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i normally never ask for advice. but i can't get around this one. my girlfriend broke up with about a week ago.(yes im a dude). reason why she did was because she was goin out with me behind her parents back, and they don't really care for me. so she breaks up with me because she felt bad about all that. i understand why she broke up with me. but damn does it hurt. i mean i really loved this girl. and i still do. so my question is, how do i get over her? hell, shes all i think about. i dont know what to do. oh im 16/male (link)
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getting over things like that is hard because you don't really have closure, and if you really believe you don't have all you can do is move on with life, you can't dwell over something that's not going to change, because it doesn't do you any good. and coming out of my mouth, that sounds so hypocritical because that's how i spent my entire last year, when my boyfriend broke up with me, i watched a couple sad romantic movies, and cried. and then i kept myself as busy as possible, find a new girl, someone who will make you feel incredible, and you will. i promise.
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I'm meeting my boyrfriends friends for the first time (Both female and male! and two of them are his EXES!) and we've only been dating for 1 week! Is there anything I should think about? What TO DO? What NOT to do?
I usually wouldnt worry but since its BOTH females and males, I'm afraid I wouldnt know how to impress both genders at the same time.. It feels like by getting one gender to like me the other wouldnt! you know?! HELP! (link)
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okay, this really isn't a big deal, bee yourself, and don't worry about it. figure out which gender you click better with, which is easier for you to talk to, and talk to them more than the other so you don't feel awkward.
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hi im a 13 yr old girl.okay today my friend told me my ex still likes me and the reson i dumped him was cause i liked this other guy and the whole thing between me and him was akward we never talked and i prefured to be friends with him ..he felt the same.
when my friend told me he still liked me it got me thinking i think i still liked him even tho we broke up like this girl told my friend that he liked her and my heart just stopped ...is that jelosy. but aperantly the girl misunderstood the whole thing and you couldn't describe how relived i was.
but today i found out i still to like him but i don't really want to go out with him and then just not even talk to eachother ....so i want to get closer
should i tell him i still like him? im so confused :( i was thinking of telling him but im not sure please help
thanks xxx
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the reason you think you like him might be because you feel bad for hurting him, or because your friendship might be awkward now, and you want to fix it, or it could simply be that you want everyone to be happy, and things didn't work out with you and the other boy, so you hear your ex likes you and you figure it'll make things better. you need to really think this through, because if you make the mistake of leading him on, things won't be the same again, ever, which will result in you leading him on more. if you do really like him still, of coarse you should tell him, just make sure that's how you really feel.
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k so this might be long, i'll try to make it short though.
i'm still not over my ex and it's been like since february that we broke up. we dated once before that to and he was perfect. like hands down the best boyfriend ever. i even think i loved him. then out of nowhere he broke up with me. and i'm not even sure why. then a few months later in january of this year we got back together. but things were kinda weird between us at first then after like a week and a half i didn't feel weird around him anymore and everyhting seemed almost good. then like another week later he broke up with me again. he said he liked someone else. i guess we're still friends but that really hurt.
and now it's june and i'm still hung up on him.
i want to move on and i know i'm pathetic for not being over him yet. it's crazy. i want to date other guys but everytime someone asks me out i think of my ex and i say no. so any advice on moving on?
thanks (link)
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any guy that does that to you is not worth your time.
i'm guessing you're young, you should take advantage of the opportunities that are presented to you. believe me, i know it's hard to get over someone who you might have loved, but there's a lot of boys out there, and you should go with that. don't waste your time on one guy.
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on Mozilla i heard its possible u can like click something and it can show someones top 8 is that true and if it is what do u click? (link)
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if their top 8 is hidden you can go to view, page style, no style.
the page will be very basic but it'll show everything that's hidden.
hope that helped.
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My boyfriend and I have been talking a lot about getting pregnant. My friend, just recently had her baby at 18. I'm 19 and moving away for college, naturally my boyfriend is coming with me. Do you think having a baby at 19 would be a good or bad idea. I have tossed around the question a lot and I'm just not quite sure. (link)
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you should be focusing more on school and getting financially secure before you plan on having a baby. it'd be extremly overwhelming and it would make your goals a hell of a lot harder to accomplish.
