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hey my name is matt im 14 and i live on the outskirts of boston. im a really good friend of XxXiTaLiAn4LiFeXxX... "emily" ...we have known each other for our whole lives. and iluvusher10290...she is my best cousin hahaha. and brown23 is one of my bff's. . and its pretty ovious that i im madly in love/obsessed with.......*Jojo*

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Girls can answer this two, but it would be really helpful if I got some answers from the guy's perspective..

How can you tell the difference from when a guy just wants to be your friend, or whether he wants more? There is this guy at my school, and he and I are friends, but not GREAT friends or anything. We don't hang out after school or anything. Sometimes in the halls he will catch up to me and start talking to me. And sometimes he will start singing a song with my name in it. Like for example, he will sing Batman, but instead of saying "dananananananana BATMAAAN" he will sing "dananananananana CATHYYY!" (Cathy is my name.) I know that he has a lot of other friends that are girls too, so I can't tell whether he just wants to be friends with me, or whether he likes me more than a friend. Help?

from wut you are sayin it sounds like he is just goofing around with you


>matt

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my garbage cans do not fit under my sink in the kitchen, so we leave them to the side. What are some good things tht I can do to them to 'hide' them, because they look really ugly just standing out in the open. I want to make them look nicer. Thanks!

get a smaller can to fit under ur sink


>matt<



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I collect coffee mugs. I have 804. I can't stop collecting them, every time I am out for dinner with my parents I cant' stop looking at coffee mugs. Mum accidently smashed one the other day and I just lost it, I was crying and screaming at her. I don't want to be like this, but I really love my mugs.

Am I obsessive compulsive?

umm....lets se.....YES! geez u wwent of on ur mom 4 breakin one of 804 thats harsh if i were u i would get rid of the mugs and start going out more or hang out wit ur firends some more



>matt<


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i get horrible back pains, and all i can do is crack it, but sometimes it gets so stiff that it wont crack, any advice on how to crack it?

go to a cyropracder thell take care of your cak


>matt

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This question is for the guys..
Hows the best way for a girl to break up with you? i know all the normal cliches, we should still be friends, im not ready for commitment, blah blah blah... but what will guys take the best?

i would say that im really caugt up in school work and now isnt the bet time for me

>matt<

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**hey guys! ok im 14/f. ive been friends w/ this guy since like 6th grade, and we r in 9th now. we have become better friends cause we have a class together, and we hang out sometimes on weekends w/ a group of friends. he talks to me a lot more now, and we r good friends. he even tells me like who he likes and stuff. recently he told me he stopped liking this girl cause he needed someone he could be himself around (his crazy...crazy self... lol) he'll call me babe and stuff like that sometimes 2 (im not sure if hes joking or flirting...?) what do u guys think? and... how can you tell if a guy likes you or not? for guys: what do u do to show a girl that you like her? thanks all**

im a guy so when i like i girl a flirt ... alot but if and if he really liked u you would kno it spend some more time with him or think of a name to call hime and see if he responds

>matt<

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I know that guys love outgoing girls, but what about the shy ones? Ive heard from someppl that some guys think that shy girls are kinda cute.. what kind of guys think that? Like outgoing guys? Or shy guys? Or what? And how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? thanks

if u r a shy girl try to make your self a little bit more notice able but unless u make urself none u wont be getting alot of action

>M<

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

if i were u i would ask her y she always fights with u but dont break with her


>M<

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ok well here is the deal i like this girl named britni she is beautiful and cool. BUt i duno if she likes me people say she likes me as a friend but then when i talk to her friends they say that she just doesn't really know what to do or say about it. now my friends want me to talk to her. and tell her how i feel, but i idunno what to do cause she is always with her friends and i dunno hwo to aproach her wether it be at school. or not ok well all adivce is great.

thnx

monn

first...get her # that way u can always talk in private when you need to next...find out her scheduel so that way u could meet her after her classes


