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NOT LESBIAN !!!!!
hey.. i am 14 and i have a huge problem! ... three years ago me my sister and her friend were playing truth or dare. My sisters friend got dared to kiss me on the lips (both of us are girls) i was only 12 at the moment and she was like 11 ... IT MEANT NOTHING TO ME and it was like a little peck ... not a real kiss EWWW i am sooo NOT LESBIAN !!!!!! and i never will be. i am still friend with her and it didnt matter what happend, BUT my sister saw it ... and is black mailing me. i am now 14 going on 15 and the other day she said to my mom that i kissed (her friend) another girl (her friend) !!! just to get back at me for something. I DONT KNOW IF MY MOM BELEIVES HER... but i am scared everyone thinks i am lesbian BUT I AM SOOO NOT EWWWW!!! i have had a boyfriend and all ..... my sister definitly thinks i like her friend BUT I DONT !!! it was a dare... and she did it to me... it was like not even a second long... and it is RUINING MY LIFE!!!!! and this happend 3 years ago.. I MEAN GET OVER IT!!! (sorry i am just blowing off steam l o l ) :p Answer A.S.A.P. ALSO I DENY EVER WORD OF IT ... i always say she is lying and it never happend ... but what if people beleive her LIES!!
What do you think?? What should i do?? PLEASE ANSWER A.S.A.P.
thnxs: <3 :)
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okay, im gunna be a lil bitch.
BEING A LESBIAN IS NOT GROSS.
sorry, i jus had to say that.
just keep denying it.
talk to your sister and tell her that she's being mean and stupid.
that it was a DARE.
and if i think i'm right your sister prolly dared your freind to kiss you
and tell your mom that (if it's true) your sister dared the girl to kissyou.
and that it didnt mean anything
and you thought it was gross.
and you'll never do it again
and you didnt even wanna do it.
and that you have a bf.
blahblah. (:
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I completely understand the situation you are in, i never kissed one of my friends, but my sibling has accused me of being lesbian in front of my family before. honestly, she doesnt really think you are a lesbian, in fact, she knows it. the only reason she is saying it, is to get a reaction out of you which she did. (dont worry my sibling got a reaction out of me too.) dont worry about your family believing it, let them believe whatever they want, just tell them the truth, that your straight, and even if they are suspicious, they will find out the truth soon enough when you get a boyfriend. As for reactions go, considering your sister aknowledges the fact that it bothers you when she says that about you, even if you dont react the next time she says it, she will probably continue to say it for a little longer just to see if she can crack you. next time she says something like that and you are around your parents, just act cool calm and collected, and say, no im not. It might not seem like progress is being made with the blackmailing to end, but it is. also, try to be the bigger person, always stay calm, and you will be golden. try not to let what your sister says effect you too much, and definately dont take it to heart, shes just busting your chops, trust me, i know haha i have a sister and brother of my own. things will be back to normal in no time. and try to just stay low for a while, show her that you are more mature and she will take to your example and start acting nicer.
good luck!!! let me know how this works out for you!
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