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21/f
So I met a guy a couple months ago. He asked me out and we've been going on dates since. We're not official but we are seeing each other exclusively. I've met his friends and he said they all want to meet me. I've gone to his house and his roommate had said that he's been talking to her about you and she's happy she finally got to meet me.
He's sweet, he randomly surprises me with coffee at work and small things like that.
Bottom line is that he's a great guy, I like him, and it's going well.
The other night I went to his place for the first time and watched movies and we did end up kissing and he did say he'll go with whatever I'm comfortable with.
I know if I was giving advice to this answer, I'd pretty much say that if you're comfortable, trust him, take precautions like birth control and condoms, you feel ready to take that step, and you want to, then you should.
It's just a little different than what I'm used to though. Like my past relationships, I knew them a lot longer and was friends with them beforehand. This time I met the guy a couple months ago and here we are.
How long did you wait before having sex with someone? I know each person is different. And any other advice to give? (link)
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wait till you're ready to sleep wit a guy , if you are not ready don't sleep wit him, i was 18 till i had sex, cauze i was ready i did sleep wit him but didn't have sex. people says if u sleep together they think you had sex , but me and my man didn't have sex we slept in bed cauze we were tired . wait if u r not ready ....
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I need to forget about my ex husband how can I forget about him (link)
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burn all his stuff he gave to you , delete photos and messages and his number out of ur social sites , and phone, dont answer his calls . move on , get a new man
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My sister has had a tough time recently. She got sacked but not through fault of her own. She doesn't have friends to go out with so she suggested we see the fireworks tomorrow night (every year Nov 5th here in England ) because she finishes her job then.
However my boyfriend whom I've not seen in weeks is coming to see me and we're planning to see the fireworks.
Neither knows the other wants to come. They get on to a point but I'd rather it be me and my boyfriend on a romantic date. However I really don't want to upset my sister as she has no one else because she doesn't make as much effort with ppl. We're twins incidentally.
What should I do? What I want or support my sis ? (link)
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sit your sister down tell her she has to respect that you want date nites wit your boyfriend , and make a plan to have sister day together just you and your sister . twins shouldnt be together all the time , but sometimes , show your sister you will spend time with her soon.
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I am gonna have sex for the first time ever, this week and I wanted to know what it feels like? What should I expect? (link)
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it can hurt a little , be careful relax , and make sure u buy lubricated condoms so dey dont break on you and ur boyfriend. alot of women feels pain when cheery popped but i didnt feel it .
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I'm gonna have sex for the first time and I wanted to know what makes condoms tear. I do not want it to tear, so I was wondering what to avoid. (link)
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you need to buy lubricant condoms , because dats wat me and my man uses dey dont tear .
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In your opinion whats the youngest age you should be having sex
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18 years old i waited till i was 18 , so anyone cant blame u for saturatory rape. so be an adult .
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While my boyfriend is eating me out, my legs and my arms and everything go tingly and I cant control my body and I want to close my legs. Am I about to orgasm or what? Why does it make me want to close my legs? (link)
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yes u can , it can happen hope it solves your question
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i am 13, and i live with my adoptive parents. my real mom had me at 16 and got me token away when i was very young. i have always said that i would not be a teen mom, that i would wait for after marriage. but yesterday i found out that i am pregnant. how do i tell my parents? and i will not get an abortion and i don't want to give my baby away. so how will i tell my mom( that is 6 months pregnant) and dad that their 13 year old daughter is pregnant and wants to keep her baby? (link)
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I think u shouldve waited till way older like 18 . And u made a mistake. I know it hard but if you wanna keep it. If not adoption is another choice to make . You are too young to get pregnant but its your life and think you should tell them and they might help you. Think bout what you have done. If you keep it you love it. Just make sure you take care of the baby .
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Hello!
As the headline says, im trying to be a better man, and being able to do some self defense is never bad idea. I heared that some martial arts are tied with some sort of philosophy and through it teaching other things for life then just "beating people" (because beating people is NOT my desire in the first place). I will be most grateful if you give me any suggestions i could follow.
