about

Hi I will answer any questions on anything but id prefer to be asked by people between the ages of

12-20

Ask Away!!!!

btw i specialise in sex questions

advice

ok im 13 years old and i think i might be bisexual...i've had ALOT of boyfriends(like more then 30) I just moved from NY to LA Cali. I have a friend that is bi and latly when i hang out wiht her i feel these weird feelings for her. What should i do????

I rate4 HIGH!!

~LiLy~

Eperiment with her. If shes a good friend, talk to her about that you are not sure about whether your bi an ask her if you two can try experimentin to find out. What's the worst that can happen? either you find out that you really are bi and you hav A LOT of fun with your m8 or you find out that your not bi and are no longer confused. Theres no harm in trying new things isthere?

hope i helped!

chris

[view]


Hi!! im new to this website and Im 15 years old. I was just wondering if I should shave my vagina or do I leave it like it is. I have never been told yes or no, and I am too embarassed to ask. Thanks...I will rate high.

Hey, its ur choice whether you want to shave it or not and it doesn't make a lot of difference if you do or don't. However most boys like it shaven and if you are going to have and oral sex its better to shave it too. Also i don't think you can get crabs if you aint got any hair on it. So i recommend shaving but it doesn't make a lot of difference if you don't shave.

hope i helped!!

chris

[view]


i have a sex parner. We practice safe sex dont worry!!! We met up ever so often and he buy me toys we use on each other. I wanted to find some new toy we can try together but i dont no what websites they are i heard that if u type itt on in the web search then its just porno. Ne 1 help ??

www.pabo.co.uk

its a catalogue/internet shop for sex toys/clothes etc for both men and women, definately the best ive ever used and its not porn

[view]


i need as many ways as possible OTHER THAN SEX to materbate or have an orgasm asap please.
thanks loves

go to ann summers dey hav lots of stuff there. or put u hand up there and find ur g-spot, stimulate it by rubbin or vibrator, then ull orgasm

[view]


I've always used a note to break up with someone because I'm shy and when I break up with my boyfriends, I wouldn't be able to look them in their face or be able to talk because I'd be so nervous. So my question is: What's the best way to break up with a guy? You know, like note, phone, in person, online?

Well im a guy an i wud prefer to b broken up wid to ma face but definately not in front of ppl cos dats evil. sumwhere where its jus u an him an b really nice an ask to b friends.

[view]


14/f
My boyfriend and I have been going out around 3 1/2 months. I really love him so much. I want to kiss but the only time we ever see each other is at school. The rare times when we are actually alone we don't take advantage of it. we can't seem to talk romantic or get in the mood. Sometimes I really want to kiss him but it would be so awkward since we weren't even being romantic. He wouldn't expect it so he'd probably pull away or sumthing. I'm too scared to talk to him about it. Please help me!

Why not after skool or at the weekend arrange to go out cinema or round eachothers house sumwhere private and just start cuddling look him in the eye to give a signal then move in slowly so u dnt take him by surprise

[view]


alright i am a 13 year old male and i am friends with this one girl. She already has a boyfriend but he goes to a different skool and she doesn't really get to talk to him. And i like the girl sooo much... What should i do ask her out??

Yes u shud just go up to her and ask her out

[view]


therez this kid who i was involved w/ for lyke a month very physically he was going out with someone at the time but i was his unofficial gf who he talked to and did stuff with, and he promised he'd break up with her, then i come back after a weekend and he's broken up with her, and i expect him to ask me out, and some other girl's on his arm, i feel like ive been used and i should be pissed, so how should i ger back at him? no really i want to burn this jerk, he ignores me everyday and acts like we were never all over each other, how should i get revenge?

Spread rumours about him saying things like his dick is small. and try to break him an his g/f up by tellin her things bout him. Maybe go up to him and talk to him while nobody is within hearing range and then act shocked and slap him across the face then tell everybody that he tried to grope you that'll piss his g/f off.

Hope I helped!

