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hey everyone!
its really hard for me to make friends.
do you know any tips on making friends?
im really quiet, so it's hard for me.
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well just say something like hi how are you and that usually gets people talking to you..or join some kind of school group.OR if some one your interested in being friends with says something first just say something back then the next time you see them say something to them first like hi to get the ball rolling again..the more you do this the more people will talk and the closer youll get to friendship..
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Sorry it might be long but please someone read and help me?
I am just wondering, am I living in a fantasy land? Well I am 16/f and I turn 17 in december. (about to be junior in highschool) The thing is, I have been going out with my bf for 3 month and half, about. I am really great it worked out like that because he's been my best friend for about a year eversince my 10th grade year started. We were just acquaintences at the beginning of my 10th grade (he was senior and now he graduated) and we just became really good friends.
When we were just friends, I realized i liked him as more than a friend but I didnt want to admit that because I wasnt sure if he liked me because he is nice to everyone (he was voted most friendliest...) so i was even in denial that i liked him and i went out with couple guys and i always confided in him about guy stuff. I know... not a good idea to talk about a guy with another guy. but he was only one i could really trust and i know he gives me a solid truth. And we both knew i had some "committment issue" yet when it came down, he still didn't judge me differently and asked me out.
Well that's really great because he is such a great guy and he's my best friend and my boyfriend. I truly believe there is no one wonderful like him (even though that is totally my biased opinion :D) We can and do talk on the phone for hours everynight and there's never and dull moment. We can make fun of eachother like crazy and have fun. We have very similar hobbies and its all good.
However nothing can be this perfect. I am not allow to date anybody until i graduate from high school. We are different race and both of our parents dont really want that. He's already graduated (taking off 1 year before going to any college) and I am about to start my junior year.
But I told him I loved him because I do. I really do love him even if some people may say how can a 16 year old girl know. His response was that he believes that you only love one person and only that person in your whole life so when he tells me, that would be tied up with him asking me to marry me. I respect his decision and opinions so no big deal. But lately we've been talking about marrying and all that and everything but the thing is, is there a even chance that this will actually work out? I mean nothing would make me happy if it all worked out like we planned (yes we even planned on where and when to get married... how wonderful..) or is it just a childish fantasy? (link)
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you never know...i mean no one can really say because everyones diffrent..but its possible..youll just have to wait and see.
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okay.
so im a book geek.
and.
really smart.
i have a wide vocabulary.
so i say them.
:D
but.
i get made fun of.
sometimes.
i just am speechless really.
and anything i say is really stupid.
the classic [your face.]
or [your mom.]
im just not really confident in that area.
D:
thanks in advance. (link)
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dont say anything just ignore them, unless they try to physically harrass you. ...ive learned not to waste time worring about what people think.. what ever you do dont change . you can say what ever you want everyone else does.they are still stuck in that immature state. the reason people attack you is because of theyre own insecurities, whether they admit it or not.
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I would like someone who actually knows what they're talking about to answer this:
I'm currently working on writing my second novel. I'm not going to go into details about it, but. . .
In it a girl is raped and then kills herself. It's not discovered that she was raped until after she's buried. What kind of evidence would be needed to prove that she was raped? Would a diary that she kept be entered as evidence? What kind of sentencing would be given for the guy that raped her if it was proven that he did?
Okay, I've thought about a second ending. What if she tried to kill herself and the guy that raped her was there and she immediately regretted taking the pills? If she asked him to help her and he just stood there doing nothing, could he be charged for that as well as rape? Would a tape recording of the whole ordeal be sufficient evidence to charge him and what type of sentencing would he get if he was proven guilty of raping her and not aiding her?
I would appreciate any answers or insight! (link)
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no bbecause he didnt force her to take the pill or poisen her...so he could be accused but would more then likely not be charged in the long run
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What is the best kind of makeup that will stay on for a long time?
Mine wears off in like 30 minutes and it just looks really bad.
I wan't one that will blend in with my skin really good. thanks :) (link)
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I use cover girl and it works well for me and lasts.Stay away from the cheap .99 eyeliner and make up because you get what you pay for.
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So this guy , who is one of my good friends but isn't that good looking like at all. (Not trying to be mean) was talking about how he was getting roses for this girl for vday, and then he was like so..do you like roses? and I was like uh.. yeah..? am I just being paranoyed (sp?) Or is he getting me roses for vday?!!! I really don't want to have him give me something..but I don't want to be like oh uhh..thanks.. how do I show him that I don't like him without being mean?! he suffers from depression, so I really REALLY don't want him to get sad if I don't like him. WHAT TO DO?! (link)
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his depression isnt your responsibility...if the roses are for you...you can take them...its not like they are handcuffs that bond you to him....you dont pwe him anything...
