...hanging out with people once every few weeks. But I had a sleepover with my best friend (who's friends with lots of popular people) and we were like taking turns on the Wii and Facebook and everything and I realised I kept saying things like "I'll own you!"(to the Wii) or "sketchy" and stuff and I felt really stupid because she would give me this look every time I did something I felt was dorky or something... believe me, my best friend is not shallow at all and I love her to death so don't blame it on her or something.
But anyways, I feel really ugly and that I have no friends and no one wants to hang out with me...I just feel like a total loser.
Last week on Facebook I posted some chain note thing where you tagged a bunch of your friends and then they were supposed to say their first impressions of you. So a bunch of people responded and the first to posts were from some of my best friends and they both said "haha, i thought u were quiet and weird...ily:)" which made me feel so stupid. The rest were like "idr" or "nice and quiet". I know I'm really quiet, and I really don't know what to do about it. I never thought it made people think I was weird though.
So could I please get some advice? I need to know how to not get so nervous around people (/being quiet) and whatever else...
Oh also, please don't give me the whole "you shouldn't care about what other people think of you" speech because I really don't care. I've heard that enough. This isn't me wondering how I can be popular or something. I truly just feel like a complete loser.
Thanks (link)
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you're not a dork, and youre not lame.
you aer YOU
if you as a person are naturally shy, then you are.
i've had a low self esteem
you just have to point out the good inyourself
like "hey, i have pretty eyes."
or "my hair looks really good"
little things like that makeyou feel better abotu yourself, trust me
people arent gunna think youre pretty and stuff if you don't . (:
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Erm well, there's this guy i like, obviously. He's a school friend and we have started to talk like all the time, he even texts me at 1am sometimes just to 'have a chat' anyway i noticed that when he first started texting me he always ended his messages with one 'x'as like a kiss, and over the weeks one kiss has become 3 and often ended with a casual 'luv ya', but i don't know if its just because we have gotten closer or because he actually likes me, i'm really quite confused... (link)
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i think he likes you, that's tootally cute.
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hey.. i am 14 and i have a huge problem! ... three years ago me my sister and her friend were playing truth or dare. My sisters friend got dared to kiss me on the lips (both of us are girls) i was only 12 at the moment and she was like 11 ... IT MEANT NOTHING TO ME and it was like a little peck ... not a real kiss EWWW i am sooo NOT LESBIAN !!!!!! and i never will be. i am still friend with her and it didnt matter what happend, BUT my sister saw it ... and is black mailing me. i am now 14 going on 15 and the other day she said to my mom that i kissed (her friend) another girl (her friend) !!! just to get back at me for something. I DONT KNOW IF MY MOM BELEIVES HER... but i am scared everyone thinks i am lesbian BUT I AM SOOO NOT EWWWW!!! i have had a boyfriend and all ..... my sister definitly thinks i like her friend BUT I DONT !!! it was a dare... and she did it to me... it was like not even a second long... and it is RUINING MY LIFE!!!!! and this happend 3 years ago.. I MEAN GET OVER IT!!! (sorry i am just blowing off steam l o l ) :p Answer A.S.A.P. ALSO I DENY EVER WORD OF IT ... i always say she is lying and it never happend ... but what if people beleive her LIES!!
What do you think?? What should i do?? PLEASE ANSWER A.S.A.P.
thnxs: (link)
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okay, im gunna be a lil bitch.
BEING A LESBIAN IS NOT GROSS.
sorry, i jus had to say that.
just keep denying it.
talk to your sister and tell her that she's being mean and stupid.
that it was a DARE.
and if i think i'm right your sister prolly dared your freind to kiss you
and tell your mom that (if it's true) your sister dared the girl to kissyou.
and that it didnt mean anything
and you thought it was gross.
and you'll never do it again
and you didnt even wanna do it.
and that you have a bf.
blahblah. (:
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We have a park in our neighborhood. Haha, yup. Recently the slide got broken so they are going to add another, and they put up stuff so that people can't ride it as well as several notices explaining what was going on and that they were going to add a new one. it also had a phone number of someone if you wanted extra info or something. I've been thinking of calling the person to talk about my idea to fix up the park. like it would be great for college admissions if like teens in the neighborhood get involved, and it sounds like a fun memorable thing to do to bring our neighborhood more together. cause our park is pretty crappy. All that is there is a tire swing, 4-way seesaw with baby size seats, a dumb slide, a bench, a place for playing in the sand, and plain monkey bars. i think we could do so much more. Improving the park will make more people want to hang out there or bring their kids more often to the park, as well as increase property values, I think. Which is good cause my family is moving next summer, haha. Extra $$$ = good.