[view]


I've figured out that i am bi...but i am a christian..and i realize how wrong it is...and i hate myself for it...im trying to change myself.....but its hard for me to completely stop liking guys....but its so wrong...in the bible it says that doing stuff with another guy is an abomination..and they should be destroyed..that scares me..so i am trying to fight it off..i have a gf...and she's helping me thru it too...but my ? is...is it really wrong to be bi?..

No definately not. Its perfectly ok to be bi. Just ignore the bible and go with your feelings. If you like men go for men if you like women go for women if you like both go for both

[view]


Is it bad if your boyfriends "belongings" smell a little bit wierd/mildewy...my boyfriend Chad wants me to give him oral sex well when he pushes my head down there**i start to gag a little bit....but i dont want to be rude or ne thing but it makes me gag a lot and its a tad bit undigesting!HELP i rate so high that it touches the sky!teehee

Well its because he doesn't wash it enough lol

u jus have to tell him to wash it or maybe hav a shower with hm first or sumink. A clean penis is a happy penis. o an if he isn't circumsized he shud pull back the skin to wash behind there or it will be dirty and smelly. Maybe he wasnt taught how to do that

[view]


ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me

p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please?

I dunno bout givin hed cos once a girl tried it on me but it just felt awkward so maybe u shud read up on that and practice on bananas.

But fingerin all he has to do is put his finger under flaps an near the top wiggle the clitoris an it supposed to feel gr8

[view]


Hey, I am Leigh-Anne, I am 35 years old, a week ago me and my husband were working late, my 12 year old son was home alone, when I came home I went to his room and caught him having sex with a 17 year old girl who is a friend of the family. I was schocked. She was giving him oral sex and they immedietly stopped, please answer thanks ~Leigh-Anne

Well u shudnt freak out or anything theres nothing wrong with it.

Just sit him down an talk to him about the risks both physically and emotionally about sex an buy him sum protection too like condoms and a lock for his bedroom door

[view]


I'm a chick.. I always stay with my best friend when she is home alone.. latly she has been asking me to experiment with her.. we have made out/french kissed.. you know, nothing "down there".. but she asked me if I ever wanted to experiment "dowthere" so we did.. just fingering.. but now she wants to emo.. what the fuck do I do?!?!

If u feel comfortable then go ahead. Wots the worst that can happen? but if ya dnt wanna then say no.

Its only experimentation and theres nothing wrong with that is there.

[view]


I'm 13 years old, and I'm bleeding "down there". i'm afraid, and I live with foster parents I dont really know yet. What do I do?!! I don't know whats going on!
signed,
confused

buy some tampons or sanitry towels from asda or sumink and the instruction are on the box. By the way its called a period and its perfectly natural so dont worry

[view]


what should i say during an akward or scilent moment

lol i get them all the timejust think of a conversation starter or a joke. Something to break the silence and the longer its silent the more awkward it feels so make sure u break it quick lol

[view]


Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!

Hey a guy wont be botherd with little things like that so don't worry and go ahead if u want to. Unless its a realy stuck up asshole who thinks hes perfect. Nobody's perfect

[view]


how are you supposed to know what size condoms to buy?

They are all the same siz an they strecth to fit ur penis lol. its one size fits all.

[view]


i have hair down the middle of my stomach.. im alittle conscience about it.. should i wax or shave it?

you shud wax it looks better lol

[view]


I like a boy but he already has a girlfriend. I still told him I like him though. He told me he likes me but he doesnt want to break up with his girlfriend even though she is a snob. What should I do?

Make him want you more than his girl friend u know giv him dirty hints spend lots of time with him and maybe set up his girl friend and stuff to make her look bad so he will dump her.

[view]


hi i asked...
im always sad inside , but no body knows cosz i dont show it... how can i get the emptiness in my heart to go away... signed , confused and lonely.

well i no whats bothering me inside.. its that my X boyfriend has gone out with at least 4 of my best friends.. and now hes going out with my closest one .. lets call her shelly - i think hes just using shelly but i really really still like him and i think im crazy for dumping him =\ i dont no how to tell him this .. can you PLEASE give me as much advice as possible..

signed , lonely - again .

Just w8 till he brakes up wid ur friend dnt go behind her bak cos she a close friend. thenask him out.

[view]



<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker