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I am an inspired 16 year old who is looking for a career in giving advice. I have been around the block a few times and I am an expert on a wide variety of personal topics. I'm unique, outgoing and I love art and music. I also enjoy playing my guitar.
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okay. my g/f is asking me all these questions like "are you against stoners" and "what would you do if i was a stoner" and like i let her borrow my jacket and when i got it back it smelt like cigarettes or pot something like that. and im really freaked out because weve been going out for a long time and i dont know whats going on. help me please.
Thanks,
Andrew
I know it may be an uncomfortable moment, but i think you need to ask her about it. It could be just that her family smokes...but I don't know the history or anything--so you would know that yourself. But if it smells like weed, it would smell different from cigarettes. My boyfriend is a total pothead, and I hate it too, even though sometimes I contadict myself. Confront her with a different approach...maybe asking if she started smoking cigarettes...and then ask "are you sure?" or "I won't be mad"...girls will usualy open up if given the time and the right moment. Especially if you've known her for a while. She might be scared that you won't like her anymore for who she is, acceptance is a big thing with teenage girls. If you have any further questions and I'm too slow to respond, you can always send me a message on "Your own bruises" on AIM.
Good luck
Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting?
Oh, I'd be furious, in fact, this has happened to me in the past, and I am proud to say I am no longer good friends with those girls. Instead of yelling at her though, seek revenge. "Look like the innocent flower, but be the serpant under it." Haha, sorry just quoting some shakespere, but it realy has some truth to it. Act like you are over it, but slowly seek revenge. Next time she has a crush, make sure your all over him. Be all over paul when theyre together, not totaly all out, but just flirt with him a little bit. Obviously your friend is a freaking slut, and she deserves this. Better yet...leave her an anonymous note in her locker, like a forged love letter...and tell her to meet them somewhere..then get paul by himself and explain how you feel. I know, it sounds risky, but trust me...you'll feel SO much better afterwords.
im 13 and im scared to wear a tampon what should i do...Im getting self concious
ask your friends what kind of tampons they think are comfortable, and then practice with a couple until you get it right. I'm sixteen, and last year is the first time i ever wore a tampon...i had the same fear! don't worry about it...practice makes perfect!
Ok, I'm 5'1 and 140 lbs!!! I'm a female, I don't look fat with my clothes on, I look like i'm like 120, i have kinda flat tummy, but when I see myself without my shirt on, I look really fat! I'm very dedicated to weight loss, but I don't want to diet and make it obvious, cuz I dun want my mom to know or anything, so do you guys have any methods, I don't want diet pills, I've stopped eatting sweats and soft drinks, I've been running daily (not to mention playing DDR2 :P). do you guys know any fast methods to loosing weight? getting a flat tummy? thanks a lot, I have a busy schedual, so hopfully the methods might not be too long? thanks, i give 5's!!!!!
Try a daily work out that you can slowly progress on. Every morning, do 20 crunches, and maybe 10 leg lifts, and slowly increase until you feel a difference. Don't push yourself though, stay at your own pace, start out at 5 if you want to. Good luck and stay beautiful.
hey well i hear people calling people dooshbags. like theyll be like omg you dooshbag! well... wats a dooshbag?
Well, to be blunt...
A Douche is an instrument used to clean out a womans vaginal area with. Ask your mom about it, she'd get a laugh.
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Hey hun! (This is Free2bMe) I was just getting back to you. I know TONS of info on PCOS. If you go to that site I told you about it will tell you the basics, but I know even more than that. A lot of doctors are hesitant to make the diagnosis but it's something so many women have to suffer from. If oyu'd let me know exactly what kind of info you want to know I'd be happy to share ample info with you..from ways to manage it, to tips, everything..just let me know and I'm more than happy to help you. Hope to hear from you soon :)
thank you very much for your time on this subject. I went to the Obgyn on wednesday of this week and she put me on a birth control pill until I can get further tests done. I'd love for some tips though!
Thank you
One day, me and my best friend(a guy!) were just hanging out at my house, and somehow we started talking about what we liked in guys or girls, and we just kindda were like, "you know, were perfect for each other!" so we kind of hooked up right then. We were kising and cuddling at first, and then we started making out. And i dont just mean a lot of kissing and moving your head...this was very passionate and intimate. i was in HEAVEN. I thought he was going to be my knight in shining armor..but the next day it was like nothing happened. i called him to see what he was doing, and he told me he was getting ready to go out on a date with this really sleezy girl from another school. After about 3 days, he called me to tell me that they were dating. i was devestated. he truly broke my heart. It has been three months since they got together, and he just called me to tell me that they broke up. I have worked so hard to get over him, but now i have a chance to be with him. Is he even worth it? i mean...what if he hurts me again? i dont think i could handle that. Please tell me what to do! Take him back or Leave him in the dust?