what are ideas? like i really want to add a merry go round, a legit swingset (not the dumb tire swing. nobody likes it and it makes people wanna puke), a cooler slide.. etc. like pretty much pump up the volume. idk whats new with park stuff for kids so please tell. like cause my younger brother and a lot of kids find that theres not much to do at the park at all. oh yeah and under the stuff is woodchips. surrounded by the park is all this land, that doesn't belong to people. the problem is that this land is hills, and the hills are next to people's properties. i want to expand the park. possibly even add a public pool but that would be by a stretch cause we'd need a lot for that and im not even sure if there's enough space for a good one. the whole place would probably have to be transformed into a pool place... im not sure whether thats a good idea or not.
I kinda want to know what im doing before I call the lady.. like I dont know what we could do for fundraising as well. I'm 15 years old by the way, and about to be a high school sophomore. I live in a suburb, haha. Thanks! (link)
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get a petition,
get people and parents around the neighborhood that want to help,
and ask them to sign it,
also get a roster, liek to see who would be willing to help put everything together.
then call the lady and tell her that people in the neighborhood would really liek some renovations in the park
and that they'd be willing to help if needed.
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16/f
my boyfriend of 2 years just moved to texas. i live in virginia. i need to find a way to be with him again but i dont know how. my parents are very strict and would probably not let me go to texas to stay with him, so if i were to buy a plaane ticket i would have to do it behind their backs somehow. if thats possible? or i was thinking of taking a train to visit but i dont know the cost or how long it would take. i want to be with him long term but i dont know how to be. his mom isnt as strict as mine and would let me stay with him but i just dont know how. my parents would never let me. please help, im desperate right now i need to see him so bad (link)
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well, i mean.
err, damn.
this is a toughy.
get your parents to go with you.
i mean, if his mom's cool, then it might be alright
tell them that you really care about him, and you wannt to see him.
and that since they wont let you go alone they could go too
but talk to his mommy first.
that way it doesn't backfire .
research all the information
flight times and everything, then talk to his mom about it
and talk to your parents about it,
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So.. um. My best friend is starting the last year of high school this year, and her mom is very sick and is going to die. Lately she has been in a very bad psychological state, depressed and stuff like that. She has been drinking quite a lot, and when she was drunk the other day she started telling me stuff like she doesn't know what to do if her mother dies, and half her life is going to go away and stuff like that. She also said she's happy she has all of us (her friends) and stuff, but generally she sounded like she was really in a horrible mental state.
Can you please give me advice on what I can do? (link)
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my moms dying too.
it's the hardest thign i've ever gone through, and i've been through alot
all i can say is that you need to be there for her
and have her around her mom,
get her to spend as much time with her mommy as possible,
it'll be worse if she doesnt spend time before her mom passes
i know this wasnt very helpful
but if you take her to a therapist it might help
inform her of like, her mom's condition.
let her know why she's dying and everything
sometimes it helps to understand.
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ok so i like this guy and today we were on the bus together. (not school bus, i live in england so we were on the red kinda bus :P)
he was sitting downstairs in the back and i was standing at the door and was about to go off. i looked at him and he looked back at me smiling a little (but he always smiles so i dno if that meant smth) then i thought maybe i should look at himn one mor etime before i go off and then this girl came downstairs and he was looking at HER.
so i was a bit dissapointed because i thought he fancys me since he notices me alot in school.
i dno if him looking at at her meant smth so i'm jzst asking, would a guy look at a interesting looking girl even if the girl he really fancies is standing next to her?
(sorry if im making a big deal, and dont tell me that, just answer my question :/)
thankss :] (link)
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In all honesty. All guys are like that. Maybe he thought she was pretty. Or sexy. Or pretty sexy. Guys look. It's nothing big to worry about.
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my boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we just started having sex at the begining of the year.
he doesnt really last that long, and its understandable because i was his first.
normally we have a quickie first and then wait a while and the 2nd time he always lasts longer...but sometimes it's difficult for him to get hard and stay that way....how long should we be waiting...and any other tips? (link)
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Maybe it's because you're his first. It's no big deal. :D nothing to be worried about.
