Hey Everyone!
Megan here, but my friends call me Megz and you can too. I love to help people, I plan to make it my profession one day. I'd like to be either a pediatric nurse, Pediatrition, or Pediatric Oncologist. Depending on what happens on my life. I think the biggest part of my life is my faith in Jesus Christ, without him I would be nothing. Everything I do is in glory to him. The next biggest thing has to be my little brothers. They are my favorite two boys in the world, even though we don't always get along I love them more than anyone. My friends are important to me too, they are my family as well. I live in Iowa, I don't mind it too much, though I would love to live in the south. I would love to have a big old house in Virginia not far from the ocean. One of my passions is theatre, another is dancing. I love to dance I cannot go a day without it. It's just on of those things. I love to make new friends so you can IM me if you want, or email me or drop a note in my inbox. Hope to hear from you! Much Love and Peace out
E-mail: megz2009@hotmail.com
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Location: Carlisle, Iowa
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Age: 14
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ok i have a problem i just got together with this girl i have liked for a really long time i mean like ever sence we were little but it turnes out that she feel in love wit my best friend before me and her started datein and she still has feelings for him but he dont like her but then she says she cares about me but if she dont always act like herself then i know why. but i need to know if i should stay with her or not.thanx (link)
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No girl is going to forget her first love, or any love for that matter. She was in love with him, so she may still feel this connection to him even if it isn't love. It may also be akward for her to be dating his best friend even if she does care about you, and I am sure that she does or she wouldn't be dating you. If she is the type of girl that would date someone she doesn't like then she isn't worth your time. Give her a little time and see if things change. If not then she is still hung up on him and you should find someone who will only feel that way about you. Hope I helped. If you need anything else let me know- Megz2009
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okay this guy send me an e-mail saying this.........
hey i want to ask u somthing but im not sure yet if i should ask u it.............
what does he want from me goshh i hate whenever he does this because it makes me wonder alot and its really bugging me and do you have any ideas what he
probably wants??? because i really want to know!!!.
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Lauren,
From what I know, I bet that this guy has you exactly where he wants you. It sounds to me like you have yourself an admirer. He wants to make you wonder, he likes the attention it gets him from you ;). I think he wants to ask you out. When you find out will you let me know if I am right?? Megz2009
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I've liked this guy in my government class for about a month now and we never talked, sometimes we'd say hi or smile at eachother but that was about it! Then this past thursday i was walking out of the office in our school and i saw him there, he looked like he was going to say hi so i said hey and smiled and he did the same then i continued walking. So later that night i got home and i checked my myspace and he had sent me a comment, saying, "Hey! How are you? Did you like the movie today?" (we had gone on a movie field trip that day). So i then i wrote back, and we ended up talking for like 2 hours online. Then friday when i saw him in class we said hi but it was kinda like before we started talking. Then after school, i went on a walk with my friend and saw him there playing soccer and he was like flirting a little and smiled at me alot. Then when i got home we talked again for like an hour. so what im asking is does he like me, is he interested, was he just shy in school, because im really shy and wasnt about to go up to him like we were really good friends, so maybe hes the same? Well srry its so long please help! (link)
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Hey Girl,
What are you waiting for? He is showing interest, he likes you! *big grin* Your right, he could just be shy. You should go for it. Don't wait too long, he might think you have no interest. Congrats! I am happy for you. Megz
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ok so i think that recently you gave advice to my bff who said that she likes this guy who doesnt like her, but likes her friend. well, im her friend and i dont know what to do because i really dont like the guy she likes and i feel sooo bad cuz he likes me and everybody knows it. i dont want my friend to be mad at me and i dont want the guy to be sad that i dont like him. i just wish that the guy would like my friend and i could be happy for the both of them. what should i do? (link)
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To my troubled friend,
Oh sweetie, you should not feel bad at all. It's not your fault, and I am pretty sure I told your bff that. I hope she understood. You have a very hard situation, but I will give you the best advice I have.
If this boy likes you, it's only fair for you and him that he knows how you feel. I know that you don't want to hurt him, but it would hurt him even more if he thought that he had a chance for a long time and then found out you never liked him. If you tell him, don't say that it is because of your bff's crush on him-he might be bitter toward her.