There's nothing worse then the silent treatment, especiallly after expressing such feelings towards this guy. I think you should talk to him, maybe online or somthing...and let him know how he made you feel. After that, if you feel like you could give him another chance, try it out. Don't make the same mistakes though!
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hey um at my school the teachers are all really formal and stuff so if u even say sex they like put u in detention. have any of you had it? can u tell me about what it feels like and stuff cause it would be really akward to ask my mom.
It's somthing that you can't even put in words, you'd just have to experience yourself. But my advice to you is, try looking up some information online...or give your mom a shot. Take your time though, you don't have to do it right away. Maybe try bringing it up and then talk about it later, but let her know your interested. Chances are she'll be more then happy to know your maturing.
hope i helped
my cousin is really nice, but i think i might like him more than just family, is that wrong or am i just liking him cause he's my friend?
-clueless and creeped out
As my english teacher were to say..."incest is the best!"
haha no just kidding....I think it's perfectly normal for you to have some attraction to your cousin, just realize that it's nothing that could go farther then a good friendship, depending on your family values and religious beliefs. Taking things too far could result in major conflict...
I hope i helped
I am looking to buy some fun socks, with simple patterns and stipes, mostly black and grey. So far I have found that 1 pair cost 3-7 dollars, even at Target. Does anyone know where I can find really cheap socks?
There is this store, it's called Deb, I don't know if you have it there, you might want to look it up...they have a huge wall full of awesome, funky, colorful socks that are about a dollar a pair! Trust me it's worth it.
my mom is really mean. she always calls me names. like just now i asked her where to put the dinner that jsut got here in the fridge or oven and she was liek the microwave you idiot! ugh i hate that! and i tell her i was gunna clean my room out and i did but she keep ssayin it iant done yet! and alwas says im always ont he comp and always says mean stuff bout me to ehr friends n my older sister and i really dont like it and i can tsay nethign to her bc then she will snapp mor ei used to be able to tell her nething now shes always bitchy:( plz help me i really rally really dont no what to do . now shes off the fone and is gunan snapp. she says that the reason we got fast food is bc I WANTED IT! so its MY fault she spent $15 on fast food. it was for the hole family! now she says get the fuck off my computer and go in your pig sti ass room. and she cried wtf! i hate this stuff! plz help!
Often, parents take their stress out on their children when they've had a hard day at work, or just a bad day emotionally. Your mom could be stressed out about other issues and not personally mad at you, but your around to bitch at. I know exactly how you feel, my mom was the same way. As i got older, we got along more, and I'm guessing your at that "I hate my mom stage" like i was a few years back. The best thing to do is just ignore it, or say "do you really need to say that?' and see what she says. If she gives you a snotty comment back, like my mother often did, just walk away from the situation and listen to music or somthing else to keep your mind off her rudeness. If any physical contact comes in to this picture, then immediatley go to someone your close to and you can get some counceling. I hope I helped, and best wishes to your family
Hey, does anyone have some cute suggestions as far as accesorizing? Things i probably wouldnt have to go out and buy for. Like just cute things to do with a belt, or a cute way to turn things around a bit??
*i want suggestions i can use tomorrow, and i wont be hitting stores, so maybe make things apply a little more universal*
thanks xoxo
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Okay im the starting Varsity quarterback for my high school football team. We have practice 4 days a week and every other saturday from 4 to 6:30. I have also been in choir and all the school plays with mainly leading parts for my whole life, and its never been a problem interfearing with football before but now this year the play practice is going to be every night that football is except tell 7!! (and not every other saturday) I know the choir/play director very well and she wants me to do the play so bad, and my coach asked me about it when i talked to him.. HELP!?!???
This is a tricky situation...mainly because either way, your going to hurt someone's feelings, compareitivly speaking....
Love, you have your whole life to impress people and make a good impression. It's awesome and sexy to be multi-talented, but in highschool there's always going to be somthing that's more important. Make the right choice because it's somthing that you like more, not because it's "cooler" or "more attactive". Go with what you think is right, and not what people on this website believe to be true. Only you can make your decisions.
