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kay i guess these are typical highschool questions but PLEASE answer them.
- what should I bring on the 1st day?
- Should I carry a backpack or a messenger bag type thing?
- Is it easy to find your classes? If not, any tips?
- On the 1st day we have lunch. Should I buy my lunch or bring it in a paper bag?
- Where should I sit at lunch cause I DONT KNOW ANYBODY!?
- I am taking a sort of remediate math. What are the people like in remediate classes? Are they all druggies and such?
- For the 1st sememster, are your classes the same, in the same order, every day?
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juss relaxxx!! =]
high schools no biggie
i thought i wood be too my freeshman year butits easy.
`1st day- bring a pencil and paper. (the teachers will tell you the 1st day wat they want for their classes)
classes-its pretty easy, but if you get lost ask a teacher
lunch-doesnt matter what you eat, either bring or buy.
lunch-when uour in your classes youll either see peopl from your old school, so see if they have the same lunch as u and jus sit with them.
remidiate-im in a remidiate math class too, its just for kids that need extra help or sum kids that dnt care. not everyone is a druggie, even smart peopl are druggies.
1st semseter- in my school it stays the same each semster, but your school might be difernet. try callin the school ahead of time and findin out.
good luck!!
its not hard
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Does anyone know any free online physchic sites that are free.
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http://www.destinytarot.com/Tarot/Tarot_Games/newgames.htm
gettin ur cards read, is the same as a physchic
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I'm getting my nose pierced next year or so. I'm just wondering.. how much it hurts. Like.. what does it feel like.. compare it to something? I don't really like needles, but I've always loved that damn piercing :/ I want a tiny hole/stud. So will the needle be huge anyway? Can I ask for a certain size? Do they numb it first or something? I've heard that some places do that or maybe I heard wrong.
Experiences? :]
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i hate needles too but i love piercings & i pierced my nose my self. they use a need about the same size as a sewing needle. they do not numb it and it only takes like 2 secs and itll sting. your eyes may water a bit but its feels like you basically pinch ur nose. once it goes half way threw the rest is no pain at all, dont owrry bout it. go get it done; its nuttin =]
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How do you add a picture as a picture caption? (link)
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go to (tinypic.com) upload ur picture then copy the url code & do
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i have been liking the same guy for months but know its summer and he was a senior last year and i cant stop thinking of him i really need to see him i am so addictive to this guy and i talk about him all the time what should i do? (link)
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if i was you i would, find out where he hangs out and for a few days go there and walk by him and stuff; let him know your somewhat interested. then one day kind of stnad near him and look at him with a smile or something and when he looks back be like hey, you use to go to my school. (or if he doesnt really kno u, hen be like hey do i know u? u look really familiar)itll start a conversation and hell prob ask for your number. good lcuk
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I have Avoidance Personality Disorder. This gives me A LOT of anxiety throughout the day at times when I need it the least. I'm kind shy so the anxiety builds up causing me to sweat excessively, become hot, tense, and stiff. I use DrySol for the sweat which helps physically but obviously does not reduce anxiety.
Some things (possibly too many to list) anxiety prevents me from doing are high jump in P.E. (which is sooo embarrassing when I almost refuse to do it), talk to ANYONE I'm interested in, develop relationships with people, be myself, speak my mind, develop my own opinions and not conform to others.
I might ask my mom if I can try therapy, but the results are very slow and I want to be able to start the school year fresh and excited.
Well... I'm guess I'm thinking about anxiety medication. I know that I really want to give it a shot... but I definitely don't think my mom would approve. I don't think she fully realizes that this is a real disorder, not some teen phase. I can recall being this way my entire life and as irrational as these fears are, they're so overpowering I can't do ANYTHING about it.
I have some situations where I can relax, and those will be OK, but for the other 99% of the times...