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Okay, my ex and i are really great friends. Actually, we act as if we're more that friends. As if we were a couple. Yes, kisses included and everything. He's pretty much like a best friend, we've gotten closer now that we broke up. I like him a lot, and i KNOW he likes me the same way too. Now you ask, why are we still not together? This guys also happens to like not only me but MY best friend. Which is pretty messed up if you ask me, but then again i know you really can't control who you have feelings for. But anyways, thats the reason why we broke up. And MY best friend actually told me that SHE liked HIM too. But, thing is she has a boyfriend. Isn't this all just really weird and confusing? Yeah well, i need help. What do i dooo? (link)
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screw giving you sympathy like everyone else has tried to do.
but imma give you the hard truth.
if you like him more than your friend
she should back off.
and she has a boyfriend
she should be happy with that.
if she liked the other guy more.
she would've already hooked up with him.
stay friends with benefits with the guy,
and wait till the flame between him and your friend cools down.
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Please only people who know what they're talking about. i would just like to know what to do and what to not do when giving a guy head please dont judge im curious (link)
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okay.
first of all.
DON'T BITE HIM.
unless he wants to get kinky,
or he wants you to.
then it's okay.
uhm.
practice on a popcicle.
trust me.
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uhm.
yeah.
just do it when you're comfortable.
go in for it, like a kiss.
and just,
suck.
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sorry if its in the wrong category-
but my sweet 16 is coming up in about a month
money isnt really an issue
i live in california near beaches
but i dont really wanna go there
i wanna do something fun
that people will remember
maybe with just really close friends
but still
i need help i dont know what to do (link)
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how about in a hotel.
like.
in the penthouse or the ballroom.
like, have a dj.
and like. confetti.
and dancing.
and pretty dresses.
and cake. and some food.
like. finger foods.
(mini hotdogs, little crackers with cheese on them etc.)
and like,have a big bowl of punch
yay punch.
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hope i helped.
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me= 16/f
him=17/m
we've been dating nearly a year and im in need of ideas of gifts to give him on our 1 year. I love him with all my heart he's the sweetest guy ive ever met and a lil emotional. i want the gift for hjim to be amazing and remind him of me since he's gotten me many amazing gifts such as a ring, neclace, and an adorable stuffed animal to cuddle with. I dont want the gift to be something to do with his interests cuz thats more of a christmas/b-day gift. I want it to be just something that reminds him of Us and our amazing year together. we havent taken many pictures so a scrapbook wont work im thinking that for our 2 year when we have more things to put in it.
give me as many ideas as possible i need a ton!!
thanks (link)
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uhm, how bout.
(adding onto what the person before me said)
12 textmessages, that say i loveyou.
12 kisses on his cheek. :]
12 whispers of iloveyou.
i hope i helped.
i'll think of more
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ok im 14 and my penis, when erect like right about where the circumsized line is...like it gets smaller like i have a bilge that goes out on both sides...and also like from my view when i llok down theres this big vein or something, that like pops out and you can see it even when i dont have a boner it's blue and lol....it's shaped like a candycane ...like an upsidedown J, it doesn't hurt or anything it is just kinda wierd how it bulges out...please explain both things please..thanks (link)
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okay, my ex boyfriend says.
that it's because your penis is a muscle.
idk the answer to the other question though.
sorrrrrry.
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do most girls have vibrators? and if so how often do they use them? (link)
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it's a prefrence.
if you want one.
you should get one.
but be careful
there are precautions.
but if you have a partner
use it with him,
it'll most likely turn him on.
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I haven't had my period for a little bit over 2 months now, and I am getting worried. I haven't been sexually active, and if I have I have absolutely no memory of it. But I am still very worried that something is wrong. I started my period like 1 year ago, and I usually have my periods around the same time as my mother, but again, I haven't have my period in a little over in 2 months. I mean, my mom has had 3 periods so far, that means I missed 3. So is there something I should be worried about? (link)
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since you haven't had your period,
your pattern might be irregular.
but go to a doctor just in case,
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ok, im 14 years old. i have been sexually active with three guys. ive had sex with one 2 times an almost had sex with the third guy hours after i met him. the second guy ive done almost everything with except sex. ive known the guy i had sex with for 3 an a half years, the second guy 2 years an the third guy a couple months now but only hours before the incident. there was supposed to be a fourth guy tonight but i was to confused. did i mention all these guys are my older brothers best friends? the oldest is about 17 an the youngest guy was 15 turning 16. does this mean im a slut? even if i havent had SEX with them all, only one? (link)
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honestly,
that is kinda slutty.
but you have to be able to determine if your a slut
if you don't wanna be, you don't have to be.
you can change if you want to.
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but yeah.
tone it down.
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