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i dont have v cast on my verizon phone. i mean i have the song id thing. but not the thing i can acually listen to like you download songs like from limewire so it like an mp3 player kinda. so can you please tell me how to get it ? thanks. (: (link)
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it depends what phone you have. it may not be compatible at all with your phone. if it is, i believe the only way to do it is bring it to the verizon store at one of the ones that has "technical pick up" not those dinky franchise stores that you sometimes see in the mall. also, this site might be useful: http://www.mobiledia.com/
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i want a scene haircut but cant find any pics to decribe to the hairdresser, any help?? (link)
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look on myspace.
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background:im 16/f
bf is 15/m
been dating 1 week short of 6 months.
live 30 mins away, and see each other once on the weekends.
do u think its weird that i told my bf i love him on april 27 and he didnt say it back because he said he wasnt ready.and he still hasnt said anything?
its fine that hes not saying it because i take sayin " i love you" seriously and all.but i just think its weird he hasnt said it.i dont want to push him. but i'd like another guys opinion.
thank you (link)
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you gotta remember boys mature a lot slower than girls. he's probably just scared and/or might even love you just doesnt even know what it is. dont take it as him trying to be mean, he's just scared probably.
if he shows you he cares and you guys have lasted this long you dont need to actually hear the words to know it's true.
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so my boyfriend sometimes says things like tomorrow we're going shopping...what kinda ring do you want? or you're perfect lets get married...or That finger would look even more beautiful with a big diamond ring on it...and stuff like that. is he just joking around or does he really want to get married? i'm 17 and he's 19 which is legal where i live but we've only been together for a few months and i deffiently don't want to get married but he says he loves me and blah blah blah...so i dont know what to think/say when he says stuff like this. I usually just laugh or something but yeah...it kinda weirds me out. (link)
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tell him it weirds you out. tell him to stop mentioning it or else it will never happen, and that IF and when youre ready you'll bring it up to him.
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ok this is kinda bad i know but here goes. i'm 17/f and theres this guy i met online who's 20 (its legal where i am) We talked for awhile and he said all of this stuff about how he really liked me and i was amazing and beautiful and i wasn't really sure that i liked him but i liked being liked so i kept talking to him. I was his friend on facebook, along with about 70 other highschool girls with skanky pictures who he still talks too, but anyways he started talking dirty to me and we exchanged some pictures and such and eventually we met up. By this time i liked him too. We hung out for awhile..went to a movie and dinner...and then in his car...yeah....lol i feel like a slut but whatever.
And now he's saying stuff like he wants to have a threesome with my mom or my sister or one of my friends. and he talks to all of these skanky girls on facebook. But he also says stuff like i want to get you pregnant so you're stuck with me, i wanna be with you for ever, i wanna marry you, i want you to move in with me, and even...ugh i love you.
He swears all this stuff he says is true and he seems pretty sincere but if i'm the only girl for him like he's said then why is he still talking to so many other girls and wanting to have a threesome? (link)
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he is a loser and a half. you dont need him. no one who cares about someone threatens with pregnancy, first of all. second of all youre right about skanky girls being a warning sign.. he doesnt care about you he cares about getting booty. and thirdly, you wont get this until youre older but he is a huge loser if he is going for younger girls. believe me. please get away from him. you'll find another guy even older if that's the only kind you prefer who can treat you right. take it from me he doesnt love you he just loves to fuck you. tell him you forgot to tell him you have a boyfriend that has a gun or something. hahaha. (joking about that last part)
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i'm 17/f and i want to know if i'm like ok looking... i know its hard to tell without a picture but i'll try to explain lol. My bf says i have the nicest body but i'm like ew i look gross. Please don't answer with things like its about personal prefference or its whats on the inside that counts.
i'm 5'7, thin..about 115lbs, i'm an a cup, my waist is about 25 inches and around my hips is about 38...and my inseam is 34. I know i'm not cut out to be a pornstar or anything but i'm just wondering if i'm ok looking. I've always thought of myself as discustingly skinny and unproportionate. And yes i do eat and no i can't gain weight no matter what i do (link)
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hardly anyone is happy with their body. but at the same time no one is going to love it for you, that's up to you. in your case though, you're close to the societal standards of beauty because youre thin. either way, i can tell you that there are men out there that like every shape so you dont need to worry in that department.. just worry about loving yourself and what you do like about yourself. and drink some boost shakes i guess! haha. good luck sweetheart.