Thank you! (link)
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you should look it up on google. cuz i dont know any thing bout martial arts sorry or go to martial arts building they can talk to you bout it
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hey i an from Limpopo.im in a new relationship.me n my bf we a naw datin for 1month n 3days.i love my bf so much n i try to make him happy but dat doesnt hide de fact dat my bf is still inlove wth his ex who has died.wen he need me i go n be wth him.on saturday it was his bdae n i made a suprise party for him n i invited his friends n ada gals.he was very happy n i was happy to see him happy.but dat dae at nyt he said i shuld not leave i shuld sleep ova n i did so.he started talking abt his ex who died n his ex was buried on saturday on his bdae.he told me dat he is over her n he dnt luv her anymore but his actions was telling me another story.he evn cried for his ex infront of me n didnt wt tu du or wat to say.my heart was heavy wen he was kissing me he suddenly stopped n he said he cant.yesterdae he removed de status on watsap he wrote abt me n write dat he love his ex n he change a profile pic n put his ex.i cried alone n my hurt was heavy realising dat im truly,madly n deeply inlove wth him.what do i have to do? (link)
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its hard to get over of a ex,and its hard to let go of a loved one, if he loves you he will show you he cares. it will take it time for him to know she is gone. and she will want him to be happy too. let him know it bothers you that he talks bout his ex.let the hurt heal if your boyfriend loves you will come back to you and rewrite da status tell your boyfriend you feel about it and talk bout wokin things out .he will 5et over his ex.just let him try get his broken heart heal.
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My friends did the challenge but we didn't know we had to say charlie charlie can we stop? before we could stop playing! Are we all going to be haunted until we die or just the person who first asked to summon the demon?
SCARED PLEASE HELP! (link)
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if you're scared don't do it , you can be haunted but tat i don't know if its real. people gets scared scary stuff if your scared don't do it .
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It's gross, especially when it's overt and/or persistant. I thought a relationship was meant to be between 2 people? Why do some couples try to get other people's attention? I noticed yesterday at the mall. There was this interracial couple all over each other, as we stood in line at this food place, and i'd focus on other things but they'd sometimes look back with this look on their face line they want their relationship to interest people, incite anger or jealousy, etc. it was awkward for me, directly behind them, and others in line. I have no problem with any couple, interracial, gay, lesbian, transgender, one young and one old, etc. I'm happy others can find love and be in relationships. I'm not jealous either, it's just uncomfortable to essentially be viewing foreplay without consent. There were children in line, too. Some people seem to get a sexual thrill out of people seeing their pda and that just seems sick and self centered. It makes me understand why there are countries that ban it. (link)
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if there were children in line they should not makeout in line , wait till they are home noone wants to see them on all each other. so yea it is gross, and uncomfortable , dont pay attention to it . just walk away so it dont bother you too much . if it bothers you and they notice they probably will stop what they are doing and its inappropiate to do that in public.
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Hi,
I'm usually pretty good at giving advice, but this I can't help myself with. I'm 13 and I just got transferred to a new place. I've been here for two months now. As many people here are teens they love to act all grown up and I'm not comfortable with the kind of things they do and the language they use, so I'm not friends with anyone, I tried to adjust and get used to them but without a friend I just can't manage. I'm kind of shy but I can make friends easily, but no one is like me (a little kiddish and crazy) everyone loves to act all grown up. I'm having a tough time making friends, please give me some advice on how I can adjust or I'll end up a lonely girl who talks to herself (link)
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just give it time you will find a friend to get along with . try to fit in with people introduce yourself to you , and tell them what you like to do like your hobbies , someone will be nice to you and become your friend, i knwo friends are hard to find just give it time , and you will adjust your new home . maybe you will find a new friend at your new school im alays here to help if u need more advices . make sure you dress the cute way , people will love your clothes , and maybe you can talk to people dont be shy .
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hi hope you can help me i'm a 15 year old male i'm a devout christian i love god with all my heart and i wanna be a better christian and devote my life to god i want to help people to get closer to god i wantto start to spread god's word i'm a bit nervous not sure where to start but i want to start talkinhg to people about god maybe start with people that i know not sure how do i go about it? (link)
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God is very importnant , and i think you should go from door to door knocking on the door and read god's word to them. read the bible everyday, and go to church every sunday. you can go to school and talk bout god . god's word is also importnant he died on the cross for us for our sins. memorize your favorite verse in the bible listen to christian music . pray to god every morning night and day . he will listen and answer your prayers . God is the man we call on when we need him. always follow his commandments , remember them the ten commandments . god will always be there for u when in need . you can sit down and talk to him and talk to your parents about him they will listen and help you too. god can do alot of things to be in your life if you let him in . its a big commintment. so i should stick with it too .