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my cat is like wheezing. it sounds like he's snoring but you can tell that his nose is like stuffy. is it normal or could he be really sick? btw- he's an indoor/outdoor cat and he's been outside a lot lately and it's super cold out. (link)
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my cat does that when they need hairball medicine...you can buy it at walmarts in the pet section
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I have been dating my boyfriend for 20 months now. I couldn't love him more. There's this little problem though: he doesn't have a job. He quit his job back in November and is barely even trying to get a new one. He used to be a cashier, so he refuses to apply at any job that deals with serving people in general. It bugs the hell out of me that he won't get off his ass, suck it up, and get a job. He needs the money and we both know it. I bug him about getting a job everyday and he just tells me not to worry and he'll take care of it. He told me yesterday he was getting a new gaming system and that just made me thing "Wow. Now you can put off getting a job even longer."
He doesn't ask me for money and I don't lend it to him, but I get upset when we can't go out as much as we used to because he doesn't have any money and I can't pay every time. I'm worried that he'll always be this irresponsible and he won't be able to help support our kids when we get married.
I don't know if I should just leave him and tell him to call me when he gets a job or just sit tight, be supportive, and keep my mouth shut. I love him and I'd do anything to help him out, but this is getting ridiculous. What would you do? (link)
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If i didnt help you then i shouldnt of got a higher rating...Idont believe in that kind of thing..I just thought you were being nasty so i got defensive.Which is what we shouldnt do ..i guess other attitudes are starting to rub off on me but its not your fault
what are you talking about i dont care about the rating...but what made me lash back was the snotty tone of i know what love is thank you very much...im just being truthful..wheter you agree or not...
edit-if your going to get that easily offended you shouldnt ask...i can only go by what you told me..
it doesnt sound like it and i wasnt saying you said he had to be rich but this kindof thing happens if you truly loved him you wouldnt consider breaking it off over something so little...you would just be irritated...unconditional love is needed in marriage..i dont care if you changed the rating..im being truthful...get off your high horse...you either love him and stick with him..no matter what...wow you sound like such a prize...(sarcastic)if its that big of a problem then maybe hes not right for you...you should base your entire future on one event...are you guys even engaged...do you have the wedding planned and to say for him to call you when he gets a job..if your really thinking about marriage then your in it for the highs and lows
Its not like hes asking you for money but if it was real love youd love him if he lived in a card board box....material thing dont matter as long as you have eachother..its called unconditional love and if your thinking about breaking it off over something like that then you need to consider your idea love..its not like this guy is using or abusing you..and before you think about marriage you need to understand that means love through thick and thin despite his carrer,cash flow,e.t.c .
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hey..im going into high school next year as a freshman...and im naturally shy and kinda a know-it-all sometimes...
im worried about friendships and other realtionships being strained....and how i will handle taking all honors classes...can anyone tell me how honors classes compare to regular ones??
if anyone has good advice on handling the freshman year of high school....please tell me!
thanks a bunch in advance...
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Listen ive been through highschool its no big deal...the best thing to do is to no matter what stay true to your self and it will all work out
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The truth is, I'm a virgin.
13/f
But whenever i see a hot guy i think to myself "damn, if i got the chance i'd have sex with him." or i might back out in the end...
and it scares me because one day i will get the chance..
and want to do it..
HELP!! (link)
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Its normal to have sexual feelings doesnt mean youll act on them if you dont then you wont..im a virgin to but everyone gets horny...its normal..doesnt mean youll act on it...your not a slut...everyone has fantasies and urges..and your hormones are just starting to kick in...it doesnt mean you have to act on them or that you will.
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I don't know how to tell my vagina is normal, and I don't want to ask a doctor or my mom, so please help!
im 13, and yes ive already started my period
but when i tried using tampons, it hurt sliding them in and idk if thats right or bad or what.
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If your a virgin and your not use to tampons then its not unusual for them to hurt...i think your fine..
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i'm taking history 103, and we're reading king leopold's ghost. i'm currently on chapters 13 & 14 [which is required to be read by tomorrow, i'm in the process] i'm just not understanding much of it. anyone have any help, or any website i can get help or summaries or something to guide me along? (link)
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http://www.google.com/search?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=GWYA,GWYA:2006-17,GWYA:en&q=understanding+king+leopold
try that if it doesnt work let me know
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I have alot of friends, but not alot of best freinds..people i wuld consider bffs. ANyways, i'll be talking to one freind and then another one will come and we'd all be talking, then the 2 would have to go to there lockers and would meet me at class or lunch soon, but i have a huge feeling in my gut they are now talking shit about me at there lockers. do you think they r or do u think that im being paranoid. becuase at times i feel they are since they are SOMETIMES during some convos before they go to' there lockers on each odd day b4 lunch, they sometimes say when i say outrageous things "your so weirdd *giggles alittle*". it seems after they leave that they are saying like 'omg shes so annoying. wowww"
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I dont know the full situation but if they are calling you weird and you dont trust them then those people arent you friends..so loose them
edit well then they arent your friends..so find new ones..dont stand for that crud.
