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okay. my g/f is asking me all these questions like "are you against stoners" and "what would you do if i was a stoner" and like i let her borrow my jacket and when i got it back it smelt like cigarettes or pot something like that. and im really freaked out because weve been going out for a long time and i dont know whats going on. help me please.
Thanks,
Andrew
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I know it may be an uncomfortable moment, but i think you need to ask her about it. It could be just that her family smokes...but I don't know the history or anything--so you would know that yourself. But if it smells like weed, it would smell different from cigarettes. My boyfriend is a total pothead, and I hate it too, even though sometimes I contadict myself. Confront her with a different approach...maybe asking if she started smoking cigarettes...and then ask "are you sure?" or "I won't be mad"...girls will usualy open up if given the time and the right moment. Especially if you've known her for a while. She might be scared that you won't like her anymore for who she is, acceptance is a big thing with teenage girls. If you have any further questions and I'm too slow to respond, you can always send me a message on "Your own bruises" on AIM.
Good luck<3
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