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i finished breaking dawn by stepehnie meyer,
i want to know how you guys liked it.
i loved it! (link)
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It was an amazing book! I really love the Twighlight saga. Eclipse was my favorite though. BReaking Dawn was a breath of fresh air though. I think putting in the perspective of Jacob really made the book different from others.
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ok so everytime im on the phone with my boyfriend and we are going to get off he says hell call me back and ends up not doing that i dont know what to do ya duh talk about it but i sorta dont know how to start with it without sounding like a biotch i think its so stupid to get angry over this but i am and i want it to stop. o and by the way my number is so simple to remember its not even funy the last 4 digits are all the same like it 5555 its ANNOYING (link)
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Ik exactly how you feel. My bf never calls back. Your bf isn't trying to be mean but somtimes, not all guys though, don't have the greatest memory. Hey we have that issue alot to. So if he says he's going to call back be like "you promise?" Don't be mean about it just say it really cute like. Now he knows that you really want him to call back. If that doesnt work confront him but do it nicely sneak it into the conversation.
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what's the easiest way to get over your first love? we were together almost a year. we were each others first 'real' relationship and took each other's virginity. we recently broke up and i dont know what to do now. we havent talked since, (not that i really want to now) and he's trying to make me jealous. i've tried hanging out with someone else but idk. and i can't find anything really to keep me busy so i don't think about it. please help. (link)
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Well I'm sorry about your brake up but they only make you stronger. It's always going to be hard to loose someone you really cared about but when the door closes a new one opens. ( ik its old fashion and corny) Have a sleep over with your friends or confide in your best friend all your thoughts about it. Don't try to ignnore the fact that it hurt. Face it and then cope. You can help with chores around the house or do some volunteering. If you want to stay busy do it by helping your community or the world. I hope I helped.
Jade f/15
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where in the mall can i find cute summer dresses and cover ups and stuff? not too expensive, thankss =) (link)
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It depends at alderwood mall there is a good store called love culture. they have great dresses and really cute items. =)
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I know this is an issue that many people deal with and i have tried just about everything that i know but nothing seems to work....I think i have an addiction to porn and i dont know what to do...i went a whole month and a half without doing it and it was the hardest thing for me....i dont know how to get it out of my head,.i pray about it just about every night and im tired of being this way please help (link)
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Pray to the Lord ask for strength to stop. If its the on the computer block all of the sites if its in a magazine throw it away forever. Talk to your pastor it may be embarresing but the Lord does not want us to be looking at porn it is evil. Keep praying and believe God will help you.
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I go to this camp & I'm in close contact with this one guy who I have a little crush on. From his body language I can tell that he's kind of into me but he's never talked to me. I smile at him but he's too shy to make conversation. Camp ends soon, how can I get this guy out of his shell?! (link)
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Approach him casually. Walk up when you get a chance and make small talk like about somthing funny that happened today. Or talk to whoever he mostly hangs out with see what they like to talk about and try it on him.
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how do i acheve an orgasum by myself? using my hands doesn't work. (link)
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You could get a toy. Or if fingering is to hard or your not wet enough use lubricants they will help.
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ok so im 15f i have only had 1 bf before. i feel like i dont wanna be committed having to buy gifts and just all that stuff. but now thats changing i think. im ready to try a relationship, my ex was an awful kisser and i think that turned me off and i just like stopped talking to him , its mean i know. idk why i feel like this but now there was an older guy, by 1 year and him and i got close and we talked and as soon as we started getting closer i backed off and didnt talk to him. its not live ive been hurt so why am i like this, what can i do to change (link)
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If your worries about hurting the other guy tell him about your past experiences not in full depth but enough so that he will understand. If he really cares about you then he will understand and just take it slow. There is no need to get hurt. Just take it slow and make sure he understands.
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Okay, so I am not fat. I know this...sort of. Just I get self-conscious sometimes because I look in the mirror and see flab and grossness. This is all recently. I feel unworthy I guess for so many reasons so this is just one more.
I weigh 103 pounds and I am 5' 4", and I'm fifteen years old.
So last week I put up pictures of skinny people on my wall as a kind of goal I guess you could say. Well, then I sort of felt guilty about it. Because I'll never be skinny or pretty as them.
Is it bad that I'm using pictures of super-skinny people? Do I have a problem? I don't know. I think there's gotta be something wrong with me that I keep judging myself over everything. But I'm too embarrassed to tell my mom because I told her once that I wanted to talk to someone (like professionally) and she just nodded and never brought it up ever again.
