im a 16 year old guy. i've had alot of good/bad/ and meaningful relationships that i've learned from, and believe i can help people with some of the things i have to say.
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i am 15/f and i am totally confused about this guy. He is a good friend of mine and i have liked him for a few months now. recently i feel like there might be something, we have always talked a lot and he helps me out and i have leaned my head on his shoulder quite a few times, and he gives me really nice goodbye hugs. the thing is that he is my age and isn't very experienced with girls, so i can imagine that he doesn't know what he is doing, neither do i really. sometimes he is around a lot and sits next to me and other times he doesn't. How would talking and leaning your head on his shoulder look to a guy if you were just friends with a guy? by not sitting next to me, is he seeing if i will move closer to him or what? i am just very confused as to what this guy is feeling, and would like an honest opinion on what he thinks and what i should do.
thanks a lot (link)
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get him to watch the notebook. it put it all in prospective for me:)
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Okay so this kid pretty much took my virginity last year-ish, and we dated for a couple weeks. Since then we've hooked up multiple times, causing him to cheat on his girlfriends at the time, nobody ever found out. Then last summer his girlfriend found out and they stayed together etc, and everything was resolved and they broke up for a while and him and I hooked up. So basically they're back together because he took her virginity too, but I'm the only girl he's ever cheated on her with, and it's not like I'm sprung off him or anything, I don't really even like him like that anymore, we're just friends as far as I'm concerned and we tend to mutally hook up occasionally. So the other day at this thing for school I was having a bad day, and he let me cry on his shoulder and stuff, then we went off to "talk" somewhere and he started kissing me and stuff, I feel really really bad about it for some reason and he's really giving me mixed signals. Is he interested in me again, has he never lost feelings or did he just want a hookup? (link)
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if he has taken more than 1 girls virginity, and has also had people on the side, their is no way this guy cares. he was just using you weekness (crying on his shoulder) and used it as a power (kissing you). if he was really intrested, he would'nt be cheating. You say that you dont even really like him that anymore, so just tell him that he needs to try and find a girl that he is relly intrested in. if you really are intrested in him, and you feel that you 2 should get back togehther, just tell him- "hey, i like you, and if you wanna go out with me, you can't have another girl on the side." if he refuses, he ither likes the other girl better, or he's just a natural cheater. hope this helped.
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okay.. so like this guy and i have been pretty much friends with benefits since like february.. i really like him and he says he really likes me..he jsut had surgery like 3 weeks ago and when he came back to school he kept saying he missed me so much and he just wanted to spend time with me.. well we went out and all then he was like i just wanted you to know i have been thinkin about you a lot and i really wanna date now.. so i said okay..then like later we were joking around and he said it was over..his reason was because he doesnt want to get in trouble because he thinks its illegal because hes 17 and im 14.. so is it illegal??? cuz i would kinda like to know.... i mean i dont even know if he actually likes me... please help!!!! (link)
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that is legal. there is nothing illegal with a 3 year difference. also (i've looked into it) even if you were 11 (which would be sick) and he were 17, as long as your parents approved of it, your allowed. i'll be dead honsest, when a guy changes his mind alot (like it seems here), he likes you, but not for the right reasons. normally, the only reason a 17 y/o guy would date sum1 thats 14, is to take advantage of her. sometiomes there is a love conection, but not here.
CHAD'S HONEST ADVICE- leave him. i got a girls name tattooed on me once, and we were on and off breaking up and going out. it's not worth the trouble. no matter how good the person looks, it's all about how they treat you. if they treat you with respect, try it. but it really dosnt sound like this guy wants a serrious relationship going on.
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how do i save a picture on microsoft word so i can download it onto a site? the picture i have on microsoft is my pic and i just made it smaller so it would fit so now how can i just save the pic so i can put it on a site? ps. i dont have paint (link)
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i would upload it to www.photobucket.com . it's a free account thing (no cards or anything) and regrestering takes about 5 min. then you press the button (or button related to) start uploading or upload. hope i helped
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I have to go on a diet of strictly about 10 apples(or more) and 6 water bottles(and more) per day for 3 days. Do NOT ask why; but I'm a HUGE eater, so ive been having really really bad urges to eat other food. I mean i will stand there and stare at cooler ranch doritoes qiestioning my will power, i just want to eat good food so bad! Soo bad! What is the world can i do to resist these urges to eat good food??!
