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is it normal to have cramps after your period. i haven't been sexually active for at least 5 months. (link)
yes! it happens to me sometimes too


okay, i know theres about bazilion of this topic.
but I REALLY NEED EVERYONES HELP.
im getting cellulite, and i want to get rid of it as soon as possible.
any ideas?
[any idea other than working out]
any bodycreams that help?
pleeeeasssee help.

oh, and its on my thighs & butt.
[if that helpss]
thanks to whoever reply!

=] (link)
either Cocoa butter, that usually gets rid of ceullite or there are lotions that are specifically made to target celulite and tighten skin. you could probably just walk down the isle of lotions and see it, i believe Neutregena does one though. Sorry I couldn't be of more help!


Hey I need help convincing my parents to get me a snake! I want one soo bad, and I'd do pretty much anything for it. So how can I persuade them? Have any of you done it before, and have any pointers?
That would be great!
Thankss!! (link)
hmm i would say present them with a list of pro's and con's of why you should get a snake. They'll be proud to see that you understand their side of it, but you should end on a note of what you SHOULD get a snake so it leaves a lasting impression in their mind. Good luck!


I have been wondering for my whole life what boobs realy feel like and i was wondering if you had any ideas what boobs really do feel like? (link)
haha well i do have boobs, so yes. it really isnt that exciting..just like..some skin ha


okay well this guy that i have like for 2 years decided to istant mesage me and started talkin to me and then one day he asked me if i like him....well i told him i did and now i have to im him first when he used to im me first all the time.....but now it's he is never on and if he is on he goes away real quick and he gives me this weird look at school. i don't know what is goin on. (link)
he's prolly nervous and shy


Well, I've asked many questions about masturbation, and people say 'it's healthy'. Then why do I feel so ashamed? My hormones are taking over my life, and I'm stuck in between telling my mom and either masturbating or not, or not telling my mom and masturbating or not. I know it's a very personal decision but I'm not swayed easily by a couple of 'it's healthy' or 'don't do it' or 'tell your mom and she'll tell you not to', ya know? I just need it flat out - what should I do?


Thankyou in advance! (link)
flat out..you don't need to tell your mom anythign what you do to your body is personal..and she doesnt have to know unless you feel it is harmful to yourself..masturbation like you said is perfectly healthy and natural and it can't get you pregnant lol so why not go for it


Is it possible for a guy to cum during dry sex? If so, how? Because everytime me and my boyfriend have dry sex, he can never cum, only i can. Any advice? (link)
yes it is possibly..i have seen it happen ebfore haha..anyway just make it feel really good for him..and get really into it so he gets turned on..then he will for sure cum


I need to find sites sorta like my space that i can go on? (link)
face boook or xanga
(facebook.com) (xanga.com)


hi I am a girl and i shave down there... i know that you are suppose to shave down then side ways then up but it still hurts and I cut myself doing it. Is there a specific technique i can use to still be completely smooth without so much pain or something other than a razor that I can use? (link)
just use a lot of soap or shaving cream and don't shave to quickly otherwise you'll cut yourself also don't shave too frequently bc the hair won't be long enough so it will be harder to shave


I have a lot of trouble finding a bathing suit that fits me. I have a very large bust (D) and I am most comfortable wearing tankinis. However, all of the bathing suits I have tried on are wayyyy too small in the bust. Any suggestions for a bathing suit that is good for my body type, and preferably 35$ or under? Thank you! (link)
ahh i feel your pain girl..lol try MACys, jcpenny, wallmart, target,..those stores usually have varying sizez..jsut get a large top or xl on the top to fit the bust


whats the QUICKEST way to loose weight beore augest 18!!? please help me i no i'm getting fat and idk what to do!! i'm thinking about aneroxicaa b/c it seems like the quickest way but idk you tell me (link)
hun, annorexia is not hte answer to quick weight loss..in the end it will acutally make you gain more eweight becuse your body will not kno what to do and gain a lot of water weight in order to nourish the body and stay alive. ..the quikiset and most efficient way to lose weight is by exersicing and eating right..its acutally better to have a lot of small healthy meals then three big unhealthy meals..so snack on with healthy foods! Good luck and be careful