I feel like medication might be my last chance. I don't know how to go about asking my mom about this. Should I ask her? She might think I sound desperate, and she would think "Oh, they don't work anyways." I long for those moments when someone I like talks to me, I feel like I can respond, instead of feeling a huge weight on my shoulders. Any opinions and advice is welcome. :) (link)
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i have anxiety too, along with schitzofrenia and depression. i kno how tuff it is to be around people, expecially always wen ur either thinkin people are looking at you or talkin behind your back, it suckz. i went to a p[rogram, (partial hosptial program) you dont have to sleep there, dont owrry. its for a few hours a day; for about 10 days. it really helped; they had groups with kids to talk about it; same problems as you; also it helps alot becuase they show you ways to over come fears. it was actually almost like a camp. they also have a doctor there that talks with you every day and prescribes you a medication =] .. i dont know where you live, but if you wanna tell me just let me kno and ill look up info you can show your mom. explain to her its not like a mental hospital; its just your going threw a chemical reaction in your bosdy that makes you very shy and nervous and explain with examples. good luck =]
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What is the fastest way possible to get rid of a hickey?! Please help! (link)
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take a bottle cap fom a coke & twist it on the hickey, it will urt a little and make it red but from the pressure it will unclot the blood clot. then just to make sure its gone freeze a spoon and put it on ur neck for a ltitle while .. then if a little is stil there cover up =]
goodluck
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what is the quickest way to get abs or lose a little bit of stomach fat? if its at all possible i want to have atleast a hint of abs in about 2 weeks, how can i do this? do i need to do like 700 crunches in one day everyday until then, because i will seriously do it, if need be? (link)
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700 curnches? haha damn thats alot. no hun all you have to do is either ...
1. lay falt on your back and put your legs together and riase them about a ruler size upwards so they are straigjht out .. hold it for about 20 seconds then relax .. do this about 5-10 times a day.
2. push ups also help .. tightin ur stomach wen u do them .. do aout 20
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i was wondering, can you track people through myspace or instant messaging? like pedophiles? or is their software or something you can buy to do it? or just track the computer? if possible, how much money does it cost to buy the software to do so? i was just wondering because my friend said that people can track where you are and stuff like that but i don't believe her. (link)
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yes it is possible to track ppl, i have done it before ,, here is the website i used
http://web.public-records-now.com/(S(uhmaf5qgqkejhx45wlm5nr45))/Search/background/default.aspx?SID=61644537&from=hyd0002011041&piid=46
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Hey.
Well my boyfriend and me are quite close.
And i know he likes me and just doesn't want sex!
He is horny (which is embarassing to say)!
But he's like --wanna root--wanna fuk--lets have sex--
But i don't know if i should and im a virgin ... i need to know if i should have sex or not!
HELP PLEASE!!!! (link)
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your bf definetly doesnt think of sex as meaningful or anything, because of the way he says it (wanna fuk). its your 1st time and if he truley cared about sex in a meaningful way he would sit you donw and talk to you aboutit, we cant realyl tell you if your redy to have sex because we are not you. just take it slow and if you KNOW your redy, trust me youll know when, then tell him tou are (tell him to just go slow beduuase your new to this) a good bf will unertsnad. good luck =] be safe
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hi there...
okay theres this guy right.
we have "hooked up" before. (did not have sex)
he moved away.. but has now moved back..
has lived here for a couple months..
he has a girlfriend..
calls ME every night. we talk for like 2 or 3 hours every night.
he complains about his girlfriend sometimes...
always talks about the night we hooked up
tells me to send him a picture..
and soo on..
is he just wanting to stay friends or what??
i am sorta confused on what he wants...
advice is greaty appreciated...
thanks...
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typicall guy haha. he deffinetly wants to be with you, not his gf. hes telling you all these negetive things about his gf, hoping that youll say break up with her and give him way to do it. he wants you to him self or he wouldnt talk to you for more then 2 hours anight. (you guys obv have alottt in common)good luck-
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ok hi im jenny
im 15 years old and i have been having a terrible 5 months.