14/f. I think I have a genuine problem with crushes. I just can't stop crushing on new guys. I like everyone and everybody. My current crush count is around 9 and it just keeps growing. I like all kinds of different guys, and even 2 brothers! I also like 3 of my brother's friends! Is there something wrong with me? Is this normal? Is it possible that I make this stop? I'm so torn.
Oh man, the whole commitment thing. My friend has this same problem, she's just so flirty and close with every decent guy she comes across. It may be hormones, but more then likely you will find somone just right for you. Just don't lead on the guys too far as to think that you have deep feelings for them, and then leave them for someone else. Then you will get a bad reputation and I'm sure your a great girl =)
hope i helped
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Okay, this guy asked me out and I really like him in all but he is shorter than me. Please don't leave well if you like him then it wouldn't bother you. I know that I need advice on how it won't affect me, if that makes any since?! PLease Help!!!
Ooooh lordie I know exactly how you feel. When i was 13 and 14...I was 5'7 and every guy I ever liked was shorter then I was. You'll find that size really doesn't matter...but it just takes a little bit of getting used to! I bet the guy that asked you out took in to consideration that you were taller, and I bet he picked your great personality over your height, and you should do the same.
Good luck in your relationship babe and hope i helped!
HI
what kind of wierd things happened with your ouiji board?? What happened when you do it, iv'e never tried.PLease tell me
Thanks
Random, random things. One time we sprayed perfume on it and totaly forgot. The next month we decided to use it and it wouldnt let us until we sprayed the same perfume. We had forgotten what it was called and it told us the exact name. We asked if there was a spirit in the house and if so to knock on the door. There was a knock shortly after and i threw the thing across the room. Another time with a different friend, using the board her mom used as a kid, we asked it quetions and it would tell us to "f-off". We asked her mom about it and she said that when she was a teenager someone tried to throw it in the fire. It's strange, and I just really scared myself haha. But that is all true.
Have funn!
Okay, im thirteen and i have a boyfriend who is the greatest thing in my life right now, hes so suportive towards me..and i really would like to spend the rest of my life with him and i know alot of people are gunna tell me that im 13 and alot of things are gunna go on in my life that might change and i dont even know what love is, but trust me i do i know exactly what it is thanks too him, but anyways...we both wanna go further..cause we both have the same feelings for eachother, and i wanna go further but i dont know how far..i mean we have made out alot...and like fingered..whats next? help me and ill rate you
Thirteen is young, but age means nothing in the name of love. Just don't do anything your going to regret, and I would really save sexual intercourse for someone that you are SURE you love. At 13, i was very naive, ( lacking experience and understanding) and I thought i had met the man of my dreams as well....turns out when we got to highschool things changed completley...I don't want to see you get hurt! Take things slow, and if you stay together for a long time, you might want to take it further.
does anyone know how much it would be to paint a 1995 Chevy S-10 LS. It is blue now but i want 2 paint it pink and sparkles. I was just wondering if anyone knows how much it would cost and the best place to go? like the cheapest? Thanks alot!
Painting cars, depending on the quality and the place you go, can be costly and difficult. My suggestion to you is to call a place like "auto zone" and ask them for advice...or maybe a place to get it done...my friend has a 97 dodge avenger and wants to get it painted, and they said it would cost almost more then the car is worth! I hope you find a reasonable price because a pink car sounds so cute. Haha.
My question is I have know this guy for almost fifteen years. We have known each other since the third grade and the whole time I have known him I like more then just a friend. We used to be good friends but in eighth grade he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and when he asked me I didn't say anything. But after that day we weren't good of friends like we were before because I didn't know how to act around him. But in high school I noticed that he still likes me because I use to catch him looking at me and smiling and sometimes we would smile when ever we looked at each other because we always had a class together through high school. When we graduated he wrote something really nice but the thing is I don't know if he is the type of guy to write the same thing in every girls yearbook or if he just did it in mine. But to this day I don't know if he wants to be more then friends or not. But I found out that he hoined the army and I am thinking of writing him a letter but I am not sure because we haven't keep in touch in almost four years so what should I do.
Regardless if he wrote the same thing in every girl's yearbook, I think you should write him a nice letter describing all your feelings that you have had for him over the years. Send him a picture of you, and that your wishing him the best in the military...you really do not have anything to lose, and who knows, maybe he will have someone to look forward to when he returns home....