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ok in this highschool im goin to its a REALLY bad school lol its ghetto..and yea anyways im not pretty or anything im over weight and yea u get the point but my question is how do i get more boys as friends? thanks! ( im really shy by the way ) (link)
lol well I always find a good girl buddy and who ever she knows as a friend, I start talking to them on aim or something cause I'm kinda shy too. Anyway, I hope I've helped.
P.S. never try to get hooked up with your girls crush or boi, even if you are "just friends".


ok well i need to know where to get like pink or any kinda background for my advice site thingy! and i dont know where to paste the URL or whatever for it!! im a computer retard!! i rate high babes! thanks a bunch! (link)
Go to Column settings, then scroll down until you see your column colors then it should say If you're confused about colors, there's a nice website about how these work over here. Pick out some colors you like and write them down. Then Where it says page background and page text and all that put down the codes that you just wrote down after that press submit colors. Still confused? You can also press default yellows or soft blues... they will do all the work for you. Hope I've helped.


im not sure if this is the rite category but im a 14 year old male and i wanna run away. i dont like tthe way im being treated at home my parents r taking away my comps cuz they saw somethin on this site that they didnt like and they think i had somthin 2do w/ it. my mom is always yelling 4 no reason she thinx im always doin somthin rong my dad gives me no privacy and tries 2 read my messages. i hate having my life consumed by them. i want a life of my own.so should i stay or should i go? (link)
No matter what, parents are parents, it's their job to be in your buisness. Think about this, if you run away, where are you going to run to? Who will take you in? How long before your loving parents figure out that your gone and have the world searching for you? What will you wear, eat, sleep... No matter how you see it, you are lucky, you have parents that care about you. Talk to them, if they still don't hear you, get help from someone you trust. Hope I've helped.


When you bowl a full game , you bowl 30 times , am i right ? ( not counting the second time you bowl if you don't get a strike on your first bowl ) So , a perfect game would be 300 , right ? (link)
Correct.


ok so i have been doing gymnastics for liek 2 years, i have always wanted to be on the high schools team but i have never competed before so im kinda scared, and the girls on the team are really intimidating and rude!! help me!! (link)
If this is what you want to do, go for it. Think about it, you've been doing this for two years, so your probably in love with it, don't let a couple of b**** girls get in the way! Go in there (I guess for try outs?) and do what you do. Remember your only as good as the weakest person (in other words if they think they are better than you, they are only as good as the weakest person in the gymnastics team). Hope I've helped, and good luck!


okay. well i just moved out into my own apartment and i'd like to get a pet. the problem is i don't know what kind. i'd like something that doesn't require a TON of care, but something that i can also play with..can you help? (link)
I think that a dog would be great! How about a LAB? They are playful, loving, and don't require a bunch of care. I have one and we've had her for 13 years, we love her like a part of the family. Go to a local animal shelter and see if you can adopt one. hope I helped!


okay, there are these little boys i babysit for, and they are devils. i always try and to different activities *(crafts, cooking, movies, games)* with them, but they never like my ideas..what can i do with them? (link)
Here is my secret...go to wal*mart and get one of those cheap and really soft NERF balls (a ball that is relatively big cause a small ball hurts more) and play tag with the ball in the back yard or front. They should like that; all the little boys I've ever babysitted for like violence like that. Try it and I hope it works for you.


What is the fastest street legal car
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Well the Fararri (I think thats how you spell it) is the fastest complete factory car but you can take any car and slap some NOS in it.


I keep having dreams about my ex-boyfriend.I have never seen my present boyfrend in my dreams.The more I have dreams about my ex the more I wanna get back with him.What should I do? (link)
Well, I think that you should try to trust your instinct but try to remember why ya'll broke up in the first place and should tell you something right there.


I have this one friend who is always flirting with my friends boyfriends, and even mine. We get mad at her all the time, and she tries to make us forgive her by giving us presents and stuff. We're sick of her! Whenever we get in fights with her she gets her mom involved too. It's starting to get on everyones nerves. Also, she always thinks we're talking about her behind her back, but we're not! HELP! ASAP!-Bethany (link)
Okay, your friend sounds like a real piece of work. Try to avoid her as much as possible; and when you can't just try to ignore her completely. I have a friend sort of like this too and the only reason she flirts with me and my friends boyfriends is cause she is jealous and she knows that she can't get a good boyfriend for herself. You said that she always gets her mom involved; well, it sounds like she can't fight her own battles.


I'm going into my freshman year in high school. What are some do's & don'ts for high school? (link)
Be yourself and you'll get friends who like you for you and not someone you have to pretend to be. Also don't lie, and no matter what never talk bad about anyone! Hope I've helped.


