about

♥BASiCS
Emily prefers to be called/a.k.a em,emz,lili,mimi,lee or emi
13 from England living in Spain - loves; giving advice, making friends, music, photography, the color pink&more ..
hates; racism, terrorism, poverty , animal testing, cockroaches, darkness, sluttyness, being tired


♥MUSiC
+ : r&b
+ : rap
+ : hip hop
+ : reggaeton
+ : slow jams
+ : acapella
+ : pop


♥CONTACT
msn&email :: myxboo@hotmail.com
aim :: siimply x emily
yahoo :: emilys0tempted


advice

can you wear fake nails at school in spain?

Yeah, as far as I know.
You can in mine anyway.

I'm not sure about the private schools though.

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hey,im going to my school dance (they play r&b,rap,hip hop) (13/f)
i wanted to know,,,what are some good stores to get dance tops? (not fancy) tops like babygurl,southpole,cute tops like that.Also,what kind of hair style should i have?i have medium,light brown hair,bangs to the mid. of my neck,and layes.Should i wear jeans?
thanks so much!! !i'll rate 5!!
(ps-)im (kinda) flat in the chest..and im skinny,im short (4"8)

If you're able to shop online you should try www.drjays.com

They have brands like Southpoul, Lot 29, Rocawear, Ecko Red, etc.

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ok well this is for the guys... is there a certain hair color that you prefer on girls? like do u tend to go for blondes...brunettes... red heads... please give me your opinion because i'm thinking of dying my hair and i'm not sure on what color but i want to see what guys like first. thanks! *i rate*

Different guys like different things.
You can't expect all guys to like one hair color.

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I was wondering if you had any makeup tips or any sites that had makeup tips and stuff like that!

http://www.ultimatecosmetics.com

The site in it's self is awesome but if you join the forums, you can get all your questions answered by everyone from everyday people to trained professionals.

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at school there's a 70's spirit day. i don't know what to wear.. i wanna find something at a regular store and not the internet and i rate 5's

13/f
Thanks!

Search the internet for pictures of clothes from the 70's and see if you can put something together by DIY'ing your self.

If not, still look through for ideas and head to the thrift store.
Thrift stores might not be your thing but belive me, you can find the best of stuff there.

- Emily x

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i got this shirt and it says "better forget it cause you'll never get it" ..is that a bad shirt, would people think im wierd?

Who cares what they think?
But no, it's by no means a bad shirt and it's the exact opposite of slutty.

Besides, you make the clothes, the clothes don't make you.

- Emily x

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hey well i have really annoying nails, and normal nails are hard and don't bend, but my nails bend! and they always start peeling and everything, and it's so annoying! and everytime i get a manecure or put on nailpolish, it comes off in like 2 days!! my nails are sooooo annoying! do any of you know any way to help these problems or why this keeps happening?! also, i have hyperhydrosis, which is something when you have really constant sweaty hands that never go away, so do you think this might have anything to do with it?
please help i rate high!

It could have something to do with your hyperhydrosis, see a dermatologist about it and see if they can recommend anything.
In the mean time buy a nail hardner. You can usually get them in drugstores.

For the nail polish, try a long lasting nail polish something by L'Oreal or something. Make sure you put more than one coat on.

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is masturbating a sin? or bad.. or what.. or is it just for pleasure?

If you follow the bible's every word then yes it is a sin but alot of girls that are religious do it as well and it's fine.

It's a perfectly natural thing to do and you shouldn't be embarrased or think it's bad or anything.
More people do it than you realise, just most of them say they don't.

♥Em

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okay so i really want paris hiltons long blonde hair should i think about getting extensions or should i just grow out my hair the problem with growing my hair out is i have blonde hair so my roots would constantly show. let me know and i will rate good thanks

I think Paris Hilton's hair is actually short but she has hair extensions (I THINK)

If you wanna wait a long time you could wait till it grows but if you wanna spend loads of money on hair extensions and you want to have it fast then you could do the extensions.

♥Em

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what if you are in the orchestra and can't get fake nails cuz it will mess up your playing..but i REALLY want some for school..so what should i do?!!?!

Just wait till school is out because having fake/long nails makes you play really out of tune. I know that for a fact.

You could either
- get fake nails
- quit orchestra

Your call.

♥Em

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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
X3

You're not weird for being scared of something.
You can't help what you're scared of.
I'm scared of the dark too and I can't help it, if anyone laughs at you for being scared then tell them to bite you. I'm sure they're scared of stuff too just not the same things.
:) don't worry about it.
♥Em

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i have brown light hair i want to dye it blonde with lemon juice would i look better blonde

Uhm, we wouldn't know, we've never seen you.
But you won't be able to dye it with lemon juice.

Lemon juice doesn't DYE your hair, it makes it lighter. There's a bit of a difference.


