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Ok..so this guy im talking to is too romantic for me. Like..hes just feminine i could say..he says overly nice things to me..and he just doesnt seem very down to earth and just fun. Everyone thinks im weird because truth is..i dont like the romantic type..i like the fun..outgoing..dont give a crap type. I guess its a bad thing. Am i weird? (link)
No you like what you like. Don't get me wrong, you should want a guy to give a crap because you are worth it. I know what you mean though by overly mushy cause I don't like that either. Find a guy that is down to earth and fun who will be romantic too, just not MUSHY! EUGH! hahaha Peace


How do people add that google thing into their questions on this site? Like they will say "Google it"...but then there is the google thing with it typed in, and you press search and it comes up?

sorry if it is confusing. like this :http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=482496 the answer that laura gave.

how do i do that?


thx :] (link)
it sounds like you are asking "how do i do a hyperlink?" if that is what you are asking all you have to do is this:

CLICK here for My Myspace.com

cept where it says myspace.com you put your web info and then in the click here pare you put what you wanna say (i.e. My page...or for cool food or whatever)


HELP ME! I need to know ANYTHING and EVERYTHING about FDR and the New Deal! HELP! I have to write an FRQ tomorrow about it. Help me! (link)
Check out these links:

http://www.geocities.com/Athens/4545/

http://newdeal.feri.org/

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/New_Deal

http://www.bergen.org/AAST/Projects/depression/


ok so im trying to be a healthier person - not necessarily trying to lose weight but i wouldnt mind slimming down some. anyway im trying to follow the food pyramid. i havent been so strict about it because it seems like i dont eat enough meals to get in all the types of food im supposed to... i would eat more spaced out meals but on weekdays i cant. i leave for school at 7 so i eat at about 6 30, my lunch is at about 11, and i have practice after school and dont get home till around 5, and dinner is usually around 6 or 6:30.
so, for a typical days meal, is this good? and if anyone could give me like a full out meal plan for the day that would follow the food pyramid that would be great.

breakfast:
2 scrambled eggs with a slice of american cheese melted in, 2 pieces of whole grain toast, a glass of skim milk

lunch:
peanut butter and jelly on 2 pieces of whole grain bread, a handful of mini carrots, a handful of wheat thins, and a half pint of water

snack:
banana and water

dinner: (i dont have much authority with this meal so i might have to work around it, but here is a common one in my house)
pasta with tomato sauce and 2 meatballs, a bowl of spinach salad with cucumbers, carrots, croutons, and a little italian dressing, a glass of milk


also - im not sure if this is a good idea, but im trying to limit the drinks i have to water and milk. i love milk and i of course have to watch calcium intake, and then i always try to hydrate myself with water for sports and such.

sorry that was so long. thank you! (link)
I talked to a lot of nutritionists and the food pyramid is not the best way to go if you are trying to lose weight. There are too many carbohydrates on it. You wanna take in more protein and more fruit when you are working on sliming down. I think if you are gonna count calories you wanna stay between 1500 and 2000 every 500 calories is a lb so if you cut 500 a week with exercise and all you will lose about a lb a week. Or you could low carb. The South Beach is the healthiest one cause it seperates the less healthy carbs from the healthier ones that you want. Eat every 3 hours or so. And drink lots of water. Drink a glass before every meal. And stay happy. Stress keeps you from losing weight. Peace


i want to lost at least 15 pounds before june, is that possible ? and if it is can someone help me think of something to lose that muchh, thankyouuu (link)
Yeah do a low carb. Get Atkins or South Beach. Works great. South Beach is better for a lifestyle change though. You'll lose like 5-10lbs in the first week depending on your body and exercise and all. I lost 4 lbs in 4 days, and 7 in a week. Talk to your doctor first though. Peace


Im 25 years old and my boyfriend just recently found a wart on his penis that he had removed. We have never had unprotected sex, but I got tested for std's anyway just to make sure. The results came back negative for HPV, and all the rest of the bugs out there. My question is how can I stay free of infection if I ever wanted to have a baby with this person whom has genital warts? (link)
Ask your doctor about Artificial Insemination? Maybe? What does anyone else think? I have often wondered the same thing...Peace


ohkay so i weigh 148 and im 15 and im like 5'3 5'4ish and i wanna lose like 25 pounds before the middle of june.what can i do to loseee it?[if 25 pounds is realisticccc] (link)
Dude the most awesomest way to lose weight fast is a low car live it (dieit) that is what models and actors do that is safe. I would say that Atkins works faster but the South Beach Diet is a better thing to do if you are looking to keep the weight off. This is the thing though! You are not fat. You are just around the wrong people. I am 5'1" and when I was 145-135 I was getting all the dudes in NYC and Brooklyn and Queens and Brooklyn. If I had gone to Long Island I would have gotten them there too. And I don't mean just fat guys or black guys. I got whatever race I wanted whatever size I wanted. You just gotta be confident! Confidence is the Key and that is the truth. Ask any dude that is like 20 and over (most of the younger ones are lame and stupid) hahaha. Peace



When I was about 15, I started to get these lumps on the lips of my vagina right before and during my period.