17/f my name is Rachel and iam going to the 11th grade when school starts on august 1st and there's this teacher nobody likes becouse she's rude and none of the teachers like her either the princapal dosn't even like her.I don't know why he dosn't fire her and I am nervous about going to mrs.dawson's class that's the teacher's name how can I not be so nervous? (link)
aw well there is going to be a teacher like that..i guess just hope for the best..and if you do end up getting her..just try and get on her good side..do your best and remember thats only an ahour or so long a day..and thats all you gotta do to deal wit her..don't let one teacher ruin your day :)


17 female and i've been doing cyber sex online without my parents knowing of course and I was wondering if i've been doing cyber sex did i lose my virginity?

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no hun don't worry..you've only lost your virginity when a penis has entered your vagina completely..cyber sex doesnt include that, so you're fine :)


if you use a condom and it doesnt break, u cant catch any stds can you?

and how common is it to catch an std while doing oral? (link)
most likely not..there is always that small chance though..oral is easier to get an STD if there is no condom..if there is a condom the chances are lowered..but there is less of a chance of a condom breaking during oral. The mostly has to be careful


My Best friend keeps ditching me for nerds and she isn't friends with them. i start to hnag out with her and she says go away were not friends anymore? Wut should I do? (link)
aww..well maybe you should try talking to your friend and ask her if there is a reason why she thinks that you two aren't friends any more. Maybe she has some internal conflict that you don't kno about or she didn't tell you about. Just take her aside one time when she is alone and ask her if there is something wrong.


i've been really moody about the past month or 2. does that make me bi-polar? what is bi-polar?
what is a sign of my moodyness?
help
thx in advance (link)
moodiness doesn't necesarilly mean you are bi polar..bi polar is being manic, which means extreme feelings of elation (extremely happy) and then quickly plummeting and feeling extremely unhappy and depresseion and it cles that way..so i think ur fine


in the TV show "what I like about you"Holly's boyfriend,ben,sings a song with these lyrics in it:lets all take a chance there's nothing else to do"id like to know what is the name of that song. (link)
i couldnt' find any songs with those lyrics..is itpossible that they wrote tat song specifically for that show? maybe you can try going to the shows website and sometimes they hav ea list of songs that were played during the show and you can check which one most similarly matches the song you're tryin to find


Ok so im 14/f n i've been getting my period for a while now. I'm going on a school trip soon and I'm pretty sure i'm gonna have my period then. I've never used a tampon before but there is no way i can wear a pad with my bathing suit on this trip. The problem is i'm afriad to use a tampon and i don't know how. Anyone wanna help!?! (link)
hey, i kno exactly how u feel i used to be terrified but its really not that bad..i suggest using tampax slim fits they are really thin and go in easily..if you're scared to put it in, it helps to put a little vaseline on the tip so it goes in more smoothly. And it also helps to put one of your legs up on something like a bathtub or toilet


im a 15yr/female and ive gots a problem.
i am in a 32 A bra size and i get made fun of because of it.(Except by my boyfriend)...well, when im at school everyone says that they wouldnt go out with me because i basicley have no boobs....know when my boyfriend tries to kiss me there i get nervous and i back away because of my boob size. what should i do? how can i make my boobs bigger? will people like me more then? (link)
that is crazy!! first of all, guys or people in general shouldn't dislike you because of your boob size..that is rediculous. ..and don't be self conscious around your bioyfriend he obviolsy likes you because of your personality and how you guys get along..so don't be so worried...as you get older you'll reallize people will become less shallow and accepting and more mature..Hope this helps!


my hair is so unhealthy. there is so much breakage and frizz. what can i do to get rid of it and make it look healthy and moisturized?

thanks..ILL RATE HIGH ;) (link)
i hvae the same problem! Try..

-Frizz ease products like the serum or the step 5 shine cream
-Garnier fructis smoothing serum
-any leave in conditioners
-Hair masques are great for hair once in awhile and rejuvinate moisture
..
hope this helps




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