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i'm 18/f and i've never had an orgasm before...what are somethings i can try or tell my fiance to try to help me reach an orgasm?
also he's never came from just a blowjob and i want to make him so how do you give a really good blowjob? lol thanks (link)
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watch porn very carefully for bj tips. i could give them here but they can get pretty graphic. as for the big O for you almost every woman will tell you her first orgasm was from herself. or at least that she has learned what feels good from practicing on herself. once you figure that out, then you can tell your fiancee exactly what to do (it might seem weird but good sex is ALL about communication). you can email me if you have more questions, if you want. good luck sweetie.
pseudospork@gmail.com is the email.
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it seems like whenever i chew sugarless gum, i get really bad gas, and sometimes even diarrhea (gross, i know). i usually chew two pieces at a time if it's not in stick form, and i get a new piece more often that other people. am i allergic/intolerant of something in the gum? should i see a doctor about it or something? (link)
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you might be allergic, and i'd say stop chewing it right now and go see a doctor. it may not be due to the gum chewing at all but just in case it is and youre making some kind of condition (god forbid) worse, stop for now and at least talk to a doctor over the phone about it.
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My younger sister is pregnant,and I am so excited! Upon finding out this great news, I started to plan a baby shower, as I feel it is my place to give the shower plus I want too. At some point my cousin called me to let me know she was giving the shower and I could help her. My sister and cousin are not close. They have spoke twice upon learning of the pregnancy. Once at my daughters graduation, the other at a funeral. I called my cousin and told her it means alot to me to give my sister and new niece this baby shower. With alot of attitude she agreed that I could plan it, and requested that I plan it around her volleyball schedule and her brothers birthday. I think she is being rude, and I am soooo annoyed. Am I overreacting? (link)
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no, you are not overreacting at all. it sounds like she just wants to be the center of attention and perhaps is even trying to live vicariously through your sister. either way, you have the right idea: you should plan it. you know her a lot better and so your shower will probably be better because you know what she likes! try not to worry too much about your cousin's opinion of you, it sounds like she has enough of a high opinion of herself for everyone. i may be wrong but i have a hunch i'm right. just do what you are doing: think what your sister would like and dont try to please anyone else. this is YOUR immediate family.
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what are some good songs.. (preferablly hip hop/r&b/rap) that describes how your with someone and you love the feeling but you don't want to be with them because you're scared of getting hurt. and it confuses you so much inside. thanks guys (link)
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almost every mary j blige song? haha.
http://www.lyricscafe.com/b/blige_maryj.htm
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I'm 16. I've never drank, done drugs, or done anything with a guy. I'm pretty okay with that because I do really well in school, have never gotten in trouble before, and still have alot of fun with my friends. I actually have a good time just reading a book or watching TV or whatever. Is that weird? I mean, I kind of hang out with a really straight-edged kind of group of people, and I don't really mind that. Am I the only one in high school who actually IS a good girl like that? Because sometimes I feel like everybody's out getting drunk at crazy parties while I'm at home reading a book. Haha. Hopefully good things come to those who wait and DON'T make stupid decisions in high school? I just don't want to look back at high school when I'm older and wish I did crazier stuff... What do you think? (link)
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No honey! It may not seem like it now but it is SO much better to be the good girl. Being a bad girl just to look back on experimenting with it doesn't seem like a very good reason to me. I can tell because I know that "real bad girls" don't even think about it this way, they just do it.
I'm about to be a senior in college and high school is almost completely forgotten. I know that may be hard to believe, but it's true and it's true for almost all of my friends too.
You'll see, not too long after high school it doesnt matter at ALL what you were like: except grades. Grades prevail, nothing else does. If youre reading books, expanding your knowledge and your brain (and not killing its cells with drunk and high-ness) you are one above those people, even if it doesnt feel like it now.
I'm one of the ones who partied and probably all I have out of it now I have to quit cigarettes and not party so much! I'm still very intelligent and I have goals for my future but those that were the "good girls" in high school are probably doing better than me!
So to make a long story short, experiment if you must but just know that it REALLY doesnt matter what you did in high school or who you were friends with (except those few friends that you will still talk to years after high school. and yes, it is always just a few. i talk to more people from high school than most people i know and i only talk to less than 10 people frequently).
