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i cant handle this girl anymore
ok there is the girl who is after my boyfriend and she is driving me insane so i told my boyfriend that if she really meant nothing to him he would erase her from his msn aim phone and everything which he did but i made him mad so he added her back to everything. so later i told him he should go and talk to jen and tell her she means nothing to him because i thought that she would take a hint and back off. so now she wants to talk to me her exact words were "tell that b*tch of yours i want to talk to her." how do i get this girl to back off of my boyfriend? because a simple stay away from him wont do the trick. she insults me everytime with the same old he could dump you in a second for a prettier girl. how do i retaliate to her insults and make her feel weak against me. and again how do i get her to back off of my boyfriend other than asking her to stay away from him? like what else can i say to make her backaway? sorry this is long
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I know you may want to retaliate, because it'd probably make you feel a ton better/more confident in this situation. However, I really wouldn't recommend this. There's nothing wrong with standing up for yourself, but the better thing to do would be classy about it. For your's, and your boyfriend's sake.
The best thing to do in this situation would be to ignore her. If anything, you'll probably frustrate your boyfriend by kind of stooping to her level and participating in drama. Just because he didn't delete her dosen't mean she means more than you, by the way. Be confident! You've got your guy, and he's with you for a reason. If you act all insecure and paranoid about this, he'll probably get annoyed after a while.
However, this girl does sound like she needs to back off. If she says something when you're with your boyfriend, just let him know. It seems immature, but it's not. Let him know so he sees what kind of girl she is. That, and get closer with him. Cuddle/hold hands/etc. If he's not around, just let him know later, and kind of walk away from her. Don't be really really rude, because you wouldn't want her saying something about you to your boyfriend. Just tell her "Well, he hasn't." And walk away. Your confidence will impress her, too.
Also, if you really need an insult: You've got the guy who "could leave you for a prettier girl", and she wants him, right? So obviously he dosen't see any "prettier girls" around. :P
Just talk to him about what's going on, and how much it's frustrating you. He'll begin to back away from HER, and see what kind of person she really is.
XOXO
KAT.
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First, you should at least try to make peace with this girl once. Offer that you co-exist, you as the girlfriend and her as the friend. You can acknowledge each other's existence but never more than...
"Marc* said Jen and Jackie* were coming to the movies with us." said the boyfriend.
"Okay," said the girlfriend. "So we'll hang out Friday?"
... to ensure that you're both happy.
If all else fails, just tell her to stop embarrassing herself because the only person she's making look bad is her.
And of course, show off your boyfriend as much as possible. He'll love it, and she'll hate it. :)
*Example names.
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Whenever you see her and your with your bf lay it on thick. I mean extra flirting, kissing randomly and stay hooked on his arm. He will like the extra attention and she will back off. But don't let your bf think your just doing that because of her do it becuase you love him. =) hope it helps
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