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(I'm 16 and a girl) Okay three years okay I dated this guy for almost a year. Well ever since we dated and broke up my friend Jon will say stuff about my exboyfriend to make me mad. Jon would say stuff about him atleast 2 times a week last year. Does anyone have an Idea of why he is doing this? (link)
maybe jon is just trying to look out for you and he hates seeing you hurt. maybe jon was a little jealous of your boyfriend. maybe you should just sit down and talk to him.


Okay what should I do if I'm losing my best friend? (link)
well i dont know exactly whats going on..but maybe you should sit down with your friend and talk; that usually helps me a lot. and make sure to look at both sides of the story, because she might be acting a certain way for a reason you dont know yet. i dont know what more to tell you because i dont know whats going on, but if you add more or just ask me on my advice colum, i'll try to help as much as i can!
hope i help
i'd love to talk to you
xoxo


Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do? (link)
well you need to sit down with both friends and tell them how you're feeling. you shouldnt ever feel like you're stuck in the the middle of tug-a-war in a friendship. and maybe your other best friend just feels like she's not being included and she feels left out! maybe you can work things out with both of them, i really hope so.
hope i help
xoxo


13/f
I just got my school year book and I want a certain guy to sign it only I'm too shy to ask. If someone told me if I should or should not and give me confidence then I would ask him directly. So, should I or should I not ask him to sign my year book directly and why? Also, if you said no is there any other way I can get him to sign my year book? (link)
ask him! the worst he can say is no..and i dont think any guy wouldnt want to sign their name in a girls yearbook
hope i help a lil
xoxo


I'm doing a DIY denim mini from a pair of jeans that i detest, but I cut it a little too short. Is there a decoration or something that I can add to the bottom that will make it longer, but won't take away from the "denim mini" idea? (link)
lace totalli


ok...theres this guy and hes goin out w. one of my friends...but like ive liked him for almost 2 years...i dunno it seems like he likes me but hes in w/ my friend for action...im never gonna see my friend after next year.and me and him r gonna be goin to school togehter...but i cant wait any longer and everytime i see him and my friend i have to leave from where they r and it makes me wicked sad/mad...i really wanna get over him...but i dunno how...every1 tells me i can do wayyy bettter...but i dont want better...i just want him...please help me

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wow you are exactly like me. i cant lie and tell you that there is a really easy way to get over him. there isnt. and he may seem like the perfect guy ever in your eyes, but you should also ask those other people why they think he isnt good enough for you. if its a good reason, then think about that. if its not, then keep liking him. just dont try to get him if he's still taken. because that would make you look really bad in some people's eyes. hope i help
xoxo


how do you deal with rumors and gossip. i really don't care what ppl say i just have a hard time showing that i actually don't care, so how do i show people i really dont care? (link)
ignore it. ive had that happen to me accept people gossiped about me RIGHT in front of me! just ignore them. dont make eye contact. and if they say it right in front of you, act like you cant hear them. because if you say ANYTHING then they'll tell that ur annoyed and they'll do it more and more. just ignore them and pretend they are invisible. and if sum1 asks you about sumthin like that on AIM etc..just say u dont have an opinion
hope i help
xoxo


I recently asked the question about how my guy friend and his girl broke up and how I wanted to be there for him. Well he asked me to help, and today I tried to talk to him about it. I said do you and her now have an undertanding? he was like yea. I said so are you ok? and he goes it sucks but I'll live.. I have to go. Then leaves. What the hell? Im trying to help like he asked me to and then he leaves? Whats his problem? Should I leave him alone or say something? (link)
hez still apparently a little sore about the breakup. you shouldnt take anything like that offensivly because he probably didnt even realize what he did. if you want to be a good friend..be there when he needs someone to talk to, but dont pressure him. he'll open up to you when he's ready. but until them, just give him constant support.
hope i help!
xoxo


I am in 7th grade and I am in level math... Next year I am skipping Pre-Algebra and taking Algebra.. can any1 give me any expectations or any math tips? Thanks a bunch! (link)
im in 7th grade and in algebra. i luv it and it is soo much fun but i can tell you right now. youre gonna have a lot of good days and a lot of bad days. if it doesnt come naturally to you, then its gonna be really hard to learn. if it does..you're really lucky.
you learn how to factor and quadratic functions etc. its not like pre algebra that much but its really fun.
ps if i completely got you stressed..dont worry. its really fun!
hope i help
xoxo


i think this little heart is so cute ♥ but i can never make it can someone please tell me how to i rate HIGH
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♥ ..u type the symbol &
and then the word hearts and then a ; (semicolon) and put them all together without spaces : & hearts ; .. just take out the spaces


Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.