According to your friend(i'm sorry this is where i left off i accidentally sent it) she thought at one time that he might like her. Maybe this is a little bit true. Say to him that this is what you two thought and see what he says.
I wish I could tell you a way to make this boy like your bff, but unfortunatly for us girls (lol) that is impossible. I know things would be easier if he would just like her, but boys are confusing beings, lol. I hope I helped you out. If you ever need anything else just let me know.
Good Luck,
Megz
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Well, my problem is that my friends and a few other classmates are hurting my feelings is all... You see, (from what I have heard. Stupid people...grr.) I'm the "top" (riiiight.) in my class. My IOWA test result from last year was only an 84 percentile and it jumped to a 96 this year. I also have good grades and I get good test results. But before this guy, Robert, was the best, so they're not very used to me. So, they're jealous. I could tell because they say scathing remarks to me, scowling, etc.
My friends are doing this too. Ashley, when she sees I have a higher score than her, does this and talks back if I write something she thinks she doesn't like. (ex."You have a big ego!" She got that when my teacher was joking when Ashley wrote my name BIG on our project.Then a few weeks later, "You have a small head!" The size of my head mind you. But I say nothng yet again!But now I think, 'You're a wakling oxymoron. That
comment just contridicts the other cuz you said I have
a big head and ego, no you say I have a SMALL head...?) I'm not used to this because they never did this to me before...
My bestfriend Elise also is dong stuff like this sometimes worse. My mom thinks she won't be a very good friend in the future. Why? Because in 3rd grade I was in this program called bungalow for kids who have trouble reading. So she came up to me and said "We can't be friends, because you're in bungalow." So we broke up. I didn't have any friends except for her that time, so I was a loner. Elise, fortunately, had lots of friends like Melvi, Nathaniel, Ariel, Linda, Franz, Ryan, etc. My mom also was gone for some time to train for her work. So that continued to 4th grade and into the first weeks of 5th grade. All I really did was kick a ball alone to improve so I can play kickball. Then later we became friends again and have Melvi as a friend in 5th grade because Elise seemed sad and I came up to her and tried to cheer her up. But then, now she is reacting like this, so my mom
doesn't know if she'll be a good friend and that she seems to be spoiled.
Other classmates are doing similar- all the way back from the beginning of the year. So I decided to give them time. But they only seem to become more vicious.
I have this bad habit of keeping things bottled in. So when I explode is when I have this tight feeling in my chest- like my heart is being squeezed, and then I cry. This is unusual because I'm usually calm. So I try to write out my feelings and talking to my mom. This helps, but it won't stop them from continuing this.
I've already dropped big and VERY noticiable hints that I don't like the way they're behaving. But it seems that they forget and continue what they do before. Sometimes I think people think that some people are different and don't have feelings.. But we
do! We feel the same that they do, eat what they eat,drink how they drink, we LIVE. But I don't think they get this. It's like I'm an alien!
I had to deal with this from the beginning and I still am.
If my relationship between my friends won't last, then I don't mind being alone. Or I'll try to get new ones. And I'll be more determined to push myself to the limit and do my best acdemically and socially.
What should I do, anyway? (link)
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Dear future Ivy League student (lol)
I am sure they are just jealous of how well you are doing in school. They probably just feel a little bit insecure. Don't let them bother you, the fact that you are doing well in school is a GREAT thing. Whoever says doing bad in school is probably on the streets. If you don't do anything to make them feel stupid, like if you brag constantly about your grades(keep in mind a little pride is ok, just don't go overboard), or acting like you know it all, then you should be fine. Keep up the good work, I'm proud of you. Megz2009
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Well this all happened this week.