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ok. im 15/m. and i need help. so theres this girl. and we had a thing for a while. It was good until things took a turn in the other direction and she dumped me. I still love her and i think i always will. she was great. and she started to move on to other guys. and i got mad. and she knows that. and then we started talking and hanging out again. and we flirted alot. and i thought things were going in the right direction. but then i found out that she met another guy. and this got me even madder. and im sick of wasting my time on this. and why do i bother trying to make things work again. is it because i love her? or am i just way ti jealous. (link)
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maybe you two should see what you're missing and date other people. there's a lot of girls out there, but if it's really love, i believe it'll work out in the end. and you might be spending too much effort on this one girl, i think you just don't understand what you're missing.
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Wow! Thanks for even looking at this. Well basically my life is in the crapper right now. In other words that are more understandable It SUCKS! Everyone is always telling me the same things. You are only 14 and everyone goes through it around your age or my fav! " Your life is not that bad" But yes it is though! My friends dont like me anymore and I dont have a boyfriend! Yes! I sound pathetic as hell but I am pathetic. I mean why does life have to be so damn hard. What made it this hard? Was it my fault? I sit in my room all day watching tv and I just cry because it sux! Everyone else has a boyfriend and friends that they can call and hang out with. Not me though! I just dont know how to make myself happy without having any friends! I mean I tell myself that this will pass over and one day everything wil get a lil bit better. And whats even worse is that I try to get A boyfriend but they dont like me and they use me then call me a whore and plus they always want another girl. They say I'm hott and I'm sweet and skinny but I dont feel that way anymore. Is this a sucky age or did I make my life this way? Cause I try to make things better and I try to make guys like me and notice me but that never works cause they always have a reason as to why they cant have a relationship with me! I cant take it anymore. And I've talked to everyone and they all tell me the same damn thing. Nothing works because at the end of the day I still have no friends and no boyfriend! I mean I'm nice! I'm not a bitch and I'm not that ugly. And everyone tells me I'm not mature enough to have a boyfriend but when I see everyone else thats not but like 1 year older than me have a boyfriend I cry because I feel like an outcast or like I dont belong in this world. Thats why I want to kill myself sometimes because what am I living for? Not myself because I suck at life. I try to play the game of life but it doesnt work ! does anyone know how to deal with my problem? (link)
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you need to not focus on guys, when you do that, they're all over you, believe me, i've been there. and as for friends, you need to be yourself around new people, there has to be someone who'll be there for you, my best friend and i stopped talking about 2 years ago, and it killed me, i didn't know what to do with myself, but i realized, there are more people in the world, i don't know what your friends don't like you anymore, but if that's the case, they're not your friends. take some time to sort things out, hang out with new people, and with that, will come boys, don't be so hard on yourself, you'll get it.
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ehhh me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 2years i still love him but we are broken up now but still talking the thing is we both thing we need to change. and im not about to sit around and wait for someone whose not going to change. Theres another boy i like that i met before him that i used to like a long time ago and were really good friends and i dont want to hurt him but ive been sitting in the house evr since we broke up how can i tell him tommorow im going to the beach with this other boy. I love him and i want to get back with my boyfriend butts not fair for me. What to do? (link)
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okay, i dated a boy for a year, he took everything fro granted, and wouldn't change anything, so i broke up with him when i found out my best friend who i'd liked for a while liked me back, i dated him for two weeks, he did stupid things, but that's different. my ex tyler, and i talked in that two weeks but it wasn't the same, after he found out my friend broke up with me he told me how he was willing to change and how he'd do anything to get back with me, i haven't taken that chance for the sake of making the wrong decision yet, but my point here, it made him realize what he was doing wrong, and that he needed to change, maybe you should go for this other boy, and see where it takes you, if it's really love between you and the other boy, everything will fall into place somehow.
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16/f (we are all 15 or 16, all female)
Question:
What should I think about all of this?
Is it wrong to not want to forgive them?
Situation:
For months I was excluded from everything by my best friends. They refused to include me yet were nice to my face so I stuck with the group and went through a lot of hurt. I found out others in the group were being excluded too.
So I stood up to the girl who was purposely trying to exclude me, and we got in a huge fight but somehow it was resolved. But not really. Then they started to do it again and an even bigger fight broke out and I left them.
They got people (at least 5 at a time) to try to beat me up. I was harassed by the other people and it was an unfair situation. They harassed me over a computer but had other people do it in person. I tried to resolve the situation (so that I was not in physical danger) and block their computer attempts. The situation seemed hopeless and dangerous for me.