ok so i dated this kid who is 2 years older than me for 2 years. He also lives across the street from me. I also would like to believe that we were in love once or so I thought. He really seemed to love me and i sure as hell loved him. Then after about a year and a half of dating i felt like i was kind of getting tired of him and so were my friends, so i broke it off. I dated another guy that was his age and it made him terribly jealous. He would still call me every night and I would talk to him. Every night he would tell me he loved me, even when i was dating someone else. But the bad part about that was i told him "i love you" back, because I really did. Your probably wondering why I did'nt just break up with the boyfriend I had then and go back to dating the one that I really loved. Well, I thought he wouldn't take me back and that he was just messing with me. So I dated that one guy for a few months making my ex jealous and then I finally broke it off. When i told the guy that i like that I broke up with that one guy he seemed happy, but that was it. After that we didn't hangout as much as I would have liked to and he didn't call me every night like he used to. I was so depressed. We kept talking occasionally and sometimes we would hangout, but rarley. Then one night I was going to introuduce my friend to him so we went outside and met up. He was acting VERY strange..he didn't give me a hug or even say hi to me, he was in a terrible mood. So my friend and I were not going to stand for it so we went back inside. I was SO MAD! I stayed up all night waiting for him to call me, but he never did. Then the next day he called, but being stubborn I did not answer thinking that i would call him back later. And yes i did call him back way later that night, but no answer. I kept trying and he never answered, so then i knew something was wrong. Now on this very day I still love him and want him back, and it has been 4-5 months. Oh by the way he has a new girlfriend that he is in LOVE with and he wont talk or even look at me. I REALLY NEED ADVICE and im sorry if this is confusing or too long but please read it all.. i want advice. just answer me back or email me if you have any questions. BUT PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO MOVE ON..TRUST ME I HAVE BEEN TRYING BUT HE LIVES RIGHT ACROSS THE STREET I SEE HIM EVERY DAY! (link)
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the only addive i have for you, bcause i dont wanna say move on, cuz i know thats hard. but the best i can say is that i have a similar problem, and from what the guy finally told me (after he stopped calling every night and ignored me) is that he needed to try to get over me, because he felt there was no chance nemore. i talked to him about it and he relized he cant be stubborn. instead of constnatly calling him becuase obv he dont answer, try going to his door so he kind of has no choice. or if you see him outside go outside and be like i just want to talk for a second. explain to him how you feel, and atleast still want to be fr4iend.(then move to more then frienfds). good luck, sorry i couldnt say nemore.
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I loathe reading super long love complications on this site so I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
I'm 16/f.
I think I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend who has moved to another town but I still see him weekly. We've broke up about a month and a half ago but still frequently have had a sexual relationship since then. I honestly can't see the difference between when we were going out and now. Anyway, one of his best mates is in love with me and he's told me and he's just so in love with me it's crazy. I've had sex with him but I just don't feel anything for him at all. My ex is angry at him for having sex with me. He said he wants to kill him. :S. Anyway I was talking to my best friend in the whole entire world 17/m tonight and I said I might make up a fake boyfriend so my ex's bestie will stay away from me and it won't hurt him as much as knowing that I don't like him at all in that way. Anyway, my bestie said to me that to be honest he would go out with me but he doesn't want to lose me if anything goes wrong in our relationship coz he's seen it happen. I do love my best friend a bit more than I should lately and I don't know whether it would be the right thing to go out with him. Would it get my ex out of my head and would it keep my ex;s bestie away?? Does anyone have any thoughts they want to share with me of what I should do or advice?
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dont just rush into a relationship. you seem to still like your ex if your haveing sexual relations with him. and by you havein sexual reltionsion with his best friend it, may have led him on a bit. i think u need to be honest with both of them. if you dont like your ex tell im tings need to stop between us becuase i vant keep doing this just for fun. and you need to explain to the best f4iend of ur ex that you have no feelings for him in that way at all and need him to try to get over you. now for the best friend of you, being best friends and havin a reltionship is kind of tough, but i think if you guys are best friends and have a lt in common it may work out. but just dont go out ewith him to get the other 2 off your back. dont hurt your best friend. if you really like him andfeel its right, tell him you wanna give it a try and if it works out then your all set =]
good luck, hope things work out.