It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.
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dirty dancing...uve probably heard that one a lot..um....save the last dance...i can think of any..sorri
hope i help
xoxo


i have an 11 year old sister who asked me to write here. she has alaways been really atletic, but has never found a sport just for her. can you guys please write abouts sports you like, what type of people they are for, and some info on it. please exclude soccer and basketball (link)
she should try taekwondo. i love it soo much and its such a good workout. there is also tennis which is so much fun. tennis is really good for people who are quick on their feet and are good at sprinting. and you also have to have hand-eye coordination. taekwondo is for people who like learning self defense and kicking and punching basically lol. and of course if none of those is for her..she should look into track and field. there are SO many differnt things she could do in track and field...like..sprinting, long distance, long jump, high jump..relayz..you can throw jump run sprint and anything else. i hope i list something she could enjoy. hope i help
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Im "graduating" from middle school on June 13th. The problem is is that I need to know where I can get a dress that isn't to formal, but formal enough for an 8th grade graduate. Any suggestions or places are appreciated! (link)
ive gone to the mall before to buy graduation dresses..shops like cache are perfect. cache is probably one of the best places to buy a really good dress. plus burdines and macys always have adorable skirts and dress shirts, and some dresses
hope i help
xoxo


anyone have some romantic things I could do for my boy that he would like? (link)
take him out to a movie or a sport that you know he wanted to go to..then go out to a romantic dinner. also, movies at home can be fun!
hope i help a lil
xoxo


well theres this kid that liked me for a couple months, and i never really liked him back until he started liking this other girl and it got me real jealous, does this mean i like him or what. everytime i see them together i just don't know what to do.. its really upsetting me and i really don't know what i`m asking but do u have any advice...plz (link)
hello! !yes u like him! apparently you really have feelings for this guy..which is perfectly okay. however he might have given up hope of you liking him and moved on. try talking to him and flirting with him and then you'll be able to tell if he still likes you.
hope i help
xoxo


so my family is not very well off. i`ve had the same shirts for way too long, and i get SO SICK of wearing them over & over, when it seems like all the other girls have a different outfit every day. i tried talking to my mom about it, but most of our money`s been going to pay hospital bills (my brother just had surgery--nothing too serious) so i dont really have time or money to buy any clothes, seeing as i dont et an allowence. i was wondering if anyone knew how to spruce up outfits with every-day things? or even just making my own clothes...like turning an old pair of jeans into skirts? anybody know how... (link)
well sometimes i like 2 do that to my outfits. the best way is to go to like..a craft store. buy fabric and make patches and stuff on jeans..also pieces of torn fabric can make really cute hair pieces or belts. you can also cut jeans into capris or cut jeans to make skirts then cut thru the side of the jeans facing your thighs and stitch it back as a skirt. that would be cute. for shirts..decorate them with patches and cute buttons or something. you can find special craft ideas in craft books or something. trust me youll be getting all the attention with adorable homemade stuff
hope i helped
xoxo


i'm 13/f and i'm thinking about getting contacts.

i'm a little freeked out about putting them in though. does anyone know any goos tips for putting in contact lenses?

~thanks (link)
hey im 13 and i hav contacts. they are soo much fun. ok well first of all make sure that they are really clean. even a spec of dirt can make your eye feel like its on fire ((im soo serius)). also make sure that if you try to put it in and u cant get it in after like 3 tries..you clean it again. if your contact wont stick in your eye, then you might need to try and put contact wettening stuff in your eye then try again. once you get used to it though..its easy. and make sure when you put your contacts in they are NOT inside out. that screws them up
hope i help
xoxo


Here's the deal, I like this guy at school, and we have one class together. I'm not even entirely sure that he likes me back, but I'm willing to pursue a relationship with him if it comes up. Thing is, he's a senior, I'm a freshman, and if we considered dating each other now, summer would come and end all too soon and he would be off to college. What should I do? Get to know the guy and possibly get hurt in the near future, or move on and possibly pass up a wonderful oppurtunity to get to know someone.. Please help, I'll rate!

Signed,
Dilemma (link)
i say either get 2 know him and hang out with him for the last like..two weeks of school. then try to stay in touch with him when he goes off to college...
..or..just dont start a relationship with him and instead check out the other freshmans, juniors seniors and sophmores. im sure there are some decent boys in them . and if not..youll find the right guy someday. i promise.
hope i helped a little
xoxo


so my friend seem tyo hate me and came up with 170 things they disliked about me i know i should just leave them but my friendship with them has existed for over a year and its hard to make new friends this far in the year so im trying to be better and more normasl but cant they just accept me for what and who i am i think that if i can at least try to keep the friendship in tact then so should they i just want 3 things in life: acceptance friendship and to never be lied to if i have not lied to them unless its really stupid like ive been to mars but honesty i wish theied just accept me
long story short how do i fix the friendships.

Solemnstar (link)
i know it might be hard to find friends at your school..but do you really want ur friends to be talking behind your back and coming up with reasons why they DONT LIKE YOU? thats not friendly at all. i can assure you that there are better people out there who can really be your friend and not treat you like your current "friends" do. you dont deserve that kind of friendship. you deserve to be respected and accepted and the people who dont accept you for who you are dont deserve to be your friends.
hope i help
xoxo


ok im goin out with a guy named david!! well we haven't been going out for a long time and i want to brake up with him!!! he is sooo nice and treats me like a princess!!!!! he's soo sweet but i dont know how to brake up with him!!!!!! i feel so guilty!! plz help me!!!!!!!! how should i brake up with him???!!! i rate high!!!
ineedhelp,
megan (link)
well why are you upset about a guy who treats you like royalty? if you just dont like him..then sit him down and tell him that you would rather be friends. if you're just not used to that kind of treatment..then i dont know wut to tell you. every girl deserves 2 be treated like a princess. i hope i help a little. just sit him down and talk to him.
xoxo




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