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I think I may have depression.I just always feel sad and I don't have any motivation do do anything.What are some things I can do besides seeing a doctor or something? (link)
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Signs of depression: helplessness, worthlessness, thoughts of suicide, getting sad or angry for "no reason", lack of motivation, too much or too little sleep, high risk behaviors like sex romps and illegal drug use, anxiety, being really sad and not knowing why.
If you have a lot of these and it IS clinical depression, it may be too much for you to handle alone. Only you can make that decision. If you realize that you could use some help, then please go for it. It can really make your life better. Just remember that depression is not your FAULT and there is no way to go but up. You don't have to tell your parents, by the way, if that is what you are worried about. If you talk to a school counselor they are not allowed to tell your parents (unless you indicate you will harm others or yourself). There are also hotlines you can call that are also completely anonymous and confidential.
This website has some links you can look through that you may find helpful: http://teenadvice.about.com/od/depressionhelp/Depression_Help_Lines.htm
Good luck and remember it is important to stay true to yourself!
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Lately I've been getting angry over nothing. It's getting really weird. Like tonight I said hi to someone I knew and they didn't say hi back so I kept walking and got really angry and I felt like stabbing or punching something. Even if I think abut something it will trigger anger all of a sudden and I'll feel like stabbing something.
What's going on with me?
How can I do anythiing about it?
Thanks (link)
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There is something big (that may not have even seemed big to you) in your life that has made you angry. Most likely rooted in your family life. To completely get rid of the angry feelings you will at one point have to address whatever this was that has made you so angry. But to treat the SYMPTOMS (like your example of getting angry over "nothing")
Here are some tips from this website http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/anger-management/MH00102
* Take a "time out." Although it may seem cliche, counting to 10 before reacting, or leaving the situation altogether, really can defuse your temper.
* Do something physically exerting. Physical activity can provide an outlet for your emotions, especially if you're about to erupt. Go for a brisk walk or a run, swim, lift weights or shoot baskets.
* Find ways to calm and soothe yourself. Practice deep-breathing exercises, visualize a relaxing scene, or repeat a calming word or phrase to yourself, such as "take it easy." You can also listen to music, paint, journal or do yoga.
* Once you're calm, express your anger as soon as possible so that you aren't left stewing. If you simply can't express your anger in a controlled manner to the person who angered you, try talking to a family member, friend, counselor or another trusted person.
* Think carefully before you say anything so that you don't end up saying something you'll regret. Write a script and rehearse it so that you can stick to the issues.
* Work with the person who angered you to identify solutions to the situation.
* Use "I" statements when describing the problem to avoid criticizing or placing blame. For instance, say "I'm upset you didn't help with the housework this evening," instead of, "You should have helped with the housework." To do otherwise will likely upset the other person and escalate tensions.
* Don't hold a grudge. Forgive the other person. It's unrealistic to expect everyone to behave exactly as you want.
* Use humor to release tensions, such as imagining yourself or the other person in silly situations. Don't use sarcasm, though — it's just another form of unhealthy expression.
* Keep an anger log to identify the kinds of situations that set you off and to monitor your reactions.
* Practice relaxation skills. Learning skills to relax and de-stress can also help control your temper when it may flare up.
These may not all apply to you, but you get the idea. Just remember that a lot of times it is not worth it to blow up, because it just ends up damaging YOU quite literally (increased blood pressure, stress levels, headaches, etc.).
Hope this helped, and good luck.
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During the course of my college dwelling, I took a few courses in psychology, there are two subjects that intrest me psychology and english.
Personally I can see my self fitting the same portrait of a schizoid, just by the characteristics and appearance they put down.
"A person with schizoid personality disorder:
Does not desire nor enjoy close relationships, even with family members
Avoids social activities that involve significant interpersonal contact
Appears aloof and detached People with schizoid personality disorder are loners and show little interest in developing close relationships.
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I'm serious though its a hell of a thought go look at this site and read a little you will feel like one of this disorders describes you.