Ugh. (link)
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Try asking your mom again. Tell her you really want to see a professional to talk to. Make sure she is listening and if she ignores it keep bringing it up.
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Oka were can i start well first off im 15 and i like this boy. He knows i like him and well he flirts alot with me. And like i dont wanna give my hopes up thinking he likes me when he might not like me but then again i dont know because sometimes he seems like he do and sometimes and dont. Like one time my friend told me he always ask about me like asking if i still like him and stuff like that. And if he dont likes me then why is he flirting with me and always just messing aorund with me dont he know all it doese is just makes me like him more. Its just everything dont seems right to me at all. How can i tell if he like me? Oh and i never actually ask him if he likes me because he be talking to other girls and i always just be thinking he dont. If he knew i like him and he talkin to other girls and plus i found out he liked another girl but not no more. Anways im just soo confuse to it all. (link)
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Ask his best friend. Casually though, don't sound like your desprete. Be like hey (name) has been like flirting with me so I'm like wondering if he likes me. Hopefully he will know and tell you the truth.
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ok there is the girl who is after my boyfriend and she is driving me insane so i told my boyfriend that if she really meant nothing to him he would erase her from his msn aim phone and everything which he did but i made him mad so he added her back to everything. so later i told him he should go and talk to jen and tell her she means nothing to him because i thought that she would take a hint and back off. so now she wants to talk to me her exact words were "tell that b*tch of yours i want to talk to her." how do i get this girl to back off of my boyfriend? because a simple stay away from him wont do the trick. she insults me everytime with the same old he could dump you in a second for a prettier girl. how do i retaliate to her insults and make her feel weak against me. and again how do i get her to back off of my boyfriend other than asking her to stay away from him? like what else can i say to make her backaway? sorry this is long (link)
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Whenever you see her and your with your bf lay it on thick. I mean extra flirting, kissing randomly and stay hooked on his arm. He will like the extra attention and she will back off. But don't let your bf think your just doing that because of her do it becuase you love him. =) hope it helps
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i really like this guy and i think he might like me back, hes been dropping a few hints and stuff but like he didnt flat out say that he liked me... (yet?) we've only hung out like 3 or so times. im seeing him again this weekend at a party and theres gonna be alcohol there. hes not really a big drinker but he does a little bit. this is gonna sound really stupid but my question is, should i act a little tipsy around him? because i kind of want to see if he'll take care of me and stuff. please don't tell me to act myself and stuff its not like im gonna get flat out drunk, im not like that. i just wanna see if he really does have feelings for me and stays with me...which he has before at a non-alcoholic beverage party.
17/f
thank youu! (link)
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Thats not the best way to see if he cares. He might think your an alchoholic and then he might not be interested on you. In my opinion don't go tipsy just hang out with him and flirt alot.
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So I've known this guy for 2 years, And he started to have a hatred for me, because I was kind of a whore in 8th grade when he was in 10th grade. I went out with a lot of people. And he still didn't like me till I got into high school, and then finally I started to date one of his good friends and he still talked shit about me and didn't like me, and didn't like what I stood for and all that shit. He said I was annoying and didn't like me.
So this happened, : I always was interested in him from the first time I met him, I thought he was just amazing. So randomly this summer, a couple days ago, I'm going to be a junior and he's already graduated. I got his number from a friend and texted him randomly and told him I'm "Natasha" even though my name is Jacky. And he didn't even know that. I sent him pictures of me over texts and he said I was cute as hell and stuff like that, and he didn't know it was me Jacky. He thought I was Natasha. So we started talking on the phone and texting a lot, and getting to know each other a bit better. And he says he's interested in me and so am I.
So we hang out this one day at midnight. I come to his house and he's all smiling and shit when he sees me. We get in his friends car and we're sitting in the back talking and shit, and we get really high. It was a lot of fun and he starts making out with me and we're driving around. He still doesn't know I'm Jacky, the girl he hates, he thinks I'm Natasha. So we cruise around town, and then we get back to his house.
We have sex. It was really amazing. We were so high and it was so good and he was so amazing. He still thinks I'm Natasha. But I'm not. I told him I'm Natasha because I thought if I told him who I really was, he'd reject me. So I'm playing this little game with him, it might not be mature, but it's actually kind of smart.