Before my period, the place a lump would come would get really itchy. Then a lump or two would form, no more than two. They would itch BAD, so much so that I would sterilize a needle and lance them. Pus and gobs of blood would ooze out. Then the lumps would go away. They only happened right before and during my period. During all this, my vagina would turn sort of purple in color too.


I am now 18 and I still get these lumps. I have stopped wearing underwear, since I dont go to school anymore and other reasons, and Ive noticed that the lumps arent quite as severe. They itch, but I dont need to lance them. My vagina still turns a little purple though. So I think the underwear might have been a factor.


Do you know what these lumps are, their cause and cure? I havent told anyone, especially my mom because we dont talk about things like that in our house. Please can you give me some advice?
Thanks! (link)
Yeah it's totally normal to get bumps on your vagina before your period. I don't know about the puss and all that cause I never tried to pop one, I just let them go away. I mean if you are worried talk to your doctor. I thought I was the only one that got it til I got to college and other girls had it too. A lot of weird stuff happens around period time, sore breasts, itchy vagina, pimples, stomach pains, vomiting, etc. Sometimes you get it after a really cold shower too. But if they got puss in em you should prolly go to the GYN just incase. Peace


My legs are pretty uneven. Im a healthy weight, except my legs really bug me, my thighs are normal, but my calves have no muscle or fat on it.

Do you know any exercises for my calves?? PLEASE AND THANK YOU! (link)
Living in NYC i developed Calf muscles because I was constantly walking up stairs. So you could just walk up stairs a ton a times like 100-200 times depending on what you can handle or you could just go on releve ( you know on your tippie toes ) over and over like ballerina. Cause when I was doing Ballet I got nice calves too. Peace


i remember seeing this movie, but i dont remember what it is. i remember a part when theres a girl sitting in a car and she puts a gun in her mouth and shoots herself and theres all blood and smokes comin' out of her mouth. ya it was gross lolol, but what movie was it i cant rememberr
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The only movie I remember with that happening where a girl shot herself was the Texas Chainsaw Masacare which was really scary to me hahaha of course not to anyone else but I am really scared of horror movies


Wll I have that fat thing at like below my but but at the top of my thighs like fat pockets I supose. Is there any way in whcih I can get rd of it?
Its really odd as im a dancer etc, if its cellulite can I get rid of cellulite??
Also the bottom of my stomach is not as toned as the top, and Im confused on how to tone the bottom of it?
As it looks bad as im a petite girl.
Thanks please help me
xx (link)
Try this link:

http://www.changingshape.com/resources/articles/tummy-exercises.asp

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I3obqfPDcvQ&mode=related&search=



I have acne. Help me get rid of it. What products can I use? Is there anything I should avoid eating? (I know, i know...don't pick...blah blah..) I just want to get things from Target/Rite Aid etc...I don't want to order anything like Proactiv (link)
You should ask your doctor if you could take a vitamin called Shark Cartilage. I know people who took that vitamin and their entire body cleared of it. It is something in your body that is trying to get out, that's why it is escaping through your skin. The body is trying to cleanse it's self. Peace


I'm a girl and I have been masterbating since I was about 4 years old and always with a blanket. I am now 18 and recently lost my virginity to a guy I liked. Our relationship didnt last too long after, mainly because I liked masterbating instead of sex. Is this unusual to like masterbating instead of sex and do I need to maybe get some sex therapy or something because wont this maybe mess up my love life later on?
Thanks.
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That is very normal. I liked masturbating more than sex because I knew exactly what i wanted to feel and where I wanted to feel it and for how long and I controlled it. But what I realized is that I had to communicate with my Man so that he would be able to give me the same pleasure I was getting from masturbating. What is nice is that after you communicate to him what you enjoy you will get the good feeling, plus he will be able to do many things at the same time like play with your boobies and kiss you and hug you and stuff that just feels better when there are two people. Just tell him what you like babe! If he cares about you he will work something out with you.