In my school we have tables that fit eight
people so all my friends that are close sit there.I've been in Lunch Detentions for the week but today,today i sit down like its nothing chilling wiht my homes and Taunya and Charmaine sit at another table.Confused i asked why there not sitting at our table and they dont answer me so i was like whats going on!!I go back to my table and ask Kayliegh she says because i called taunyas sister a shes mad and wont sit here.I get mad because i dont know whats going on and Taunyas mad at me so is Charmaine i try asking them but they wont talk to me.I ask Corina and she says "because your hanging out with Kayliegh"I havent known whats been going on and shes taking it out on me .Ive been known that when i get mad i hit people and wind up in iss not this time ive been kicking the bathrom stall doors.So i run in there and kick it and kick it and kick it so many times i lost count and started crying.I dont like it when people see me cry because its a sigh of weakness and im not the one to cry and all this but i cnat help it .Well we have passes so we cant stay to long at the bathroom(this is all happening at lunch)so i come out all red faced and still crying at yell at kayliegh "because of you shes not my friend anymore!!!"Still crying i know Charmaine says crap behind your back so i know there talking about me.Everyone i dont know are like whats wrong i always said nothing im fine lil as possible.I dont like the guidence constaler so i dont go to her.I ended up crying in class....
well its not about crying itd about crying but my friends tell me im nto mad at you and i say dont talk to me....
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To my confused and hurting friend,
I am so sorry that things are going so bad for you. I have a question. Is the Kayleigh girl your friend too? If so I think that you owe her an apology, if not you probably need to anyway. Explain to her what you said was out of anger and your sorry. That should, hopefully, take care of that. Now, I understand why you are confused, I am too :-). But I think the only thing you can do is calm yourself down and ask them what is going on. Don't get others involoved with this, It will just confuse yourself more. I am pretty sure it is only between you and Taunya and Charmaine. You should apologize to Taunya for calling her sister a bad name if you did. If not, say I didn't non accusingly, but say your sorry for the miscommunication. If she still does not listen then just swallow your pride and say you didn't mean it. Now what does Charmaine have against Kayleigh? You'd be best to figure that out too. If Kayleigh is your friend then stick up for her, tell C that you don't like it when people diss your friends and that if someone was talking bad about her you would stand up for her too. I don't feel like I have the whole story but i hope this helps. If you want you can write to my inbox, I would be more than willing to help you out more as you need it. Good Luck. Megz
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k so this is kinda embarassing. im 13 & a female obviously. i've had my period since i was 11, and i've always used pads. mostly everyone that i talk ab that kinda thing w/ uses tampons .. even some of my friends that just got it in the last couple monthes. i really wanna start using them so i dont have to worry ab pads, especially since summer is coming up. any tips or anything? is it true that some people have a tough time putting in tampons? does it hurt? what does it feel like? ill give 5's! thanks so much (link)
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hey,
tampons can be rough at first, and if you insert them wrong they can hurt alot. But if it is right them your can't feel them. The directions inside the box helped me alot. You should probably start out with slims. Just remember to relax your muscles and be patient. It can take some time to get used to them. Megz
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ok im in 8th grade and 13 years old...and ive had my eye on this girl since 5th grade...i gave her starbursts so she would get the point but she thought i was just being nice...shes falling out of a good relation ship thats dieing hard...and i was wondering...how long do you typically wait to ask out a girl, who's just getting out of a relationship...and she doesnt really care much for me annnnd to top it all off we dont go to the same school...but she's an amazing girl...13/m and i would prefer girls answering this Question (link)
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To the starburst charmer (my edited question :))
So you wanted a little bit of help starting from square one? Let he know that if she ever needs someone to talk to that your are there for her. Girls love that, it opens up the lines of communication and lets her know that you are dependable. If starting from square 1 means starting a relationship, try buying her a flower (they say that your are interested more than startbursts do lol) and maybe attach a sweet note. That will most likely get things going in that direction. I hope this is what you meant. If you have any other questions about this you can email me. Let me know how it turns out!!
Megz
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Hello,
Well, I'm just wondering what I can do for my hair. Its black, I have bangs, and it reaches to an inch and a half from my chin. Any new hairstyle will due because I usually just curl the ends slightly inward.
Another problem is that whenever I blowdry my hair or even if I don't it get all poofy and fizzy- unless I tied it back, but my hair will curl outward.. My mother is usually the one who decides my hairstlye/type of haircut and its usually just cut straight. A hairtyle that is really that time consuming during the morning is fine because I usually take a shower then.