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okay so i've been in relationships before, but none like this. i broke up with my ex boyfriend chris about a month ago, and we were together for 2 and half years. however about a year ago i started seeing this guy around the place i work.. and he always caught my eye. now i find him attractive of course but its like the eye contact and stuff, i dunno i just feel so happy and excited that i saw him. well it went on about probably 8-10 times since i first saw him. i wanted nothing more then to talk to him! well one day in may, he saw me, i was getting food to go from where i work, and he had just finished eating there, so i was outside and he stopped me. he said hi and we talked for just a few minutes and ended up exchanging phone numbers. well he calls and says "oh we need to hang out sometime" and i was so EXCITED! i cant even explain!
well the whole month of june, just about, it was off and on texting.. but i felt like i was sort of bothering him.. you know i would say "hey you (: whats up?" and i'd get "nuthin" im like "thats cool.." and then he wouldnt say anything back.. "then im like are you okay?" (after about the 3 time he'd done that to me" and he said "yeah im just busy" so i was like alright then thats cool. well apparently he was trying to straighten things out with this girl.. who he had been talking with for awhile and stuff. so hey thats cool, i was in the middle of breaking up with my bf, but it didnt kill me so much because it was something i've known for awhile that i wanted to do.
anywayy. so we get into this texting deal just about everyday.. the whole "good morning beautiful (:" etc.. he told me it felt like we were meant to meet eachother because we both had that happy feeling.. i always saw him looking at me before too. anyway. well he doesnt have his license yet, supposed to but his parents wont let him cause he kinda got into trouble for always arguing and stuff, so he cant drive to see me. he lives about 20 mins or so away.. well its cool you know i see him when hes by my work, which is about maybe once a week, i talk to him everyday so why be complaining you know?
well were still talking and he told me "i honestly like everything about you, and its not just looks, your so unique and i actually feel happy. i dont know why i didnt see it before (:" and i was so unsure on what to say back. i mean is that good or bad?! ha. so we keep talking and i tell him that i too really like him hes different then all the guys i've ever dated and i need change in my life. theres just some conection honestly.. and he apparently feels it too. however.. this phone call issue has sort of gotten to me.. he will say "okay im gunna call you in a bit (:" then two hours go by and he calls for like two minutes.. and that time he says "hey whats up?" i said "nothin getting ready for the concert" and he said "oh cool cool" then i said "what are you up to" and he said "oh im gunna go to this youth group thing in (blank) with one of my girlfriends, known he forever shes like me sister is that okay?" and im thinking.. i cant even get him to come see me 20 mins away, but hes gunna go through my city, to get to another town with this girlfriend of his, but yet he likes me oh so much? but i cant tell him no.. so i said yeah sure go ahead.. then he rushes off the phone and thats it. doesnt call til later that night.. becuase i felt worried.. i mean he says all this stuff but yet i felt like i was nothing to him.. so i asked "where do i stand with you honestly?" and he said "you stand really good, someone i can see myself with. honestly i know you like me for me and thats one thing that most girls dont do..i always get the "your so hott" instead of it being my personality"
occasionally he will mention "doing stuff" and i told him i dont just hook up with random people.. its someone i like and am in a relationship with.. and he said oh thats cool, well im not random (:.. and im thinking so what you just want some from me now? then he says how he likes to be single but if he finds that right girl he can be a boyfriend to someone too. well we talked last night for like 4 hours and i asked him why his last relationship didnt work out.. and he tells me.. he really loved her but she had a boyfriend and they're was so much drama, he just realized it wont work.. but then he also said how he called her yesterday to see her in person and talk about stuff.. i just dont understand..
i did see him the day before the concert and he came into my work, while i waited for a friend so we could eat there.. and he came in to say hi and gave me the biggest hug. he told me i looked beautiful and i was so nervous and happy.. and on his way out of the door, he was nervous and turned around to look at me.. he pushed on the wrong side of the door handle that he couldnt get it open.. haha.
so what do you think? does he like me, or no? one minute it seems like it.. then the next i feel like he's just being a sweet talker ya know? i thank you honestly for reading this.. i dont know how to make it any smaller lol.