I lived through it all, and somehow, they didn`t make me look bad for very long. Now they mimicked one of our videos (me and my three new best friends, one from the old group) on facebook (which wasn`t about them, it`s about our inside jokes and has nothing to do with them) and made us look like whores in their attempt to copy our video and "ruin" us. They tried to copy our makeup and clothes and told everyone to say who was better, us or them. We ignored them (this happened less than a week ago) and kept ourselves looking good and happy.
Finally, one of the girls (the main one who was excluding me before) broke and told my best friend (from the old group) that she feels like a bitch and wants to be friends with us again.
Please refer to the above question, any insight or advice is greatly appreciated! This has been a nightmare and sometimes I feel lucky to have made it through without being attacked physically. Although that did happen once but I walked away.
Two of the girls leave for a month next friday, and I am not going to forgive them (ever) or before then just so they can feel good about themselves when they leave. In no way do I want to join back into one group of friends, even if my new best friends do, I will stand alone and have no friends. Is this wrong? (link)
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it's totally not wrong at all to never want to forgive htem, if they're going that far as to have people phsically attack you, they're not worth any of your time, my best advice to you is that you not get mixed in with that group of people again. they'll only leave you hurt again. girls are vicious, they'll do anything to get what they want, you should find real friends who care about you. friends who wouldn't even think of doing that to you ever.
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when i straighten my hair (on a daily basis), after a long day it flips and waves at the bottom because i tuck my hair behind my ears pretty often. but my birthday is coming up and i can ask for a chi straightener. i was wondering if they really are worth the money and would prevent my hair from "unstraightening" during the day? also, any recommendations as to which one i should get (in the chi line) would be helpful. (: (link)
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chi straightners are a complete splurge, i have a Jilbere de Paris tourmal line seris flat iron, it works perfect, and it only costs about 65 dollars. i'm shure a chi works just as well, they're just ridiculously over priced. my step mom whos a hair dresser bought me mine flat iron and i've only had one prolem with it in two years, and that was from me traveling with it every week.
http://www.sallybeauty.com/shop/product-teen.asp?dept%5Fid=1650&pf%5Fid=345100
hope i helped.
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alright. i have this friend and i kind of love him. he's the totaly opposite of me and i've done some things he doesn't agree with. most of them, he knows about, a few he doesn't. this kid knows me better than i know myself and by not telling him, i've felt kinda guilty. so. question basically is, should i tell him, have him be disappointed, or just kind of let it go and not worry about it?
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i think you need to tell him, i get the feeling he's a good friend and won't abandon you for it, let him know you've learned your lesson [if you have] you can't let yourself feel guilty, i've done that, the truth came out, and he's over it. i think it actually made him more comfortable with the subject actually.
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I want to use Sun-In, the hair lightener.
1) Does it work? How efficiently?
2) How much does it cost
3) Where could I buy itt
4) Anybody know any other hair lighteners that work well OR better??
5) Does using lemons work?
THAAANKKKSSS♥♥♥♥♥ (link)
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sun in is pretty bad for your hair actually, it's like using peroxide. it costs like 5-10 dollars tops. you can buy it anywhere grocery stores, target, walmart, anywhere that sells hair care products. you could alwyas hihlight your hairs, or stay out in the sun. and yes, lemon juice works, your hair has to be lighter for it to show up good though.
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im 15 female going into 10th. grade.
okay well, i like like 2 different guys. one of htem have been my best friend since well 1st grade "Jeremy". me and Jeremy flirt all the time and he pushes me but he isnt to much of a pervert like other guys...which is weird by the way. but we dont hang out all that much during the summer :(
The other guy "Mike" has been friends with me for 3 years now. he says he wont pressure me into anything but he has once now he's telling me he'll wait to go out with me until im ready.
but when we hangout we are usually hanging on each other...we lay on my porch and talk and he will talk about just about everything and he will try to do stuff like stick his hand up my shirt and other stuff but i just kind of stop him...and we mess around alot. he tells me everything and well vise versa.
ok what do you think i should do?
go out with "Jeremy" or "mike" (link)
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okay, guys say alot of shit to get in your pants, if his hand's already going up your shirt, then i don't think he's worth your time. go for the one you really like. follow your heart.