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/mentalhealthandbehavior.html (link)
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The most important thing to remember is NO ONE or NOTHING can diagnose you except a licensed professional. That includes lists of symptoms and those free quizzes you find online. Lists of symptoms are nothing more than that: there are other requirements in diagnosing disorders. In any disorder this collection of symptoms are reflecting a huge problem that interferes with normal activities. Also know that the mind is a very powerful thing: you can convince yourself of anything and ignore things you don't want to see. Without trying to sound mean, i think this may be what you are doing. But of course if you really think you have a problem (and thought so BEFORE you took this psych class), then you should go for an in-person psychological consultation. I'd like to think I know what i'm talking about because I am a senior psychology major. Good luck and try not to freak out over something that might be nothing!
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my boyfriend wants me to send him something sexual in a message on myspace to like arouse him i have a pretty good idea of what im going to say.. does anyone else have any good ideas on what you would say?
thankss. (link)
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Good adjectives to use:
wet, pink, tight, hot, dripping
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I am a girl and I went to private school most my life and they don't really teach about sex there. I was wondering if you have to go inside a girl during oral for the girl to have an orgasm. I am new at this and sometimes it hurts to finger so I wasn't sure if I had to have a finger in me in order to reach orgasm. Thanks. (link)
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Everyone is different regarding how they reach orgasm. Some people don't get off on penetration at ALL, some love it. And 99.9% of women like clitoral stimulation. There IS a right way to finger. Make sure hands are clean and nails are short. Curl your fingers a bit like as if you were saying "Come here." It's just something you have to experiment with to become good with, like everything else in sex. Random other tip: during female oral, sticking the tongue in the hole feels so amazing.
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Apart from washing and cleaning yourself properly and regulary is there anything else I can do to improve the taste/smell of my vagina?
Like ive looked at some flavoured lubricants, but they taste disgusting.
Does anyone have any suggestions on anything i could do or a good type of flavoured lubricant? (link)
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A REAL man likes the natural smell/taste. Just remember that. You shouldn't worry too much about it because douches or even excessively washing your vagina can cause mild infection because your vagina needs those certain "friendly" bacteria to work properly. Vaginas are kind of like cats. They don't seem like they're very clean, but they always are.
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15/m
how big do you have to be to wear a magnum? normal condoms are too tight on me and cut off the circulation.
i'm alittle more than 8inches. is that big enough? (link)
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Magnums have much less to do with length than they do width. If regular condoms are tight, you definitely should get magnums. I call them "the golden ticket!"
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I love my boyfriend and I have been going out with him for more than two months, lets just say three months. I made the play and there is this really hot gothic boy that I think Im starting to crush on who is also in the play. He admitted to liking me. We hug all the time and talk real flirty to eachother. The only thing is, I might not see him again after the play is over. Should I break up with my boyfriend to go out with him or stay with my boyfriend who I love more than anything?
Also, is it wrong to like someone else when you have a boyfriend? (link)
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it's questionable that you "love your boyfriend more than ever" if you are crushing on another guy. it's not necessarily a bad thing, but it's just true. cuz liking another guy is spreading some of your love to someone else, so that's not loving your current boyfriend more than anything.
the fact that you think another guy is cute and are flirting with him means that youre not completely true to your current man and that's a sign that you're questioning the relationship. have a talk with him about where the future of your relationship may lay, or just break up with him.
see exactly what you "love more than anything" about your boyfriend and exactly what new goth boy may be able to offer you now that your current boyfriend may not be able to or maybe doesnt anymore.
be true to your feelings and your heart.
it could go either way. but you do decide to stay with your boyfriend it really isn't a good sign/idea to flirt with someone else. to pick him would mean you dont have a crush on goth boy anymore and like everything he offers you. if you really love someone, trust me, you have no desire to want someone else. like i said, just be true to what you're feeling. it's up to you.
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ok so my girlfriend is going to give me a blowjob very soon, and though neither of us want to admit it, we both have our questions
like..
where do i uh. ejaculate
ive heard the whole spit or swallow deal, but i cant imagine that enjoyable either way hah (link)
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if she wants to swallow, let her obviously.
ask if it's okay to have it in her mouth at all. if not, just do it in a tissue. or your hand first and then a tissue. if youre about to cum you can even take it away from your mouth a second and jerk it off a little into a tissue or your hand or both. if she doesnt care and wants it in her mouth and then spits it out into a tissue, that's also another option.
just ask her which way she likes the best and try the one you both will want to do.
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