I want to avoid using hairspray, gel, or anything like that. I'll make exceptions if the products are good but not that expensive. Oh, and I'm using Tresseme (sp?) and no conditioner. Any ideas? Cuz I don't have much of a sense of style... (link)
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Hey, (I added more to the bottom for you;)
You can try different parts, like zig-zags or jut parting it farther over. Pig Tails look really cute when your hair is short and so do messy ponytails. If you were willing to use some kind of product scrunching is really easy and doesn't take up much time at all. Buy a bunch of little elastics and pull small sections of your hair back and tied them or clip them there. Or your could braid them back. Hope this helps your out a little with your dilemma ;) Megz
RE: Hey you just asked me about scrunching. You can find a scrunching gel at pretty much any store and when your hair is wet comb it and rub the gel through your hands. Then, indicated by theh name;), you just scrunch your hair until it looks curly. Then spray lightly and your done! Or you can use mouse, which is more FUN to use than gel, lol. Hope this helps a little more. If you have problems finding what you need in a store ask someone who works there, they will help you find what you need.
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I have a group of friends at school that I have been hanging out with since Semptember. I have known one of them since last year. We all became very close very fast and I liked that. Lately, however, I have been feeling as if I am drifting father away from them. I don't want this. I want to be close to them again. They went up to one of my friend's cottage without and they spend a lot of time together without me. They have so many inside jokes. I feel really inferior. Does it sound like I am being paranoid? Should I talk to them about it or just leave it alone? How can I become closer with them agian?
Thanks, I will rate high for good answers. (link)
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To my hurting friend,
I am so sorry that you feel this way. I wish this wasn't true but this is happening to me too at the moment. I told my friends how I was feeling and asked them if I did anything to make them want to exclude me. But I didn't do that right away and got a little depressed about it. So do it as soon as you can, but don't be accusing or make a big deal about it. Calm and cool. Good Luck with your friends I hope everything goes back to normal. Megz
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I went to a new highschool this year and in the begining, it was wonderful. I made great friends, was doing well and was elected class preseident. Well, now it's march and things have fallen apart. I said some things i shouldn't have to my friends, without realizing it. I was just informed that most of my class thinks i'm a prep who thiniks she's better than everyone else. I don't know what to do.
for starters i'm not going to say anything mean about anyone because i know i deserver to be mean to right now. but i don't know how to apologize. could you give me some tips to get back on my feet? (link)
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Sweetie I feel that. I was new this year too, and because my dad owns a car dealership everyone here automatically thought that I was spoiled and stuck up. And that was before they got to know me...it is a small town and people seemed to know who I was before I stepped foot through the door. Thing is I am shy when you first meet me so I did give that impression. But after they got to know me that impression changed. I work for my spending money and drive a normal teen car. let them see the real you. Be nice to everybody and wear sweats every once in a while ;). Admit you made a mistake and you were wrong, but move on. Don't judge...ect ect. I hope this helped and if you need anymore ideas please let me know! Good Luck! Megz
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kay.. so theres this guy i really like and ive liked him for a long time. over the weekend somebody told me that he liked me so i got excited about that but then my friends and the guy i like told me that he likes my other friend. plus, pretty much every guy i like always likes her and same with everyone else so it hurts even more. also, he knows i like him so its not as fun talking anymore. so what should i do? i dont no.. (link)
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To my hurting friend,
Sweetie keep your chin up. And don't hold it against your friend, unless she flirted she has done nothing wrong yet. Maybe you could find out what it is that he likes about your friend, He may have a really good and sweet reason. Or a bad one, which would be good to know too so you can steer clear. Relax knowing that your time will come to be loved by a guy, but that you already are loved by alot of other people.
Your Friend, Megz
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So I don't waste up all of your time, I'll make it short. I went out with this guy in 6th grade. 6TH GRADE!! And I still like him. It was over a whole year ago!! And the sad thing is, i dumped him. I don't know if i want to still move on or not. Him and i dont talk or look at eachother in the halls. We had a random relationship for umm.....2 WEEKS! and that's it!! Why cant i move on? I need to like someone else! But how do i let go? (link)
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hey,
I agree 100%, you are still young. Middle School and Junior High are akward years. You are starting to mature, both physically and mentally, and want to grow up. But take my advice and wait. Become closer with friends, work hard in school, and become better friends with this boy without being flirty or clingy. That way in a year or so, if you still like him, you have a head start on the relationship. If not, hey you have a good guy friend and those come in handy when you do start to date, meaning their opinions on the boys you go out with are valuable.