(note: anyone who answers this will get rated by me)

Anyways, I just met this guy out of the blue by chance online. He's my best friend's boyfriend's friend, so I know he's not some sweaty old perverted guy pretending to be someone else online. It seems like we're both pretty interested in eachother; however, he just broke up with his girlfriend recently and he's been having a lot of trouble recouping from his past relationship. They broke up recently so I had no clue if they were going to get back together again soon, so I had decided to not get involved. But then he started calling me pretty and asking if I wanted any gifts cuz he wanted to buy me something... etc. Now I'm not sure what to do. Should I get involved in his recent relationship with his ex gf? should I just stay away from him?(there's no harm in that because I've never met him in person) Well, I'm planning to meet him in two weeks, and I need to plan on what to do. Please help! (link)
hum...I think if he is your best buds boyfriend (or was) that it's good to stay away from him unil you best friend gets over him. If she is already over him then I say go for it! Ne ways, I hope all goes well for you and "the guy". Hope I've helped.


me and my bf are ok together (slight kissing dilema but that's not too bad) but we've run outta places to go on dates! we've been to the cinema, to town but there's no where else to go. there's no bowling places near us and we live on the other side of town from each other. any ideas of places we could go? im an almost 13 year old girl and i live in the UK. (link)
uh...I'm not sure what all is in the UK, but I'm sure if you found a nice park or something that it would be simplicity, and just what you guys want. If you don't like that idear, then I'm sure you could find a place like a restaraunt or a hot hang out around you by looking it up on the internet. Hope I've helped.


well i've decided to take the plung and kiss my bf! ahhhhh i'm scared! anyways, i need a plan. bearing in mind that i'll have to do it in school time (lunch or break) or on the way home from school. any ideas??? I WILL RATE U FOR THIS! (link)
hum...well I defanitly wouldn't do it at school (especially if it's your first kiss - or his first kiss). As far as what to do, just kinda hint around that you guys should for a few days before you do it. At the moment you think is right, just look him in the eye (and kinda give him a smile) and say something sly (like you know you want to kiss me right now) and go for it gurl!! Hope it goes well!


Hey...
This is an awkward question...but when do you start to shave"down there..?" Everyone says its not necessary but ..I am joining swim team this year as a freshman..and idk.....thanks.....(oh and im 14 gonna be 15 in october)
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If its just for swimming, I guess you can just shave what shows in your suit. It really isn't necessary, but if you feel more comfortable this way than that is better than just ignoring it and feeling bad about yourself. As far as the "age range", it's whenever you decide you want to.


ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic! (link)
Trust me, I know were you are coming from! My personal opinion, where what you like, and try not to care how low self-esteem people try to put you down so they can feel better about themselfs. Often, people care so much about fitting in that they make these social groups and classes. Trust me, all that aside, you will be alot happier if you wear, act, and do what you want, rather than trying to fit in. Not only will you have the best years of your life this way, but people will like you for you, and if they still don't, then screw them, most football captins of today are the burger jockies of tomorrow! Lol. Hope I've helped.


Ive been dateing this guy for three yrs and One month, Im 19/f weve always knew were gonna get married and all that stuff,but I wanna propose to him, is that wrong or somewhat stupid?
Thanks (link)
It's totaly normal, I mean some people get skeptical about girl asking guy, but why change the individual when you could change what people think and how they are stuck in there old fashion ways. In other words, go for it! I hope I've helped.


okay i asked a question earlier bout my girl friend cheatin on me well i went over to her house to talk and she wasnt there i went u to her room to see if she and saw her fuc**** with the same guy she looked at me and was suprised i ran out the door upset as i could be then to make matters worse that guy came out and said "guess the better guy won" and that was fighting words so i went up to him and said ur right u can have her and tuned around to leave and the guy sucker punched me so i turned around and knocked the sh** out of him.

did i do the right thing?

P.S thanks 4 helping me with my problem u dont know how much it helped (link)
If you feel no regrets, it doesn't matter if other people feel it's the right thing. So in the end I personaly think you did the right thing. I hope I've helped some.


my boyfriend is leaving for a year and a half. Should i wait for him or see other people? PS im 15 1/2
holding back (link)
If you feel like you love him and you can't live with out him, then it's probably best to wait until finding a "replacement". Other wise, you should try meeting new people and seeing new places, just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean you have to be tied down. Hope I've helped.


Hey ok ive ben hilighting my hair for about a year and i jus wanna dye it but my mom wont lemme do u have any ideas that will make my hair blopnder or any way i can get my mom to dye my hair ? thanx!! (link)
As far as getting your hair blonder, put lemon juice on your roots and go out in the sun for a while. In the meantime, you can wash your hair with sheer blond shampoo/conditioner. Hope I've helped.




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