Thanks for anyone who tries to help(and fives).
xxAnixX (link)
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well...3 das...that shouldnt be that bad...but then again, im on the "all u can eat" diet...but thats cuz i play football...try thinking of it like this-
why are you going on this diet? is it for school? atletics? trying 2 atract other people?
well...ithe of these easons have 2 go along with your own dedication. if it's for atletics (or something of that nature), try thinking that "well, if i dont stick to this, i wont make the cut." but if it's for your own personal image, and trying 2 impress some 1, "well, i want him to notice me 4 the wrong reason" hope this helped a lil
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what are some good ways to gt a guy to notice you? He's sorta popular and i'm kinda in the midle not a geek but not really popular and i'm not really thin i don't have like a hawt body..well i don't think i do lol yea oh btw i'm 14/f (link)
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well,im sorta a popular guy, and my current girlfriend was the one that was trying 2 get my attention. when she first saw me , i was the "jock of campus". she was the girl no one knew. the way she got me, was hanging around some of the friends (that are girls) that i hung out with. how you do that is up 2 you. she also found out where my locker was, and started sliping me notes in throught thelittle openings. she also talked 2 some of my guy friends, and found out what music i liked. that really got my attention. hope this helps....chad
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the reason they have scanners in this area is beacause a lot of people around here are involved with rescue squad or things like that. my best friend's dad is a fire fighter so he has one too =p (link)
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o...lol...ok...just wondering. that just sounded a lil wierd to me
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My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year. Things are great but.. things feel the same all the time and i want to get that new, bubble feeling back. So.. i guess my question here is.. how do i keep things going? Keep them fun and happy? (link)
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my girlfriend and i try more spontanias stuff (i'll tell you now, sex in public is not all it's made out to be lol), like just doing what we feel like... i mean...depends on how old you are to...do you have a car (or acces to 1)? try just ttaking random drives. i dono...if your a sexual person, try going 2 a movie theatre, sitting in the back, and see what's the most you can do with out disturbing other people, lol!
if your not into that,try making music together... teaching, and learning from each other is a great experince when your in a relation ship...
my girlfriend and i are going on our first trip together...we're going 2 colorado and im gunna teach her to snowboard, and she's gunna teach me how to...well...anyways...just randomly do stuff...i hope i helped
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i just found sumthang on my boyfriends zanguh that was telling a gurl he knew that he loved her more that anything or anyone!!! im feeling really stupied for going out with him rite now and i dont no what to do and im not shure but it kinda sounds like hes cheating on me but im not shure so plz gimme advice i need it really badly!!!
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DONNO (link)
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how did you find out about it? if it's from some 1 else, you might wanna talk to him about it. he'll deny it if he did, but then (if you know who it was) ask the girl. she might deny it as well. but if you hear it from more than one person, then just break up with him. it's not worth the trouble.
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ok, i've been dating this guy for 2 months. and at first, i loved everything about him... and now i guess... im just losing interest. i've tried pushing him away slowly... cut down on hangin out... and everything... it just doesnt seem to work. i was planning on pushing him away, and stop hangin out as much, and then pull the... im confused and i dont know what i want thing. i mean... i do sorta like him still... but hes talking about marriage... im 16, and im not interested in that yet. i just wanna live my life. im not ready for a serious relationship, i thought i was, but im not. i do want to break things off, because with the way i feel, its just not going to work out... yet... how do i tell him i need a break... i dont want to shut him out of my life or anything... i just dont wanna be labeled as his... gf... i just wanna be friends, and hang out from time to time, and im not sure... just not couple things. how do i break things of temporarly with out breaking his heart, and shutting him out of my life? (link)
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just straight up tell him that it's getting a little bit too far or going a little too fast (which ever fits). when a guy hears this, you can almost expect a reaction, so you have to be prepared for it. he might flip out, he might cry...who knows? but ne ways, you need to tell him what you feel ASAP! the longer you hold of, the harder it's gunna be on the both of you.
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Somebody please ready this..