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I don't really know that my guy likes me or not but i think so that kind of he likes me ......... But sometimes he just shows that he hates to hell and sometimes he just turns back looks at me....... i seriously don't know what to do plz!!!!! I am from INDIA (link)
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well to be honest i think you should sit him down and ask him how do you feel about me ? he shouldnt treat you like he hate you . i think he should be more like being honest with you he probably doing that to you so you think he likes you , guys picks on girls all the time to show the girl he likes her like throwing spitball in your hair, etc.
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Personally, I have been very miserable all of my life. I have suffered from OCD as long as I can remember. I moved from New York to Florida when I was five years old. It was very traumatic for me. I have tried to commit suicide, but I just ended up in a mental institution. I do see a psychiatrist, but she does not help me. In fact, I only see her for the medication. I am absolutely miserable right now, especially with my job. I decided that I will no longer give any types of hints about suicide because I don't want to end up in a mental institution again. That did nothing to help me. I am going through preparations (getting my house ready, cleaning, trying to pay off bills). (link)
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Don't ever think of suicide you don't need to do it think of the people who love you and would miss you think positive . Talk to some churches that might help you with part of bills. If you have kids get them to help clean . Suicide is bad for you. God will help you through it the best way he can. He loves you too and make the right decisions in your life . Make sure you spend time with your kids. Make cleaming fun listening to music while clean you will get done quicker.
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I was playing on the balcony and then I climbed on it and laid on it but then I lost my balance but then I got off. I walked down the stairs and fell down all 14 of them and now my ankle hurts. The pain is spreading up my leg and i'm scared to look at it. My mom would totally kill me if I told her but she's at work right now. I'm scared to look at it. What should I do? (link)
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i think you should look at it , and see what it looks like it , then call your mom to tell her what happend i think she wont be mad, she should understand you are hurt dont hide it from her tell her you need to get it checked out maybe your broke it . put ice on it and if it still the same you need to go to hospital
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I want sex with my boyfriend but I'm lucky if I get a kiss of him. Im a girl and I only got my first bra today and I'm not finished with puberty I've snogged and my ex showed me how to have sex but he left my school my other ex dumped me for two girls in my class. My boyfriend isn't that serious and I want more but the ex that is still in school won't go back out with me. (link)
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well you should wait you still young live your life first , then when you get older you will understand what its like i waited till i was 18 . cause if your parents finds out that you had sex they probably will be mad, i think you should wait till youre 18 so you can make your own decisions. let him know youre not ready and that you should wait till your 18 .
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I have been talking with this guy online for over a year now. He only lives about an hour away but neither of us have met people from online so we've never met in person before. My parents are having a bonfire the weekend before Halloween and I've invited him. He's accepted the ivite but I've also arranged to meet him this weekend. I'm really nervous about it. We're really good friends right now and I guess I'm just worried that meeting in person will ruin that. The question I have is should I be worried? (link)
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if you are ready to meet this person have your mom talk to his parents first cause i think its the best . tell them you knew him for a year now . they should let you to meet him . never meet someone by yourself in person take a parent with you . so be careful what you decide.
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I don't know how to clean. Or budget but that's not the point. my room has gotten really dirty and I want to clean it so I can use it to practice for auditions, do homework, etc and not have to throw all my junk off my bed every night.
Does anyone have some cleaning tips, or something? Or can tell me how to clean? (link)
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well if you have a hamper for clothes put your dirty clothes in it after wearng them, throw away all the trash in the trash can , if u dont have carpes sweep and mop it , after you clean the floor. dusting too with the dustcleaner, put clean clothes in your dresser and clothes , get you a storage bin to put your backpack and school stuff in it till the next morning so you know where they are at . make cleaning fun by listening to music dance around singing to the mop thats what i do is listeing to music why i wash dishes . and oh if you have to study study while cleaning . every right answer you get right on a paper clean...make it fun,
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