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three boys, one ex, one friendship.
I loathe reading super long love complications on this site so I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
I'm 16/f.
I think I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend who has moved to another town but I still see him weekly. We've broke up about a month and a half ago but still frequently have had a sexual relationship since then. I honestly can't see the difference between when we were going out and now. Anyway, one of his best mates is in love with me and he's told me and he's just so in love with me it's crazy. I've had sex with him but I just don't feel anything for him at all. My ex is angry at him for having sex with me. He said he wants to kill him. :S. Anyway I was talking to my best friend in the whole entire world 17/m tonight and I said I might make up a fake boyfriend so my ex's bestie will stay away from me and it won't hurt him as much as knowing that I don't like him at all in that way. Anyway, my bestie said to me that to be honest he would go out with me but he doesn't want to lose me if anything goes wrong in our relationship coz he's seen it happen. I do love my best friend a bit more than I should lately and I don't know whether it would be the right thing to go out with him. Would it get my ex out of my head and would it keep my ex;s bestie away?? Does anyone have any thoughts they want to share with me of what I should do or advice?
Thanks
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If you really want to get over your ex, then yes it would help. It would also keep his best friend away and i makes it easy for you because you dont have to turn him down. If you feel that you want to be with this new guy who is your friend i say go for it! i tried dating my closest friend and it didnt really work out but we are still friends. good luck!
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Well, that's complicated.
Your ex probably wants to keep you close because even though he's moved, he doesn't EVER want to lose you. Trust me, you get tired of him being so clingy after a while. Your ex's bestie. He probably has wanted you and feels the need to have you now that your ex is gone. That gets tiring to after a while. If you really trust you best friend, then sure ! go for it ! It will help your ex to move on and get his bestie away from you. :]
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dont just rush into a relationship. you seem to still like your ex if your haveing sexual relations with him. and by you havein sexual reltionsion with his best friend it, may have led him on a bit. i think u need to be honest with both of them. if you dont like your ex tell im tings need to stop between us becuase i vant keep doing this just for fun. and you need to explain to the best f4iend of ur ex that you have no feelings for him in that way at all and need him to try to get over you. now for the best friend of you, being best friends and havin a reltionship is kind of tough, but i think if you guys are best friends and have a lt in common it may work out. but just dont go out ewith him to get the other 2 off your back. dont hurt your best friend. if you really like him andfeel its right, tell him you wanna give it a try and if it works out then your all set =]
good luck, hope things work out.
-ask_blondie
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