--Okay, welp me and 3 of my friends were on the street next to my house one day. it was about 1:30 am and a cop pulled up to us. He asked us if we knew where this one guy lived becuase he supposedly robbed a beer distributer. We told him and then he asked us for our names, so we gave him them also. Then i went home and thought nothing of it. My mom has a scanner in the house though and i was listening to it..It said my name and my friends' names' and said they caught us out the bush drinking with beer that we robbed, and that they chased us, and had us held at the station untill our parents got us. NONE OF THAT is true AT ALL! He asked us for directions, thats it! My other friends heard this too over their scanners and they said "Well, why would the cops lie about that?" But they did and now my friends think bad things of us..What is there to do? is there any way we can get these cops in trouble??? :/ (link)
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like some 1 has already said, a lawyer is the only way. and you'd have to i.d. the cop that you talked to, and stuff like that...just wondering...why the hell do people have scanners in your area?just wondering, cuz that's not a really common thing where i come from and live...
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This is... kind of odd, I suppose.
Please only read this is you are female.. and know what you are talking about?
I'm 13. I've had my... yeah...
But I've never liked a guy. Ever. Been kissed. Wanted to kiss. Never had a crush or a boyfriend or anything.
I have no interest in girls, either. Nothing.
I'm not shy around boys or girls.
What's up with me? :/ (link)
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ok...i know you said dont read it if your a guy, but...being a guy...if you say that, that's gunna make a guy curious.
there's nothing wrong with you. my parent's r both doctors, and step-mother is an expert in development in teenagers. my girlfriend (before we were dating) had this going on in her life as well...most girls do. it's just that some devolope there "raging hormone's" for guy's earlier than others. give it some time. your best bet is to just focus on school, and soon enough a guy will come along, and you'll have the butterflies in your stomach.
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Hi,
Today a friend of mine invited a guy i sorta like over to her house. He always says he likes me. But he is sort of a sexual guy...he said hes had sex about 3 times...
ok so were watching a movie and he moved in for a kiss... i kissed him and it lasted for a while. But while he was kissing me he sorta went half way up my shirt and then he started kissing my neck...
i had no idea how to kiss him i kind of messed up and he moved away, and then came back.
ifelt really extremely unconfertible....
and now hes askin me to be his gf...and i dont know what to say because what if we do go out and he always wants to touch me? i dont want to break his heart because i like him...but i really do feel unconfertible when we kissed.
what should i do, should i go out with him?
-toubled 13 year old (link)
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your not gunna break this guy's heart. if he's had sex 3 times, and is already making moves on you before your "going out", that's all he wants. i garatee you, if you go out 2 the movies or somethin, and when he starts kissing you, tell him not to kiss yoiu cuz your not feeling like it...if he really wants you, he'll stop. if he just wants sex...he'll get mad...
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Okay, well I've been going to a workout camp for three weeks, and already I see great improvement in my speed, strength, and endurance. The only thing, is that WHILE I'm working out, my back sweats really bad, and completely soaks the back of my shirt! It seriously grosses me out and it is not too much fun when you're stuck with a wet shirt for a lot of the day. What can I do? (link)
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sweating not only means that you are working hard. it also means that there are toxins in your system, and lots of salts (every one has them)the idea is to sweat alot (especialy in traing and conditioning). well...like some 1 else already said, baby powder does help, but it clogs upi your pores (also a cause of having acne on you back). what i always do (even though it gets extremly hot), is wear a few layers.wear dark cloting, and avoid wearing thin, sheer shirts. personaly, i wear a black skin tight, then a dark colored lost tee, and if im really needing the work out, a sweatshirt/ hoodie. it gets hot, but it helps from people seeing your sweat, and burns fat/ muscel faster. as for walking around in a wet shirt all day, wear underarmor. yes, it's a little bit expensive, but it's worth every penny. a tight sweater works to, but not to the same affect.
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ok this might be kinda confusing and long..I understand the consequences and worries that come around when you have sex& all that. I love my boyfriend with all that I have, and he loves me. We both gave up our virginity to each other, but the thing is, we weren't safe about it, and we both regret that. We both know that we should've used a condom, but I guess we were too caught up in the moment to realize that not using a condom wasn't very smart. okay so here's the question. I was wondering- the first time we had sex, he pulled out right before he ejaculated, and it got all over the place, but I wasn't sure if it had gotten inside of me or not. after that I told him I wanted to make sure I got my period. I took a pregnancy test because he said it would make him feel more comfortable, even though it was too early to be accurate anyways, and like I figured..it came out negative because it was too early. but then a few days later we had sex again but he didn't cum. so if I get my period, that takes care of both times we had sex, right? I know you can't get pregnant if you get your period, but I wasn't sure if I could get my period for the 1st time we had sex, and still get pregnant because of the 2nd time or not. I'm planning on taking the 2nd pregnancy test today or tomorrow since that would make it 4-5 days before my period is supposed to come. please help! thanks in advance!
