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Question Posted Monday October 4 2004, 10:05 pm

my mom is really mean. she always calls me names. like just now i asked her where to put the dinner that jsut got here in the fridge or oven and she was liek the microwave you idiot! ugh i hate that! and i tell her i was gunna clean my room out and i did but she keep ssayin it iant done yet! and alwas says im always ont he comp and always says mean stuff bout me to ehr friends n my older sister and i really dont like it and i can tsay nethign to her bc then she will snapp mor ei used to be able to tell her nething now shes always bitchy:( plz help me i really rally really dont no what to do . now shes off the fone and is gunan snapp. she says that the reason we got fast food is bc I WANTED IT! so its MY fault she spent $15 on fast food. it was for the hole family! now she says get the fuck off my computer and go in your pig sti ass room. and she cried wtf! i hate this stuff! plz help!

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hailebop answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 12:03 pm:
It sounds to me like there is something getting to your mum that she's taking out on you. Could there be something that's upset her? Work? Family stuff? People wouldn't normally cry just because their kid wouldn't tidy their room - it sounds like there's something more to it that you don't know about.

This doesn't justify the way your mother is behaving in any way, but you might find that if you get to the bottom of the real problem (ie. what it is that is making her "always bitchy") then you'll probably find things get better. When she's reasonably calm ask her how she is, as you've noticed she's been a bit on edge recently. Hopefully once things are discussed she'll feel better generally and you'll find as a result she treats you a lot better too. Good luck.

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neanea282 answered Tuesday October 5 2004, 12:54 am:
i think you should tell your father about it. if you cant then you should call the police and report her for harassin you sorry if i spelled that wrong. the police can help you they can help your mom too. they can get her help from a doctor and it could make both your lives better. hope i helped.

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SoNuLiCiOuSsS answered Monday October 4 2004, 11:03 pm:
soundz like sumthing is bothering her & shes takin it out on you... you should have a talk with her & tell her that u notice that shes been pickin on you... ask if theres anything wrong... tell her u feel like u dont have a good relationship wit her... & how much it hurts u when shes mean & she calls u names...

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behindxthesexeyes answered Monday October 4 2004, 11:02 pm:
Often, parents take their stress out on their children when they've had a hard day at work, or just a bad day emotionally. Your mom could be stressed out about other issues and not personally mad at you, but your around to bitch at. I know exactly how you feel, my mom was the same way. As i got older, we got along more, and I'm guessing your at that "I hate my mom stage" like i was a few years back. The best thing to do is just ignore it, or say "do you really need to say that?' and see what she says. If she gives you a snotty comment back, like my mother often did, just walk away from the situation and listen to music or somthing else to keep your mind off her rudeness. If any physical contact comes in to this picture, then immediatley go to someone your close to and you can get some counceling. I hope I helped, and best wishes to your family


<3 Sarah

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kristen22 answered Monday October 4 2004, 10:20 pm:
Time for a serious talk with mom! Does she not realize that calling her own daughter a idiot kills your self esteem? By the way whats up with the whole fast food thing? She's the mom, she had the kids...sorry but ya' gotta' feed em! Talk to her, let her know you love her and that when she says things like that it hurts your feelings and {whatever your feelin'} if she just doesn't want to listen....then just tough it out till you turn 18 or go live somewhere else...

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Karen answered Monday October 4 2004, 10:19 pm:
My mom was the same exact way as your mom but now she is getting better as in she is not calling me names. Your mom will eventually slow down when she sees you mature. You just have to ignore it and it'll eventually stop. My mom doesn't call me that many names anymore because I did the following things: I behaved like I didn't talk to her or anyone else in my family, I got good grades and showed her my report card, I helped around the house, and I was just nice to her and listened to what she told me to do. If I were you, I would make a few copies of one note and put them all around the house where she will see and find them. In the notes explain to her about how it hurts you when she calls you names. Just let everything out. I hope I helped and if you have any other questions, feel free to ask them and I'll answer them!! Good luck sweetie :)

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xOCarrie answered Monday October 4 2004, 10:09 pm:
Believe me, my mom was the same exact way. Just sit there and take it. Just ignore it because once you grow up she`ll realize how mature you are and how big of an idiot she was to you. I know it hurts but I went through it too. You can get through it.

xO.Carrie

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