Good Luck,
Megz
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I don't know what to do. my boyfriend is deeply in love with me, obsesses over me, gets jealous really easy, annoys me, talks about beating up guys that I talk to, and cries when we get in the littlest fights. I'm going through so much right now and i just want to break it off with him because my families going through problems and I don't need his problems and commitment on top of it. I just don't know what to do. HELP MEE!
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Hey girl!
I know what it is like to have problems in the family. It's so stressful. Your BF should be there to help you get through it, not make the matter worse. If I were you I would give him a chance. Tell him he is crowding you and it is making you really stressed out. Don't let his crying blackmail you into staying with him. If he does not improve then you need to break it off because it is not healthy. Follow your instincts, most of the time they are right. Good Luck, it's hard breaking someones heart. Megz
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my name is Rachel and iam 16 and this boy asked me out yesterday at school,but he told me to keep it secrete is this normal for a boy who just started dating a girl to want to keep their relationship secret from evrybody?If it's not normal what should I do? (link)
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Hi Rachel!
Boys can be confusing sometimes. He may just want to make sure that the relationship works out before you tell anybody. But then again, he probably should have made sure that he thought it would before he asked you out. But to me this doesn't sound normal. Wouldn't a good guy want to show you off to the world? (I am a hopeless romantic, i'm sorry, lol) Ask him why he wants to keep it a secret, it's as easy as that :). He may or may not have a great answer, but his answer should give you enough info for you to make your decision. Hope this all made sense. Good Luck Megz
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Hey. Well next year I'll be a freshmen in high school and I'm super excited. We get to choose electives, and I was thinking of doing Interior Design or Fashion design as one of them. Can any body tell me what those classes are about and what you do in them and if they're fun. Thanks! (link)
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Hey- you learn about the colors, textures, harmony, finding good deals, ect. It's a bunch of fun and takes alot of creative energy. Good luck being a freshman!! Luv Megz2009
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I need some really cute quotes.. like :: love, friendship, heart-break, stuff like that.
I need some good sites (specific sites) with some of these quotes.. if anyone could help me.. id greatly appreciate it (link)
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hi! have you tried quotegarden.com?? its a good site for awesome quotes. have fun! Luv Megz2009
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I have a simple question that could have a lot of answers. What is a girl's favorite scent on a guy? Specifically, please. (link)
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hi, axe all the way! or curve for men. Just be careful not to bathe in it thats a major turn off. Luv~Megz2009
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I am a male, 15, and lately I've been wondering about something. There are many girls in our school and grade. I am a gentleman and open doors, get chairs, etc. for the girls. It is pretty much the same way with my friends, we are all like that. But the girls in our school keep saying they like "skaters" or "skaters are soo hot" and we really are wondering what is wrong with us. Not to boast, but all of us are good looking. The girls just keep talking about "skaters." So why is it like this, and do girls not like gentlemen or something? (link)
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Why can't there be more guys like you and your friends? There is nothing wrong with you at all, alot of girls prefer gentlemen. Keep it up and girls are bound to notice eventually, and thanks for reassuring me there are still some gentlemen out there. Luv Megz2009
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^^ title pretty much says most of it
because theres this guy i like and he likes me back and heres what happened.
He went to my basketball game last night and my friend chrissy was there because she wanted to see me play and then hang out after during the varsity game. so after my game, and during the half time of the varsity game, i go and sit down with chrissy after playing basketball with mike and some of my other friends. chrissy tells me that mike was watching me play before he came out to play and that he was talking about me like through out the whole game. she said he said that tomorrow at one of my friends parties that we are all going to, he is gunna ask me out and TRY to make out with me
problem is: ive never been kissed or kissed a guy. and i dont want to back out and make a fool of myself.
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hey honey. Do you really want to go out with a guy who is gonna ask you out and try to make out with you right away? Just because you guys are dating doesn't mean that he has the right to make out with you- wait until you feel ready and confident and trust the person you are with to stop when things start to go to far. take it one step at a time, when the time is right (and the guy is right too) then things will just happen. Slower is better- it will mean more. Your time will come. Don't let any guy make you feel like a fool. Luv Megz2009
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