-confused (link)
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i cant answer the thing about the period (being a guy and all) but just because he pulled it out right before he cummed, doesnt mean you NOT going to get preganate. im not saying that you are, but it's possible. because most cuzs, when they get..well..."get it up", or have a boner, they have alittle bit of sperm on the end of it. i dont mean to scare you, but that little bit could get you pregante. then alot of guys get cought up, an they might not notice it, but they might have 2 or 3 little ejaculations and not notice it. so, i donno what the point of me saying that was, ig uess i just fely like i should.
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alright well,to get straight to the point, I'm paranoid and an insomniac.. is there a connection between the two? (link)
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paraniod (or paranioa) is a condition where your...well...freaking out about things, and are worried about things happening (and such)
insomnia is where you cant sleep, or dont sleep much at all.
some time though, they might have a connection. you might be an insomniac because of your paranoya. maybe being afriad of the dark. it depends.
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im not really sure what category this goes under, but i REALLY need it answered if its possible....ive been lookin for an answer so long. does anybody else have visible pores on their legs? and like whenever they shave, it looks like their skin is made of a million small circles? would a certain kind of lotion eliminate this? should i stop shaving and start waxing? should i try that new kind of nair (it smells bad tho lol) if ne body had ne ideas or has the same experience id really appreciate your opinion or comment or ne thing thanks so much! (link)
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i just clicked on random question, so please bear with me on this. im just answering all the questions i can, with te best possible answers.
i'm a 16 year old guy ( this is really imbarrasing), but im really self-contoius (not gay), and my girl friend likes shaved legs on guys. i figured out, it gives a much better apearance if you wax. it also last longer. it hurts like hell (for me). wow.... i feel kind of wierd now.
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Me and my boyfriend were talking and he told me he doesnt want me to hang out with Derrick even though ill have my best friend Ann with me.. My bf will be at the lakes. So he thinks i dont know what he thinks. He's asking me if i'd be wierded out if he and Scott hung out with Julie and i said no.. cuz theres 2 guys and 1 girl. its just a group of friends its a 1 on 1 type of thing. Am i wrong in this.. i mean im allowed to have friends.. arent I? (link)
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huh? yea your allowed to have friends, but you need to set these kind of standards for him too. if he doesnt want you hang out with some 1, say the same for him. "if i cant hang out with..., you cant hang out with..." that's how my girlfriend and i are, and it works a little bit better. you need to talk to hima bout it, and if he doesnt want to resolve it, ten he obviously is a ass and you dont need to be with him.
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14 yrs old. 180 lbs, im a girl. I'm 5 foot 7, and have a big build to begin with, like i have broad shoulders. Im a major tomboy too, so all my clothes r kinda baggy, and i wear long shorts and football jerseys. Will guys EVER like me? Why is everything based on looks?I rate high (link)
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honestly, you shouldn't ask a question like that on here, or some ass like meeshee will come along and say stupid s***.
yea. if they right guy comes along, he's wont care. he might not be exactly what YOU are looking for, but a guy WILL like you. you have to be patient.
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So I’m engaged to be married in one year. I was raised Christian and although I don’t go to church or anything any more my I do still believe. My fiancé is an atheist. It’s really important to me (and to my family) to get married in the church but he says that would be ‘compromising his beliefs’ and doesn’t want to. I don’t care if we never step foot in a church again but my uncle is a priest and I can’t tell him that he can’t preside over my wedding! I’ve always known and respected that we don’t feel the same way about religion but I want to spend the rest of my life with this guy but I don’t know what to do about the wedding. Any advice? (link)
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it's odd that this was asked, as i was in church function about dating. and the biggest thing with christian dating (as you should live in the eyes of god), the worst possible situation you can be in, is dating an atheist. a non-christian is one thing, but it's even harder with atheist's. well... the only thing you can do is hope that he realizes the truth-your in this world. what is there to lose if you believe in god? if you dont believe, you go to hell, no matter whta, but as long as you believe, there is an alternative.
about the church thing- it's almost a matter between chosing between your uncle/family, and this guy. of coarse, you can't force it into him, but if he doesnt wind up changing, reality is; he'll change you into one, or you'll change him. it's a big chance. just put thought into it, and think ahead. make a list of good and bad things that you can do, and make a list of options (and their out come,) i hope this helped you at least a little bit.
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