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Age: 18
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14/f
Okay. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a few weeks now. Up until now, he's only met my parents but this Saturday I'm going to a cook-out party with his family. I really want to make a good impression. He is my first boyfriend so I have no experience in this. Besides being polite do you have any advice on how to impress his parents? (link)
be polite. try to be talkative & make conversation. don't give your opinion on anything unless you're asked. don't talk down on anyone. don't say anything that they might take offense to. dress somewhat conservatively. don't act fake. don't compliment too much. that's all i can think of. good luck!


on April 22 i got my first Depo shot which is effective for three months i went in to get my second one of July 1. Today, me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom and i was wondering if i should still be covered? Also, i don't remember how long the doctor said that it takes for the Depo shot to become effective, so anyone who could tell me thank you.

PS- no opinions please just facts thank you ! (link)
you'll be fine. you're second shot technically wasn't due 'til july 22. the first one is definitely still in effect. but a warning about the shot. after my third round i had my period for 6 straight months. yeah... it's highly affective but has some ridiculous conseqences. ):


17/Female :)
So im really worried about it hurting my first time. I just started using tampons and feel like im really tight and that my hymen is probablly really thick. Can anyone give me their personal stories about their first time and how it felt/if it hurt/if you bled.

Also what are some ways i can stretch/slowly break my hymen so it doesnt hurt. thanksssss (link)
i lost my virginity at 16. it definitely hurt, but it's bearable. your first time probably isn't gonna be enjoyable. lol. my advice would be to have him finger you first. that'll get things to loosen up a little. you lots of lubricant so it'll slide in easier &; most importantly RELAX! your muscles down there will be a lot less tense if you do, &; the whole process will go by a lot smoother. good luck. (:


okay what are some effective ways to masturbate things i can find around the house i geuss or just good ideas fingering doesnt feel good to me and i want to make yself orgasm any suggestion or what do you do? (link)
you should just buy a "toy". there are some that are very discreet & easy to hide. if you're embarrassed to do this, have a friend do it for you. everyone masturbates, though, so it's not something to be ashamed of.


Do guys have a specific sized nipple that they like? Like is big or small better. How do you make your nipples appear smaller? (link)
honestly, if a guy is looking at your breasts, he's obviously going to be turned on. my boyfriends swears that men don't notice those little things because they're so into your body as a whole. i'm really uncomfortable with the cellulite on the back of my legs, but he promises it's something he doesn't even notice. i wouldn't worry about it. just try to become more comfortable with your body the way it is.


I really want to be a model. a lot of people tell me that id be a good one. the problem is, i'm too short. i'm not a short person, and i have really long legs. but right now, i'm only 5 foot four and a half. i did a thing that predicts your height when your older and it said i'd be 5'5.5. thats not good enough. does anyone know if that should be around right?
my height: 5'4.5
my weight: 86 lbs.
my fathers height: 6 ft
my mothers height: 5'4

if anyone knows if ill be tall enough PLEASEEE let me know! :) (link)
you have to be 5'8" to do runway. =[

but you can still do photography. there's no height restrictions what-so-ever. =]

good luck modeling.




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