Well, i have this friend, and well everytime i am myself she gets mad at me for acting the way i do, im not mean im just crazy (thats my personality) and so i feel like i have to be somone else when im around her in order to be her friend. Now she is mad at me again, is it worth trying to work things out AGAIN or should i just noot be her friend anymore, because i have a bunch of other friends that like me for me.
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I always say stay true to yourself. If you are crazy then you should prolly look into how you can manage it. You should be able to master yourself so that if you want to act crazy you can and if you want to act calm you can. Maybe that is why you met her, so you could learn how different people precieve you and how you can work with it and not against it. But you know chill with people who enjoy you for who you are in the moment. Peace


ok for starters f/13
i have a gross kind disorder thing
i have had it all my life but it is suposed to be the worse when you are a teenager
there is no cure for it and it doesnt hurt and its not contagiouse
its like only on my arms
basicly its just really red, bumpy,and unatractive
i wear a jacket everyday to cover it up but its getting to be summer and its getting really hot and i cant wear a jacket anymore

it isnt that bad or red when im relaxed or if i dont worry about it but when im at school i feel like i HAVE to cover it up or ppl with make fun of me (they have before)

what do i do?
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I agree! I have streach marks and B!tc#3$ used to make fun of me! Come to find out more than 1/2 of them had streach marks too they just had them like on their back or legs and you couldn't see it with their clothes on! I have exczima and I don't care when it flares up f@#$ it! Do you ma. They hatin but they got issues too! Hate back. Snap on em! You know like oh my skin? what about your ashy this or your big this etc you know. Peace.


hi,i am looking for a nice and hot girl for marriage,but when ever i saw a girl infront of me,i just cant ask her and my toung start mumbling,,,becouse i dont have courage to ask a girl becouse everytime a thing got scared me that if she say somthing to me or if i got a negative feedback then what i would do,i never ask a girl before i am still virgin,i am now 24,so what should i do,? sum time i ashamed my self that i dont have any girl friend,i know i m a hot guy,and all girls look at me when ever i passed them in way,but i cant ask them i just smile and thats it,, lol.. realy tell me what should i do, (link)
Hmmm. This is a really interesting thing about guys. The truth is that you have to treat girls like sports. what I mean is you gotta take the good wtih the bad. When you go out there to make a play you don't say "Oh what if the other person knocks me over, or what if I fumble the ball, or what if I trip" You just go out there and do what you gotta do to try to win and if you lose you lose and if you win then that is AWESOME! You got your self a trophy! So you know just see a girl and say "Hi" i like your : shirt, necklace, hair, nails, something" She'll prolly go on after that and just listen to what she is saying and ask her questions about what she says in responce. When she asks you questions, answer them Honestly! Girls Love Honesty! They rather you be honest and not like what you say, than for you to lie and they find out later. I would say that is most women. Be your self and deal with people who like you for who you are. There is always someone out there who finds you interesting and attractive. Be confident in how the creator made you! Peace.


how do you get an animated image to move on your myspace page?

like i want to put a moving picture as my "headline" and whenever i do, it stops moving :[

help!!? (link)
did you try uploading the image onto photo bucket. Whenever I upload onto photo bucket the images keep moving no matter where I put them. Even on this sight. Here is the link:
http://photobucket.com/

you have to save the pic and then upload it from your comp. Peace


what is spooning? (link)
Spooning to my knowledge and how i've heard it used is in refference to the way you sleep next to someone. If you are laying down on your side and the other person is on their side and their back is next to your stomach like this ----> ((
Then you are spooning. Thus it looks like two spoons are sitting on top of each other. Not necessarily bad unless they are naked and one is your GF or BF. Peace


Okay, so I want to pierce my friends cartilidge, and she wants it done. Does anyone have any tips/experiences to share? And, how big of a needle shoud we use and what are the steps other then numbing, sterilizing, cleaning, and putting in the pin then the earring?

Has anyone had a good/bad experience with self-piercing the cartilidge? Please share.

thanks (link)
I really don't think that is very safe if you are not an expert. You really should go to a professional. It is only gonna be like $25-$50 which is a lot cheaper than going to the doctor if something goes wrong which could be anywhere from like $100 on UP! and that's assuming you have insurance. Just save and go to the professional. What are you like not old enough or something? Peace



Err, when you're giving someone a handjob,
how do you know when to stop?
Do you just go until they cum,
and what if that takes awhile? (link)
ok ok ok! I used to go through this same thing. I am gonna give you this awesmoe link that will tell you how to give an awesome handjob so that you prolly wont want to stop! Man when you are giving a good hand job...not just like the back and forth back and forth I mean really really good. The reaction is sooooooooo HOT that you just wanna...WOW! ok here is some links:
1. http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_handtechniques.shtml
2. http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_handtechniques_2.shtm3. http://www.handjobguide.org/tech.html
4. http://www.a-womans-touch.com/article/9/112/The_Perfect_Handjob.html

and believe me this stuff WORKS!

Try this stuff. If he is good in bed it should take him a while to come, but just let him know your hands are tired and that you want to take a break or maybe you guys could take turns and he could finger you and you give him a hand and make it interesting.




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