ok this is kinda bad i know but here goes. i'm 17/f and theres this guy i met online who's 20 (its legal where i am) We talked for awhile and he said all of this stuff about how he really liked me and i was amazing and beautiful and i wasn't really sure that i liked him but i liked being liked so i kept talking to him. I was his friend on facebook, along with about 70 other highschool girls with skanky pictures who he still talks too, but anyways he started talking dirty to me and we exchanged some pictures and such and eventually we met up. By this time i liked him too. We hung out for awhile..went to a movie and dinner...and then in his car...yeah....lol i feel like a slut but whatever.
And now he's saying stuff like he wants to have a threesome with my mom or my sister or one of my friends. and he talks to all of these skanky girls on facebook. But he also says stuff like i want to get you pregnant so you're stuck with me, i wanna be with you for ever, i wanna marry you, i want you to move in with me, and even...ugh i love you.
He swears all this stuff he says is true and he seems pretty sincere but if i'm the only girl for him like he's said then why is he still talking to so many other girls and wanting to have a threesome?
VeNzUeLa answered Monday June 2 2008, 9:54 am: Firstly, he's LYING! He can lie about anything online, about how he wants you, how he cares and most of all, how he 'loves' you! You don't really know him so well, he could be lying... about EVERYTHING! Including his age!
Wanting a threesome with your MOM, sister and friends just shows how much he disrespects you! He just wants to get into your pants, talking dirty to you is another way of showing disrespect. He could hurt you, physically etc. The fact that he talks to SO many skanky girls, you can only imagine what he could be carrying! And he probably says the EXACT same thing he is saying to you to ALL those other girls, hoping to get into their pants!
So, ignore whatever he says, block him and remember you don't REALLY know him and finding people online and making them more than friends is something risky.
pseudospork answered Monday June 2 2008, 1:22 am: he is a loser and a half. you dont need him. no one who cares about someone threatens with pregnancy, first of all. second of all youre right about skanky girls being a warning sign.. he doesnt care about you he cares about getting booty. and thirdly, you wont get this until youre older but he is a huge loser if he is going for younger girls. believe me. please get away from him. you'll find another guy even older if that's the only kind you prefer who can treat you right. take it from me he doesnt love you he just loves to fuck you. tell him you forgot to tell him you have a boyfriend that has a gun or something. hahaha. (joking about that last part) [ pseudospork's advice column | Ask pseudospork A Question ]
orphans answered Monday June 2 2008, 12:50 am: Personally I think you need to say goodbye. He's no good he's only out to get a nut off. If he really wanted you he wouldn't talk to all those other "slutty" chicks. Yes you made a mistake but hey, we are only human. Set him straight. A good friend (a guy) once told me guys will say ANYTHING to get you into bed or to have you as eye candy with them all the time. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
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