The Name's Lindsey.
I HAVE MY OWN ADVICE SITE ! WWW.MYSPACE.COM/BRUTALCONF
Christian. Lutheran, to be exact. I beilive in God obviously. I pray about three times a day. I go to church every Sunday. I don't pressure other people about their religions. That's your choice. I don't get involved.
I have my own style. You can't label me. I won't label you. I don't like liars or cheaters either. I also don't like the word hate. But we all slip.
My Mum's dead. Life goes on right ? She was the most amazing person you could ever meet. She had meningitis, she was an ex-cancer patient. She died in pain and I think what hurts the most is that I wasn't there for her.
I have self-confidence. I don't doubt myself. Everybody has something that makes them pretty. I think that of myself. I don't do drugs. I don't drink. I think that's smart of me.
I'm an honest and loyal friend. I won't let you down. If something's wrong, you can talk to me.
I am not going to dumb myself down like other girls do. I'm smart and I've always been that way. Unlike most people, I may be blonde, but you can take me seriously. I'm tired of hearing, "but blonde's have more fun because they don't know what they're doing". Whatever, that's not me.
I think twice before I act on my decisions. I have my head on straight. I give full credit to my cousins and best friends for that. I don't lie either. I'm terrible at it.
Quiet places are what most people need these days. I'm not going to college in America, hopefully. And if I do, then I'll join the Navy after. My dream has always been to go to University College London or University of Trieste in Italy. I've made my decisions. But I'll most likely be the girl who lives in Europe.
Fin.
Lindsey-licious
Gender: Female
Location: Germany, Live in Miami.
Age: 14
AIM: brutalsadvice
Member Since: July 15, 2007
Answers: 2
Last Update: July 15, 2007
Visitors: 570
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I loathe reading super long love complications on this site so I'll try to keep this as short as possible.
I'm 16/f.
I think I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend who has moved to another town but I still see him weekly. We've broke up about a month and a half ago but still frequently have had a sexual relationship since then. I honestly can't see the difference between when we were going out and now. Anyway, one of his best mates is in love with me and he's told me and he's just so in love with me it's crazy. I've had sex with him but I just don't feel anything for him at all. My ex is angry at him for having sex with me. He said he wants to kill him. :S. Anyway I was talking to my best friend in the whole entire world 17/m tonight and I said I might make up a fake boyfriend so my ex's bestie will stay away from me and it won't hurt him as much as knowing that I don't like him at all in that way. Anyway, my bestie said to me that to be honest he would go out with me but he doesn't want to lose me if anything goes wrong in our relationship coz he's seen it happen. I do love my best friend a bit more than I should lately and I don't know whether it would be the right thing to go out with him. Would it get my ex out of my head and would it keep my ex;s bestie away?? Does anyone have any thoughts they want to share with me of what I should do or advice?
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Well, that's complicated.
Your ex probably wants to keep you close because even though he's moved, he doesn't EVER want to lose you. Trust me, you get tired of him being so clingy after a while. Your ex's bestie. He probably has wanted you and feels the need to have you now that your ex is gone. That gets tiring to after a while. If you really trust you best friend, then sure ! go for it ! It will help your ex to move on and get his bestie away from you. :]
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im 13 and havent "grown up" yet. im not comfortable with going to either of my parnts when it happens. only my grandma. but i cant see or talk to her. what should i do when it happens? (link)
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Maybe do you have a close relationship with any family-friends ?
Or you could tell one of your best friends mothers.
They can always give you a good intake of help. They should know you very well.
Maybe your just scared of being embarassed if you tell your parents.
You don't have to tell your Dad if you don't feel comfortable. But either way, your Mum HAS to know.
You could say "Don't make a big deal but..." or swear her to secrecy.
It gets better, trust me.
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