thank you (:
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guys suck in other words hun lol. but to me it seems like he is not basically a 'playa' but likes the single life alot, and sees u as more then a friend but kind of a friend with possibly beniefits. he deffingelty doesnt seem liek the boyfriend type, or he would have gone to see you alredy. he is def a great sweet talker from what ive herd so far, but i dont personally think hes a boyfriend material kinda guy.i hope things turn out for the best hun =] good luck
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Okay, well my parents have been telling me that my hair is burnt out and dry. But i like leaving it straightened so when i take a shower i use a shower cap. But then i go to a lot of events that involve sweating so my hair starts to get wavy, so when i get home i take a shower with my shower cap. Then the next day i striaighten my hair. But whenever i do wash my hair fully it's wavy/curly. My hair is short to [but long enough to be straighened], so whenever i straighten it, it takes a long time. Then afterwards, it looks like a mess and i apply pressure by using a headband to keep it down. But then i read another website that said not to apply pressure, because it damages hair. So i do not know what do my hair, i just want it straight. My hair is also fairly thick, thats must be why it takes at least 3 hours to straighten it. My friend told me to perm it straight, but i'm scared on how it may come out. Or just perm it wavy, but i'm also scared of that. Then another friend told me to thin my hair out so it won't be so thick. If anyone can help me out with my hair. Please, it would be much appreciated :/ (link)
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try using ion spray. its a spray you appy to your hair before you straightin it, it doesnt make it greasy either. nice and soft. i have the same problem with it curling sometimes wen its hot out. but ion definetly helps. with all humid weather its hard to keep it from poofing tho.
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hey im mason im 16/m and all my friends have been out of state for like 5 weeks and its just been hard for me ive been falling on old habits i know i should not but i just do and i want to stop but it feels like there is nothing to do my friends are gone and there is nothing else to do help? (link)
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my best addvice is possibly go out and meet some girls .. maybe a gf would be a good thing =] or apply for a few jobs .. makin money is always better then being bored
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My best friend f/16 told me she cut her wrist yesterday and I started crying.
She came over and showed me, it's a diagonal cross on her left wrist about 3 finger widths down from the start of her wrist on the left hand side. The cross is only about 1cm long and it isn't very deep. How come she didn't die? Is it because she didn't lose much blood or because she didn't cut deep enough or didn't cut the vein?
I don't want her to do it again. And I just want to know why she didn't die?
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cutting is alot of time just a 3way to relieve stress and depression. it feels good for some ppl to hurt them self. you should defenitly tell ur friend to get help so it dont turn bad and you should also tell her you love her and care bout her and dnt want her hurting her self no more. it will be comforting for her. also she didnt die cz she didnt cut deep enuff and it depends on if it was over a vein.
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im trying to run 1 mile every tuesday and thursday so i get better in gym class but i get out breath so easily because i have some asthsma but i dont need an inhaler anyway in gym when we run the mile it gets hard for me to breathe and so i get a really bad score which people make fun of me fo and when i tell them i have asthma they dont belive me because i dont have an inhaler and people just dont understand of why i cant run and why i hold my breath under water long and why i cant bike 2 miles so what should i do when people tease me? (link)
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tell them, 1stly its none of their business. also tell them if you dont have athsma, then tell them to prove you dont. clearly they cant proove it, so there for tell them to stfu =]
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I can never get my period timing right!! So then on the first day of my period, its always on my underwear because i never know when to wear a pad!
I really don't want to wear a pad every single day, because that is just very very expensive and weird. I keep track on my online calendar and my period is around every 24 days.... but there are times when it comes every 15 days or every 30 days!!
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if you just started your period with inth elast year, its complelty normal.(the right date will come soon)
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i have been suffering from severe depression for awhile. after much thought, i believe it's because of some of my actions in the past. not murder or anything like that, but i have alot of shame and guilt (with myself) but cannot seem to forgive myself. i realize i am only human and i'm going to make some mistakes, but i cannot seem to get over whatever things are making me feel depressed. i have tried almost every anti-depressant, but they don't seem to work. i obviously need help, but cannot seem to find anyone who truly wants to help me. it's always a question of health insurance (i have excellent coverage) so instead of helping me, i feel they are prolonging my agony to keep the money coming in. truthfully, i wouldn't care if they were helping me. i have considered a indian medicine man and even went to a reservation in hopes of speaking with one, but it was the weekend and they were closed. a psychic is starting to look good but most are for fun. i truly need help before i lose my mind! thanks (link)
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i also my self suffer from severe depression. i went to the emergency room oone night because it got so bad i couldnt deal anymore. they gave me a panflit and my ensurence covered a 10 day partial hospital prgram.. dont worry its not a stay at night thing you go for a few hours with kids who are depressed too and it helps ALOTT .. instead of the emergency room you could just go to your docotr and sugest a program. give it a try, IT HELPS. good luck =]
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