So later on, he finds out from a friend that I'm Jacky. And he says that he knew I was. And now I don't know what's going on, if he's interested in me still or what's going on. I'm really confused, and I don't know what to do, or if I should talk to him or not. I still really like him and I want to date him. What should I do? What's going on? Please help me. (link)
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Confront him but do it nicely. Ask him if he really new if you were Jacky. And if he did then why didn't he care. If he says that he doesn't care and he loves you anyways then he sounds like an awesome guy that you should be happy about.
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I am 17 and a senior in high school. i started this job a while back and there is this guy i like there but he is 21. he's really sweet and everyone has good things to say about him. I was always shy to talk to him but then i got up the courage to talk to him and it turned out he thought i was cute. so we started talking and i seen him at some parties then i spent the night at his house and he said he felt like a weirdo because of my age but we made out anyway, thats it. then i seen him some more and then we ended up having sex and i felt stupid because my sister said to me, dont you think its wierd how you are too young to date but not too young to have sex with and now that i think about it, IT IS. ive had this problem before but this guy actually tells me that he likes me and stuff so i dont know what to do. i told him we arent having sex again ebcause it makes me like him more than i already do and he was like well maybe thats a good idea cuz i feel the same way and im not sure if this is going to go anywhere. i dont know what to do, should i believe this guy and wait until in 18 (which isnt till another 7 or 8 months) or should i just forget it? i know its hard to decided seeing as you dont know him, just what would you do? please respond soon, i need quick advice, i might be going to the movies with him tonight! (link)
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Just friends. Thats the best idea. Stay just friends and DO NOT HAVE SEX AGAIN. You don't want to get hurt he might think your cute but your personality is what he should care about. Don't wait on him stay friends with him if you want but see other guys your age. It's safer and you'll have a better conience ( sorry isnt spelt right). So its ok to stay friends but really dont let him be the only guy in your life. hope i helped =) good luck
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been having sex hes 17. my mom found naked pictures of me in my camera that i took of myself that no one else has seen but me, and now my moms putting me out to be this big slut. And shes treatening to take me to the doctor and if they see im not a virgin then shes gonna have my boyfriend Aressted. me and him have been together for 2 years. I love him sooo much annd idk what i would do without him PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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Well first of all your mom can't take you to the doctor to get your virginity checked. She is talking about seeing if your hynem is broken or not. Nobody can really tell because a tampon can brake it. Tell your mom you took the pictures and nobody has seen them. If she asks why you took them say you were curious about your body. Tell your mom you are not a slut and it hurts you that she said that. Ask your mom not to have your boyfriend arrested. If it makes her happy brake up with him. It would be better to brake up with him and not press charges than to have him sent to jail. Sorry but maybe it will help.
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im worried!
do baby budgies always stay puffed up? or is that a sign of illness?
also..
my old budgie is puffed up as of late and some of his head feathers are darkened. what is that? not molting i dont think. (link)
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Do you know anybody that has birds like that? If yes ask them they will probably know. If not then check with a vet it might me an illness. Stay calm and check with a vet.
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whats the song that they dance to in the end? (link)
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I think its: Montana Tucker, Sikora and Denial
"Ain’t No Stressin"
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do they have a route to follow? they used to come into my neighborhood but now its like once per summer.. (link)
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Gas prices might be the problem. The prices are getting really high so they might not make as many trips around. Ask your parents or your neighbors, only if you know them well, if they know anything about the Ice Cream Trucks. Most trucks do have a route but try checking online. Search it.
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on my cheek i have a spider vein. at least thats what i think it is. what is it and how do i get rid of it? (link)
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Ask your mom, older sister whoever you think might know. Even go to a doctor they might have some super cool remidy. who knows ask family but then go to a doctor to be safe.
Hope I helped =)
Jade /15
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hey ppls.
i love gymnastics and ive always wanted to do it(im 13 and have never been in classes)but i had a bad left knee and i had surgery on it. but when i had the bad knee i was favouring it so i had to put most of my weight on my right knee and it kinda made that one hurt too. but i just started to notice that it hurt not too long ago. and then ive had to favour my right knee and put my weight on my left. so now both of my knees hurt. i really want to do gymnastics but for alot of the moves you have to have strong legs and knees and i really dont know what to do about it. please help.
thanks
xoxo (link)
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Go to a doctor. Have them dtermine what to do. Until then stay off of it, if you can, there is no need to hurt them even more. Hope I helped =)
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