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Hey, it's Mandee. I was looking through my column and I typed a pretty long answer to one of my questions. But when I looked at it there was nothing but the first sentence. So I went to edit answers and everything I typed to her question was on there correctly. To get to the point, I wanted to know why on my column does it only have the first sentence, and how do I fix this? Thank you so much!

Column name is just Mandee if you want to take a look.

If you used this:

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i bought these nail tips and nail glue and i wanna try to put the tips on myself. has anyone tried this before? is it safe to do at home?
thanks! *i rate*

It's perfectly safe to put them on on your own, at home. I've done it loads of times.

Make sure they're straight because if you screw up they don't come off easily.

If you don't like them after and wanna take them off put your fingers in warm water and it should soften the glue helping them come off easier (or at least that's what I've heard, I can't say I've ever tryed it)
♥Em

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I'm so confused about my style...I like all different sorts of music, and I have so many different views. One day I'll be wearing Abercrombie, the next day Hot Topic type stuff...how do I find a style and STICK with it?

You know what?
You DO have a style.
Your style is being you, end of story, no questions asked.
Who cares? If you wanna wear a tee from Abercrombie with some pants from Hot Topic then it doesn't make you a poser.

It means you have enough common sense to be who you want to be and dress the way you want.

Please don't change your style just so you can be like everyone else. People like you are like indangered species.

Just be you :)

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okay i am trying to make a rock cd with only emo and punk rock on it... (im a rock kinda girl) and i was wondering what are some good emo or punk rock bands these are ones i have so far

-halifax
-senses fail
-taking back sunday
-finch
-fallout boy

any others? thanks i'll rate 5's for some good bands :-D

From First To Last
My Chemical Romance

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i want to go on a diet. every is like "no you are so skinny!" which is true, but i want to stay skinny! im not trying to loose weight, im trying to maintain it! so please help me out on ways to do that!

You don't need to diet to maintain it.
Work out for 30 minutes every other day and eat less junkfood and if possible do cardio (dancing, swimming, running, walking, rope jumping, etc)
You can maintain it just my excersizing regulary and not being a couch potato :)
♥Em

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After summer is over and when I start school again i am going to go to this tanning salon. I was just wondering if the price is reasonable. It's $29 dollars a month for students for unlimited tanning! Is that a good price? Also I have never been to one so do they supply the lotion you need to use? Any other tips.. also I know it's bad for you so please don't answer with telling me not to go!

It sounds like a good price! Make sure it isn't a dodgy place you're going to though.
Also, I know for a fact (like the other girl said) that wearing eye protection leaves circles round your eyes and makes you look really stupid so your best bid would probably be to just close your eyes.
♥Em

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What is a blowjob?

It's another name for giving head/giving oral sex to a guy.

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Well, my sister is 16, and she's pregnant by her 20 year old boyfriend. I want to help her, I really do. She is about to turn 17 next month and she wants to move in with him. However, my mom told me that she wasn't going to let her and not to tell her that because she would get upset. So, I don't wanna upset her about it, so I am keeping my mouth shut.
I try to help her the best I can. If she wants something to drink, I'll get her something to drink, if she wants something to eat, I'll get her something to eat. However, it seems like whatever I do isn't good enough. She always complains that its too hot, or too cold, or she doesn't like it. She has the biggest mood swings ever. She cries constantly; when she's not crying she's screaming.
I just want to help her out so much. She's young and we have birth defect problems in our family. I want her pregnancy to go well. I just don't know how to help.

Signed,
Wants-To-Know

I know how you feel, my sister was pregnan at 17 but the difference being her boyfriend ran off when he found out she was pregnant so she was left with me while my parents worked and no matter how much I tryed to make things right for her she cryed and screamed and cryed some more.

It's absolutely natural for her to cry or scream and have mood swings, her hormones are going haywire which is normal.

You should try and talk to her sit her down when you're both alone (and when she seems like she's in a good mood QUICK! while it lasts, lmao) and let her know that even if sometimes she might feel like she hates you because of her mood swings that that's okay and you understand and let her know that you're there for her if she ever needs you.

Once you get her trust (if my plan works that is) you should see if she'll live at home for a while, that way your parents and you can help out with the baby.
If you have room in your house and if you think it's a good idea you should suggest to both your mom and your sister that her boyfriend moves in untill things are settled and they both have enough money to move out, because babies are expensive!
(if you're going to do that, ask your mom before you ask your sister, your sister might agree and get her hopes up and then your mom might disagree so to avoid getting her hopes up and then letting her down, don't let her know untill and if your mom agrees)

Like I said, you just need to let your sister know you're there for her.
When my sister gave birth she told me that all the time she was pregnant and having mood swings, all she wanted was to know she could trust someone and that someone would be there for her no matter what.
So you should give it a go.

Good luck :) and congrats on becoming a future auntie!
♥Em

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