I love my boyfriend and I have been going out with him for more than two months, lets just say three months. I made the play and there is this really hot gothic boy that I think Im starting to crush on who is also in the play. He admitted to liking me. We hug all the time and talk real flirty to eachother. The only thing is, I might not see him again after the play is over. Should I break up with my boyfriend to go out with him or stay with my boyfriend who I love more than anything?
Also, is it wrong to like someone else when you have a boyfriend?
the fact that you think another guy is cute and are flirting with him means that youre not completely true to your current man and that's a sign that you're questioning the relationship. have a talk with him about where the future of your relationship may lay, or just break up with him.
see exactly what you "love more than anything" about your boyfriend and exactly what new goth boy may be able to offer you now that your current boyfriend may not be able to or maybe doesnt anymore.
be true to your feelings and your heart.
it could go either way. but you do decide to stay with your boyfriend it really isn't a good sign/idea to flirt with someone else. to pick him would mean you dont have a crush on goth boy anymore and like everything he offers you. if you really love someone, trust me, you have no desire to want someone else. like i said, just be true to what you're feeling. it's up to you. [ pseudospork's advice column | Ask pseudospork A Question ]
neka answered Tuesday October 24 2006, 10:57 pm: no dont break up with your boyfriend for him! have you ever heard the saying "dont leave the one you love for the one you like because the one you like will leave you for the one they love" you might not pay attention to it but it can happen trust me! its not like a crime to like someone when you have a boyfriend but its best that you dont! i think i may be a good thing that you wont see him after the play that way you can focus on your boyfriend again!
good luck!
neka [ neka's advice column | Ask neka A Question ]
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