>M<

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(15/f)OK I have absolutely NO idea what to get my boyfriend for Christmas. He's really picky with clothes and as for cologne.. I wouldn't want him to think I'm telling him he smells or something by buying him cologne. I just wanted to know if anyone had some ideas on what i should get him. He doesn't really play video games and he burns all his CD's. I know it's a tough one but I rate high! Thanx in advance.

get him a gift certuficate to like the mall of like a resturant that way he can pick and you dont have to worry


>M<

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Im always grounded n it makes me soo mad! Tehy ground me for stupid reason and i dont no what to do! Every time i try to talk to them they dont listen and notthing changed! What should i do? Go for some real help??

try not to do anything bad and if they dont listen make them listen if that is the only way u can get ur piont across

>M<

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I'm in 8th grade and i like a boy on the bus but we really don't talk that much and we look at eachother but do think i should tell him i like him and embaress myself in front of all those kids on the bus or jus forget about?

get his # thats always good that way u can talk without nosey bus kids or u could sit with him on the bus



>M<

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(not trying to sound stuck up) but i used to have long hair past my shoulders, and all guys thought i was pretty (not hott, just cute or whatever). well this year i go to a new school, and i cut my hair REALLY short, its like at my jawbone, and - not that it matters - but alot of guys said that im ugly. now i feel really self concious. my dad told me that guys prefer long hair. ALSO, my hair is red, and don't guys hate redhair? cause people always judge my red hair. what do you GUYS think? please be HONEST, it wont hurt my feelings. i might want to grow it out again (and dont tell me not to care what others think, just answer the damn question)

lets see ... im a guy and no offense but i hate it when girls cut their wikkied short if i were u i would grow it out again especially if its red glad to help..


>M<

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OK well I have AOL 9.0 And Its only suppose to be like 24 dollars a month or something. But we get billed like 2 times in a month. Anyways, What is a good internet thats cheap and good? Like 10 dollars a month. I know like peoplepc.com but I dont know If thats good. Thanks.

internet explorer...


>M<

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when you're multiplying 2 numbers with a exponent do u multiply the 2 numbers and then square that or square only the number the exponent is over and then multiply by the other number. -2(-1) with a 2 over the -1

thanx

and dont tell me to look in my text book bcuz im in algebra 1 and this is pre-algebra.. i just dont remember.

only multiply the number wit he exponent ova it



>M<

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ok so here's the thing...There is this boy that had a crush on me last year and I didn't like him that way. But this year we are flirting w/ each other like crazy and I don't know if he likes me. How do I know!! I mean guys flirt w/ me but most of them just do it for fun, and I think I may really like this by now! HELP! I rate 5 for the effort!

you should ...... umm ...... talk to him ask his friends to talk to him to find out who he likes or just ask him urself


>M

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well..okay. i like this guy and he has a gf..oh wait. it gets better..haha well he's always leading me on and hinting that he likes me.. well i talked to his gf and she said she isn't really interested in him anymore. well what do you guys think? should i tell his gf(my friend) that i have feelings for him and if she doesnt have feelings for him then she should let go? or whatever else you guys think! please help!

umm...i would wait a lil longer and see if they break up and if they dnot talk to your "friend"


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there is this girl that is obsessed with me at school. Before I even knew her she knew all of my classes, and now I see her ever time I turn around. After talking with her for only 5 min she said that her mom wanted to meet me. After she said that if freaked me out alittle and she was also saying bad things about one of my friends she I ignore her when I see her. Now she is applying at the place I work and I like someone body else that works there but it is going to be akward have her there. What can I do so she leaves me alone.

tell her off. ha! or give her dirty looks or just ignore her she'll eventually get the idea


>M<

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sry i didnt know what category to put this under..but what really is cutting? i know you like cut urself but is it to let out anger? or do you do it to actually try to kill urself?? plz i need to know this my friend does it and im scared!

cutting is serious...... but it depends on where u cut u will die if u hit a vein . most of the time people cut because they are depressed or sad about somethin but some people do it for attention because they are sick....


>M<

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how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it

dont u think it is ovious .......? go to the doc thats like the only way to find out ...


>M<

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