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i have a couple of guys friends and lately they've all been obnoxiously hitting on me. uhhhg. one even asked me out but i said no and he got mad cause he thought i liked one of my other guy friends. which i do. but i cant go out with one of them with out making them all mad at me. should i just wait out their annoying obsession with me being single all my life or do i make them mad and potentially break off all my friendships with all of them? (link)
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you shouldn't make yourself miserable for someone else sake, ever. you should go for it, everyone else will get over itt.
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my phone buddy is amazing. take notice.
-Tyrone Jackson (link)
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funny story, my phone buddy's amazing toooo. :]]
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Okay. I kind of need a quick reply, please...
My best friend went out with a boy (we'll call him Shawn) for 7 months. She was head over heels for him. But then while she was on vacation he called and broke up with her through a VOICE MAIL.
Well, her best friend (we'll call him Mike) was there for her through it all. Now, being a bystander in this, I could tell mike had feelings for her. And recently he asked her out. Mike and Shawn were best friends...and as soon as shawn found out he began calling my friend wanting her back. It's been 4 months since they broke up, and I think he just doesnt want her with Mike...what should she do? (link)
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okay recently, i was in almost the same situation, and honestly right now i'm just sitting it out, not being with anyone. because i couldn't bare hurting ethier one of them. your friend needs to figure out who she's happier with, and if it's the first guy, she needs to understand he might nt be as trust worthy as the other guy, he hurt her once, and it could happen again. she needs to be with the guy that makes her happy, don't play games with their heads. just pick one and stay with that, and if she can't, she should maybe find a new boy. there's a lot of them out theree.
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15/M
Well, on one hand, there's my ex who I still love alot, and she's just everything I could ever want. She knows I still love her and she loves me still, too. Only problem is that she isn't sure that she wants a relationship right now.
On the other hand, there's this girl I met through a mutual friend and we clicked as soon as we met. We both love each other [Yeah, actual love, not just liking] and we're perfect for each other. Problem here is that she lives in Ohio and I live in New York. Now, we both hate long distance relationships so that's not an option.
I really love both of these girls, but there's obstacles in the way of both. What should I do? (link)
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ha, seems one of my really really close friends has the same exact situation, and this may seem biased but, if you hate long distance relationships, and you're only 15, in new york, you don't have a license, are you sure that's gonna work for you? my friend says he likes to hold the person he loves, you'd rarely get that chance, i also know, in my friends case, the ex really does love him. and i think you should try to really talk about it with her, leave the ohio girl totally out of the conversation, talk only about you two, and what you'd be willing to do to make everything work once and for all. don't talk about the other girl to her, it'll make her feel bad, and like she doesn't have a chance, so when infact, you do have this talk she won't tell you how she feels because she'll think you don't want to be with her, like she's a back up plan because you couldn't be with the girl you really want to be with.
hope i helped. :]]
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Okay theres this guy I've liked all of grade 7 and he's in my class and we flirt CONSTANTLY.We had this friends with benifits thing once...(less than doing it more than making out).he's in the popular click I'm...not but I have lots of friends.the guy I like's friend said to him if he goes out with me he'll never talk to him again.
Anyways after out F.W.B. thing the whole school found out while he was at camp...so he got back today nad was PISSED well we fixed it up...he's not mad as long as I tell everyone it's not true I got dared to say it.So I agreeed to.cuz he'll lose his friends cuz they're really superfishal.
I am 99.999999999% sure he likes me.I've asked him out (it was after his friend told him not to go out with me.) he said no...now I can get his friend to tell him he can go out with me...should I ?? Should I ask him out ? ?!?!?! I REALLY like him and trust him.He didn't tell anyone it was all my fault...
Love,
CONFUZZELED (link)
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i think, you should go for it, who cares about what his friends think about you.
guys are overrated.
but if you like him that much, you should go for it, you should take a risk, and see where everything goes, just don't keep your hopes up so high about him all the time, and if infact, it works out, hope for the best, but be prepared for a heartbreak. guys do stupid things, believe me, i've been there. i hope it works out, and i hope i helped a little.
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14/f
without being harsh/destroying my self esteem, please look at this pic of my body and tell me how fat I am.
Like would you classfiy me as "huge obese fatass, fat, average, sexy, etc."
i'm 5'2" and could you also guess how much i weigh? (i'm not telling you straight off)
thanks.
pleeease don't be harsh though. (link)
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you shouldn't be looking to other people to determine whether you're "fat" or not, it's about how you feel about yourself and your body. not what anyone else sits at home and sees in a picture of you. you should focus more on the what's inside of you rather than what's outside.
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