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HELP. okay so i go tmy period for the first time. and like i am trying to use a tampon but im scared. ahh. help.
its a tampax pearl. idk if that helps ha. (link)
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i use tampax all the time..theres nothing to be scared of..reallt they are better then pads..just read the instructions..the more you use them the more comfortable youll get with them.
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someone posted "you fail at life" as a youtube comment to a video of my funny math teacher dancing. its really dumb of them because it really was funny and hes a cool teacher.. most people dont think negatively of him, really.. well kids for that matter, lol. how can i respond to this? should i say "no you fail" or "you know what? your mom" or anything else that will tell this kid off? lol thanks (link)
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Dont say anything at all those type of people dont care...because its just the internet and they dont know you and you dont know them...
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is it bad to pretend your happy when inside your totally broken inside? Is it wrong to change or just be happy because people are tired of hearing me cry? Is it dramatic if you cry yourself to sleepover somethign you thought was real? (link)
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you shouldnt put on a false face for anyone..many people have cried their self to sleep you need to do it for as long as needed to get it worked out of your system..dont worry about others around you....so grieve as long as you need...just make sure you dont fall victim to a rut
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we went out for a year and a half and he cheated on me with some other girl then he cheated on her with me and told me we were gonna get back together.. we had sex and everything and he told me he loved me then out of nowhere he told me he doesnt think our relationship is gonna work out and told me he doesnt want to see me anymore. i told him i didnt wanna talk to him anymore because theres no reason because ill just keep falling in love with him and never get over him. the problem is he wont stop calling.. and he calls from private numbers. and he tries to be my friend! i dont get it does he still love me? (link)
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If he ever truly loved you he wouldnt of did that..hges using you and wants you at a good reach so he can do it again..please dont let him...move on and disconnect from him..if he keeps it up its called harrassment.
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My ex dumped me cause she wasnt felling it, Any way I want her back but she likes for othere guys, and just wants to stay freinds. I cant live without her she is the love of my life, and I cant let her go. She already has a date to the dance with one of the guys she likes, and I was with on of my freinds the othere day and we were walking threw the hall and she so us and I had my arm around her and my ex gave the othere girl like a dirty look. Anyway I want her back relly bad but she just wants to stay friends soo how doo i get her to like me in that love way? And my friends and people have told me to get her jelious. How do i get her jelouis she is in grade 7 but im in grade 8 but im the same age but I dont get to she her much unless its ressec which a barely see her or after school I might talk to her for 2-8 mins a day but I need to make her jelouis and in a short amount of time, ill give you a bit about her she likes to dance she lived in B.C and was the Ugly girl inher school and no on liked her but she is like in the middle at out school like alot of people no and hang out with her there is 4 kids she likes that one is like this big hot shoot hockey player and has theeth like a beaver and the othere 2 are in my grade and are pretty atractive and the othere one is unknown but she says she likes a lil action not in the whore way but like a kiss and I going out with her for a week and I kissed her once but I think she thinks im green but I relly like her and I relly need to make her jelouis to get her back. So I need to no some ways to make her jelouis? Thanks :]
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you could start focusing on or talking about other girls in front of her but its not right to use people to get back at someone one else and if she broke up with you and isnt feeling it and wants to be just friend then your not going to make her jealous if she doesnt want you..i know its hard but your going to have to move on there are other people to love and chances and if that other person no longer has feelings for you its a lost cause and could make her angry..just let it go for now..who knows in the future it might rekindle but then again it might not things have a way of working out...you never know you could find someone better even if you doubt it now...
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can people please tell me if this poem is bad or good?
it's about fear and denial, not too long
http://storywrite.com/story/65235 (link)
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Its average..not really something anyone else could write..not saying it couldnt be improved but i didnt care for it.
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Two nights ago i was out with some friends and we wanted to call my "bff" to see what she would say. she is now going out with my brother and it ruined our friendship. she was say that she used me to get to my brother and it really bothers me. and saying that she wanted to fight me because she knew she would beet me up. i dont no what to do now she talked about me behind my back. i am confused and i would like to have someones advice. thank you
Chrissy19 (link)
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People like this arent friends you should just leave her in her place behind you..dont even pay her any attention..are you sure she used you for your brother or did it just workout that way if she did..then shes your brothers problem now so dont worry about her.How does she know she can beat you up anyways im not saying you should fight her but you never know when it comes down to it just ignore her..
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